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"I don't agree with the first one,not every woman is horrified at the sight of a cock "Clare prefers men in suits! | |||
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"You forgot one more. DONT make threads telling other guys how to go about their fab life. It makes you just like the rest of the bad ones. " I'm not telling them how to do anything. I'm challenging guys who aren't having any success to try something different. If they don't want to accept the challenge good luck to them. | |||
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"The men that might benefit from that advice won't read your thread "Oh well I tried!!! | |||
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"I don't agree with the first one,not every woman is horrified at the sight of a cock
Clare prefers men in suits! "That works as well,so long as it's a well fitted suit on a toned body!  | |||
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"The men that might benefit from that advice won't read your thread
Oh well I tried!!!"Don't worry about it you gave some good advice! | |||
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Oh well I tried!!!"Damned if you do,damned if you dont lol ..do you want to share my haribos  | |||
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"I don't agree with the first one,not every woman is horrified at the sight of a cock "True. But I advocate solicited over unsolicited. Note I didn't say delete all your cock pics. Just wait until the time is right. In the same way that most guys wouldn't walk into a sex club with his penis hanging out and walking up to every woman saying "fancy a fuck?" There's a time for everything. Sure some girls will like it. And if you send out thousands of messages you'll eventually find that girl. The problem is that 1000 other guys also sent their cock pics so it better be a pretty amazing cock! | |||
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"I'd imagine an awesome 6 pack helps too" If you're in the UK you're lucky. I've never been anywhere where I've met more women looking for a "rugby player build" | |||
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"I don't agree with all the points but is good advice. However just a shame a couple posted similar advice last week and quite a few forumites gave them a hard time. " I saw that thread and very much expected the same. But hey if helps just one person it's worth taking the heat. | |||
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"I don't agree with all the points but is good advice. However just a shame a couple posted similar advice last week and quite a few forumites gave them a hard time. I saw that thread and very much expected the same. But hey if helps just one person it's worth taking the heat." Very true, fair play to you | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " I'd just add a couple of points to your already good ones: DON'T be offended if she doesn't reply/says she isn't interested - unless your initial message is abusive then her refusal isn't personal - she's just looking for something different at that particular time (or sometimes not looking for anyone at all!) If your message is unread/deleted unread then it may well just be that she's simply got so many messages that she hasn't time to open it - if you're sure you fit her specs then perhaps wait a month or two and message again! Nothing to lose - the worst she can do is block you! If a woman is on hot photos - particularly page one - then you can guarantee her inbox will be jammed! If you're genuinely interested and feel you meet her specs, wait until a few days after she's off hot photos before you message - she's more likely to see it and read it! If she's always on hot photos then message away but she may never get chance to read it so for your own sake keep it brief! Always include a clear, recent face and torso pic in your first message. Cuts out lots of message swapping if she's not interested! That's it! Good thread op - and good luck chaps! | |||
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"Damn I have my cock on profile "I'm not saying it's a sin. What I'm saying is.... if what you're doing isn't working for you try this. If it still doesn't work by all means go back to what you were doing. It's a challenge... not the ten commandments | |||
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"I don't agree with the first one,not every woman is horrified at the sight of a cock "No, and I would amend it to say DO have a decent (non close-up) cock pic or two on your profile in public or friends pics - DO NOT make her ask to see it! | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " Wow I love this hope the guys take note as you clearly know what your doing.  | |||
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"The men that might benefit from that advice won't read your thread
Oh well I tried!!!"Sure did I sometimes give profile advice to men asking for it but rarely they take any notice not just of me but anyone's advice on the thread. Then they are back 2 weeks later, asking again..... | |||
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"The men that might benefit from that advice won't read your thread
Oh well I tried!!!
Sure did I sometimes give profile advice to men asking for it but rarely they take any notice not just of me but anyone's advice on the thread. Then they are back 2 weeks later, asking again....."I remember you giving me advice cheers dude | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " Don't live by the rules, you and your potential partner build your own, because sure as eggs grow trees, no two people are the same.
