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Girls - do you consider yourself promiscuous?

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I was having lunch with a couple of GFs this past weekend one's married one's single and we started talking about promiscuity. The married one considers herself promiscuous but basically has a sex fling perhaps twice a year. The single one parties a lot and sleeps with at least two new blokes every month and for certain feels she's NOT promiscuous, she thinks she's a "normal single lass" to use her words. I consider myself promiscuous with several partners every month but I know a few girls who literally fuck a new man every night (not really but get close to it) - I'm not sure what they think of themselves. Of course, it's just a label so who cares but it's curious how differently we perceive ourselves !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the woman and her self esteem I think. Confidence plays a big role. The single lady is free to do as she pleases she's not with any particular person the married woman if her husband knows then maybe she's not into it as she pretends if her husband doesn't know well then her life really lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter?

I'm certainly not having only had full intercourse with only 5 men, one I married, one I'm still with and very happy.

If we do start to full swap I will be doing it for sexual pleasure and adult fun. It doesn't mean I will be promiscuous. I will only play with people I find interesting and friendly.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Everyone has different views of themselves. Some of my mates fuck a different girl every week. And don't think nothing of it. They certainly won't call them self promiscuous or anything. They're just having fun

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I was having lunch with a couple of GFs this past weekend one's married one's single and we started talking about promiscuity. The married one considers herself promiscuous but basically has a sex fling perhaps twice a year. The single one parties a lot and sleeps with at least two new blokes every month and for certain feels she's NOT promiscuous, she thinks she's a "normal single lass" to use her words. I consider myself promiscuous with several partners every month but I know a few girls who literally fuck a new man every night (not really but get close to it) - I'm not sure what they think of themselves. Of course, it's just a label so who cares but it's curious how differently we perceive ourselves !"

I guess to some extent there is a difference between what would be promiscuous in the real world and what would be considered promiscuous on fab!

In the real world, for someone of my age, I'd doubtless be considered promiscuous!

In fab terms - as the majority of my meets are socials these days - I very much doubt I'd be considered promiscuous!

It's something I no longer worry about though! To me it's just about playing safe and not hurting anyone! Xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Sounds like OP has started with proof that people's views on the subject vary, which is often where threads on here end up.

So, it'll be interesting to see how it ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the dictionary definition - yes

However I feel labels such as promiscuous are designed to make a person ( and let's be fair usually women) ashamed of their sexual appetite .

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i think if you have had sex with quite a lot of men then you are promiscuous most women i know have only had one partner or a few relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was having lunch with a couple of GFs this past weekend one's married one's single and we started talking about promiscuity. The married one considers herself promiscuous but basically has a sex fling perhaps twice a year. The single one parties a lot and sleeps with at least two new blokes every month and for certain feels she's NOT promiscuous, she thinks she's a "normal single lass" to use her words. I consider myself promiscuous with several partners every month but I know a few girls who literally fuck a new man every night (not really but get close to it) - I'm not sure what they think of themselves. Of course, it's just a label so who cares but it's curious how differently we perceive ourselves !"

These girls who fuck a new man ever night....do you have their numbers?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think if you have had sex with quite a lot of men then you are promiscuous most women i know have only had one partner or a few relationships."
This for me.. apparently according to my daughters friends.. any more than 6 men and a woman is damaged goods.. had it been my friends I would have asked if that was in one go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to google promiscuous it's a fancy word for being a bit of a flighty piece for those who also didn't know the meaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think if you have had sex with quite a lot of men then you are promiscuous most women i know have only had one partner or a few relationships. This for me.. apparently according to my daughters friends.. any more than 6 men and a woman is damaged goods.. had it been my friends I would have asked if that was in one go "

My answer to the OP is "yes".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Promiscuous is a very negative term

We love playing with lots of people doing rude things we can't do as a couple, label us promiscuous we prefer "enlightened" x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was having lunch with a couple of GFs this past weekend one's married one's single and we started talking about promiscuity. The married one considers herself promiscuous but basically has a sex fling perhaps twice a year. The single one parties a lot and sleeps with at least two new blokes every month and for certain feels she's NOT promiscuous, she thinks she's a "normal single lass" to use her words. I consider myself promiscuous with several partners every month but I know a few girls who literally fuck a new man every night (not really but get close to it) - I'm not sure what they think of themselves. Of course, it's just a label so who cares but it's curious how differently we perceive ourselves !"

