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Single men...... and being time wasters

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By *aughty cpl for fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester

Ok firstly we're not tarring you all with the same brush. But god we've had lots lately. We normally aren't looking but once in a blue moon when I'm feeling in the mood we do look for the occasional meet.

But wow it really does bring out the time wasters and fakes. Yes we've been here years and thought we knew how to see through them all. It really does make being on here a battle and for the real genuine guys out there it's a shame.we did at least get one genuine guy/meet so we knew they exist. For every one genuine guy there has to be 20 fakes. Sorry we know there are threads on this and sorry for the rant. But It's driving us mad.

Xxx

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Pity I am outside yr age range. If I made an apt, I would keep it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well on your profile, you state (in block capitals) that you aren't looking for single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing tits though, regardless.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Well on your profile, you state (in block capitals) that you aren't looking for single men. "

did you not read the opening post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok firstly we're not tarring you all with the same brush. But god we've had lots lately. We normally aren't looking but once in a blue moon when I'm feeling in the mood we do look for the occasional meet.

But wow it really does bring out the time wasters and fakes. Yes we've been here years and thought we knew how to see through them all. It really does make being on here a battle and for the real genuine guys out there it's a shame.we did at least get one genuine guy/meet so we knew they exist. For every one genuine guy there has to be 20 fakes. Sorry we know there are threads on this and sorry for the rant. But It's driving us mad.

Xxx "

just report the profile to admin and block them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well on your profile, you state (in block capitals) that you aren't looking for single men.

did you not read the opening post "

Classic single guy, reads with his cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not looking hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im a genuine single bloke thats gets over looked for the timewasters so report them help the rest of us out

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Ok firstly we're not tarring you all with the same brush. But god we've had lots lately. We normally aren't looking but once in a blue moon when I'm feeling in the mood we do look for the occasional meet.

But wow it really does bring out the time wasters and fakes. Yes we've been here years and thought we knew how to see through them all. It really does make being on here a battle and for the real genuine guys out there it's a shame.we did at least get one genuine guy/meet so we knew they exist. For every one genuine guy there has to be 20 fakes. Sorry we know there are threads on this and sorry for the rant. But It's driving us mad.

Xxx "

Are these guys actually fake, or do they just bottle it at the last minute when their fantasies begins to transform to reality?

Not all single guys are comfortable meeting couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just come back from expecting to meet a single guy but radio silence when I arrived. We swapped live pics on Kik and he's verified but you can never tell!

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By *aughty cpl for fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester

Thanks guys....like we said they are genuine ones out there. Just the others spoil it. X

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By *aughty cpl for fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester

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By *aughty cpl for fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester


"Well on your profile, you state (in block capitals) that you aren't looking for single men. "

Like others have said did you not read the original post properly.?

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By *aughty cpl for fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester


"Ok firstly we're not tarring you all with the same brush. But god we've had lots lately. We normally aren't looking but once in a blue moon when I'm feeling in the mood we do look for the occasional meet.

But wow it really does bring out the time wasters and fakes. Yes we've been here years and thought we knew how to see through them all. It really does make being on here a battle and for the real genuine guys out there it's a shame.we did at least get one genuine guy/meet so we knew they exist. For every one genuine guy there has to be 20 fakes. Sorry we know there are threads on this and sorry for the rant. But It's driving us mad.

Xxx

Are these guys actually fake, or do they just bottle it at the last minute when their fantasies begins to transform to reality?

Not all single guys are comfortable meeting couples. "

Ok understand that. But why then say yes to meeting. It's not hard to see eye a couple. Go through with messages etc only then too completely flip. Good point though about fantasies and reality.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Men are the only real people on here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that what verifications are for? To show who the genuine single guys are

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

Can't understand why anyone would timewaste...how many people get to a situation where they are taking off their underwear and then decide oh lets put em back on...that's what time wasting equates to!! Nonesense!

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By *aughty cpl for fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester


"Isn't that what verifications are for? To show who the genuine single guys are "

They can be fake too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that what verifications are for? To show who the genuine single guys are

They can be fake too "

They most certainly can be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are the only real people on here!!!"

You do realise that makes you a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as many fake women, oh wait that's single men pretending to be women...you can't win.

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

We have arranged to meet some and have been subsequently blocked! What's that all about?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"We have arranged to meet some and have been subsequently blocked! What's that all about?"

Over-dramatic and under-communicated mind changing?

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER


"Ok firstly we're not tarring you all with the same brush. But god we've had lots lately. We normally aren't looking but once in a blue moon when I'm feeling in the mood we do look for the occasional meet.

But wow it really does bring out the time wasters and fakes. Yes we've been here years and thought we knew how to see through them all. It really does make being on here a battle and for the real genuine guys out there it's a shame.we did at least get one genuine guy/meet so we knew they exist. For every one genuine guy there has to be 20 fakes. Sorry we know there are threads on this and sorry for the rant. But It's driving us mad.

Xxx "

I'm having the same problem with couples. And from chatting to other couples locally to me they are too. Shame to tarnish single guys. When there are too many people enjoying the thrill of the chase rather than meeting.

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Ok firstly we're not tarring you all with the same brush. But god we've had lots lately. We normally aren't looking but once in a blue moon when I'm feeling in the mood we do look for the occasional meet.

But wow it really does bring out the time wasters and fakes. Yes we've been here years and thought we knew how to see through them all. It really does make being on here a battle and for the real genuine guys out there it's a shame.we did at least get one genuine guy/meet so we knew they exist. For every one genuine guy there has to be 20 fakes. Sorry we know there are threads on this and sorry for the rant. But It's driving us mad.

Xxx

I'm having the same problem with couples. And from chatting to other couples locally to me they are too. Shame to tarnish single guys. When there are too many people enjoying the thrill of the chase rather than meeting. "

Unfortunately this site is turning into a bit of a joke so i understand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well on your profile, you state (in block capitals) that you aren't looking for single men.

did you not read the opening post

Classic single guy, reads with his cock. "

It's not just reading. I can use my dictaphone too!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't really tat everyone with the same brush.Ideviduals that's what it boils down to.Some women-men and couples are keyboard wankers and are just here for the ego boost at other people's expence.

I have a 100% record.If I say I'm going to meet I will.If I'm not sexually attracted to the person I'm chatting to then I will let them know it's just a social or a freinds basis.

As far as looking for compliments or a ego boost then that's not for me as my flying fucks flew away years ago.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well I'm afraid even on pay sites there's lots of messers , it's just so easy to jump onto internet now but as u say there spoiling it for d rest of us genuine guys .

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

It seems you have to preference any opinion with "Government advisory notice: NOT ALL MEN but a significantly enough proportion to cause comment".

Anyway, from experience a fair number of single guys here aren't single. So I suspect a LOT of those bottle going through with cheating at the last minute. Either through guilt or fear of getting caught.

And I'm not commenting on women cos I don't have any experience of women. I don't meet women. So I don't give a flying poo about women and what they do. (Just to clarify so no one accuses me of being sexist.)

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I think it's just as bad as far as single women and couples are concerned, although I will concede the single men are the worst......

Regardless of gender, what I don't understand is why do folk treat each other so badly online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After some of the stories I hear of the desperation of many single males on here I'm shocked that there are also so many actually arranging meets only to not show...strange world we live in

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Isn't that what verifications are for? To show who the genuine single guys are

They can be fake too "

A pity I am outside your age limit lol. My verifications aren't fake and neither am I

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"A pity I am outside your age limit lol. My verifications aren't fake and neither am I "

You can realise that someone whose veris were fake would say the same, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just gotta out the crap to find the genuine guys.

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