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How long should good sex last?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I don't know but if it's good that's all that matters right?

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By *taffsfun73Man
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

Depends could be anything from 10 mins to 2 hours with lots of 4play and loads of oral thrown in the mix depends on the needs a d the time available both can be good and intense in there own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say about 20 minutes of the old in out at the most. Having said that 3 minutes is all I usually need. To me the foreplayis more fun anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best I've ever had is 30 mins in and out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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Not long really, 10 minutes is probably good for me. I love the fore play beforehand.

Just as long as it needs to last for both parties to feel satisfied and have cum.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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Naa, just getting into it after 10 minutes. I suppose it's when you've cum

Or died from exhaustion

Or spontaneously combust

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

..... four hours ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 on the teasing and 10 mins of intense penetration...both have to cum tho..massive must ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it take's but personally I like to make it last so with foreplay two hours to two and a half about right I think for first round

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *ed cjMan
over a year ago

oldham

Good sex should last a lifetime

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

It depends what you mean by good sex.

Good sex to us includes not only intercourse but foreplay and play after intercourse which may include more intercourse etc.

It could be anything from a mind blowing three minute wonder to a ten hour intense session and everything in between.

To us good sex is not judged by time but by the feelings left when it has finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on so many things... it should last as long as you both want it to in that moment, be it 2 mins or an hour. There shouldn't be a set time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average from start to finish is indeed 11 minutes and the average time it takes a man to be ready again is actually four hours (the refractory period)

It's a piece of string question - I've had great sex lasting a few minutes that was so exciting I thought I'd pass out and I've made love to the most beautiful lover I've ever had on the first night that literally lasted all night.

I've had long sessions with someone with Anorgasmia that was extremely frustrating and left me often with a feeling of disquiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say about 20 minutes of the old in out at the most. Having said that 3 minutes is all I usually need. To me the foreplayis more fun anyway "

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

A weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really depends on so many things... it should last as long as you both want it to in that moment, be it 2 mins or an hour. There shouldn't be a set time."

Good sex is more than just the physical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't like a one min wonder. Love foreplay but sex should (fucking) should last at least 20 mins imo

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If the people involved are happy it doesn't matter what the "average" is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex should last as long as the peice of string in my pocket.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

"

No idea.

I don't do "average"

{fist pump}

Mr ddc

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By *hampagneAfterpartyCouple
over a year ago

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Have had great sex and been satisfied after 10 mins but have also been at a party having great sex and been disappointed when people are ready to stop and go home after 4 hours and I still want more! At home just two of us, 45 mins - 1 hr is perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never timed myself and watching porn is not a sensible guide as they take breaks between positions and cheat and stuff. A good sex session can last a couple of hours from start to finish, possibly with the odd pause while I catch my breath before continuing. I like to string it out as long as possible, partly cos I just love it so much, so when I have a lady I want to enjoy her for as long as possible. Half an hour would, I hope, be an absolute minimum. But if it's a place where we need to be quick and the passion levels are at the top of the passionmeter from the off, exceptions occassionally occur.

But really, you should never judge good sex by the clock or how long it takes. As absurd as judging a marriage by the length of the Wedding ceremony!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

10minutes is probably and unfortunately the average. I'd be more than disappointed with that as I'm not mad about foreplay but love the actual intercourse. luckily there some gems out there that can go much longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was watching television yesterday, UFC best fights, I wasn't, I was watching Oprah They did a survey and in this survey it said that 80% of men have sex for between 20 and 30 minutes, now I'm no expert, but I presumed that, that included forplay, right?

It also said that 20% of men have sex for between an hour and an hour an a half, now like I said before, I'm no expert and I don't have the survey or all the information right here in front of me, but I presume that, that includes,,,,,,,,,,,,,, a fucking dinner, maybe even a trip to the cinema

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By *attys74Man
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

Not long really, 10 minutes is probably good for me. I love the fore play beforehand.

Just as long as it needs to last for both parties to feel satisfied and have cum.

Eve. X"
stunning arse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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As short as possible

Not a huge fan of penatrive sex, I like hours of everything else but as little penatration as possible

5 mins absolute max

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why should good sex last any amount of time

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

2 pumps and a squirt! Under 10 seconds!

Then I can get back to more important things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hours for me!!! Never had great inter sex in 10mins,which is hard as ya need a man with stamina and of coarse viagra,lol xx R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read somewhere recently that the 'average' for actual intercourse was between 3 and 7 minutes (backed by studies). I'm guessing this doesn't include foreplay etc.

