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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious on everyone's thoughts.....

I'm bi and my 17 yr old son has just recently come out that he's gay. Obviously, my son has no idea about my bi side.

Do you think that being bi/gay is in the genes?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't think so. My bisexuality came about by accident as far as I can make out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so. My bisexuality came about by accident as far as I can make out. "

By accident..?? That's made me curious as to how exactly ? Lol

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I don't think so. My bisexuality came about by accident as far as I can make out.

By accident..?? That's made me curious as to how exactly ? Lol"

Whiplash?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I don't think so. My bisexuality came about by accident as far as I can make out.

By accident..?? That's made me curious as to how exactly ? Lol"

Just like all the other he came on fab, put his sexuality as straight and hey presto he accidentally became bi

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Just curious on everyone's thoughts.....

I'm bi and my 17 yr old son has just recently come out that he's gay. Obviously, my son has no idea about my bi side.

Do you think that being bi/gay is in the genes?"

Mostly yes

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By *eepster1Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Sex is food and we all like different tastes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my youngest child is a female to male transexual, as far as im awear nobody else in my family is gay or bi, if they are they have hid it very well, so god knows where that came from

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"my youngest child is a female to male transexual, as far as im awear nobody else in my family is gay or bi, if they are they have hid it very well, so god knows where that came from "

Gender identity is different to sexual orientation x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so. My bisexuality came about by accident as far as I can make out.

By accident..?? That's made me curious as to how exactly ? Lol

Just like all the other he came on fab, put his sexuality as straight and hey presto he accidentally became bi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my youngest child is a female to male transexual, as far as im awear nobody else in my family is gay or bi, if they are they have hid it very well, so god knows where that came from

Gender identity is different to sexual orientation x"

Yes thank you ive been to all the counseling session

I guess i was just saying nobody in my family (as far as i know) are even bi let alone anything else

soon as i posted it i knew id get picked up on it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

"

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Genetics could play a part in it, like any of our characteristics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not."

But have you tried it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we're born to enjoy sex.

Then culture takes over and we assume a sexuality based on that.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not.

But have you tried it?

"

What I've done is no one's business and I don't have to justify myself for being straight. It's not against the law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not.

But have you tried it?

"

I have

Tried it, didn't like it so never bothered again

I think that safely makes me not bi

I didn't really ever have any interest in women i just did it to shut othet people up who insisted i should at least try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not.

But have you tried it?

What I've done is no one's business and I don't have to justify myself for being straight. It's not against the law "

I don't think they were asking ou to justify yourself, just simply asking if you've tried it. I'm in the mind frame that I don't dismiss doing most things unless I've tried it and know for definite I don't like it. (Unless it's anything really extreme or illegal)

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"my youngest child is a female to male transexual, as far as im awear nobody else in my family is gay or bi, if they are they have hid it very well, so god knows where that came from

Gender identity is different to sexual orientation x

Yes thank you ive been to all the counseling session

I guess i was just saying nobody in my family (as far as i know) are even bi let alone anything else

soon as i posted it i knew id get picked up on it though "

Thought I'd mention it because some people genuinely don't realise. Even some professionals don't - I have a male to female trans friend and her payhchologist was quizzing her on whether she'd fancy men or women after the operation

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Sexual orientation seems to be initiated by diferences in testosterone levels of the mother during the pregnancy, possibily for genetic causes. Actually it is statistically significant that sisters of gay men use to be more fertile than the average in women.

However, the experiences in our lives have an important influence in that orientation.

Conclusion: if you like it, do it. The labels are left over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not.

But have you tried it?

What I've done is no one's business and I don't have to justify myself for being straight. It's not against the law

I don't think they were asking ou to justify yourself, just simply asking if you've tried it. I'm in the mind frame that I don't dismiss doing most things unless I've tried it and know for definite I don't like it. (Unless it's anything really extreme or illegal)"

Exactly this!

No offense was meant - just a question x

I think the majority of the people I know outside of fab are straight - but then they're sticking to the path that us non vanilla folk avoid!

But then maybe they're here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my youngest child is a female to male transexual, as far as im awear nobody else in my family is gay or bi, if they are they have hid it very well, so god knows where that came from

Gender identity is different to sexual orientation x

Yes thank you ive been to all the counseling session

I guess i was just saying nobody in my family (as far as i know) are even bi let alone anything else

soon as i posted it i knew id get picked up on it though

Thought I'd mention it because some people genuinely don't realise. Even some professionals don't - I have a male to female trans friend and her payhchologist was quizzing her on whether she'd fancy men or women after the operation "

My child has also been asked that

When she was asked her sexuality she said straight, so was asked if she fancied men but she said no women, but because she does not identify with being female she does not consider herself a lesbian, to her shes a male who fancies fancies females therefore is straight

I also realise im now going to get pulled up by somebody for referring to her as her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very much believe it is a balance between nature and nurture. Certainly seems to be some genetic pre disposition in some people I know.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

There's a very high proportion of me and my cousins on my fathers side who are all bisexual or slightly leaning towards lesbian. Think it's too many to say just a coincidence so think genetics are a part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a very high proportion of me and my cousins on my fathers side who are all bisexual or slightly leaning towards lesbian. Think it's too many to say just a coincidence so think genetics are a part of it "

That's just a good a case for environmental factors as genetics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not."

What she said.

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I think most of us experiment with members of the same sex during adolescence and then decide which way we are going to go. I went straight but my bi side was always there and I reverted back in my 50's. I am now enjoying a whole new side of m sexuality.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

"

Can I try you and not buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people are bi

Whether you act on it or not is another matter.

Maybe it depends on how free you are to act out your fantasies and desires.

I say at least try before you bi

I disagree, I think a lot of people on Fab are but not most people.

I'm certainly not.

But have you tried it?

What I've done is no one's business and I don't have to justify myself for being straight. It's not against the law "

You would think it is on fab sometimes.....straight and proud of it!

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By *eetmyfootTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

My first foot fetish experiences were with 2 of my classmates but it was with the one with whom we had regular fun in his bedroom all throughout our adolescence. After some years he got married (to a woman) and we lost track but I met by chance his father who confided to me that he knew all those years what we were doing with his son because he saw us sometimes and he never said anything to anyone because he also had the same fetish and he didn't want anyone else to know that his son inherited his sexual preferences for feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious on everyone's thoughts.....

I'm bi and my 17 yr old son has just recently come out that he's gay. Obviously, my son has no idea about my bi side.

Do you think that being bi/gay is in the genes?"

if that was the case, there wouldn't be any gay people left. They'd have died off years ago. Only Bi and Straight ones.

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By *oncambsukMan
over a year ago

st ives


"I think most of us experiment with members of the same sex during adolescence and then decide which way we are going to go. I went straight but my bi side was always there and I reverted back in my 50's. I am now enjoying a whole new side of m sexuality."

Have to agree with you there. I was 15 when I discovered to pleasures of a girls body and made my choice. Stayed that way until my 50s.

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