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"I don't agree with the first one,not every woman is horrified at the sight of a cock
No, and I would amend it to say DO have a decent (non close-up) cock pic or two on your profile in public or friends pics - DO NOT make her ask to see it!" | |||
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"This can be summed up to what OP thinks is the right way from reading some women's profile. I personally don't see any problem with putting pictures of a play meet and it's usually the single girls who have problems with such photos. Why? I never will know. Bringing up sex. Many ladies aren't that upfront although that's what they're mainly here for so she'll expect you to take the lead unless you're submissive which most females on here aren't looking for. You don't have to see everything from her point of view unless you're desperate to meet her. Different and good views on different topics makes for a great conversation as well. Other ones I can ignore " Again it's not the ten commandments. Like someone once said you can't please all the people all the time. There is a distinct difference between seeing something from another persons point of view and agreeing with everything someone says. But thanks for your views. Much appreciated! | |||
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"The men that might benefit from that advice won't read your thread
Oh well I tried!!!
Sure did I sometimes give profile advice to men asking for it but rarely they take any notice not just of me but anyone's advice on the thread. Then they are back 2 weeks later, asking again.....
I remember you giving me advice cheers dude "And you got meets.....I hope I helped | |||
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"This can be summed up to what OP thinks is the right way from reading some women's profile. I personally don't see any problem with putting pictures of a play meet and it's usually the single girls who have problems with such photos. Why? I never will know. Bringing up sex. Many ladies aren't that upfront although that's what they're mainly here for so she'll expect you to take the lead unless you're submissive which most females on here aren't looking for. You don't have to see everything from her point of view unless you're desperate to meet her. Different and good views on different topics makes for a great conversation as well. Other ones I can ignore Again it's not the ten commandments. Like someone once said you can't please all the people all the time. There is a distinct difference between seeing something from another persons point of view and agreeing with everything someone says. But thanks for your views. Much appreciated!" After reading this thread OP, I know why you are popular, it not your does and don'ts | |||
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"It's good advice and I think most single guys do all of that but sometimes...she just ain't feeling you. Simples!
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"The men that might benefit from that advice won't read your thread
Oh well I tried!!!
Sure did I sometimes give profile advice to men asking for it but rarely they take any notice not just of me but anyone's advice on the thread. Then they are back 2 weeks later, asking again.....
I remember you giving me advice cheers dude
And you got meets.....I hope I helped "You did indeed thank you and the others | |||
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"It's good advice and I think most single guys do all of that but sometimes...she just ain't feeling you. Simples!
Just enjoy yourself as best as you can and the interest will come. "Too right! Sometimes you can do everything right and you just aren't what she's looking for... That's life. Now that you mention it. DO - Move on. Wish her luck. Take it like a man. There would be a lot more ladies on fab if we all took that route. DON'T - Let it rattle your ego and make you behave like a spoiled child. Those words you write hurt! All of us get rejected at some stage. See each rejection as a learning experience. | |||
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"Now I could follow all of the good advice here....but you know what? I'll still be an arsehole.... "Hey don't knock arseholes. Try not having one! I doubt you are. But there's a quote from a movie that goes something like... "Women are amazing. Find the the biggest arsehole out there and somewhere there's a woman who's crazy about him" It's true. Every kettle has its lid. | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! I'd just add a couple of points to your already good ones: DON'T be offended if she doesn't reply/says she isn't interested - unless your initial message is abusive then her refusal isn't personal - she's just looking for something different at that particular time (or sometimes not looking for anyone at all!) If your message is unread/deleted unread then it may well just be that she's simply got so many messages that she hasn't time to open it - if you're sure you fit her specs then perhaps wait a month or two and message again! Nothing to lose - the worst she can do is block you! If a woman is on hot photos - particularly page one - then you can guarantee her inbox will be jammed! If you're genuinely interested and feel you meet her specs, wait until a few days after she's off hot photos before you message - she's more likely to see it and read it! If she's always on hot photos then message away but she may never get chance to read it so for your own sake keep it brief! Always include a clear, recent face and torso pic in your first message. Cuts out lots of message swapping if she's not interested! That's it! Good thread op - and good luck chaps! " I normally