FabSwingers.com forum: What Do Younger Guys Find Appealing About Older Women?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello folks,

I've had a number of older guys contacting me recently, despite the fact our preferences state the youngest we're interested in is 35. I don't mind getting messages from people outside our age range, as long as they are articulate and good mannered, I'm happy chat to anyone I find interesting. A couple of them have almost even tempted me to break my own rules...but not quite!

I'm genuinely curious...what is it about older women that younger guys find so appealing?

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't a clue but I probably couldn't keep up with a younger guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 22, finding anyone my own age or younger is very hard. Besides I'm attracted to personality and body not the age.

Hope that answers your question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find a woman over 25 is more pleasing to look at, while I think girls my age still look a tad bit young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to find older woman to have a lot more depth to them. Girls my age, I find generally tend to be....well girls.

Obviously this isn't the case for every female my age. Also think older women dress a bit more seductively/classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably less hang ups, less insecurities about their bodies, less self conscious in general, and they know what they want.

That's just for starters, i could probably pick out a few other things as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it's looks and confidence. Older womans body's always look so sexy. Curves that that keep going and they just ooze confidence... and that in itsself is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

The obvious guess would be experience I suppose

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Hello folks,

I'm genuinely curious...what is it about older women that younger guys find so appealing?

V x

I'm going to watch this thread because I would love to know too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women know what they want and it is easier and better being with someone with experience. Also they generally know how to be more seductive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a number of older guys contacting me recently, despite the fact our preferences state the youngest we're interested in is 35"

My very astute husband just pointed out that I mistakenly said older guys, obviously I meant younger guys!

Some interesting replies, keep 'em coming...I find this fascinating!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men older than me, but get absolutely loads of messages from men around my age claiming to want Cougars, milfs, older women to which the response is obviously why the hell would you message me.

Some are playing to the site demographics. Others value experience, or just want something different from the ladies they might ordinarily be dating who would tend to be closer to their own age.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

"Older women know what they want and it is easier and better being with someone with experience. Also they generally know how to be more seductive

Stop it. Now I'm blushing.

Seriously though. I'm interested in this as I'm an older woman who prefers younger guys. But it is true I think. My teenage daughters friends all fancy me apparently. And hubby was propositioned by his friends mother when he was a teen-ager and she was in her forties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tend to find older woman to have a lot more depth to them. Girls my age, I find generally tend to be....well girls.

Obviously this isn't the case for every female my age. Also think older women dress a bit more seductively/classy

Like this reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably less hang ups, less insecurities about their bodies, less self conscious in general, and they know what they want.

That's just for starters, i could probably pick out a few other things as well."

Knowing what they want is the key one for me and if they are confident enough you don't have to guess anything cause they will tell you what they want and when they want it.

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By *azbirdy93Couple
over a year ago

alfreton

Since being on here older woman have opened my eyes a lot look forward to finally meeting up with some.

Ian

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

They can't run fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds them of their mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personaly i find women younger than 25 can still be a little on the immature side not all but some. Older women attract me its just what i like each to there own i suppose

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Still fancy thier teachers.

Age is often directly proportional to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything its probably wrong to generalise. I have a thing for the more mature lady. I enjoy speaking with someone confident and at ease with themselves.

This isn't always the case with older women and doesn't mean to say a young woman cannot be fully confident in her skin.

For me it is the aspect of someone who has lived and experienced. I think it can make you appreciate things in a different manner. That is something I find very alluring.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Reminds them of their mum."

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Reminds them of their mum.

No, no, no... Not school girls and now school boys threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reminds them of their mum.

It's wasn't on here but someone who I thought was pretty delicious told me I remind them of their mum a while back

That's what stops me meeting younger men - I'm scared they might want bitty

Eeeeeeeewwwwwww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always found the older lady much more sexy than the younger lady ladies.

I have been in a relationship with a very sexy lady who was 30 years older than me.

She taught how to treat and please a mature lady.

Now as I get older I find it harder and harder to find a lady who is my ideal lady, 55 and above are my weakness.

Older ladies are just so much more dam sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of younger males get tarred with the same brush of the whole MILF thing an all that but you no opinions an all that

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By *edylogosMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Reminds them of their mum.

