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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't understand why so many pics on profiles are only of cocks, tits (usually large ones), gaping pussy, blow jobs and sex. I have always believed that displaying graphic pics could backfire and ensure you get too many messages of the wrong kind! I get plenty meet requests a day and always have 100+ profile views a day but keep my pics low key and probably bordering on bland/boring by fab standards. The profiles that appeal to me are ones which display very little.

I think people try too hard on here

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

You're probably right. But then it's also a matter of taste isn't it?

That said I like many others I'd guess, struggle to decide what to put up.

The ops pics work for me so yes there's something in all of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a firm believer that people should display the photos they want to, and that way they'll generally attract the attention or the kind of messages that they want.

I don't want to display all fully clothed photos that would be just as suitable on Facebook - because I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm looking to meet men for sex, first and foremost. So I'll display the photos that will attract the attention of men who are looking for sex, and it works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your pics, I tend not to message anyone who has graphic pics, would rather see them naked for the first time when we had a play meet

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I meet on here. But I meet for sex (yes, I have repeat meets where appropriate) not for a long term relationship. I like sex. I like taking pics. I can display pics on here I would never show anywhere else that I consider sexy. I get meets when I want them regardless of what I show on my profile so it's not a question of trying. It's a question of my profile, my choice. If people make the decision they don't like where I'm currently 'at' in my fab journey based on my public gallery then we aren't compatible anyway so neither of us have lost anything.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I find it better to do what works for me and leave others to do what works for them. There's no right or wrong way,although thinking about it I could question that . It's probably best not being judgemental about other people's profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post what ever pics I like works for me

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

Yes Ms Rubywoo has it perfectly pitched for me. Amazing images, well photographed and leaving enough to the imagination to certainly spark interest.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Is this a daily thread now? Fantastic. Pictures are just another way of enticing those the profile wants to meet and those they don't. If it's not to your taste, great. It's a filter that works both ways. My rather large tits out on my profile haven't prevented me from getting regular meets nor one offs so it's evidently working.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like variety both in people and in photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the need to pick at the way others choose to present themselves. Funny old world isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l attract a lot of gay guys because my pics are kinda graphic but l like my pics and l also have face pics.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I post what ever pics I like works for me "

I post what ever pics I like makes no difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the majority of people it all boils down to what the face looks like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is not intended as a criticism in any way. Each to their own...just a point I was making, like many folk do when they post a topic!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I took my naughty pics down just to see but it didnt make any difference to how many or what messages i got. i did get a few more when i put my face pics up though. I dont try hard at all actualy i hardly reply to my messages half the time. Im never sure about wether i want to meet someone. I like putting rude pics on here where else could i put them but on here. are you sure youre not just a wee bit jealous or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I post what ever pics I like works for me

I post what ever pics I like makes no difference

"

Certainly makes a difference to me. I seldom get messaged by guys whose opening line is "wanna fuck" as so many ladies here keep complaining about getting on their profile text! I think the more graphic pics you have disaplyed the more you will get lines like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a firm believer that people should display the photos they want to, and that way they'll generally attract the attention or the kind of messages that they want.

I don't want to display all fully clothed photos that would be just as suitable on Facebook - because I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm looking to meet men for sex, first and foremost. So I'll display the photos that will attract the attention of men who are looking for sex, and it works well for me. "

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By *pfornaughtyfunMan
over a year ago

merseyside


"I'm a firm believer that people should display the photos they want to, and that way they'll generally attract the attention or the kind of messages that they want.

I don't want to display all fully clothed photos that would be just as suitable on Facebook - because I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm looking to meet men for sex, first and foremost. So I'll display the photos that will attract the attention of men who are looking for sex, and it works well for me. "
totally agree with you

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By *pfornaughtyfunMan
over a year ago

merseyside


"With the majority of people it all boils down to what the face looks like. "
some people like me cannot show there faces due to my job this site is not worth my job hence why I don't have a face pic !

