FabSwingers.com forum: Friend Requests without message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone is is normal for people to add you on here without even so much as a conversation beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens frequently but easily ignored.

Unless you want to be mischievous. Wait till they're offline, accept it fab a couple of private pics then remove them from you friends list straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone is is normal for people to add you on here without even so much as a conversation beforehand?"

Happens all the time, despite my saying in my profile that i won't accept them. I leave them sitting there, as they can't re-request whilst it's there. If they send me a message after a while asking why I haven't accepted it, they move off the friend request pending straight to the blocked list. Bit like Monopoly but without the 'get out of jail free' card.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I assume they want to see our friends only pictures. A good percentage will have no or few pictures of their own, we never accept their request.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

It is normal to receive a friend request from someone you have never spoken to.

And it is normal to ignore the friend request and leave it sitting there so the twat can't send another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore them and now tend to add those I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a friend request, so I wouldn't know!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry we just delete them, we like to chat before excepting,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messaged someone once to say I don't accept friend requests from people I haven't spoken to. I was told I'm too fat anyway. I delete them en masse, once they build up, now. I had almost 100 at 1 time.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Hey everyone is is normal for people to add you on here without even so much as a conversation beforehand?"

Very normal. Though not in line with social etiquette on here.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I didn't know if you left it pending they couldn't send another, that's very useful, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....just rude.we ignore unless they start a chat then we mite think about accepting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, it's a thing that happens.

Along with "straight" fellas messaging other straight men for meets.

People messaging "hi" and that's it!......But that's all stuff for a Thursday rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't stop them, just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always delete them.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

How can you possibly befriend someone you have never even chatted with or spoken to. You wouldn't just go up to a random in a pub and say "Hi, you wanna be my friend" now would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's a common practice but not welcome, for some people.

I only add people I genuinely have interest meeting or I like their personality

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.BlowCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"It happens frequently but easily ignored.

Unless you want to be mischievous. Wait till they're offline, accept it fab a couple of private pics then remove them from you friends list straight away.

That's is a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah happens all the time. Delete, unless their hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens frequently but easily ignored.

Unless you want to be mischievous. Wait till they're offline, accept it fab a couple of private pics then remove them from you friends list straight away.

That's is a great idea

I did that yesterday as the one pic made me want to see more. 2 secs later I deleted him once I saw his face !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah happens all the time. Delete, unless their hot

How would you know they're hot without seeing friends only pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you possibly befriend someone you have never even chatted with or spoken to. You wouldn't just go up to a random in a pub and say "Hi, you wanna be my friend" now would you? "

Yip. ..sum people lack basic social skills

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It always bemuses me that complete randoms want to be my 'friend'. They wouldn't be so eager if they could see my face in private pics anyway

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.BlowCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We have had 1 couple send friend request with no prior contact, when I send a message saying we like your profile but would like to exchange at least a few messages before we accept, the message is binned with no reply.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It happens all the time, they just want to see your friends only pics. I used to delete them but they just send another; now I leave them there and they can't. I only accept friend requests from people I have actually met or have been chatting to for a while and have built up a rapport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, happens often. Women like to perv as much as men.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I didn't know if you left it pending they couldn't send another, that's very useful, thank you!"

I didn't know that either lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Very common

Was that aimed at me

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Not sure why everyone gets their knickers in such a twist over people sending a friend request without speaking first?

People do it to us all the time.

Yes, some of the time they are ignored (particularly if the person doesn't have any private pics - I mean, why would we accept that?!) but there's no harm done, really.

I wouldn't say it's rude.

If someone sends a request, we like the look of them and then send a message, THEN they don't reply... that's rude.

We've sent a few in our time to be honest (apologies if it's upset anyone!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's completely fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often wink at people we like the look of and if they wink back we might send them a friend request then hope our paths will cross at a club or a party. We don't tend to chat though, as we don't enjoy on-line chatting.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just delete xMarie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often get them turn up lol just take a peek but leave unaccepted in friends invite list they can't send another one lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We just delete and block. Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what I do. Wait till they go offline.. accept... have a look at their friends pics and then unfriend....