put the women I really want to meet on my hotlist then I can see when there on-line and send a message at the right time? Most of it is still luck? Log on fab and send a message to just the right time | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! I'd just add a couple of points to your already good ones: DON'T be offended if she doesn't reply/says she isn't interested - unless your initial message is abusive then her refusal isn't personal - she's just looking for something different at that particular time (or sometimes not looking for anyone at all!) If your message is unread/deleted unread then it may well just be that she's simply got so many messages that she hasn't time to open it - if you're sure you fit her specs then perhaps wait a month or two and message again! Nothing to lose - the worst she can do is block you! If a woman is on hot photos - particularly page one - then you can guarantee her inbox will be jammed! If you're genuinely interested and feel you meet her specs, wait until a few days after she's off hot photos before you message - she's more likely to see it and read it! If she's always on hot photos then message away but she may never get chance to read it so for your own sake keep it brief! Always include a clear, recent face and torso pic in your first message. Cuts out lots of message swapping if she's not interested! That's it! Good thread op - and good luck chaps! I normally put the women I really want to meet on my hotlist then I can see when there on-line and send a message at the right time? Most of it is still luck? Log on fab and send a message to just the right time " You're right lovely - there's a lot of luck involved. I take my hat off to you single chaps! It's a darned site easier on fab if you have a vagina! Xx | |||
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Clare prefers men in suits!
That works as well,so long as it's a well fitted suit on a toned body! "Im trying | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " I love this guy!!! On point pal! | |||
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"Dick pics on profile are fine, constantly sending dick pics is not." Exactly! Let me find it if I want to, don't shove it in my face! ! | |||
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"It's good advice and I think most single guys do all of that but sometimes...she just ain't feeling you. Simples!
Just enjoy yourself as best as you can and the interest will come.
Too right! Sometimes you can do everything right and you just aren't what she's looking for... That's life. Now that you mention it.
DO - Move on. Wish her luck. Take it like a man. There would be a lot more ladies on fab if we all took that route.
DON'T - Let it rattle your ego and make you behave like a spoiled child. Those words you write hurt!
All of us get rejected at some stage. See each rejection as a learning experience.
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! I'd just add a couple of points to your already good ones: DON'T be offended if she doesn't reply/says she isn't interested - unless your initial message is abusive then her refusal isn't personal - she's just looking for something different at that particular time (or sometimes not looking for anyone at all!) If your message is unread/deleted unread then it may well just be that she's simply got so many messages that she hasn't time to open it - if you're sure you fit her specs then perhaps wait a month or two and message again! Nothing to lose - the worst she can do is block you! If a woman is on hot photos - particularly page one - then you can guarantee her inbox will be jammed! If you're genuinely interested and feel you meet her specs, wait until a few days after she's off hot photos before you message - she's more likely to see it and read it! If she's always on hot photos then message away but she may never get chance to read it so for your own sake keep it brief! Always include a clear, recent face and torso pic in your first message. Cuts out lots of message swapping if she's not interested! That's it! Good thread op - and good luck chaps! I normally put the women I really want to meet on my hotlist then I can see when there on-line and send a message at the right time? Most of it is still luck? Log on fab and send a message to just the right time You're right lovely - there's a lot of luck involved. I take my hat off to you single chaps! It's a darned site easier on fab if you have a vagina! Xx" I have a cock and do ok kinda  | |||
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"Great advice..,,,, hopefully some of the guys will actually read it and take note x" It would make a change! | |||
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"Great advice..,,,, hopefully some of the guys will actually read it and take note x It would make a change! " Guys reading come on we all just look at pics and wank furiously
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"You forgot one more. DONT make threads telling other guys how to go about their fab life. It makes you just like the rest of the bad ones. " | |||
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"I don't agree with all the points but is good advice. However just a shame a couple posted similar advice last week and quite a few forumites gave them a hard time. " It wasn't written in the same vein, if I remember correctly. It was more along the lines of what they wanted a man to do, so they would meet him, and came across as demanding. | |||
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"If your cock is on the small side would that put most women off? I often feel that this is the reason I am not getting any meets. " Have you considered putting it away and using something else to attract women to you? | |||
