FabSwingers.com forum: wine and dine or just sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

who wants to be wined and dined and who was to go right for it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't need to be wined and dined but won't go straight to it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we can buy our own dinner...it's a good way of getting to know people depending on the circumstances...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on the first meet, a coffee or drink out somewhere to begin with but I have had offers to have a meal .. not many to be fair but I think its more likely if you are fwb or in a relationship to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on time available and the person/situation. Mostly it's just get down to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv a husband for wine n dining

Coffee meet then bobs yer auntie if there's a spark

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

I do like a bit of wining and dining to be honest but that's because it makes me feel special after all being single for a decade and a mum any occasion where I don't cook or do dishes makes me feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have time to wine and dine. I have plenty of vanilla friends if I want to do that. Straight into it sex suits me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't have time to wine and dine. I have plenty of vanilla friends if I want to do that. Straight into it sex suits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think going for a drink and/or something to eat beforehand is better for all parties involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wine and dine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wine and dine

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

I like to wine fine flirt chat laugh build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to know that person / persons your about to sleep with relaxed dinner date chats lots of flirting usually leads to better sex

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I rather like taking a lady out, plus it's good to get to know each other to some extent. Hey you sometimes even have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rather like taking a lady out, plus it's good to get to know each other to some extent. Hey you sometimes even have a laugh

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Wine,dine....then club for me please.

I like to make a whole night of it together if we have the right chemistry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont eat before I play and dont drink... so straight in x

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By *issPPWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I prefer dining and wining afterwards as it is never nice to fuck on a full stomach is it?

I guess you all got the joke, a drink before anything else is always nice and I do prefer that but not more than one drink as it would only make me feel mellow and probably the mood for raunchy sex would be ruined

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I prefer dining and wining afterwards as it is never nice to fuck on a full stomach is it?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Would be nice for the lady to be centre piece, and dined off.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Depends on my mood.

Once dressed up and went out with the missus to a fancy dinner... got to the hotel room door, ripped each others' clothes off, fucked and then got dressed again and went out for dinner...

For instance.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Wine and dine would be great, but at least drinks and a laugh is a must for me

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Wine then bed x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No food. I'd be afraid of the windy pops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its lovely getting to know the person I maybe having sex with. So a meal and drink is lovely and also can have a good flirt to start .

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"No food. I'd be afraid of the windy pops!"

From the back or the front?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"who wants to be wined and dined and who was to go right for it ?"

I prefer to wine and dine before taking things further when ever possible .

you can't beat sparkling conversation, eye contact ,intimate teasing touching I'E hand touching hand ,hand on knee and the odd sensual kiss with a bit of light teasing chat across the table to set the right tone for the real main coarse to come later in my opinion .

in fact all such play makes me feel like a human being not a fuck object so I actively will only play under such terms with a new partner . its part of establishing they respect me past my skill at the sex I enjoy .so there fore is very important to me feeling in the mood to play with someone new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh love to be wined and dined

Kinky

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"No food. I'd be afraid of the windy pops!

From the back or the front?

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh love to be wined and dined

Kinky

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"No food. I'd be afraid of the windy pops!

From the back or the front?

Both

Cool, and would they be in harmony, like a chorus by the Beach Boys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pint of larger and packet of crisps to see if there is sexual chemistry

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I only meet for a coffee first time so no need for dining. I don't wine

If it's a Fab friend I prefer breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pint of larger and packet of crisps to see if there is sexual chemistry

Sex then wine and dine

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Pint of larger and packet of crisps to see if there is sexual chemistry

Sex then wine and dine

That would be my preferred sequence of events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Think there's a time and a place for both depending on the person(s) your meeting and what expectations are etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pint of larger and packet of crisps to see if there is sexual chemistry

Sex then wine and dine

That would be my preferred sequence of events

Mine too much more fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All three in the order you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All three in the order you asked "

Oh sounds good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done both 'straight into it sex' and the whole formal dining experience, with copious amounts of wine!

That's with couples and single women and men and enjoyed both. We have no set plan and go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drink or a coffee always a good way to relax and chat first

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Social prior is sometimes good fun, the anticipation of what might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social prior is sometimes good fun, the anticipation of what might be. "

All three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be seduced over dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to be seduced over dinner

All three x

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"who wants to be wined and dined and who was to go right for it ?"

We would hate to waste time being wined and dined, we are here for sex not dining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me and my hubby...we love the build up just as much as the end result.

Finding about how a person ticks is great. I love getting to know a person first.

Love being treated right in the meet up stage...it's almost like a first date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too much wine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pfft, wine and dine me. I'm not a piece of meat. Make me feel wanted.

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