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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So last night Mrs and I were chatting with another couple in a club. The conversation stopped and there was a period where we could make our excuses and leave ir suggest we go to a room.

I asked the Mrs if she would like to use a room, then asked the other couple if they would like to join us.

When they said yes I asked my OH if that was OK.

Just wanted to know if any others have a word you use to each other to signal that you are interested in playing or not.

Would have been very awkward if Mrs had said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in a swinging couple but kind of assumed there would always be a secret otherwise indiscernible code word that flagged if people were interested or not?

Eg if in the conversation you started talking about hot chocolate it's a 'like' but if you start talking about shredded wheat it's a 'dislike' .. Something like that!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet couples, single guys are our choice. We simply say yes or no rather than have a code word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A knee squeeze was our signal if we liked another couple. It's odd picking code words, i mean, you could be chatting away to a couple, you can't just blurt out I really like hot chocolate! You'll look like nutters

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's best just to be honest. It's no more awkward saying no after a code word has been used.

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

Shredded wheat.... kinky lol

But yeah, I guess I know what you mean. We don't have a code word or phrase for this sort of thing... but we do have a safe word if emotionally something is not feeling right. We've not been the best at communicating between us recently so been making a concerted effort at working on it.

-Matt

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We have pretty much decided between us ... we rarely meet couples as we know our tastes and those in men are very different. He knows it is my decision ... so I will say yes or no to whomever

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