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"Why have degrees? So many are hung up on labels. " Yes - who honestly gives a shit except for straight people? | |||
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"Bisexual here and not ashamed of saying so either. To what 'degree' I am on the spectrum (which is green btw) varies between people and times and situations. " You just need a good fucking, that's all Steve | |||
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"D*unk bi? Doesn't fancy guys at all but a few ales down and any relief will do" Haha love it | |||
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"Why have degrees? So many are hung up on labels. Yes - who honestly gives a shit except for straight people? " I was labelled as bi friendly by a bisexual female from a couple | |||
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"What about if you've been sucked by an extremely feminine trans? " It means eternal damnation... or maybe you've had your cock sucked by a trans. | |||
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"Hmmm I believe you're either fully Bi or not but Fab's Bi spectrum is totally different .... Bi sexual - attracted to men & women, & will have sex with both either singularly or as a 3 or 4 sum Bi curious is really an euphamism for Bi selfish or Bi useful - basically the female is only putting up she's Bi to get to the male half of the couple & will "entertain" or "put in a show" with the female half but is really wanting a good hard pounding from the male half! " What does bi useful mean? I've never heard of that term before. | |||
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"Hmmm I believe you're either fully Bi or not but Fab's Bi spectrum is totally different .... Bi sexual - attracted to men & women, & will have sex with both either singularly or as a 3 or 4 sum Bi curious is really an euphamism for Bi selfish or Bi useful - basically the female is only putting up she's Bi to get to the male half of the couple & will "entertain" or "put in a show" with the female half but is really wanting a good hard pounding from the male half! What does bi useful mean? I've never heard of that term before." Women that claim they are Bi curious attract couples who want a fantasy fulfilled but the two "Bi" women putting in a show for husband...they don't do Bi play in full but just use each other - one to satisfy her hubby & the other to get the hubby! | |||
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"D*unk bi? Doesn't fancy guys at all but a few ales down and any relief will do" | |||
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"0% bi doesn't seem to be socially acceptable anymore. What changed? " Of course it's acceptable to be straight. Loads of people only want to meet straight people. | |||
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"Bisexual : equally attracted to both sexes. Orally bisexual : likes to receive or give oral only to the same sex. Bi - curious : occasionally sexually attracted to the same sex but hasnt actually played yet. Fab - bi.: 100% straight in profile info, states "no guys" etc. On profile but is bi in private messages. Have i missed any ? Biker" Same sex ,sex by definition means your bi or gay there's not degree,s | |||
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"Bisexual : equally attracted to both sexes. Orally bisexual : likes to receive or give oral only to the same sex. Bi - curious : occasionally sexually attracted to the same sex but hasnt actually played yet. Fab - bi.: 100% straight in profile info, states "no guys" etc. On profile but is bi in private messages. Have i missed any ? Biker Same sex ,sex by definition means your bi or gay there's not degree,s " | |||
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"Why have degrees? So many are hung up on labels. Yes - who honestly gives a shit except for straight people? I was labelled as bi friendly by a bisexual female from a couple " How patronising! | |||
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"I call myself pansexual. I like nice people and couldn't give a frig what's in their pants. " Could not agree more ?? | |||
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"I call myself pansexual. I like nice people and couldn't give a frig what's in their pants. " Love it | |||
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"I call myself pansexual. I like nice people and couldn't give a frig what's in their pants. " I think that just about sums it all up darling!! X | |||
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"The only one I care about is Bi Selfish ha ha. I'm not really interested in playing with a girl who knowingly just wants to receive from us both, I would feel like a spare part really. Otherwise, I don't mind. Eve. X" This | |||
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"Why label everything? I don't even see why we need the sexuality options in our profile. If I like someone I can see if I match with what they're looking for. " Well, on a swinging site knowing someones sexuality is handy. We wouldn't meet a single female if she was straight. It would only work for us if she was bi or pretty curious. So doing so wouldn't be fair on anyone. A couple with a 'very' bi guy wouldn't work if he wanted that as part of play because I am very straight. So the labels help everybody meet people where the play is going to work for everybody. Labels aren't there for judgmental reasons, they are to make sure everyone enjoys themselves. | |||
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"Bi playful.... Would not want a relationship with same sex but like to play? " yes, I was meaning in the context of play. MrsB is bi , that means for play, not a relationship | |||
