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An appropriate insult + or -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Often referred to as an old perv, almost daily.

The problem I have is that the well meaning and derogatory insult I take as praise and I revel in it as I get on in years.

So the question is, if people insult you how do you deal with it and do you take a positive from the negative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it that they are sad individuals to throw insults. I find people try to knock others, to make themselves feel better.

The positive is I know I'm better then those type of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here...

I don't insult people as a rule.

Close friends however expect it. But, when it's between us it's banter. And that's all it is. We have boundaries and don't cross them, because we know each other well enough to know what's appropriate and what isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has a problem with me i just say to them..."ive seen better,been with worse"...

That usually puts 'em on them on the spot

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I look at it that they are sad individuals to throw insults. I find people try to knock others, to make themselves feel better.

The positive is I know I'm better then those type of people "

I agree with this ,

insults aimed my way I view as a defensive measure from those throwing them my way . I think the same when I'm confronted with passive aggression in messages its just someone with issues going all defensive for what ever reason being aggressive and trying to use aggression to try and cover up that fact .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually just agree with them tends to knock wind out there sails lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Usually just agree with them tends to knock wind out there sails lol "

Quite often I've found insults to be fueled by a desire for a reaction. I couldn't really care less as am self aware of my flaws so I normally respond with humour.

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

We normaly laugh at it and let it pass over our heads, as we know to well that will make them feel worse

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