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"If your cock is on the small side would that put most women off? I often feel that this is the reason I am not getting any meets. " Guess it depends on the women you are after the advice/suggestions op has given is centred more on women who don't really care about your cock who don't really want to see it until the time comes like myself I will never ask for a cock pic so your size won't bother me. Other women who do need/want to see it then yes it may concern them. So like he says take your time and choose carefully who you write to. | |||
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"I don't really want all men on here to follow this kind of "advice" tbh, then I'd be faced with identikit, unrealistic profiles which don't actually reflect what that man thought was the best way to attract women. It's like when there are threads about "what photos should I put on my profile" - fucking work it out for yourself. The words and photos people choose tell you about them, what they are like and whether you're suited or otherwise. If someone has just followed a checklist, I'm not going to get that. " Good no I don't want all men following it either I don't want a knobhead sneaking though. | |||
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"I don't really want all men on here to follow this kind of "advice" tbh, then I'd be faced with identikit, unrealistic profiles which don't actually reflect what that man thought was the best way to attract women. It's like when there are threads about "what photos should I put on my profile" - fucking work it out for yourself. The words and photos people choose tell you about them, what they are like and whether you're suited or otherwise. If someone has just followed a checklist, I'm not going to get that. " There is not advice. It's a challenge. I am challenging the men on fab to change their attitudes towards women. It's aimed at the really nice guys out there who come across as complete and utter dicks because they don't know any better. I am strongly apposed to using a "technique" or a "line". It's insulting. So yes be yourself. But if a man thinks the best part about himself is his penis then that's really sad. | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " well i agree with all of this well sai lets hope that the guys take note | |||
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"I don't really want all men on here to follow this kind of "advice" tbh, then I'd be faced with identikit, unrealistic profiles which don't actually reflect what that man thought was the best way to attract women. It's like when there are threads about "what photos should I put on my profile" - fucking work it out for yourself. The words and photos people choose tell you about them, what they are like and whether you're suited or otherwise. If someone has just followed a checklist, I'm not going to get that. There is not advice. It's a challenge. I am challenging the men on fab to change their attitudes towards women. It's aimed at the really nice guys out there who come across as complete and utter dicks because they don't know any better. I am strongly apposed to using a "technique" or a "line". It's insulting. So yes be yourself. But if a man thinks the best part about himself is his penis then that's really sad. " There are no 'really nice guys' who come across as complete and utter dicks. If a man comes across as a complete and utter dick, that's because they're a complete and utter dick. Or possibly just stupid, but that's not attractive either. If a man thinks the best part about himself is his penis then I want to know that, so I can avoid him. I want the men on fab to demonstrate their own attitude to women. Not someone else's attitude to women. Because then I can decide for myself whether they're someone I want to meet. It's also a bit patronising to assume you know what every woman wants from a man she meets on here. I wouldn't presume to say what someone else wants, because we might be completely different. | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " | |||
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"I don't really want all men on here to follow this kind of "advice" tbh, then I'd be faced with identikit, unrealistic profiles which don't actually reflect what that man thought was the best way to attract women. It's like when there are threads about "what photos should I put on my profile" - fucking work it out for yourself. The words and photos people choose tell you about them, what they are like and whether you're suited or otherwise. If someone has just followed a checklist, I'm not going to get that. There is not advice. It's a challenge. I am challenging the men on fab to change their attitudes towards women. It's aimed at the really nice guys out there who come across as complete and utter dicks because they don't know any better. I am strongly apposed to using a "technique" or a "line". It's insulting. So yes be yourself. But if a man thinks the best part about himself is his penis then that's really sad. There are no 'really nice guys' who come across as complete and utter dicks. If a man comes across as a complete and utter dick, that's because they're a complete and utter dick. Or possibly just stupid, but that's not attractive either. If a man thinks the best part about himself is his penis then I want to know that, so I can avoid him. I want the men on fab to demonstrate their own attitude to women. Not someone else's attitude to women. Because then I can decide for myself whether they're someone I want to meet. It's also a bit patronising to assume you know what every woman wants from a man she meets on here. I wouldn't presume to say what someone else wants, because we might be completely different." You might not believe this but some people who meet me think I'm a really nice guy. When I started out on fab I came across as a complete and utter dick. I got nowhere. I've had to learn what I was doing wrong by asking the women I've met for feedback. I am still told that my profile does not do me justice. So I'm still learning. I wish I had taken the single guy challenge when I first started off on fab. I would have offended far less people. | |||