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I post what ever pics I like works for me

I post what ever pics I like makes no difference

Certainly makes a difference to me. I seldom get messaged by guys whose opening line is "wanna fuck" as so many ladies here keep complaining about getting on their profile text! I think the more graphic pics you have disaplyed the more you will get lines like that"

I have some graphic pics (according to your categorisation of such in your OP). I never get those messages. So speaking as someone who does display them I can categorically say that isn't the case.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm not a fan of overly graphic pics but each to their own.

I got abuse for not showing myself as I am (apparently) so today I put up a pic that doesn't consist of breathing in and pretty underwear to hide the bits I hate.

Seems people are not as offended by my wobbly bits or saggy boobs as I am.

People should feel able to post whatever they want. If others don't like it just let them move on.

I see no need to be negative to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you are a shapely bi curious single female. You would get meet offers even if your avatar was a picture of your dog's arsehole!!

I also think there is a lot if exhibitionism on Fab with people who like being seen fucking. Each to their own i guess....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like any pics at all. I'm fully aware of how that attracts/ repels people, and I'm happy with that.

Other people are the same. Like attracts like. Graphic or clothed or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I think people put what they want up. On fab I have evolved with my pictures. I do them for me. Before I joined fab I had never taken a selfie.I don't dismiss someone who has cock pics up. I know what pictures I like and what I want to see from others.If people are happy with their own profile I don't see what concern it is for others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I took my naughty pics down just to see but it didnt make any difference to how many or what messages i got. i did get a few more when i put my face pics up though. I dont try hard at all actualy i hardly reply to my messages half the time. Im never sure about wether i want to meet someone. I like putting rude pics on here where else could i put them but on here. are you sure youre not just a wee bit jealous or something?"

Er..jealous??? What of? I can put plenty graphic pics if I want to!

But I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less is more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it better to do what works for me and leave others to do what works for them. There's no right or wrong way,although thinking about it I could question that . It's probably best not being judgemental about other people's profile though."

The amount of people who think it's their God given right to criticise other people's profiles amazes me

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"I took my naughty pics down just to see but it didnt make any difference to how many or what messages i got. i did get a few more when i put my face pics up though. I dont try hard at all actualy i hardly reply to my messages half the time. Im never sure about wether i want to meet someone. I like putting rude pics on here where else could i put them but on here. are you sure youre not just a wee bit jealous or something?

Er..jealous??? What of? I can put plenty graphic pics if I want to!

But I don't."

not saying you are jealous just asking.

maybe you havnt got the nerve to put them on here.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

For me personally i dont need to see big opening vagina shots to get my attention, let alone a meet. But ultimately its other peoples profiles and choices.. if we dont like what we see move onto the next.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde


"I find it better to do what works for me and leave others to do what works for them. There's no right or wrong way,although thinking about it I could question that . It's probably best not being judgemental about other people's profile though.

The amount of people who think it's their God given right to criticise other people's profiles amazes me "

Seems daft to me. Like what you see then do something about it. Don't like then move on.

It's the shop window principle. Nobody forcing anyone and there's certainly no need to criticise.

And I've spent the morning fabbing some amazing new pics.

Let's all just get along. Lol

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"For me personally i dont need to see big opening vagina shots to get my attention, let alone a meet. But ultimately its other peoples profiles and choices.. if we dont like what we see move onto the next."

how about small opening vaginas then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think there is nothing wrong with showing a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

"

My post was not directed at ladies but people in general. And yep it is a sex site in general but for me it is also a social site and I don't want to be seen as just a gaping pussy or a pair of tits.

Each to their own however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a firm believer that people should display the photos they want to, and that way they'll generally attract the attention or the kind of messages that they want.

I don't want to display all fully clothed photos that would be just as suitable on Facebook - because I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm looking to meet men for sex, first and foremost. So I'll display the photos that will attract the attention of men who are looking for sex, and it works well for me. "

Very nicely done photos, fabbed a few of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a brilliant site where you can celebrate what you enjoy doing. I enjoy being an exhibitionist and my pictures reflect that (in all it's gory detail ha). I'm not one for sexy underwear and stuff like that so I don't post pictures of that sort, I'm not the sorta lass that will wear a face full of make up and do glamour shots so I don't post those either. What people see is what they get. People post photos they like of themselves and for the most part I think it's less about attracting attention and more about what makes that person feel sexy. If it's graphic or more subtle. It would be a pretty boring site if everyone was the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think there is nothing wrong with showing a bit"

So you think there IS something wrong?