It's wasn't on here but someone who I thought was pretty delicious told me I remind them of their mum a while back

That's what stops me meeting younger men - I'm scared they might want bitty

Eeeeeeeewwwwwww!"

That's grim

I like older women just because they have a little more about them, how they carry themselves, confident, self assured. Also you'll find that older women are better at ing out the bullshit so keeps us on our toes as they know exactly what they want. I'm 30 and a lot of the women I meet my age are starting to get that about them.

I was in a bar a few months back talking to an 18 year old, granted she was stunning but had the personality of a gnat. In the end I was that bored I had to end the conversation and go

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women are usually (not always) less body conscious so boundaries come down quicker, also they know what they like/don't like and are not afraid to make it known.

Conversation tends to flow a lot easier and things are not taken quite so seriously.

Apart from all of the above being reasons for me loving an older woman I also find a womans body much sexier than a girls (especially in your case OP

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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No need to answer,just read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love younger lads so will keep eye on thread to see what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tend to find older woman to have a lot more depth to them. Girls my age, I find generally tend to be....well girls.

Obviously this isn't the case for every female my age. Also think older women dress a bit more seductively/classy

Oh my your pics are very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my profile:

I'm generally more attracted to older women. Normally late 30's+. I tend to have more in common with people that age and have more similar interests. From my experience as people get older they get more comfortable in themselves and have a better idea of what they want and enjoy. This leads to less bullshit and game playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind why younger men like older women at all, I'm just glad they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women usually have that sass that's hard to describe but it can make for excellent banter and flirtation.

Plus most are experienced enough to know how to show themselves off! I mean I can't say no... I'm weak

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By *a KatWoman
over a year ago

Northwest

I'm sixtyfive, I enjoy younger men, they keep me young, however, I get messages from younger ladies, telling me I should be ashamed of myself, being a baby snatcher! They may well be twenty on meeting, on leaving, there thirty.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

There are days I really don't know what I want

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apart from all of the above being reasons for me loving an older woman I also find a womans body much sexier than a girls (especially in your case OP

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Thank you, I wasn't fishing for compliments but I'll take that one.

It's really interesting reading the various replies. There seem to be a number of different qualities that make older women attractive. I have to say, it all makes very positive, encouraging reading for a woman of my years (although, in my head I'm only half my age!).

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sixtyfive, I enjoy younger men, they keep me young, however, I get messages from younger ladies, telling me I should be ashamed of myself, being a baby snatcher! They may well be twenty on meeting, on leaving, there thirty.

Why on earth should you be ashamed? That's ridiculous! If you, and the guys you meet are both enjoying your time together, then no-one has the right to criticise, or determine what age is appropriate for who! I hope I'm still going strong when I get to your age, good on you gal!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger men are attracted to older women because they know that an older woman has basically got their shit together, know what they want, and know that an older woman can teach them a thing or two.

Also, there is a general perception that a younger man and older woman can be dynamite in bed as they're both at their sexual peak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always had s thing for older ladies even I'm my teens .when I was 17 was seeing a 34 year old wow that was fun and all through my life always went for the older lady even today .There's just something sexy about them and they know what they want and will tell ya so .3 cheers for the older ladies guys hip hip .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone has already mentioned seduction and I really do think this is true for the older lady. There is also something different about the older ladies 'glow' which I can only put down to a confidence thing. And they definitely know what works and what doesn't.

So yeah... It's definitely something that interests me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a MILF hunter if you like. Its not just any older women. Its the classy, well groomed, well dressed variety for me. Its intelect and general life experiance as much as physical. Too many younger girls are dull, boring amd just havent lived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A older woman knows what she likes in bed and knows how to please a man ,also they look more classy when dressed up and don't look like a clown when they have make up on ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A older woman knows what she likes in bed and knows how to please a man ,also they look more classy when dressed up and don't look like a clown when they have make up on ...."

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang around outside Flares at kicking out time and that will neatly dispel the myth that older women are classy, sophisticated, well-dressed and with non-clown like, well applied makeup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think older women are more experienced and sexier

they know what they want and know how to please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the age of around 19/20 I have always been far more interested in the 'mature woman' which is insulting in my eyes.