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"I don't really want all men on here to follow this kind of "advice" tbh, then I'd be faced with identikit, unrealistic profiles which don't actually reflect what that man thought was the best way to attract women. It's like when there are threads about "what photos should I put on my profile" - fucking work it out for yourself. The words and photos people choose tell you about them, what they are like and whether you're suited or otherwise. If someone has just followed a checklist, I'm not going to get that. Good no I don't want all men following it either I don't want a knobhead sneaking though. " The knobheads probably wouldn't read this or take up the challenge anyway. And I bet you can pick 'em a mile away! | |||
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"Seems so very fawning and subservient. l'd say just be yourself and know that there will be a niche group for everyone. Not everyone is the same." Maybe it is. If nothing changes and sending loads of cock pics and one line "fancy a fuck?" messages got the guy more replies then by all means a guy can go back to that approach. But he can at least try something different. | |||
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"Seems so very fawning and subservient. l'd say just be yourself and know that there will be a niche group for everyone. Not everyone is the same. Maybe it is. If nothing changes and sending loads of cock pics and one line "fancy a fuck?" messages got the guy more replies then by all means a guy can go back to that approach. But he can at least try something different. " But he should work it out for himself to try something different. If he can't, then I don't want to meet him. | |||
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"nice thread op x glad you acknowledged you have also gone through a journey. real and expressed really well. i hope it helps some others. thanks for taking time out and making the effort x" Thank you. That's very sweet. I know it sounds patronising and to be honest I was expecting a lot of flack. It's been really great to have such a positive response. I value all the feedback I've received especially those who don't agree with me - they've made excellent points. | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " Finally, someone who gets it!!!! | |||
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"I don't pretend to know what a woman wants.... why does that sound like a Mel Gibson movie?.... but I care enough to try and find out and I think that's a good start." Infancy I agree with you OP. Not every nice genuine guy would be able to work all of these out and this would be good for them and don't mind those whining about you saying it as they should go sort their lives out first | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " spot on. I like you x | |||
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"If I followed the advice in this thread my firends list would be 3x smaller ."It's not advice. It's a challenge. The first line says it's for guys that don't get replies. So obviously not for you. You're obviously doing the right things. | |||
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"If your cock is on the small side would that put most women off? I often feel that this is the reason I am not getting any meets. " I have a very good friend that I now see on a regular basis. We met on fab and because I don't display cock pics and she didn't ask for one my penis size never came up as a topic. After we had enjoyed a lovely evening together she told me she had assumed my penis was small and was pleasantly surprised. The moral of the story. Women do not obsess over penis size as much as men do. Forget about your penis and work on the things you CAN change. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners " Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. " There are. And I'd rather people showed their true colours. | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " This is tongue in cheek right? Wow huge generalisation on what woman like  | |||
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"All sound advice but nothing on there that I don't already do. I never approach anyone whose preferences aren't matched. In real life, politeness opens doors, but on here "gym fit" seems to open more doors!" If you're reading profiles then you're probably not one of the guys who needs to take the challenge. Probably not the guy that irritates women to the extent that they leave fab. Awesome. Gym fit? Well I started off on fab with a great big pot belly. On my first meet the lady got out the car. Saw what I looked like. Got back in the car and drove off. I can't do much about my face. Stuck with my height and my penis size. But here's what I do. I watch my diet, I'm not obsessive but I'm not a glutton either. I work out. I don't have time so I'm up at 5:30 every morning. I have more body hair than Chewbacca so I have my back waxed. Yes ladies I feel your pain. Literally. I have to veet regularly otherwise it looks like I'm wearing a jersey. I even veeted my nuts once. Chemical burns are particularly painful when you enter the hot tub. This IS advice...DON'T veet your nuts!!! I'm also at the age where hairs grow out of the strangest places and if I don't do some grooming I look like a locust. I have yet to meet a woman who rates a rippling six-pack over personal hygiene. | |||