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We don't much like profiles that only have pics of cocks/tits/pussies as we like to get an idea of what the people are like before we decide whether to meet them. This is why our pics are so honest - we don't want to mislead anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

My post was not directed at ladies but people in general. And yep it is a sex site in general but for me it is also a social site and I don't want to be seen as just a gaping pussy or a pair of tits.

Each to their own however."

most men on here only want you for your tits and pussy though whatever pics you put up.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"My post was not directed at ladies but people in general. And yep it is a sex site in general but for me it is also a social site and I don't want to be seen as just a gaping pussy or a pair of tits.

Each to their own however."

I'm not seen as just a pair of tits. I have three orifices also. On a more serious note, OP, I think there's some transference in part here to be fair. Some men will see you as just your pussy and tits, regardless of what you post and do. Others won't. There's little you can do in controlling that but bemoaning the liberty to post what's wanted won't change that.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"most men on here only want you for your tits and pussy though whatever pics you put up."

Nah, most men on here who want me want me for my mind. Which happens to be filthy when the wanting is reciprocal so it's win/win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although a pic or two of the goods is ok if your only pic is of a dick or a pussy then people may assume that is just all you are. I am a firm believer of leaving at least a little something to the imagination/to be discovered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take pics that I like. If they in turn mean that someone takes an interest that could lead to a meet then great, if not then I've still got pics that I feel represent me.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde


"most men on here only want you for your tits and pussy though whatever pics you put up.

Nah, most men on here who want me want me for my mind. Which happens to be filthy when the wanting is reciprocal so it's win/win."

And that comment is WAY more powerful than any pic.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"most men on here only want you for your tits and pussy though whatever pics you put up.

Nah, most men on here who want me want me for my mind. Which happens to be filthy when the wanting is reciprocal so it's win/win."

do they really.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

I had a photo of my fits on my single female profile when my now OH messaged me. Does that mean, two years later, that is what he sees me as?

I had that picture as I don't need any social interaction with people I meet, just sex. I find friends elsewhere .... not here. Seems weird considering I met my OH here, but if you truly meet someone you click with, I dont think it matters what the pictures you put up are

My post was not directed at ladies but people in general. And yep it is a sex site in general but for me it is also a social site and I don't want to be seen as just a gaping pussy or a pair of tits.

Each to their own however."

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"For me personally i dont need to see big opening vagina shots to get my attention, let alone a meet. But ultimately its other peoples profiles and choices.. if we dont like what we see move onto the next.

how about small opening vaginas then."

Cute.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I post what ever pics I like works for me

I post what ever pics I like makes no difference

Certainly makes a difference to me. I seldom get messaged by guys whose opening line is "wanna fuck" as so many ladies here keep complaining about getting on their profile text! I think the more graphic pics you have disaplyed the more you will get lines like that"

I was highlighting a difference on gender lines, not attempting to contradict you. I broadly agree with your general point when applied to profiles that include women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I don't have any naked pictures on and I still get graphic messages. It really doesn't make that much of a huge difference...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cast my net with my huge boobs and reel in the kinky little fuckers that want to play with them....

I also have a brain, so I wrote a profile.

I also see that you were critical in your opening post... then claimed you weren't being. So, you know, "look at me" comes in all kinds of ways.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

If youve got it flaunt it and even if you havnt got it you can still flaunt it.

i show what i think are my best bits and lots of people like my pics so thats ok too. Some of the pics arent to my liking but nothing compared to the violent gory pics i see on facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have topless pics up because I like my boobs. Simple really. Fab allows me to explore my exhibitionist side. I personally see nothing wrong with that. My profile, my choice, and believe me, most of my messages are very polite, so I disagree with your observations there. I will continue to post the pictures I like, without fear of judgement, and if someone doesn't like it, they just don't need to message me. I get more than enough messages, so they will not be missed

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By *ternal OptimistMan
over a year ago

London

I suppose everyone is attracted to different things, for me it's eyes, legs and bums, the more hardcore pics I personally am not a great fan of, however if it makes the person feel sexy then they should go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're gona get some messages of wrong kind no matter what pics ya have up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're gona get some messages of wrong kind no matter what pics ya have up."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter who says they don't like the graphic pics .. why are they always in the top 10 of most Fabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're gona get some messages of wrong kind no matter what pics ya have up.