I really wish age didn't matter and I know for a lot of you it doesn't, mature woman are just so much better in every way..

Maturity

Experience

The real curves

Passion

There is nothing better than sleeping with someone who is down to earth in the bedroom. with girls my age they sometimes try to impress too much which makes it sometimes lustless. I love the art of foreplay, caressing each other and really having that connection, which builds up to mind blowing sex. Mature woman know how it works and know what's needed for amazing sex. I could talk all day about you lot

So 'mature woman'

I love you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear that phrase a lot..older women know what they want...a lot of my divorced 50 something female friends are a tangled mess of doubt, angst and insecure about themselves.

Also I certainly knew exactly what I wanted as a 25 year old.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I'm my experience. Older women know exactly what they want,how to get it,and what to do with it once they've got it. Some younger girls just ain't got a clue..plus older women are at peace with thier bodies thus making them more sexy as their comfortable within their skin..ways exception to the rule mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will always come up against jealous bitchy folk on fab sadly...ignore

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

" I think older women are more experienced and sexier

they know what they want and know how to please

This is a misconception brought about by the "Graduate"

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I hear that phrase a lot..older women know what they want...a lot of my divorced 50 something female friends are a tangled mess of doubt, angst and insecure about themselves.

Also I certainly knew exactly what I wanted as a 25 year old."

Not everyone is the same..that's the point

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has a lot to do with maturity older women tend to not rush things and make me feel a little more relaxed and at ease. The older woman is more respectful towards you you hence why a lot of young men are attracted to them. The older does tend to have more experience and definitely would leave you mind blown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The younger find it appealing of the fact that they are alot older experienced each person is different i wouldnt go for 30 under and im 42 no got to climb the ladder as u get older an go for older some oldermen want younger i prefer older than me sexier end of know what they want in life and in bed good for me happy chappy rather fuck a 50yr old than a 25yr old anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the way milfs dress and I had a great experience with one a few years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a confidence thing i get sooooooo many messages off younger guys and have got a bit of a taste for younger men now lol

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london

I find them to be better for general convo and yea the sexy is usually better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is a confidence thing i get sooooooo many messages off younger guys and have got a bit of a taste for younger men now lol "

And how did you find that taste?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally they should be ashamed of their being so judgemental

V x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally they should be ashamed of their being so judgemental

V x"
judgemental arseholes they should be ashamed

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By *ikeAvalirMan
over a year ago

somewhere different

They say a guy hits his sexual peak before 23, a woman hits hers around 40! So therefore it's the hormone side!

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

You will always come up against jealous bitchy folk on fab sadly...ignore"

Not just on fab. Clubs have the jealous bitches as well

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By *aspasherMan
over a year ago

South shields

I personally just find them better to talk to in general about anything just good conversation

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Love the curves, the temptress looks and the fact that they take part in sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their just more mature and grown up about life.

Much easier to get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is better about older women especially where it matters and personally I find it's easier to have a conversation with them

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I'm going to put a slightly different angle on it here - I thing part of the attraction, younger guys, is that you know we want you for YOU!! Unlike young women looking for a long term relationship, we don't care what your job is, how much you earn - and we certainly don't want your babies! I think that must be a refreshing change!

Oh - and some of us are bloody good in bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to put a slightly different angle on it here - I thing part of the attraction, younger guys, is that you know we want you for YOU!! Unlike young women looking for a long term relationship, we don't care what your job is, how much you earn - and we certainly don't want your babies! I think that must be a refreshing change!

Oh - and some of us are bloody good in bed!

The experience of a older woman is a excitement in it self, all the young men will do their best to be better or atleast satisfy a older lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 2 too much older women and for them it was all about sex which was all I wanted too

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Oh - and some of us are bloody good in bed!

This is pretty much it for me... I like older women because there's no pretentious bullshit or childishness. Straight forward confident and sexual aware of exactly what they want and how to get it... the fact they are justwanting me just as much is a huge turn on..

And you're dead right peachy some of use are bloody incredible in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think older women are more experienced and sexier

they know what they want and know how to please

High five

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