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"Bi playful.... Would not want a relationship with same sex but like to play? " Is the other bi-poly then? S | |||
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"We label the degrees of male bi on fab as we are only interested in " fully" bisexual men . We describe this on our profile : must like oral . Anal . Rimming . Fingering with a man Yet we still get a go zillion messages from straight profiles . Straight profiles who claim to be 10,000 varying degrees of bi or profiles who say : I'll let the guy suck my cock before I fuck both you girls up your bums . Degrees of bi are very relevant to us on Fab ! " I enjoy oral both ways and I have rimmed a guy. I would be up for receiving anal but am not attracted to men at all. Snogging a guy is out. How should I be defined or labelled? It is a bit of a minefield. | |||
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"Bi playful.... Would not want a relationship with same sex but like to play? " | |||
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"We label the degrees of male bi on fab as we are only interested in " fully" bisexual men . We describe this on our profile : must like oral . Anal . Rimming . Fingering with a man Yet we still get a go zillion messages from straight profiles . Straight profiles who claim to be 10,000 varying degrees of bi or profiles who say : I'll let the guy suck my cock before I fuck both you girls up your bums . Degrees of bi are very relevant to us on Fab ! I enjoy oral both ways and I have rimmed a guy. I would be up for receiving anal but am not attracted to men at all. Snogging a guy is out. How should I be defined or labelled? It is a bit of a minefield." We'd class you as bi you and bi upfront about what you do and want ! Not bi deceptive in an attempt to get to a gal ! | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me?" I'd say bi-curious | |||
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"I call myself pansexual. I like nice people and couldn't give a frig what's in their pants. " | |||
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"Can this 'Degrees of Bi' be done at Uni?" Where do I sign up for my PhD? | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me?" What i'm learning about this site probably makes you a straight transvestite bull or something. ha No but any contact sexually with same sex is bisexual so why have degrees it's all the same at end of day its bisexual activity whatever it is. | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me? What i'm learning about this site probably makes you a straight transvestite bull or something. ha No but any contact sexually with same sex is bisexual so why have degrees it's all the same at end of day its bisexual activity whatever it is. " So 2 straight guys do DVP with a lady their Cocks are touching so they must be bi? | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me? What i'm learning about this site probably makes you a straight transvestite bull or something. ha No but any contact sexually with same sex is bisexual so why have degrees it's all the same at end of day its bisexual activity whatever it is. So 2 straight guys do DVP with a lady their Cocks are touching so they must be bi?" You we're talking about getting head of a guy totally different thing. | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me? What i'm learning about this site probably makes you a straight transvestite bull or something. ha No but any contact sexually with same sex is bisexual so why have degrees it's all the same at end of day its bisexual activity whatever it is. So 2 straight guys do DVP with a lady their Cocks are touching so they must be bi? You we're talking about getting head of a guy totally different thing." Still sexual contact though | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me? What i'm learning about this site probably makes you a straight transvestite bull or something. ha No but any contact sexually with same sex is bisexual so why have degrees it's all the same at end of day its bisexual activity whatever it is. " I dont quite get what point you're making, because you put bi-curious on your profile. | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me? What i'm learning about this site probably makes you a straight transvestite bull or something. ha No but any contact sexually with same sex is bisexual so why have degrees it's all the same at end of day its bisexual activity whatever it is. So 2 straight guys do DVP with a lady their Cocks are touching so they must be bi? You we're talking about getting head of a guy totally different thing. Still sexual contact though" Unintentionally though not looking to get off one to one with another guy so why try to blur the matter.? If you get head of a guy thats a direct sexual act of another man done solo for your pleasure if you to DVP thats not. | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me? What i'm learning about this site probably makes you a straight transvestite bull or something. ha No but any contact sexually with same sex is bisexual so why have degrees it's all the same at end of day its bisexual activity whatever it is. I dont quite get what point you're making, because you put bi-curious on your profile." Yes i'm Bi make no secret of it so just saying contact sexually for pleasure with another male being bj,wank, anal ect is a bi act its not really that complicated to understand. | |||