Exactly! "

Just being on a swinging site is enough to garner the odd rude message. Some really need to stop worrying about how others conduct their profiles, and focus on their own haha .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only show my feet or my boobs, in a bra. I might go the whole hog this week and take some full nude and close up fanny and tits. Just to see what difference it makes. They will be without filters or photo shop.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"No matter who says they don't like the graphic pics .. why are they always in the top 10 of most Fabbed "

Because some people like to be a bit holier than thou about graphic pictures .... implying those who display then are lowering the tone or the site or get what they deserve. Dangerous assumption here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're gona get some messages of wrong kind no matter what pics ya have up.

Exactly!

Just being on a swinging site is enough to garner the odd rude message. Some really need to stop worrying about how others conduct their profiles, and focus on their own haha ."

You could be on Tinder, have a profile picture with you kissing a baby and still get the "I want to fuck you" message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't need any pics and they will still get messages on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't need any pics and they will still get messages on here "

Lol that is so true

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Their profile their choices,..

It's often suggested to those who ask for advice toe have a variety of pictures ..

If the graphic images put you off (they do little for me) move quickly on to the profile who s pictures do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is of course personal choice. The only thing I would say is that it is well known that men are visually turned on, so if trying to attract men, I guess visual stimulus is going to help. To be honest it also depends on the photo subject and how its photographed, there is explicit and erotic, generally erotic does it more for me than explicit, but each person has different turn on knobs so enough variety of pics on Fab for everybody to chose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile their choices,..

It's often suggested to those who ask for advice toe have a variety of pictures ..

If the graphic images put you off (they do little for me) move quickly on to the profile who s pictures do."

I agree with this. Graphic pictures may not be to your taste. You are entitled to your preferences, but like you said, you just move on to the profiles you do like. No fuss, no muss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh there's way too much pussy n cock on show on this site, it's a disgrace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter who says they don't like the graphic pics .. why are they always in the top 10 of most Fabbed

Because some people like to be a bit holier than thou about graphic pictures .... implying those who display then are lowering the tone or the site or get what they deserve. Dangerous assumption here "

I was thinking along those lines as well ...

Saying oh no, not my thing at all on the one hand, whilst furiously fabbing away with the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually only show my feet or my boobs, in a bra. I might go the whole hog this week and take some full nude and close up fanny and tits. Just to see what difference it makes. They will be without filters or photo shop. "

Haha.yeah might get my fanny out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're gona get some messages of wrong kind no matter what pics ya have up.

Exactly!

Just being on a swinging site is enough to garner the odd rude message. Some really need to stop worrying about how others conduct their profiles, and focus on their own haha .

You could be on Tinder, have a profile picture with you kissing a baby and still get the "I want to fuck you" message... "

So true.had loads of those messages when first joined here and had no pic at all up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you don't need graphic pictures to get meets.

But being smug and condescending isn't particularly appealing either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't need any pics and they will still get messages on here "

True fact. Even I get messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

My post was not directed at ladies but people in general. And yep it is a sex site in general but for me it is also a social site and I don't want to be seen as just a gaping pussy or a pair of tits.

Each to their own however."

So instead you want to be seen as judgemental..

I think you're deluded if you think you're being seen as anything but a pussy and a pair of Tits on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

My post was not directed at ladies but people in general. And yep it is a sex site in general but for me it is also a social site and I don't want to be seen as just a gaping pussy or a pair of tits.

Each to their own however.

So instead you want to be seen as judgemental..