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"All sound advice but nothing on there that I don't already do. I never approach anyone whose preferences aren't matched. In real life, politeness opens doors, but on here "gym fit" seems to open more doors! If you're reading profiles then you're probably not one of the guys who needs to take the challenge. Probably not the guy that irritates women to the extent that they leave fab. Awesome. Gym fit? Well I started off on fab with a great big pot belly. On my first meet the lady got out the car. Saw what I looked like. Got back in the car and drove off. I can't do much about my face. Stuck with my height and my penis size. But here's what I do. I watch my diet, I'm not obsessive but I'm not a glutton either. I work out. I don't have time so I'm up at 5:30 every morning. I have more body hair than Chewbacca so I have my back waxed. Yes ladies I feel your pain. Literally. I have to veet regularly otherwise it looks like I'm wearing a jersey. I even veeted my nuts once. Chemical burns are particularly painful when you enter the hot tub. This IS advice...DON'T veet your nuts!!! I'm also at the age where hairs grow out of the strangest places and if I don't do some grooming I look like a locust. I have yet to meet a woman who rates a rippling six-pack over personal hygiene. "Your sense of humour and realism does you credit. Can only wish you luck | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. " Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit. "Lol.....i can't, I risk a permanent ban! | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Lol.....i can't, I risk a permanent ban! "Inbox me it don't worry I won't snitch plus you'll be like the 4th women to message me so it will be an honour. I don't half rile people up with my no nonsense approach but that's who I am I don't sugar coat anything for anyone. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit. "Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here. "No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice | |||
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"Nobody's perfect. Everywhere you go you're going to find someone who's disagreeable. What I'm trying to do is see things from the other point of view. I say "If I were a woman who is looking for a meet and I've just deleted 200 messages not one of which was worth replying to what kind of mood would I be in?" In that context it kind of changes things." There issue is what works for some won't work for others and that's the issue they get hundreds of messages a day. You could make it stand out and be a long good message but if she don't fancy you then you've wasted your time. I hardly message women on here unless they stand out to me. If a women likes the look of my picture when it's public then she can contact me. I've no reason at all to pester women on here it's a waste of time and pointless. You'd be better off going to a club and just mingling face to face you'll get far more feedback that way and even a publication if they are on here. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice "doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central.. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
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No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central.. "There is no harm at all but as I stated above what works for some won't work for all. You women are hounded daily I've seen it and it's crazy so I can see why you all bulk delete. Personally feel people should be themselves when messaging someone rather then trying to be someone they are not. Fully agree with the chatting up at bar as well but I think that's just people wanting an easy one night stand. | |||
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"Nobody's perfect. Everywhere you go you're going to find someone who's disagreeable. What I'm trying to do is see things from the other point of view. I say "If I were a woman who is looking for a meet and I've just deleted 200 messages not one of which was worth replying to what kind of mood would I be in?" In that context it kind of changes things. There issue is what works for some won't work for others and that's the issue they get hundreds of messages a day. You could make it stand out and be a long good message but if she don't fancy you then you've wasted your time. I hardly message women on here unless they stand out to me. If a women likes the look of my picture when it's public then she can contact me. I've no reason at all to pester women on here it's a waste of time and pointless. You'd be better off going to a club and just mingling face to face you'll get far more feedback that way and even a publication if they are on here. " | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice "What the heck does size come into it,I don't date/sleep with overweight men so what?! So you're saying anyone over a size 14 struggles to pull in a bar? | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. " That is right, there are loads of them. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice
What the heck does size come into it,I don't date/sleep with overweight men so what?! So you're saying anyone over a size 14 struggles to pull in a bar?"Well fatter people of either gender will find it harder. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice
What the heck does size come into it,I don't date/sleep with overweight men so what?! So you're saying anyone over a size 14 struggles to pull in a bar?