The studs / stallions on here will say they keep going all night, the reality for Joe Average would seem to be somewhat different

As others have said, as long as it's fun the quantity is less important to me than the quality

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Hours please!!!!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Depends could be anything from 10 mins to 2 hours with lots of 4play and loads of oral thrown in the mix depends on the needs a d the time available both can be good and intense in there own way "

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I saw one man jumped on a woman in a sauna,it was as if he was doing press ups,he was at it for thirty minutes just jumped up and walked away with out cuming!?.

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By *omenloverMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

For young guys yes, for older guys no lol

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

norwich

I think intercourse should deffo last the full length of half time!!!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good sex is much more than just penetration. That said the best ever for me was a cheeky quickie in the woods with virtually no foreplay. It was all over within a couple of minutes, I came almost immediately and he wasn't far behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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10min lol oral should be longer than that pmsl

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think intercourse should deffo last the full length of half time!!!"

No half term.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex should last until you have BOTH cum and can take no more its that simple

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"The average from start to finish is indeed 11 minutes and the average time it takes a man to be ready again is actually four hours (the refractory period)

It's a piece of string question - I've had great sex lasting a few minutes that was so exciting I thought I'd pass out and I've made love to the most beautiful lover I've ever had on the first night that literally lasted all night.

I've had long sessions with someone with Anorgasmia that was extremely frustrating and left me often with a feeling of disquiet "

FOUR HOURS FOR A MAN TO BE READY AGAIN??? Either I've known some extraordinary men or I'm awfully good as half hour is usually MORE than enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The average from start to finish is indeed 11 minutes and the average time it takes a man to be ready again is actually four hours (the refractory period)

It's a piece of string question - I've had great sex lasting a few minutes that was so exciting I thought I'd pass out and I've made love to the most beautiful lover I've ever had on the first night that literally lasted all night.

I've had long sessions with someone with Anorgasmia that was extremely frustrating and left me often with a feeling of disquiet

FOUR HOURS FOR A MAN TO BE READY AGAIN??? Either I've known some extraordinary men or I'm awfully good as half hour is usually MORE than enough!"

i think a lot of guys use blue pills. it would explain the high amount of repeat cummers i've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching television yesterday, UFC best fights, I wasn't, I was watching Oprah They did a survey and in this survey it said that 80% of men have sex for between 20 and 30 minutes, now I'm no expert, but I presumed that, that included forplay, right?

It also said that 20% of men have sex for between an hour and an hour an a half, now like I said before, I'm no expert and I don't have the survey or all the information right here in front of me, but I presume that, that includes,,,,,,,,,,,,,, a fucking dinner, maybe even a trip to the cinema "

90 minutes is a very long time going in and out lmao but to last long you get in a grove where it feels good but the excitement doesn't build to the point that your ready to blow, also while your lady is loving it your maintains that zone for lack of a better term. Now sometimes what you see or hear may be to erotic to last and you loose your zone. now that makes sense but it also doesn't lmao

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"The average from start to finish is indeed 11 minutes and the average time it takes a man to be ready again is actually four hours (the refractory period)

It's a piece of string question - I've had great sex lasting a few minutes that was so exciting I thought I'd pass out and I've made love to the most beautiful lover I've ever had on the first night that literally lasted all night.

I've had long sessions with someone with Anorgasmia that was extremely frustrating and left me often with a feeling of disquiet

FOUR HOURS FOR A MAN TO BE READY AGAIN??? Either I've known some extraordinary men or I'm awfully good as half hour is usually MORE than enough!

i think a lot of guys use blue pills. it would explain the high amount of repeat cummers i've met."

Yup, some do use pills, but most that I've known haven't needed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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Tbh good sex shouldn't last too long . If you have to bang away for ages without making each other cum you are doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

Tbh good sex shouldn't last too long . If you have to bang away for ages without making each other cum you are doing something wrong "

good sex for me isn't just cumming though, luckily coz most guys don't make me cum.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

how long doesnt matter providing your both satisfied as to recharge time mine is into days now

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

Tbh good sex shouldn't last too long . If you have to bang away for ages without making each other cum you are doing something wrong "

Who said anything about banging away without making someone come?? Even the penetrative part of sex can ebb and flow and speed up and slow down and tease and turn and go on and on if you want it to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

Tbh good sex shouldn't last too long . If you have to bang away for ages without making each other cum you are doing something wrong

Who said anything about banging away without making someone come?? Even the penetrative part of sex can ebb and flow and speed up and slow down and tease and turn and go on and on if you want it to! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Till the end of the adverts!

