FabSwingers.com forum: I think it's my ex...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As my profile describes I'm looking to explore my Bi side but if a fella catches my eye then Im more than open to flirting and to see where it leads... With that in mind I was checking my inbox the other day and had a nice intro mail. Normally I would either bin or if its nice just a quick thanks but no thanks and happy fabbing. BUT this one mail just had something about it not sure what but I replied and asked how they were etc. Again the next one or two exchanges were as if I had spoken before.. I asked for pics and he fobbed me off saying was uploading waiting etc. he has just mailed me a pic and I know its my ex.

Now what should I do? We had a very bad breakup and I am not in the least bit interested in getting back together but do I block him or have a little fun? Hes now with an old friend of both of ours so is a bit of a dick for cheating but he did it to me with her so im not going to inform her..

Help me out fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block. no need to play teenage games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just leave alone and let things work out on their own.

Although I would message a bit more and toy a bit myself. That is up to you though.

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By *lovesexxMan
over a year ago

Colne

Do you still like him and want to go there or are you feeling nostalgic

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"block. no need to play teenage games."

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By *lovesexxMan
over a year ago

Colne

"Just leave alone and let things work out on their own.

Although I would message a bit more and toy a bit myself. That is up to you though. "

Alls fun in love and war eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just leave alone and let things work out on their own.

Although I would message a bit more and toy a bit myself. That is up to you though.

Alls fun in love and war eh"

Well I don't mean games. I would just be really ambiguous is all.

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By *lovesexxMan
over a year ago

Colne

"Just leave alone and let things work out on their own.

Although I would message a bit more and toy a bit myself. That is up to you though.

Alls fun in love and war eh

Well I don't mean games. I would just be really ambiguous is all. "

Tbf sounds like the other person is playing games, string him along and then block

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back.."

I wouldn't do something vengeful. No good can come of it.

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By *lovesexxMan
over a year ago

Colne

"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back.."

You seem like a nice woman

From what I can see I highly doubt you would be short of offers

Don't stoop to it

Let it go and move on

Enjoy life

Enjoy sex

Enjoy yourself

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

The viruses have prob mutated by now so you could catch something really serious. So personally I'd stand well back, block, and FO pdq.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him and forget about him....

Good riddance to bad rubbish!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block him and forget about him....

Good riddance to bad rubbish!!! "

This

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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

have you thought your ex partners new partner might be in on it and there wanting you too join them ?

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Why would you even consider it if you had a bad break up

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I personally think the answer is pretty obvious

Why even go there

It's all in the past

Unless you still have some underlying feelings for him

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Block ... dont go looking for trouble

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Rise above the temptation to get your own back on him and her..... it'll never end well and only bring you more aggravation than you need or deserve.

If he's set on cheating on her then stand well back and enjoy the fireworks that will bring but don't get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him. Doing anything else is a bit pathetic, IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could block him and fuck me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

He is a bit of a dick if it is him to be honest. If he is cheating on his new woman why choose to do it with someone they both know and someone who he hurt so badly?!

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Probably because he can

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Block him, both of you will start playing games, then it'll go crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you consider anything other than block? He's probably guessed who you are too. Just block and avoid the pointless and totally unnecessary drama you seem to be weirdly keen on

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Will hurting him help you, or anyone else?

Just block and move on, safe in the thought that you are the better person.

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"Why would you consider anything other than block? He's probably guessed who you are too. Just block and avoid the pointless and totally unnecessary drama you seem to be weirdly keen on"

same thought exactly, even to consider it after knowing what he is really like but to the point of him being a twat to you before why consider anything other then block and carry on.

Aswell to say you normally would say no thanks to others on here and consider someone like that just says you wanna start trouble in your life, when its clearly not worth it, dont say much about the guys on here either... being tempted by an ex but just saying no straight up to the rest.

Best thing to do is block and move on for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will hurting him help you, or anyone else?

Just block and move on, safe in the thought that you are the better person."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back..

You seem like a nice woman

From what I can see I highly doubt you would be short of offers

Don't stoop to it

Let it go and move on

Enjoy life

Enjoy sex

Enjoy yourself

Xx"

I am with this one, (though those people who know me or had an extended exchange of messages would say that they would expect me to go for the jugular). He may have sussed it was you and HE is toying with YOU. I suppose it depends where you met originally, if on here, I would defo say he's sussed you out and is messing with your head. For some guys, they like to hurt and hurt, I just wouldn't put myself in a position where any guy had that sort of power. Walk away, block him, leave him either shrugging coz he didn't get to you again or scratching his head coz he can't work out why some new bird he was chatting with has suddenly blocked him. Good luck.

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Block, head high and move upwards sexy lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back..

You seem like a nice woman

From what I can see I highly doubt you would be short of offers

Don't stoop to it

Let it go and move on

Enjoy life

Enjoy sex

Enjoy yourself

Xx"

This.

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would feel if you read this post from a man? If you think it's fair game then go for it but karma is an evil bitch so in the end you reap what you sow. Tread carefully op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Block him and continue to look for what you came here for.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Block and carry on with what you're looking for.

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either set him up so his new gf finds out and dumps him, thereby making him hurt as much as u did (although his gf would be hurt as an innocent bystander but at the same time needs to know he's doing this) or block and stay away, it depends on wether you want drama or not

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

"I personally think the answer is pretty obvious

Why even go there

It's all in the past

Unless you still have some underlying feelings for him"

That is soo correct!! "History'" block and have fun

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

well you could string him along a little,make him think that you are having alot more fun than he is.THEN BLOCK HIM.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I'd leave well alone,does he know its you?

Miss.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"As my profile describes I'm looking to explore my Bi side but if a fella catches my eye then Im more than open to flirting and to see where it leads... With that in mind I was checking my inbox the other day and had a nice intro mail. Normally I would either bin or if its nice just a quick thanks but no thanks and happy fabbing. BUT this one mail just had something about it not sure what but I replied and asked how they were etc. Again the next one or two exchanges were as if I had spoken before.. I asked for pics and he fobbed me off saying was uploading waiting etc. he has just mailed me a pic and I know its my ex.

Help me out fabbers

Sounds like your still pineing for him, leave him alone you big stalker !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chuckle evilly. Block. Move on. Don't make it complicated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Fabbers... I think some got the wrong end of the stick about me being with him againg... NOOOO I was just going to have him pining but I think your right... Blocked and move on..

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Thanks Fabbers... I think some got the wrong end of the stick about me being with him againg... NOOOO I was just going to have him pining but I think your right... Blocked and move on.."

Only problem now is that if he has read this thread, he'll know it's you for sure.

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