Well fatter people of either gender will find it harder." | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central..
There is no harm at all but as I stated above what works for some won't work for all.
You women are hounded daily I've seen it and it's crazy so I can see why you all bulk delete.
Personally feel people should be themselves when messaging someone rather then trying to be someone they are not.
Fully agree with the chatting up at bar as well but I think that's just people wanting an easy one night stand. "i have all my filters on, not just for single guys. i search myself.. i observe if its someone on the forum for quite a while though.. yeah the one night stand thing doesnt do it for me..each to their own and all that x | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice
What the heck does size come into it,I don't date/sleep with overweight men so what?! So you're saying anyone over a size 14 struggles to pull in a bar?
Well fatter people of either gender will find it harder."Think we all know how you feel about that subject | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central..
There is no harm at all but as I stated above what works for some won't work for all.
You women are hounded daily I've seen it and it's crazy so I can see why you all bulk delete.
Personally feel people should be themselves when messaging someone rather then trying to be someone they are not.
Fully agree with the chatting up at bar as well but I think that's just people wanting an easy one night stand. i have all my filters on, not just for single guys. i search myself..
i observe if its someone on the forum for quite a while though..
yeah the one night stand thing doesnt do it for me..each to their own and all that x"I agree. I had loads when I was younger and it did not matter then when you did not care about having any emotion to the person but these days there has to be a connection so they are a no for me. Prefer to spend some time talking to someone and getting to know them first. | |||
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"Yawn yawn. Cba with men that try too hard. " would you complain if they didnt make any effort though? | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice
What the heck does size come into it,I don't date/sleep with overweight men so what?! So you're saying anyone over a size 14 struggles to pull in a bar?
Well fatter people of either gender will find it harder.
Think we all know how you feel about that subject "l actually find chubbiness attractive, especially if she is taller. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central..
There is no harm at all but as I stated above what works for some won't work for all.
You women are hounded daily I've seen it and it's crazy so I can see why you all bulk delete.
Personally feel people should be themselves when messaging someone rather then trying to be someone they are not.
Fully agree with the chatting up at bar as well but I think that's just people wanting an easy one night stand. "I don't actually think even the majority of women are "hounded daily" with "crazy" numbers of messages. Bulk delete is a convenient excuse for just not wanting to reply. I generally don't reply. It's not because I'm inundated with messages, I just don't want to. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central..
There is no harm at all but as I stated above what works for some won't work for all.
You women are hounded daily I've seen it and it's crazy so I can see why you all bulk delete.
Personally feel people should be themselves when messaging someone rather then trying to be someone they are not.
Fully agree with the chatting up at bar as well but I think that's just people wanting an easy one night stand.
I don't actually think even the majority of women are "hounded daily" with "crazy" numbers of messages. Bulk delete is a convenient excuse for just not wanting to reply. I generally don't reply. It's not because I'm inundated with messages, I just don't want to. "Although, I'm a fat lass, so that may be why.  | |||
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"Yawn yawn. Cba with men that try too hard. "
l think that sincere, down to earth messages that aren't trying too hard are the best. You are either attracted to someone or you aren't. | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central..
There is no harm at all but as I stated above what works for some won't work for all.
You women are hounded daily I've seen it and it's crazy so I can see why you all bulk delete.
Personally feel people should be themselves when messaging someone rather then trying to be someone they are not.
Fully agree with the chatting up at bar as well but I think that's just people wanting an easy one night stand. i have all my filters on, not just for single guys. i search myself..
i observe if its someone on the forum for quite a while though..
yeah the one night stand thing doesnt do it for me..each to their own and all that x
I agree. I had loads when I was younger and it did not matter then when you did not care about having any emotion to the person but these days there has to be a connection so they are a no for me.
