FabSwingers.com forum: Phone number

By *ornyone30 OP Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, do you live in the matrix?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i dont give mine out

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I wont meet without a phone number swap out when ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unusual at all. We wouldn't give our number out either. Messaging on here works just fine .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what suits you. To some it will be unreasonable though so it'll help to filter out those with different ways of doing things.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No, but I wouldn't meet someone without speaking to them at least over the phone. Gives a little more reassurance that they aren't filling you full of shit, and I would imagine you'd want the same reassurances.

If someone who was genuinely interested in meeting was reluctant to do this, I'd wonder what they were hiding.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I don't give out my number either but will use kik.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik. "

So the number I got off the toilet wall wasn't yours? Who have I been speaking to all this time????

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

quite a few people i know keep a cheap fab phone. either an old phone since upgraded or a cheap phone and a payg sim.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik.

So the number I got off the toilet wall wasn't yours? Who have I been speaking to all this time????

Sorry to disappoint was it a good conversation? Was I good I mean was she good lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd give my number out if a meet had been arranged (and would expect the same in return) so I can be contacted or contact in the event of any last minute emergencies/changes of plan etc., but prefer all other contact to be through the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

"quite a few people i know keep a cheap fab phone. either an old phone since upgraded or a cheap phone and a payg sim."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. We don't give our numbers out as a rule

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare I give my number out I do all my talking on here,never had a problem

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

It's way easier to block on kik than have to change my number, what I've had for years and now know it off my heart.

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?"

I have a trash phone for on here is only on when I want contact

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By *ornyone30 OP Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

Thanks for the replies. Some good advice and good to know I'm not the only one. My phone number is connected to my business so don't need any hassles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies. Some good advice and good to know I'm not the only one. My phone number is connected to my business so don't need any hassles."

Even more reason not to give it out x

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I would if I'd been speaking to someone and was intending on meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just Facebook Kik or Snapchat..if it goes Pete ting then delete...fookin simple

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Thanks for the replies. Some good advice and good to know I'm not the only one. My phone number is connected to my business so don't need any hassles.

Even more reason not to give it out x "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik.

So the number I got off the toilet wall wasn't yours? Who have I been speaking to all this time????

Sorry to disappoint was it a good conversation? Was I good I mean was she good lol "

Well....I thought it was a man, but being told they had a sore throat and cold reassured me

I'm in such a dick head mood lol. Shame I'm off to work now.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?"

No of course just do what your comfortable with or download Kik.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik.

So the number I got off the toilet wall wasn't yours? Who have I been speaking to all this time????

I fought so hard not to say your mum lol but I choose to be an adult about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to text or Whatsapp to message. Kik is just as good without the need to disclose a number

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I never give my number out or use phone numbers given to me. I just use Fab for messaging.

But if you have Kik you don't need to give a phone number only a user name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate giving my number out as dont want to be contactable off here. X

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik.

So the number I got off the toilet wall wasn't yours? Who have I been speaking to all this time????

I fought so hard not to say your mum lol but I choose to be an adult about it lol "

If you did I may well have had an unexpected tena lady moment

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

We have a cheap play phone so then not a problem.And we like to have a fem to fem phone chat before we have a social meet as it is the only way to out the men pretending to be a couple.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik.

So the number I got off the toilet wall wasn't yours? Who have I been speaking to all this time????

I fought so hard not to say your mum lol but I choose to be an adult about it lol

If you did I may well have had an unexpected tena lady moment

Dam next time

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Go to Tescos

( a larger branch )

Find their phones shop.

Buy a cheap pay as you go phone.

Keep it as your "naughty phone"

Simple!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"We have a cheap play phone so then not a problem.And we like to have a fem to fem phone chat before we have a social meet as it is the only way to out the men pretending to be a couple. "

We do this too. Only speak on phone, if there is a likelihood we will meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but I wouldn't meet someone without speaking to them at least over the phone. Gives a little more reassurance that they aren't filling you full of shit, and I would imagine you'd want the same reassurances.

If someone who was genuinely interested in meeting was reluctant to do this, I'd wonder what they were hiding. "

You never bloody answer

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over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?"

I've only given my phone number out to 2 people and that's enough. My main point of contact is on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think out of all the people I know on here only 4 have my number and I've know them for ages and class them as good friends outside of the scene. Anyone else. ...not a chance in hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here a few months and I've only gave my number out to 3 people. Only speak to one regularly though. Wouldn't give it out to any tom, dick or Harry

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Once there's a meet getting sorted, absolutely. There's likely to be horizontal shenanigans, so a bit of trust is not unreasonable.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?"

No. Only do what you're comfortable with. If someone thinks it's unreasonable, your not compatible.

We don't always give our number out. If we do, it's only when a meet has been confirmed, the day or so before. Its only to be used if they're running late or cancelling etc.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?"
its fine its rare i give out my number to anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people we meet from Fab we regard as friends, so of course we give out our phone number. Most of our regular acquaintances we also know their full names. Why would we want to fuck someone when we don't know who they are - that's not safe surely?!

Mrs

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"It's very rare I give my number out I do all my talking on here,never had a problem"

Me either. I use here or KIK. There's no way I want my Facebook profile popping up on someone's page.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?"

Not at all, nor will I x

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I'd give my number out if a meet had been arranged (and would expect the same in return) so I can be contacted or contact in the event of any last minute emergencies/changes of plan etc., but prefer all other contact to be through the site."

You can do that on kik?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?"

INO yes but others view it like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't feel comfortable giving my phone number out to people I haven't met and would rather keep contact on here at least until I had met someone. Is that an unrealistic request?

INO yes but others view it like you."

IMO

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"There's no way I want my Facebook profile popping up on someone's page."

Neither do I. Hence I haven't given my phone number to Facebook...

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"quite a few people i know keep a cheap fab phone. either an old phone since upgraded or a cheap phone and a payg sim."

This is the way to do it OP, can cost as little as a fiver, and you never have to give your real number out.

Our play-phone is ancient though, so sending text messages "old-school" is unbelievably painful

Mr ddc

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You can do that on kik?"

I believe you can..just personally prefer to use my phone...although if it were a deal breaker there's always contact through here to fall back on now that most people have smart phones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik. "
throught we where all adults , we won't meet. Any 1 until have spoke on phone at least it stops the fakes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no way I want my Facebook profile popping up on someone's page.

Neither do I. Hence I haven't given my phone number to Facebook..."

Very wise move. Soon as you add that in there your instantly traced pretty much.

Used to use phone to call customers at one work place and I had number on facebook. Something went tits up and instead of calling customer services this lady started pestering me and even messaging me on Facebook.

People don't seem to realise it but your info is so easily attainable it's unreal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik is save and secure and only uses a a name that you choose, ( unless it's already taken) they can't get a phone number or email of kik

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I don't give out my number either but will use kik. throught we where all adults , we won't meet. Any 1 until have spoke on phone at least it stops the fakes x"

Yes we are all adults doesnt mean I have to give out my number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"quite a few people i know keep a cheap fab phone. either an old phone since upgraded or a cheap phone and a payg sim."

We do this. It also has our Fab Kik and whatsapp on it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have given out our number and it has backfired on us. Keep getting calls from strange guys now. Been going on for a couple of months.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes I will, sometimes I won't. I often take things over to Whatsapp, so it's hard not to. Block works just as well on my phone as it does on here though, so I'm not too fussed.

Sitting at the back of a basement bar with signal but zero 3G, trying to find enough juice to send a mail on here to let said meet know I was sat at the back in case they had sat at the front - bit if a nightmare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I did that last night

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