You're not promiscuous if you're picky about who you have sex with.

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"Promiscuous is a very negative term

We love playing with lots of people doing rude things we can't do as a couple, label us promiscuous we prefer "enlightened" x"

lol like that

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Why label everything? As long as you enjoy yourself, you're on the safe side.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"I was having lunch with a couple of GFs this past weekend one's married one's single and we started talking about promiscuity. The married one considers herself promiscuous but basically has a sex fling perhaps twice a year. The single one parties a lot and sleeps with at least two new blokes every month and for certain feels she's NOT promiscuous, she thinks she's a "normal single lass" to use her words. I consider myself promiscuous with several partners every month but I know a few girls who literally fuck a new man every night (not really but get close to it) - I'm not sure what they think of themselves. Of course, it's just a label so who cares but it's curious how differently we perceive ourselves !"

Bit of an unusual conversation.

Surely at whatever rate your sexual partners pass through life so long as its what you want then you are not promiscuous, you are just having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was having lunch with a couple of GFs this past weekend one's married one's single and we started talking about promiscuity. The married one considers herself promiscuous but basically has a sex fling perhaps twice a year. The single one parties a lot and sleeps with at least two new blokes every month and for certain feels she's NOT promiscuous, she thinks she's a "normal single lass" to use her words. I consider myself promiscuous with several partners every month but I know a few girls who literally fuck a new man every night (not really but get close to it) - I'm not sure what they think of themselves. Of course, it's just a label so who cares but it's curious how differently we perceive ourselves !"

Is it promiscuous. Yes. Is there anything wrong with promiscuity? Only if you aren't getting any yourself apparently.

I do not see myself as promiscuous. Just successful at swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Promiscuous?? I'd have to be getting action in the first place to answer that one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Promiscuous is a very negative term

We love playing with lots of people doing rude things we can't do as a couple, label us promiscuous we prefer "enlightened" x

lol like that"

That's perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an enlightened slut and I love it!

Ruby x

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"I'm an enlightened slut and I love it!

Ruby x"

That's the spirit LOL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons promiscuity is another person's sexual freedom. If you are happy then it is no one else's business.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I guess I am, but I'm the one having fun, so no sense in worrying about a label

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes - forget about the baggage, people who have casual sex with transient partners are promiscuous, that's what it means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never think of myself as promiscuous just a girl that doesn't like to say NO!

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I was having lunch with a couple of GFs this past weekend one's married one's single and we started talking about promiscuity. The married one considers herself promiscuous but basically has a sex fling perhaps twice a year. The single one parties a lot and sleeps with at least two new blokes every month and for certain feels she's NOT promiscuous, she thinks she's a "normal single lass" to use her words. I consider myself promiscuous with several partners every month but I know a few girls who literally fuck a new man every night (not really but get close to it) - I'm not sure what they think of themselves. Of course, it's just a label so who cares but it's curious how differently we perceive ourselves !"

I consider your married friend promiscuous purely based on the fact she is doing it behind her husbands back. Your other friend i consider single and doing what men have been doing for centuries.

Myself? I swing, i don't sleep with lots of men & to be honest i dont put a great deal of effort into this swinging malarky with meets etc (i do love a party though). Even when i do swing i do it with the knowledge & acceptance of my partner.

LMP

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

Promiscuity? Just means 'fucks a lot'

(Or lick, suck, wank off, and frot)

It's a relative term

That produces some sperm,

If that's what gets you off....hot!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"Promiscuous?? I'd have to be getting action in the first place to answer that one!! "

You only have to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be promiscuous! Never have been! Brought up too strictly and to be too choosey! Missed out a lot of fun in life as a result methinks!

Bring on promiscuity and revel in it and celebrate it! As long as it's safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Promiscuous?? I'd have to be getting action in the first place to answer that one!!

You only have to ask "

Haha! She knows! I've said the same to her myself!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"Promiscuous?? I'd have to be getting action in the first place to answer that one!!

You only have to ask

Haha! She knows! I've said the same to her myself! "

Oh no, so there's a queue

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