Prefer to spend some time talking to someone and getting to know them first."i cant get into what i like to do on the first night, so there has to be potential to be able to take it where i get satisfied, otherwise there is no point.. first time sex can be ok, good sex is nice,what you can get at clubs, when i'm scening, but, great sex for me, is worth the effort of knowing someones psyche and body... | |||
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"Yawn yawn. Cba with men that try too hard. would you complain if they didnt make any effort though? " Most people I've met haven't made much of an effort messaging wise. I like a man to be a bit more creative than fancy a fuck but tbh fancy a fuck works on me too. | |||
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" I think that sincere, down to earth messages that aren't trying too hard are the best. You are either attracted to someone or you aren't." | |||
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" I think that sincere, down to earth messages that aren't trying too hard are the best. You are either attracted to someone or you aren't. " | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " All that just for a shag. If I was a man I just have a wank! | |||
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"Ignorant men need some basic manners Spot on. But plenty of ignorant women on here too. Women are just more ignorant because they are spoilt for choice because the men outweigh the women on here. Hence why you'll get women who'd struggle to pull at a bar being really up themselves on here when in reality there is no need for them or anyone to have an attitude with people. Don't worry I'm wearing a flamesuit.
Aww are you just bitter because those women who can't pull in a bar turn you down on here.
No I don't chat women up at bars I've no need to. When you work the doors you get women chatting you up + I don't date/sleep with women who are above size 14 which is my choice doesn't matter if you do well on here or not then does it, so cant see your problem with someone giving other people a hand...if you want nilla, go for it, personally i cant stand the thought of chatting or being chatted up in a bar..what do i have in common with these people, we happened to show up on the same night at the same place...hardly compatibility central..
There is no harm at all but as I stated above what works for some won't work for all.
You women are hounded daily I've seen it and it's crazy so I can see why you all bulk delete.
Personally feel people should be themselves when messaging someone rather then trying to be someone they are not.
Fully agree with the chatting up at bar as well but I think that's just people wanting an easy one night stand. i have all my filters on, not just for single guys. i search myself..
i observe if its someone on the forum for quite a while though..
yeah the one night stand thing doesnt do it for me..each to their own and all that x
I agree. I had loads when I was younger and it did not matter then when you did not care about having any emotion to the person but these days there has to be a connection so they are a no for me.
Prefer to spend some time talking to someone and getting to know them first.i cant get into what i like to do on the first night, so there has to be potential to be able to take it where i get satisfied, otherwise there is no point.. first time sex can be ok, good sex is nice,what you can get at clubs, when i'm scening, but, great sex for me, is worth the effort of knowing someones psyche and body..."It's better when it's more intimate that I agree. | |||
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"Yawn yawn. Cba with men that try too hard. would you complain if they didnt make any effort though? " Damned if you do, damned if you don't. As a single guy, you just have to have patience and have fun. I'd agree with trying too hard. I think some guys forget that they're here to have fun too. Relax. | |||
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"Here it is. To all the guys who put up posts complaining that they get no replies. Try the following do's and don'ts.... DON'T - Have any cock pics on your profile. Not even to friends. Make them private. When she wants to see it. She'll ask. DON'T - Show pics of you with other women. It might impress you mates, most women are different. DON'T- Message as many women as you can based on the theory it's a numbers game. DO - Look for a woman whose requirements match watch you offer. That's right guys you've got to start reading them profiles! Concentrate on those few and put some effort in. DON'T- Mention sex until she does. Women are brilliant. They put up statuses, leave topics in their narratives for you to discuss. Forget about sex for a while engage her mind. Find our what she's about! DO - Read what she sends you. It's much more effort for her to type than for you to read. Fab women are great at telling you where you're going wrong. DO - Make her smile at least once. You might not be the funniest guy in the world. But I bet you make your friends laugh down at the pub. DO - Make her feel good about herself. This is not a "technique". Do not use cheap flattery. There had to be something that attracted you to her that made her one of the few ladies you decided to message. Tell her. Don't gush. DON'T - Moan. Be positive. Don't talk about you ex/exes, your work unless you love it. DO - See everything from her point of view. Women have a very different experience from fab compared to us guys. If she doesn't message you back right away try to remember while you're getting 10 views a week and 5 messages she's probably getting 1000 views a day and 100's of messages. It's a full time job! Ok guys it's a challenge. See if you can do it! " Can you do a shorter version maybe. If you get any spare time with nothing else better to do? | |||
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