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By *ackoman71Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Lots of foreplay before a good hard fuck makes it last longer than 10 mins lol. I love making my the woman I'm with cum a few times by licking her pussy out before I get to slide inside and pump her full of cum

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Am I the only one here then that likes foreplay & bit of fucking back to something else, bit more fucking etc.etc. each time the fucking entails an orgasm, not mine obviously..everyone seems to be commenting along the lines of "Make her wet, bang away for ten minutes, wipe off on the curtains"

Or that's how it appears anyway, this is a genuine question by the way.....

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the moment.

One of my most memorable was an "l just can't wait, fuck me now, fuck me hard" moment.

She slipped off her knickers and I was inside her in seconds. I think the intercourse lasted 5 minutes tops, and I ended up cumming all down her legs, but it was so intense, and so hot that it makes me hard remembering it, years later.

On the flip side, some of the best sex ever has been pre planned, teased and anticipated for days, if not weeks, had lots, and lots of foreplay, massage, kissing, oral, and ended up being for hours. Getting close, changing position, getting close again, then back to oral for a while, just wanting to make it last and last.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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A good hour

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

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As long as it takes for the lady to be fully satisfied is a good rule of thumb i think!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Actual intercourse ... Heard average us ten mins ... Is that true?

Tbh good sex shouldn't last too long . If you have to bang away for ages without making each other cum you are doing something wrong

Who said anything about banging away without making someone come?? Even the penetrative part of sex can ebb and flow and speed up and slow down and tease and turn and go on and on if you want it to!

"

You go for wham bam if you like hun, I'll continue to go for something more satisfying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one here then that likes foreplay & bit of fucking back to something else, bit more fucking etc.etc. each time the fucking entails an orgasm, not mine obviously..everyone seems to be commenting along the lines of "Make her wet, bang away for ten minutes, wipe off on the curtains"

Or that's how it appears anyway, this is a genuine question by the way.....

S"

That would be nice but it seems for a lot of people the orgasm is the only aim.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Untill just before she comes down, then 110% as she comes round...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

If its good sex, it shouldn't matter how long it lasts.

Jayne and I have had some absolutely mind-blowing sex that lasted just a few minutes, and left us shaking and giddy for ages after, but we've also had hours of fun that was awesome too, so I guess it depends on what you want at that exact moment in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The shortest we've had together was an hour (considered a quickly fail we were aiming fr 20 mins). Haven't had anything more than 30 mins with others so far will let u knw if we do lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

About as long as this thread

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A whole night in a hotel with another horny couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longer than 20 minutes

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i dont think it matters that much it can be nice if he cums quick, the most enjoyable one lasted quite a long time though i didnt time it. I dont always enjoy it when they last a long time though only this time i did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood but normally longer then 20 min and never sorter then 10 min in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A weekend."

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By *even inchesMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I once lasted 20 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like that when I clicked on this the last post was 2 MINUTES ago I took that as the answer well if that includes foreplay and getting dressed afterwards obviously

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I would say about 20 minutes of the old in out at the most. Having said that 3 minutes is all I usually need. To me the foreplayis more fun anyway "

I can last 3 minutes

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I would say about 20 minutes of the old in out at the most. Having said that 3 minutes is all I usually need. To me the foreplayis more fun anyway

I can last 3 minutes "

Didn't realise you smoked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral so can give as take as long over that as they wish, intercourse is just the bonus few minutes

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I would say about 20 minutes of the old in out at the most. Having said that 3 minutes is all I usually need. To me the foreplayis more fun anyway

I can last 3 minutes

Didn't realise you smoked"

Didnt say i cant go longer, was just replying to the comment that the lady only need 3 mins. ??????

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Wish i had a button i could press that says re load lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All night and morning

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

As long as it needs to - and then a bit longer 'cos I'm greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All fucking night

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

As short a time or as long a time as the situation indicates. Seconds to an hour or more.

Obviously, read the female's desires as the primary way to do the right thing.

"Holding-back" as a goal in itself isn't right, in general.

In swinging, sex lasting "just the right time" is good. Often, there's time to "try-out more admirers" if they "get on with it". Or you can all adjourn for tea and some naughty treats like a bit of cake, or whatever - all feeling blissed-out having had sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it takes

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