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"The only one I care about is Bi Selfish ha ha. I'm not really interested in playing with a girl who knowingly just wants to receive from us both, I would feel like a spare part really. Otherwise, I don't mind. Eve. X" | |||
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"The only one I care about is Bi Selfish ha ha. I'm not really interested in playing with a girl who knowingly just wants to receive from us both, I would feel like a spare part really. Otherwise, I don't mind. Eve. X " been there . MrsB has enjoyed giving the other lady a nice long tonguing and orgasm, other lady smiles, 'ooh that was great' rolls over and continues with her hubby. 'Hellooo' ! | |||
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"The only one I care about is Bi Selfish ha ha. I'm not really interested in playing with a girl who knowingly just wants to receive from us both, I would feel like a spare part really. Otherwise, I don't mind. Eve. X been there . MrsB has enjoyed giving the other lady a nice long tonguing and orgasm, other lady smiles, 'ooh that was great' rolls over and continues with her hubby. 'Hellooo' ! " new category bi selfish | |||
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"The only one I care about is Bi Selfish ha ha. I'm not really interested in playing with a girl who knowingly just wants to receive from us both, I would feel like a spare part really. Otherwise, I don't mind. Eve. X been there . MrsB has enjoyed giving the other lady a nice long tonguing and orgasm, other lady smiles, 'ooh that was great' rolls over and continues with her hubby. 'Hellooo' ! " Ah they missed out on a treat. | |||
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"0% bi doesn't seem to be socially acceptable anymore. What changed? " Hasn't changed for me...... I have no attraction to men, or their various bits. However I have no problems with being in their company either socially or in play situations. One of my closest friends is openly gay and one of the best parties I attended was a t-girls party in Evesham a few years back. I took a lady friend with me and otherwise there was only one other gender female there (half of a couple I know quite well). I enjoyed chatting and socialising with many of the "girls" there but only played directly with the two actual ladies....but at times in the company of some of the t-girls. They knew I was straight and that I was welcome at the party on that basis. Some guys seem frightened of bi men or t-girls. To me this seems to indicate a fear Or a doubt of their own sexuality....but maybe I'm wrong in that? I'm happy to be corrected. | |||
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"The only one I care about is Bi Selfish ha ha. I'm not really interested in playing with a girl who knowingly just wants to receive from us both, I would feel like a spare part really. Otherwise, I don't mind. Eve. X been there . MrsB has enjoyed giving the other lady a nice long tonguing and orgasm, other lady smiles, 'ooh that was great' rolls over and continues with her hubby. 'Hellooo' ! Ah they missed out on a treat. " | |||
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"Could someone help me out here then...please ? As a male i have no interest in anyone other than females,in a physical/sexual contact form. But as Samantha im attracted to ladies and other tgirls i fined attractive to me as female,although i know underneath they are male,but have no interest in males,as its the sight of what i see as female that makes me interested,and not them as a male" I'm not sure I fully understand your question, but my wife knew a friend of friend who had gone from male to female reassignment. Both before and after reassignment she was only attracted to women. | |||
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"I'm 'raging bi'. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this category " My wife would certainly class herself as 'raging bi' | |||
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"Could someone help me out here then...please ? As a male i have no interest in anyone other than females,in a physical/sexual contact form. But as Samantha im attracted to ladies and other tgirls i fined attractive to me as female,although i know underneath they are male,but have no interest in males,as its the sight of what i see as female that makes me interested,and not them as a male I'm not sure I fully understand your question, but my wife knew a friend of friend who had gone from male to female reassignment. Both before and after reassignment she was only attracted to women. " Well,i have no intention of transitioning,and bring her to life as and when i like,hence being a straight male,lesbian tgirl i guess,no dought someone will be to enlighten me here | |||
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"What about if you've been sucked by an extremely feminine trans? " full on gay | |||
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"I'm 'raging bi'. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this category " I used to call bunny a one-man-lesbian. so maybe she is slowly become bi. | |||
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"Bisexual : equally attracted to both sexes. Orally bisexual : likes to receive or give oral only to the same sex. Bi - curious : occasionally sexually attracted to the same sex but hasnt actually played yet. Fab - bi.: 100% straight in profile info, states "no guys" etc. On profile but is bi in private messages. Have i missed any ? Biker" Yes, me | |||
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"Why have degrees? So many are hung up on labels. Yes - who honestly gives a shit except for straight people? " I don't give a shit either | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me?" An opportunist lol | |||
