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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll do the inverse of how this is normally asked. Reading the forums I am under the illusion that no-shows and late cancels are very common, but I'm not sure if that's just information bias or an accurate picture of events.

So I am curious to know how many people have always had meets show up? And a rough sample size.

100% record of myself, sample size of 1.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

100% here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

!00% pretty much however its the ones that become regular then after a few meets with them, they cancel, leave it til the last min etc etc. I dont think I have ever not turned up to a meet and I would always give enough notice if I had to cancel. I value my time an other peoples time.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

100% for us turning up though we are always late (even when meeting at home P has never answered the door as she's always putting on a little bit of make-up) and one no show here. He did send a feeble excuse to explain though.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

100% turned up to see me.

And I've turned up to 100% of all arranged encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 in 7 years

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've had a few cancel on the day (some I already had a inkling about)and only one no show, after I had already met him, nothing is 100% guaranteed unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had someone not show up. I've always had some kind of communication either in the days leading up to or on the day. Same is true for me, I've always let the woman I'm meeting know if real life has got in the way of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a previous single lady on the site

100% any meets arranged turned up

But now as a couple on the site 0% lol

The 3 ladies that we have arranged a meet with either ignored us a couple days prior to meet

Or just ignored on the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% of meets turned up

One guy let us down 24 hours before but we found a better replacement

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

8 years of swinging, never had a no-show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one no show in 3.5 years. He actually was in the hotel car park but drove off.

Then had the nerve to ring me the next day and beg me to give him a second chance !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been stood up once in 2.5 years. That's the only time my methods have let me down.

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By *r-DoggyStyleMan
over a year ago

St Albans

No one likes a let-down!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

1 no show. Communication right up until the last minute too!

I've never left anyone hanging although I have had to cancel due to work/finances/unforseen circumstances, but have always cancelled as soon as I've known there's an issue.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Never on our couples profile,but when i had my single profile i was stood up once by someone who had pestered me to meet!.

Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no show and I personally would never do this to anyone else! I have had a couple of ladies cancel ahead of social meets. One was on the day and the other a fews days ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had probably 5 no shows .. usually when arranged to meet socially. .

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

In 8 yrs on here as a single guy and now as a couple I have only had 3 no-shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 time wasters - their loss.

Jog on

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

90%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one. Had been speaking for a bit, she gave me her address to go round to hers. Knocked on the door and she wasn't there haha.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

100% here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had two outta two

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