I think you're deluded if you think you're being seen as anything but a pussy and a pair of Tits on here!

"

.... Just being on here, some men will see you as that, regardless of what pics you have up.

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By *vadownMan
over a year ago

Wickham


"I don't understand the need to pick at the way others choose to present themselves. Funny old world isn't it?"

Be an even stranger one if we're all the same. No personal preference everyone wearing the same clothes. I'll stick with individuality. Tweaks my testosterone.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I think the answer to this question is always that people should put up whatever pics they wish. It's their profile at the end of the day. It's all about that balance between personal expression and trying to attract others to you. You'll never please everybody. You'll never attract everybody. Though I've never understood why people are so judgemental or why they seem to get so upset over pictures of the human body, especially on a site like this of all places.

Slightly off topic, but one thing I will say if we're talking about photo's being used to attract and get meets. Just the way that Fab works and the relative numbers of each sex plays it's part too. For example, if I was to put up a pic of me sat on the loo, pouring a pot noodle over my chest while having a wank, I'd probably be blocked by half the women on here. If a woman put up the same pic, she'd have a hundred messages within an hour of posting the photo. Many potential meets literally falling into her pot noodle stained lap. That's just the way Fab is. Not necessarily anything to do with the content of the photo at all. Same thing if I decided to post a photo of just me sat fully clothed on the sofa or me laying on my stomach, one leg bent upwards with the heel of my shoe caught under the seat of my Y-fronts. Fine pics I'm sure but I can't see them attracting too many women. Men often have to push the boat out a bit more visually to try and attract because they are going up against so many other guys for so few women's attention. Plus this is a sex site, so nudity and eroticism are often seen as the way to go.

Personally, I see Fab as a great way to express myself in a visual way that isn't possible on most websites. I think a lot of us who show more revealing pics like the whole exhibitionist element to it. Fab helps facilitate that. Plus I don't think of nudity and the like as anything remotely obscene or weird. Whether it's a pic of an elbow or a boob, it's all the same difference to me. It's just the human body, the most beautiful thing there is. As somebody once said, "Obscenity, who really cares?"

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

There are photo's?!!!

And here's me wasting my time reading stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my second stint on Fab and both times I've had varied pics on my profile. The more "graphic" (and I don't think they are that bad!) ones I keep on my friends only selection and every now and then I'll make one public for the masses to view because I bloody love my pics and I get a thrill from it! It makes no difference to my messages, I still get men who are able to hold conversation and those who open with fancy a fuck. And with or without those "graphic" pics I've still got meets, it doesn't make any difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are photo's?!!!

And here's me wasting my time reading stuff!"

Oh your pic is very nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the need to pick at the way others choose to present themselves. Funny old world isn't it?

Be an even stranger one if we're all the same. No personal preference everyone wearing the same clothes. I'll stick with individuality. Tweaks my testosterone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the need to pick at the way others choose to present themselves. Funny old world isn't it?

Be an even stranger one if we're all the same. No personal preference everyone wearing the same clothes. I'll stick with individuality. Tweaks my testosterone."

Exactly.....That's why i don't understand why people can't just accept that others do things differently.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I like my pics, like others have said, where else can we post them, I like to try and go for the teasing angle, doesn't mean I get it right every time but I have fun trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" doesn't mean I get it right every time"

Certainly not far off it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've certainly got it! But only want to flaunt a bit of it ha ha!

I may flaunt more however as I do think my pics are bland and don't mind anyone saying so. I accept they are

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


" doesn't mean I get it right every time

Certainly not far off it. "

Smoooth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I find it very strange that you're complaining about graphic pictures on a sex site!

Why do you care what kind of messages other women are getting?

You do your thing and let everyone else do theirs!

My post was not directed at ladies but people in general. And yep it is a sex site in general but for me it is also a social site and I don't want to be seen as just a gaping pussy or a pair of tits.

Each to their own however.

So instead you want to be seen as judgemental..

I think you're deluded if you think you're being seen as anything but a pussy and a pair of Tits on here!