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"I'm 'raging bi'. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this category " We should form a club, 'the raging bi fem club' Bun | |||
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"Ok. Im straight. Comfortable in close proximity to other guys. I dont actively seek out sexual activities with other guys but if ended up receiving a bj off a guy during group play it wouldn't phase me. So what does that make me?" An opportunist lol | |||
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"I'm 'raging bi'. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this category We should form a club, 'the raging bi fem club' Bun " I think we had our inaugural meeting at cupids the other week, lots of raging there | |||
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"I'm 'raging bi'. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this category We should form a club, 'the raging bi fem club' Bun I think we had our inaugural meeting at cupids the other week, lots of raging there " Mmm yes I think you are right there we should make it a monthly meeting | |||
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"I'm 'raging bi'. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this category We should form a club, 'the raging bi fem club' Bun I think we had our inaugural meeting at cupids the other week, lots of raging there Mmm yes I think you are right there we should make it a monthly meeting " If I was closer id defo be up for that cheeky madam | |||
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"I'm 'raging bi'. I'm sure I'm not the only one in this category We should form a club, 'the raging bi fem club' Bun I think we had our inaugural meeting at cupids the other week, lots of raging there Mmm yes I think you are right there we should make it a monthly meeting If I was closer id defo be up for that cheeky madam " I wish you were closer luckily there are quite a few members attending regularly | |||
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"Bisexual : equally attracted to both sexes. Orally bisexual : likes to receive or give oral only to the same sex. Bi - curious : occasionally sexually attracted to the same sex but hasnt actually played yet. Fab - bi.: 100% straight in profile info, states "no guys" etc. On profile but is bi in private messages. Have i missed any ? Biker" Bi playful.....stroking,sucking,wanking in a MMF scenario where all three are playing together? | |||
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"The only one I care about is Bi Selfish ha ha. I'm not really interested in playing with a girl who knowingly just wants to receive from us both, I would feel like a spare part really. Otherwise, I don't mind. Eve. X" i hear ya there, got to be a bit of give and take | |||
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"I'm not attracted to the male form very much..body does little for me and very rarely facially attracted to guys. like to be fucked by 'em though and like playing with guys in the right situation. I dunno what it makes me, other than happy that is " That sums me up perfectly as well. I am sure there are many like this out there. | |||
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"I'm not attracted to the male form very much..body does little for me and very rarely facially attracted to guys. like to be fucked by 'em though and like playing with guys in the right situation. I dunno what it makes me, other than happy that is That sums me up perfectly as well. I am sure there are many like this out there. " This is my definition of bi playful. Only bi under certain circumstances. | |||
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"Bi-tedious ?" After reading some of these responses I have to agree. | |||
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"Bi playful, Bi selfish, Bi curious = .BI USEFUL ...you just do it to enhance play time ....to get more fucks, to get access to one half of a couple If you're Bi sexual ...you're BI sexual ...end of ...which means you have meets with the same sex, attracted to the same sex & fuck the same sex .... there are not different levels of Bi sexuality ....any thing less than full on Bi is just a way to get someone you wouldn't be able to get on your own ....rant over gggrrrrr " Wow way to tell people who they are and what their sexual preferences are!! This world is obsessed with pigeon holing people to suit their own agenda. Personally as someone who likes to have sex with women in group situations - not to get to their partner but for my own sexual gratification (and hopefully theirs) I 100% don't agree with you sentiment. It doesn't apply to me in the slightest way. | |||
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"Bi playful, Bi selfish, Bi curious = .BI USEFUL ...you just do it to enhance play time ....to get more fucks, to get access to one half of a couple If you're Bi sexual ...you're BI sexual ...end of ...which means you have meets with the same sex, attracted to the same sex & fuck the same sex .... there are not different levels of Bi sexuality ....any thing less than full on Bi is just a way to get someone you wouldn't be able to get on your own ....rant over gggrrrrr " I don't agree with your point of _iew. I know I'm bisexual and I also know what I'm prepared to do or not do. There have been scientifically accepted studies to show that sexuality is a spectrum or range and people can move up and down it whenever they want. Actually. Yeah. Bi-tedious. I might start a cock size thread. | |||
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