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"I'm still faithful. Now we do this together there's absolutely no reason why either of us would feel the need to be anything other than faithful. What better way to be able to have sex with others when your other half is right by your side. " exactly this xx | |||
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"I'm still faithful. Now we do this together there's absolutely no reason why either of us would feel the need to be anything other than faithful. What better way to be able to have sex with others when your other half is right by your side. " this | |||
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"Thank you. You've all said really lovely things. I think I may have accident muddled you all by not being clear enough. You see, we've been swinging for years together a couple, we've had various threesomes,foursomes and moresomes. I completely get what you say about being faithful and swinging. I feel the same. But this time it's different. He wants me to go out into the world chatting guys up and then doing what ever I like. Just like a single woman. Which I'm starting to get a grip of. But it's very odd. Normally i don't even flirt unless I'm with him. It takes some getting used to, I'll tell you." My fella would like me to too & I can't get my head round it yet. What does he get from that? I'm the same, don't even flirt much normally. This lifestyle takes some getting used to! x | |||
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"Thank you. You've all said really lovely things. I think I may have accident muddled you all by not being clear enough. You see, we've been swinging for years together a couple, we've had various threesomes,foursomes and moresomes. I completely get what you say about being faithful and swinging. I feel the same. But this time it's different. He wants me to go out into the world chatting guys up and then doing what ever I like. Just like a single woman. Which I'm starting to get a grip of. But it's very odd. Normally i don't even flirt unless I'm with him. It takes some getting used to, I'll tell you. My fella would like me to too & I can't get my head round it yet. What does he get from that? I'm the same, don't even flirt much normally. This lifestyle takes some getting used to! x" Have you asked him about it? I enjoy my wife flirting with others and meeting on her own, so I can only give my individual perspective. | |||
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"Thank you. You've all said really lovely things. I think I may have accident muddled you all by not being clear enough. You see, we've been swinging for years together a couple, we've had various threesomes,foursomes and moresomes. I completely get what you say about being faithful and swinging. I feel the same. But this time it's different. He wants me to go out into the world chatting guys up and then doing what ever I like. Just like a single woman. Which I'm starting to get a grip of. But it's very odd. Normally i don't even flirt unless I'm with him. It takes some getting used to, I'll tell you. My fella would like me to too & I can't get my head round it yet. What does he get from that? I'm the same, don't even flirt much normally. This lifestyle takes some getting used to! x Have you asked him about it? I enjoy my wife flirting with others and meeting on her own, so I can only give my individual perspective. " Yes he says he gets off on it when he knows I'm out & when I tell him about it as we play once I'm home. But as Id not feel the same, I just don't get it. Lol | |||
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"Thank you. You've all said really lovely things. I think I may have accident muddled you all by not being clear enough. You see, we've been swinging for years together a couple, we've had various threesomes,foursomes and moresomes. I completely get what you say about being faithful and swinging. I feel the same. But this time it's different. He wants me to go out into the world chatting guys up and then doing what ever I like. Just like a single woman. Which I'm starting to get a grip of. But it's very odd. Normally i don't even flirt unless I'm with him. It takes some getting used to, I'll tell you. My fella would like me to too & I can't get my head round it yet. What does he get from that? I'm the same, don't even flirt much normally. This lifestyle takes some getting used to! x Have you asked him about it? I enjoy my wife flirting with others and meeting on her own, so I can only give my individual perspective. Yes he says he gets off on it when he knows I'm out & when I tell him about it as we play once I'm home. But as Id not feel the same, I just don't get it. Lol" . Just give it a try, you have nothing to lose if you have his permission | |||
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" My fella would like me to too & I can't get my head round it yet. What does he get from that? I'm the same, don't even flirt much normally. This lifestyle takes some getting used to! x Have you asked him about it? I enjoy my wife flirting with others and meeting on her own, so I can only give my individual perspective. Yes he says he gets off on it when he knows I'm out & when I tell him about it as we play once I'm home. But as Id not feel the same, I just don't get it. Lol" Do you enjoy the flirting when you're out on your own, and his reaction to it? If you don't mind me saying. | |||
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"5 years in and it still messes with my mind. Both of us still have wobbles and i think that's natural. The best advice i could give is talk about things openly. I've found that hubby is comfortable with something one week and then in a few months time he might change his mind. It's a complicated mix of emotions so I'd be surprised if anyone found it easy all the time. " This is good to hear- thanks for your honesty. I think it's a constantly evolving thing? | |||
