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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In total agreement with you. Pet hate of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..and mine only has 19 words!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. I just delete them though so it's their time they've wasted more than mine

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

What is the point in saying what you like if nobody reads it lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No one ever makes reference to mine so I never know if they read it or not.

It's a shit profile anyway and i put as little effort into it as I could.

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

Personally I prefer a good read of a profile, tend to do it before even looking at the public photos.

It seems a common misconception that if you are a woman or couple on here you are fair game regardless of what's written. So why should they bother reading when a simple fancy a shag message from people outside your preferences will clearly make you fall to your knees with gratitude x

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Please couples don't all have a go but 'some of you' are the worst for this, sorry to those who do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?"

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway.

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I love reading really long profiles when it turns out all they want is a guy with a big cock.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway. "

Bitter? I always answer messages lol

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I love reading really long profiles when it turns out all they want is a guy with a big cock."

My profile is short and to the point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how can you expect us to read profiles? That would severely reduce the time I can devote to copy and pasting "wanna fuk" repeatedly all day.

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By *ustMe06Woman
over a year ago

...the naughty spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish too,...Sick to death of the constant ( What are you looking for)???..

That really is a big clue that they haven't read the profile.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I wish too,...Sick to death of the constant ( What are you looking for)???..

That really is a big clue that they haven't read the profile. "

Exactly! Just say what I want to save the waste of time lol xxx

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?"

Totally put a thread up about same thing 2 days ago

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?"

True but it is difficult with so many lovely ladies to look at.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?"

Yup specially when they lie and say iv read your profile and would love to meet, and i reply so did you not read the bit where it says not meeting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually only messaged a handful of people, some the profiles are just too long and just a long list of demands and even worse when they feel the need to type parts in capitol letters for dramatic effect.

Just no fun to read and no fun to get to know so i pass.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway. "

I'm more likely to respond to a message from someone who has demonstrably read my profile than otherwise.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Same here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway.

Bitter? I always answer messages lol"

This is not my experience and I'm sure it isn't the experience of most men here. Whether I read a profile and tailor a messeage referring to it or not, the result is the same.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway.

I'm more likely to respond to a message from someone who has demonstrably read my profile than otherwise."

This, everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to read the full profile but I gotta say it never got me anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway.

Bitter? I always answer messages lol"

Yes please. But I'll have a half, im driving.

your a true lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway.

I'm more likely to respond to a message from someone who has demonstrably read my profile than otherwise.

This, everytime. "
demonstrably that's my word for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway.

I'm more likely to respond to a message from someone who has demonstrably read my profile than otherwise."

I'm more likely to read a profile after speaking to you for a while. Your CV (profile) of full of all the stuff for everyone else. It's not tailered for me.

And with all those profiles (1000's)

It's an endless task to read them all.

*you know I'm saying all of this tongue in cheek. But it does ring true does t it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That everyone on here actually read profiles, would save so many pointless messages, anyone agree?

Profiles. I'd rather read a label from a milk carton. Your not going to answer the message anyway.

I'm more likely to respond to a message from someone who has demonstrably read my profile than otherwise.

This, everytime. "

Quite true. Why would you reply and chat to someone who's only demonstrated looking at a profile pic.

You'd have to be shallow.

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By *ames WhyteMan
over a year ago

Near Manchester Airport

I know over 90% of people don't read my profile properly. Why do I know? Read my profile.....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I couldn't care less tbh OP! I'd just like them to read it if we're going to meet so they know not to expect a 'perfect' body!

Right now I'd like someone to come and spoon me! No shag needed - just cuddles!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"*you know I'm saying all of this tongue in cheek. But it does ring true does t it!"

No. I don't cold message men and therefore am unlikely to strike up a conversation with them. I'll only message men whose profile catches my eye.

Each to their own however. I am sure your method works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the OP

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"What is the point in saying what you like if nobody reads it lol"

Because if you don't, they can't.

For many, that's part of their filtering / being unenticing strategy, but I really think that giving those who would read a profile nothing to "work with" is counter-productive - the non-readers will message anyway, so they're increasing the proportion of those to 100%.

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Yep..and mine only has 19 words!!!! "

Yes it does

But a pic tells a thousand words !!!!

So it must be about 19000 words

War and peace is shorter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*you know I'm saying all of this tongue in cheek. But it does ring true does t it!

No. I don't cold message men and therefore am unlikely to strike up a conversation with them. I'll only message men whose profile catches my eye.

Each to their own however. I am sure your method works for you."

My method is a guarded secret. But as a hint, it involves a pendulum and a sofa.

I don't cold message. I stay here in the forums. It's warmer

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