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Penis dysmorphia or realism?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After seeing all the cock pics on here I'm becoming more and more convinced that I'm under endowed, at least compared to guys who swing.

So, is it just me or are guys who swing generally WE ? If they are generally WE then does that make them more likely to swing in the first place?

Finally, couples, what chance for solo males on here without the VWE attribute to ever get a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get disheartened, a lot of pics are taken from a good angle in good light lol, some of them are smaller in real life, as a couple we don't specify vwe as we're not that bothered, admittedly some do specify but at the end of the day average size is debatable, some studies say 4-5" is average and to be honest some of the guys on here think that having a big cock is a substitute for having a personality, we'd much rather meet a guy who has an average cock but is a decent guy, hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the size of the nail but the hammer you hit it home with!!!! Some guys have a massive penis but don't know how to use it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"After seeing all the cock pics on here I'm becoming more and more convinced that I'm under endowed, at least compared to guys who swing.

So, is it just me or are guys who swing generally WE ? If they are generally WE then does that make them more likely to swing in the first place?

Finally, couples, what chance for solo males on here without the VWE attribute to ever get a meet?"

I always say I am VWE and if they have the temerity to question me I shout "GET YA EYES TESTED" at them. They soon apple pudding at that.

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Guys with larger than average are somewhat more likely to include them in public profile pics. What you see isn't representative of average swingers. (a.k.a. selection bias)

Reading plenty of profiles, there are a reasonable number of requests for average/smaller too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am small /average,size means nothing to mildred infact she don't like them too big,

its not the size of the wand its the magic it performs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am small /average,size means nothing to mildred infact she don't like them too big,

its not the size of the wand its the magic it performs"

Or possibly not the size of the organ but maybe the size of the cathedral your playing in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get disheartened, a lot of pics are taken from a good angle in good light lol, some of them are smaller in real life, as a couple we don't specify vwe as we're not that bothered, admittedly some do specify but at the end of the day average size is debatable, some studies say 4-5" is average and to be honest some of the guys on here think that having a big cock is a substitute for having a personality, we'd much rather meet a guy who has an average cock but is a decent guy, hope this helps "

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By *tudent.94Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

Pretty much every dick pic is taken from a flattering angle. The average size is around 5 inches I think? With a good angle and lighting you could easily add on a what looks like a couple of inches.

A picture is just a picture, don't judge yourself based on others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Studies say that the average dick size is between 5-6". The guys I have met off this site tend to be larger than that. So I think on average, men who swing tend to be larger, in my experience.

Having said that, I personally prefer average, or just above, and I'm not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab, not fab itself, but more so people who uses it, tend to externalised sex to disengage emotional involvement by focusing primarily on the genitals. They do the job and not the person per se.

So it is that type of thinking which has contributed to the obsession of penis size.

You shouldn't be worry about your penis size, as it has no correlation, for most women, with your ability to give them sexual pleasure mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys with larger than average are somewhat more likely to include them in public profile pics. What you see isn't representative of average swingers. (a.k.a. selection bias)

Reading plenty of profiles, there are a reasonable number of requests for average/smaller too. "

That's a good point re selection bias. Perhaps we should make dick pics next to a can of red bull mandatory so i can see where i come

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"After seeing all the cock pics on here I'm becoming more and more convinced that I'm under endowed, at least compared to guys who swing.

So, is it just me or are guys who swing generally WE ? If they are generally WE then does that make them more likely to swing in the first place?

Finally, couples, what chance for solo males on here without the VWE attribute to ever get a meet?"

Why have you got a dildo cock pic?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"After seeing all the cock pics on here I'm becoming more and more convinced that I'm under endowed, at least compared to guys who swing.

So, is it just me or are guys who swing generally WE ? If they are generally WE then does that make them more likely to swing in the first place?

Finally, couples, what chance for solo males on here without the VWE attribute to ever get a meet?

Why have you got a dildo cock pic? "

If you are going to have a cock pic at least make it your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fab, not fab itself, but more so people who uses it, tend to externalised sex to disengage emotional involvement by focusing primarily on the genitals. They do the job and not the person per se.

So it is that type of thinking which has contributed to the obsession of penis size.

You shouldn't be worry about your penis size, as it has no correlation, for most women, with your ability to give them sexual pleasure mate.

"

You make a good point that I would almost agree with, but its alot of women fueling the insecurity.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"That's a good point re selection bias. Perhaps we should make dick pics next to a can of red bull mandatory so i can see where i come "

Most of us don't care so stop worrying about it

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By *carletcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We actually prefer the more small to average guy as we say in our profile. Mrs S has a "cosy Cathedral" and large organs just can not fit through the front door which means there is zero chance of it going round to the backdoor either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less about penis size and specify as such in our profile.

Don't worry about it.

Eve. Xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

OP, I'm sure your penis is just fine. A lot of women aren't that bothered about cock size. It seems to be something men obsess about.

As long as it works, you've nothing to worry about.

If you're not VWE then don't contact people who say they are looking for VWE only, obviously, but don't fret about it. Plenty of people aren't looking for VWE or aren't looking for only VWE.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After seeing all the cock pics on here I'm becoming more and more convinced that I'm under endowed, at least compared to guys who swing.

So, is it just me or are guys who swing generally WE ? If they are generally WE then does that make them more likely to swing in the first place?

Finally, couples, what chance for solo males on here without the VWE attribute to ever get a meet?

Why have you got a dildo cock pic? "

That's a clone a willy that i made of myself. It's a not-quite-a-cock pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After seeing all the cock pics on here I'm becoming more and more convinced that I'm under endowed, at least compared to guys who swing.

So, is it just me or are guys who swing generally WE ? If they are generally WE then does that make them more likely to swing in the first place?

Finally, couples, what chance for solo males on here without the VWE attribute to ever get a meet?

Why have you got a dildo cock pic?

If you are going to have a cock pic at least make it your own. "

It is mine, i made it with clone-a-willy

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"After seeing all the cock pics on here I'm becoming more and more convinced that I'm under endowed, at least compared to guys who swing.

So, is it just me or are guys who swing generally WE ? If they are generally WE then does that make them more likely to swing in the first place?

Finally, couples, what chance for solo males on here without the VWE attribute to ever get a meet?

Why have you got a dildo cock pic?

If you are going to have a cock pic at least make it your own.

It is mine, i made it with clone-a-willy"

Oh ok, sorry ....

Thought it looked like a dildo, coz I can see the bit where you unscrew it to pop batteries in.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it is a dildo/vibe, just one based on my little fella

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Well it is a dildo/vibe, just one based on my little fella "

Ok, cool....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small here and could not care less.

Most guys we have met are bigger.

Think guys that swing may be larger in general as they may be more confident about their pens size.

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By *inytitsbigcockCouple
over a year ago

glos

yes lots of men on here with very big cocks but most of them seem to be single as well .work that out

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