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"5 years in and it still messes with my mind. Both of us still have wobbles and i think that's natural. The best advice i could give is talk about things openly. I've found that hubby is comfortable with something one week and then in a few months time he might change his mind. It's a complicated mix of emotions so I'd be surprised if anyone found it easy all the time. This is good to hear- thanks for your honesty. I think it's a constantly evolving thing?" It absolutely is. And what we are looking for changes as does hubby's level of involvement. It's hard to balance at times but when we get it right it's amazing. I don't meet many so that removes any pressure on either of us and i only meet if we are both totally into it. That's how it works best for us. | |||
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" My fella would like me to too & I can't get my head round it yet. What does he get from that? I'm the same, don't even flirt much normally. This lifestyle takes some getting used to! x Have you asked him about it? I enjoy my wife flirting with others and meeting on her own, so I can only give my individual perspective. Yes he says he gets off on it when he knows I'm out & when I tell him about it as we play once I'm home. But as Id not feel the same, I just don't get it. Lol Do you enjoy the flirting when you're out on your own, and his reaction to it? If you don't mind me saying. " Yes I enjoy flirting in general. I don't really do it in front of him. But when he reads messages I've sent to others it gets him going. | |||
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"5 years in and it still messes with my mind. Both of us still have wobbles and i think that's natural. The best advice i could give is talk about things openly. I've found that hubby is comfortable with something one week and then in a few months time he might change his mind. It's a complicated mix of emotions so I'd be surprised if anyone found it easy all the time. This is good to hear- thanks for your honesty. I think it's a constantly evolving thing?" I also appreciate Scarlet Seductions honesty, it's refreshing to see it here on the forums. We've found constantly communicating with each other is key, and not making any assumptions. Yes for some it's constantly evolving, we'd put ourselves in that category. People would be surprised how much our swinging interests and preferences have changed over the years. | |||
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"5 years in and it still messes with my mind. Both of us still have wobbles and i think that's natural. The best advice i could give is talk about things openly. I've found that hubby is comfortable with something one week and then in a few months time he might change his mind. It's a complicated mix of emotions so I'd be surprised if anyone found it easy all the time. " totally agree | |||
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"this is e xcactly what my my hubby wants from me to x" Have you done anything yet? I agree wholeheartedly with the comments here. Communication is key, and honesty. We talk about it all the time. I've got my very first meet with a man off here next week. It's just a social. I'll be on my own. It's going to be the weirdest thing for me. I'm so used to me and hubby being together. Wish me luck. | |||
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"this is e xcactly what my my hubby wants from me to x Have you done anything yet? I agree wholeheartedly with the comments here. Communication is key, and honesty. We talk about it all the time. I've got my very first meet with a man off here next week. It's just a social. I'll be on my own. It's going to be the weirdest thing for me. I'm so used to me and hubby being together. Wish me luck. " Good luck!! We started off meeting socially as a couple then, due to struggling to get sitters, hubby said I could go to socials alone (as I'm the chatty one?!) petrified me the first time not being with him!! Ive been in a few now and it's evolved in to hubby sending me dares to do while I'm out!! I always tell the guys I'm meeting what's happening though as it adds to the fun. | |||
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"Thank you. You've all said really lovely things. I think I may have accident muddled you all by not being clear enough. You see, we've been swinging for years together a couple, we've had various threesomes,foursomes and moresomes. I completely get what you say about being faithful and swinging. I feel the same. But this time it's different. He wants me to go out into the world chatting guys up and then doing what ever I like. Just like a single woman. Which I'm starting to get a grip of. But it's very odd. Normally i don't even flirt unless I'm with him. It takes some getting used to, I'll tell you." Dave wants me to do the same, I enjoy us swinging together, be it with couple or singles, but to play as a single woman flirting when out alone is intriguing but so different, as you say, takes getting used to | |||
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" Wish me luck. Good luck!! We started off meeting socially as a couple then, due to struggling to get sitters, hubby said I could go to socials alone (as I'm the chatty one?!) petrified me the first time not being with him!! Ive been in a few now and it's evolved in to hubby sending me dares to do while I'm out!! I always tell the guys I'm meeting what's happening though as it adds to the fun. " Dares!!! What a great idea. My hubby is going to love that. Thanks x | |||
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" Dave wants me to do the same, I enjoy us swinging together, be it with couple or singles, but to play as a single woman flirting when out alone is intriguing but so different, as you say, takes getting used to" Sure does. Have you been out on your own yet?. How was it? | |||
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" My fella would like me to too & I can't get my head round it yet. What does he get from that? I'm the same, don't even flirt much normally. This lifestyle takes some getting used to! x" From the mans point of view it's a strange mix of emotions , we get some pride that our wife/partner is wanted by others , jealousy can add to the sexual tension ( in moderation of course), you have the whole fantasy side of things ( during their meet imagining what they are doing ) then the recount of the event in a sexually charged way , personally nothing turns me on more than knowing my partner is enjoying herself | |||
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