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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have just started with a girl that detests receiving oral sex...am i crazy or what? surely all you ladies love receiving oral sex? i love giving but she won,t let me near, just love taste some sweet pussy it so horny!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Maybe you're not that sexually compatible OP - if it's an important part of sex for you then it might be worth discussing it. Some women love it, some hate it and others aren't fussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're not obliged to like it. i hated it for years...then changed..and that wasn't down to one person, i just changed,i guess our bodies change. i have a male friend who hates blow jobs! doesnt mean there's anything wrong with him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocking realisation that everyone is different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must for me if the women want to be satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generic forum answer:

Some do, some don't.

Others like it, others don't

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

What ever ur partner is happy doing but don't annoy them to do things they don't like . Simple then u get to enjoy urselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have a partner that physically couldn't stand her clit being touched, 2 licks and I risked a punch in the face, literally that bad, not sensitive or painful, just physically hated being touched orally, cue the new gf, 30 seconds of oral and were mopping up the living room.

All depends on the woman and her pleasures if she hates it then that's it unfortunately.

Plenty of fun to be had without giving oral though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm interested to understand why you think that every woman on the planet would like the same thing.

If it's a deal breaker for you and you can't come to a mutual compromise it might be time to part ways. It's a shame but sexual incompatibility causes huge relationship problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex of mine hated it. I saw no future with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone likes it, each to there own.

For me no oral = no meet

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

To be honest it isn't really about you liking oral sex - it's about the person receiving and whether they like it or not. Where is the pleasure in "giving" someone something they clearly don't want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a must for me if the women want to be satisfied "

but if she doesnt like oral then it wouldnt satisfy her!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's the same old story really. If two people don't like the same or similar things it means they aren't compatible. It's not a reflection on either of them personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a must for me if the women want to be satisfied

but if she doesnt like oral then it wouldnt satisfy her!"
I'd do what she likes meaning fuckimg how she wants it I'd ask her what she would like to be done and I'd try perform the best I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lady says no, then don't be a dick and whine to her about it, respect her wishes. If at some point you can talk about it then maybe ask her why not, but don't force your agenda on her.

I feel for you as I love giving oral, but it's the other person's choice as to whether they want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you try it once and were terrible at it? If I had a partner who was terrible at giving head id want to avoid that aspect of sex too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it now only since being with my current partner and couldn't be without it now

Kinky

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"surely all you ladies love receiving oral sex? i love giving but she won,t let me near, just love taste some sweet pussy it so horny!

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O yes I think they must all like the same thing

And of course it's all about what we want rather than a mutual thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a similar experience, a lovely lady who hated recieving it but loved to give. always felt a little bad when she did but made sure I recupricated the pleasure in other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind it but its something i can go without. Much prefer a good fucking session as i enjoy the sensation more. I like to feel his body over mine, the sensation of his cock deep inside me .. is far more intense than oral.. but I am not alone. It takes a special guy to make me cum through oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just started with a girl that detests receiving oral sex...am i crazy or what? surely all you ladies love receiving oral sex? i love giving but she won,t let me near, just love taste some sweet pussy it so horny!

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some girls will some girls wont some girls need a lot of licking and a some girls dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met women that love it, those that hate it. Not eery one is the same OP.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use your fingers more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just started with a girl that detests receiving oral sex...am i crazy or what? surely all you ladies love receiving oral sex? i love giving but she won,t let me near, just love taste some sweet pussy it so horny!

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I Hated it for years... and still not overly keen from meets as I have to feel comfortable.. Love my partner doing it though but for years I would avoid it and say I hated it because I felt uncomfortable.... and selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just started with a girl that detests receiving oral sex...am i crazy or what? surely all you ladies love receiving oral sex? i love giving but she won,t let me near, just love taste some sweet pussy it so horny!

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If this is something that is really important for you then you are doomed to fail dude!

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