What? I'm not the only one that does that am I?

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"It happens frequently but easily ignored.

Unless you want to be mischievous. Wait till they're offline, accept it fab a couple of private pics then remove them from you friends list straight away.

We tend to do that and also fab one of their private pic just to let them know we have looked and deleted

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

"We often wink at people we like the look of and if they wink back we might send them a friend request then hope our paths will cross at a club or a party. We don't tend to chat though, as we don't enjoy on-line chatting.

Mrs"

You don't?? That surprise us, as most wanted to chat and get scared off when you ask to meet

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Hey everyone is is normal for people to add you on here without even so much as a conversation beforehand?"

Yes,

It even happens to me, makes me feel part of the fab community lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a fastrack to getting blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never accept random friend requests. In my opinion they just want access to private pic for their wank bank. Jog on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it. "

Liar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!"

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex"

Are you not helisexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex

Are you not helisexual?"

Let me get my dictionary first and I'll let you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit if a nuisance explaining that we don't accept random friend requests every time we get them

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex

Are you not helisexual?"

hahahah Yes I actually am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex

Are you not helisexual?

hahahah Yes I actually am

Well the filter should allow those to go through, might be broken.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Hey everyone is is normal for people to add you on here without even so much as a conversation beforehand?

Very normal. Though not in line with social etiquette on here. "

It's not in line with social etiquette in general unless you randomly walk up to people you don't know in the street and say we're friends without even so much as an hello or getting to know them a little first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex

Are you not helisexual?

hahahah Yes I actually am

Well the filter should allow those to go through, might be broken."

Gutted! I so wanted to be your friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex

Are you not helisexual?

hahahah Yes I actually am

Well the filter should allow those to go through, might be broken.

Gutted! I so wanted to be your friend! "

Better luck next time luv!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

Liar!

I can't with you, you don't accept my sex

Are you not helisexual?

hahahah Yes I actually am

Well the filter should allow those to go through, might be broken.

Gutted! I so wanted to be your friend!

Better luck next time luv!"

I'll try next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and delete. Rude. Just want to perv private pics. Go away please. Delete and gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept if they look hot.

Ignore if they don't.

Accept while they're offline if I think they look weird, view pics then delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it. "

So far nobody accepted it ... wonder why

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We just ignore, keeping in line with our profile and move on. We only use it for arranged meets anyway, adds to the desire to meet us, a bargaining tool. Hey, you gotta sell yourself on here.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

So far nobody accepted it ... wonder why

I'll only accept if you put up some pictures which were as good as your old ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How inconsiderate ! I would never do such a thing like that !

PS: I sent everybody on this thread a friendrequest, feel free to accept it.

So far nobody accepted it ... wonder why

I'll only accept if you put up some pictures which were as good as your old ones!

Let me post them to you directly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and they get AN INSTANT BLOCK FOR BEING IGNORANT .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and they get AN INSTANT BLOCK FOR BEING IGNORANT ."

TEST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens frequently but easily ignored.

Unless you want to be mischievous. Wait till they're offline, accept it fab a couple of private pics then remove them from you friends list straight away.

Exactly what I do!!!

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

I just totally blank them and delete there request.

I'm not nasty in any way but if they can't even be bothered to introduce themselfes or even say hello then it's a bit of a insult and screams pic hunting timewasters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just totally blank them and delete there request.

I'm not nasty in any way but if they can't even be bothered to introduce themselfes or even say hello then it's a bit of a insult and screams pic hunting timewasters x"

That's why you deleted mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete....but surprising how many resend a friend invite...again without any communication... maybe I made a mistake the first 10 times I deleted it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete....but surprising how many resend a friend invite...again without any communication... maybe I made a mistake the first 10 times I deleted it?!

Just leve it don't delete and then they cannot send another one !

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah, I periodically look through mine and accept those I'm actually chatting to, deleting the rest.

I assume they want to see my friends only pics, but if you want to see my boobs you have to put some effort in. Or at least ask nicely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally ignore any friend requests if we haven't spoken. You know they only want to see photos. Think the fact they live hundreds if not thousands of miles away gives it away lol.

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