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What you all think of having fb and shagging other people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Basically when I joined this site I was looking for a fuck buddy and when I found out I didn't want them to meet other people unless it was in a 3 some or similar. But now I feel trapped if I have a fb and not allowed to meet anyone else. I'm more about quality over quantity. What do u all think?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a fb and I encourage her to fuck other men and she does so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dump him .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically when I joined this site I was looking for a fuck buddy and when I found out I didn't want them to meet other people unless it was in a 3 some or similar. But now I feel trapped if I have a fb and not allowed to meet anyone else. I'm more about quality over quantity. What do u all think? "

The reason you have a FB is so you have the freedom to do what you want, with who you want. Otherwise you may as well just have a conventional relationship surely??

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Id say he wants the best of both worlds,having you on tap, but no relationship.

If it's him that doesn't want you to meet others ,but you want to then you need to decide if you want to continue seeing him or not.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you agreed.. some fb have no say in who the other meets.. others do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id say he wants the best of both worlds,having you on tap, but no relationship.

If it's him that doesn't want you to meet others ,but you want to then you need to decide if you want to continue seeing him or not.

Miss"

Totally agree. I the past when I've been involved in an FB relationship, we've both been open with each other without giving too much info about who we were seeing and what we got up to. Worked fine for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only had one guy make stipulations on what i should do and what i shouldn't when not fucking him, i dumped the guy. and this guy was ok with me fucking others, just he requested a few things from that, we weren't compatible.

unless we're in a monogamous relationship then he has no right to expect anything of me. sure he can ask for things but i'm not obligated to him in any way, nor any fuck buddy. that's the whole point in having them, so i thought?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why have one then. Just cause your shagging one person why would it stop you shagging others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here was me thinking having an fab or fab was that it wasn't exclusive. Or am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try that again fb or fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id want my fb to shag others .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The more i here about these fb relationship things the less i understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel trapped by it, change the arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more i here about these fb relationship things the less i understand"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like he wants his cake and eat it lol your not his property

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of him OP, he sounds like a douche bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it is a fb you want and not a fwb? A fb just meet for sex, whilst fbw is more like a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole purpose of being on fab is to have fun, when you start feeling trapped it's not fun anymore. Be your own person and meet who you want when you want! Your not in a relationship and you don't have to answer to anyone! Enjoy yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you found the wrong fb .you should be able to sleep with who you want .me and my fb do and she loves me telling her about it.and we love having threesome together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted one....I found one....it didn't work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like you found the wrong fb .you should be able to sleep with who you want .me and my fb do and she loves me telling her about it.and we love having threesome together "
but telling each other is still sharing it with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a relationship disguised as an FB situation OP. If you feel trapped, perhaps it's time to move on from him....

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"The more i here about these fb relationship things the less i understand"

I'm in one and I don't understand it either, I just seem to upset him all the time!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"The more i here about these fb relationship things the less i understand

I'm in one and I don't understand it either, I just seem to upset him all the time!!"
but how, this is what i dont understand

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Try that again fb or fwb "

I think the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if the rules don't suit both then either change the rules or stop seeing eachother...I have a regular fwb that I see alot of the time...we have a rule that we don't play with others seperately if we will be seeing eachother...but he is happy for me to see other guys and I positively encourage him to seek other women to play with...and we are looking at playing as a couple at some point too...but we are not a romsntically involved couple so neither can demand something from the other...especially exclusivity

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Basically when I joined this site I was looking for a fuck buddy and when I found out I didn't want them to meet other people unless it was in a 3 some or similar. But now I feel trapped if I have a fb and not allowed to meet anyone else. I'm more about quality over quantity. What do u all think?

The reason you have a FB is so you have the freedom to do what you want, with who you want. Otherwise you may as well just have a conventional relationship surely??"

Never had a relationship, never had a fuckbuddie ether way I'm fucked!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I have three play partners well four actually but one play partner comes with a friend .

Only one is super regular and that only really became so regular the last three months .

Part of me what's more quality people in my life if the chemistry is there but there is also a side to me that wants to give it all up or maybe just have one play partner like I started off with years ago .

But somehow I've become yes I will admit it emotionally involved with my play partners so I can't really give any of them up . That doesn't mean I would turn nasty if one or all of them ended our arrangements it just means for as long as they wish to meet me I will meet them .

I'm very lucky not really looking by that I mean I'm not pursuing sexual encounters unless I click with someone to the point where I just have to know .

My play partners as far as I know like me have a select number of play partners two no longer use sites like this as they have no need .one does but she hides her profile and just reads forums as a way to pass time .

I think I've more or less found what I want but I do feel not all the time that I have room in my life for one more special arrangement but the person would have to match up to the standards of my other play partners and so would the arrangements for me to even consider taking on such a commitment .

Like I've said before I think to much but I have learnt to try and not be to harsh on myself as to why I do as I do instead I just try to keep my life interesting and exciting and at the same time keep my play partners life's exciting and interesting to .

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Basically when I joined this site I was looking for a fuck buddy and when I found out I didn't want them to meet other people unless it was in a 3 some or similar."

This almost sounds like you wanted a semi-monogamous arrangement?


" But now I feel trapped if I have a fb and not allowed to meet anyone else. I'm more about quality over quantity. What do u all think? "

But then sounds like, when he wanted semi-monogamous, you felt trapped? But//you don't like when he showed a similar behaviour you exhibited? Or have I read that wrong?

And (speaking generally) what's craze of swingers "wanting to be monogamous" but still identifying as swingers? Surely monogamy might as well be vanilla?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fb she's married and like me our other halfs don't know. I have asked her and she's told me of two or three guys she's fucked. I can't go off on one as we both fucking behind people's backs. But she did say I was the only one who knew what she really likes without her telling me

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