Really? I disagree with that. And I am no way judgemental of others by the way!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you don't OP.. personally I think you get meets of you're not a twat and behave in a sensible and adult fashion (of course adult can mean lots of things).

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

You do seem to worry about what other people are doing.

If you're doing what suits you and it's attracting the kind of people you want it to attract... good for you. I wouldn't even give it a second thought what other people are doing with their own profiles.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Our pictures represent our honesty.

This is what we look like, these are th things we get up to, we aren't going to turn up and give you a nasty surprise.

We choose to be graphic because we have met people who conceal their less attractive traits, like their face, and been disappointed.

It doesn't bother us if that isn't your cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a firm believer that people should display the photos they want to, and that way they'll generally attract the attention or the kind of messages that they want.

I don't want to display all fully clothed photos that would be just as suitable on Facebook - because I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm looking to meet men for sex, first and foremost. So I'll display the photos that will attract the attention of men who are looking for sex, and it works well for me. "

Nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do as we please not what others want after all this is about us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I post what ever pics I like works for me

I post what ever pics I like makes no difference

It certainly makes no difference whatsoever to me!

I have no pictures visible and get plenty of the fancy a fuck shite!

It's desperate!

Certainly makes a difference to me. I seldom get messaged by guys whose opening line is "wanna fuck" as so many ladies here keep complaining about getting on their profile text! I think the more graphic pics you have disaplyed the more you will get lines like that"

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Vive la difference!

I think that's Spanish... or a Coldplay album title. I get confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just like the pics and put what i like on my profile. not even trying too hard either, it's easy to take a good pic of my fanny, and my action shots are never taken by me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I must have the least sexual pictures on the site.

It works for me.

Others put what they want cause it works for them.

I also have underwear pictures in hidden rather than friends only so no fucker knows they are there and i dont get 101 friends invites just to see what i got in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our pictures represent our honesty.

This is what we look like, these are th things we get up to, we aren't going to turn up and give you a nasty surprise.

We choose to be graphic because we have met people who conceal their less attractive traits, like their face, and been disappointed.

It doesn't bother us if that isn't your cup of tea."

I really like your pics! I'm guessing your profile is a wedding one!? Cuties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear OP

There isnt much you seem to like about this site or its many and varied user's (green arrow)

if you are happy with YOUR profile and interaction why can you not be happy for others?

Perhaps the true purpose of a swinging site is to give libertines the liberty to do as they wish...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster for shit spelling 13/11/16 19:27:58]"

If you've got it, flaunt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why so many pics on profiles are only of cocks, tits (usually large ones), gaping pussy, blow jobs and sex. I have always believed that displaying graphic pics could backfire and ensure you get too many messages of the wrong kind! I get plenty meet requests a day and always have 100+ profile views a day but keep my pics low key and probably bordering on bland/boring by fab standards. The profiles that appeal to me are ones which display very little.

I think people try too hard on here "

i totally agree with you none of my pics are graphic and i get meets okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've certainly got it! But only want to flaunt a bit of it ha ha!

I may flaunt more however as I do think my pics are bland and don't mind anyone saying so. I accept they are"

if you like having bland pics there's nothing wrong with you having them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love your pics, I tend not to message anyone who has graphic pics, would rather see them naked for the first time when we had a play meet "

You wanna see me naked though lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love your pics, I tend not to message anyone who has graphic pics, would rather see them naked for the first time when we had a play meet

You wanna see me naked though lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why so many pics on profiles are only of cocks, tits (usually large ones), gaping pussy, blow jobs and sex. I have always believed that displaying graphic pics could backfire and ensure you get too many messages of the wrong kind! I get plenty meet requests a day and always have 100+ profile views a day but keep my pics low key and probably bordering on bland/boring by fab standards. The profiles that appeal to me are ones which display very little.

I think people try too hard on here "
I have a variety of pictures, I enjoy taking them, I like to see myself as a sexy woman. I take them more for myself than anyone else (possibly because I lost a lot of weight and it makes me feel good ) If thats considered "trying to hard" then so be it

I prefer to show a variety of poses and angles because I think it shows a more rounded view of what my figure is like x

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