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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the heading says

I know there's a millions single male profile on here

But could someone help me in what I'm doing wrong or can improve my profile thank in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of COCK PIC. We ladies dnt like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of COCK PIC. We ladies dnt like it "
agreed .. if a guy has a cock photo as his profile pic.. then we wont even look further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the heading says

I know there's a millions single male profile on here

But could someone help me in what I'm doing wrong or can improve my profile thank in advance"
Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of COCK PIC. We ladies dnt like it agreed .. if a guy has a cock photo as his profile pic.. then we wont even look further. "

This.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You've had a verification the other week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of COCK PIC. We ladies dnt like it "

That contradicts another thread on here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using the search on here rarely works in my opinion and experience. There are so many more guys than ladies or couples that it's hard to gets noticed.

Chat on the forums just be yourself and that will help get you noticed.

The number one way to get meets is go to a club amd get chatting so that people can get to see the real you.

Seriously it works

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some better photos. Remembering back ground and good angles

I'd unpublish that veri too

It's not very sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try introducing yourself properly. Your cock pic avatar isn't doing you any favours. It's your first impression and you're saying 'here's my cock'. Would you walk up to a woman in the street and do that?

Your thread post is almost as long as your profile too, maybe offer people a bit more information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get some better photos. Remembering back ground and good angles

I'd unpublish that veri too

It's not very sexy x"

What the lady said...

Looks like you took the pic when everyone had left the room...

Straighten the cushions..

And I know there isn't a great deal you can do about it, but you are pretty short for a guy. A lot of women will prefer taller men..a lot may discount you because of it. Obviously that's not all women..

Your profile text could do with some work. Not a lot of personality in it. Check out some popular male profiles from guys on the forums that don't have adonis like bodies or huge wossnams...

Another top tip...before you start messaging ladies, have some solo time. Gething rid of the frustration can help messages sound less pushy/urgent/desperate etc.

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the heading says

I know there's a millions single male profile on here

But could someone help me in what I'm doing wrong or can improve my profile thank in advance"

You have had a meeting so your complaint is unfounded.

You are 28 and should be mature enough to know in general what people find attractive. Read your profile and ask yourself what might make it more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no expert but surely having just one pic of your cock is not going to be appealing to the ladies of Fab!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the advice

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By *omenloverMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ladies that say get rid of cock pic need to delete themselves and join badoo. Lol

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Cockshot needs to go and a relatively non descript profile, no profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies that say get rid of cock pic need to delete themselves and join badoo. Lol"

And why would they do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have met a couple according to your veris.

Go to a swingers club.

That my best suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok to have a cock pic imo,but don't have is as your avatar!

Have your bum,or legs,chest,or a pic in a suit-anything but your cock!

As some have already said,instant turn off for a lot of women/couples.

It's about patience,and playing the game...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The daily why can't I get a meet thread....from another profile with just a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies that say get rid of cock pic need to delete themselves and join badoo. Lol"

Ah thank you 'womanlover'

I'm off to delete my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm no expert but surely having just one pic of your cock is not going to be appealing to the ladies of Fab!! "

I only have one. They dont need to see 20 million angles of the same thing or pics trying to make it look bigger than it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm no expert but surely having just one pic of your cock is not going to be appealing to the ladies of Fab!!

I only have one. They dont need to see 20 million angles of the same thing or pics trying to make it look bigger than it is.

"

When they take a photo right down at the balls and it makes their Cock look 3 feet tall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find endless advice about what is wrong about your profile and you could spend months tinkering with it, but it will ultimately make no difference. Brad Pit, George Cloony, or that soppy muppet from One Direction could not get a meet here by browsing and sending first messages. The system is broken, women as a rule bulk delete without reading messages.

Your best chance is to forget first messaging altogether as it only leads to disappointment. Instead be active in the forums. Maybe at some point you may get a first message, but be patient and be prepared for a long wait.

There are women here who will not on principle send a first message, so be it, they must be prepared to not have any meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will find endless advice about what is wrong about your profile and you could spend months tinkering with it, but it will ultimately make no difference. Brad Pit, George Cloony, or that soppy muppet from One Direction could not get a meet here by browsing and sending first messages. The system is broken, women as a rule bulk delete without reading messages.

Your best chance is to forget first messaging altogether as it only leads to disappointment. Instead be active in the forums. Maybe at some point you may get a first message, but be patient and be prepared for a long wait.

There are women here who will not on principle send a first message, so be it, they must be prepared to not have any meets. "

Sadly, for the most part I tend to agree, I've only had one meet directly as a result of messaging on FAB, my other meets have been as a result of initally having fun at various places and then when talking afterwards, realising we use this site, then arranging further liaison's and subsequently leaving veris. Best advice don't spend your life here, use all options they will probably be more fruitful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello . We wouldn't meet you as you are too young for us and we don't like lots of tattoos .

As for your profile , the penis pictures we find unappealing and the line about : fucking someone's wife for them as they watch would be an instant delete for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies that say get rid of cock pic need to delete themselves and join badoo. Lol

Ah thank you 'womanlover'

I'm off to delete my profile "

Noooooooooooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies that say get rid of cock pic need to delete themselves and join badoo. Lol

Ah thank you 'womanlover'

I'm off to delete my profile

Noooooooooooo!"

I'll stay, just for you

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"As the heading says

I know there's a millions single male profile on here

But could someone help me in what I'm doing wrong or can improve my profile thank in advance"

Well apparently you just have to stand out from all the rest, 750 guys to 1 girl also.

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By *ral addict 13Man
over a year ago

lincolnshire

If you do have cock pics on your profile, when sending a message only send pics of your body and face, women want to know what you look like

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"As the heading says

I know there's a millions single male profile on here

But could someone help me in what I'm doing wrong or can improve my profile thank in advance"

Forget the profile for now.

There are 3 things you can do to get more meets and veries, are you ready to be educated?

1. Go to socials.

2. Go to socials.

3. Go.... seriously... haven't you got the message yet lol?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Maybe try writing an actual profile, not a half-arsed sentence or two?

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"As the heading says

I know there's a millions single male profile on here

But could someone help me in what I'm doing wrong or can improve my profile thank in advance"

Just send out thousands of copy and paste messages to all couples / females, the old saying "chuck enough shit and some will stick" definitely works.

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