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By *ed cj OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Is there anything you enjoy watching but are unwilling to actually do, and what's stopping you

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

That's an interesting question! It kind of asks if some things are best kept as fantasy? Some suggest that when one has to be careful what one wishes for as once you have it /done it...it's too late? Perhaps this this is more relevant for couples wishing to explore the swinging scene for the first time? I have only questions. No answers! Though I will consider your question OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching gangbang porn but would never be up for one myself

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I think for me, there are some things within BDSM that I find hugely erotic but not sure I could do, as in reality, I would probably wimp out! .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many aspects of BDSM we're fascinated by but we're not sure how far we'd go.

I often fantasise about my wife in a gangbang scenario, but it's not something I'd be sure putting into reality.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"There are many aspects of BDSM we're fascinated by but we're not sure how far we'd go.

I often fantasise about my wife in a gangbang scenario, but it's not something I'd be sure putting into reality. "

It's tricky right? Because once you have gone there, you can't undo it! I know that I am not a true swinger in that sense that if I were in a relationship I know I would struggle to see my partner with other women. It's also one of the reasons I don't play with couples because I would feel awkward, even though his partner /wife is consensual. I can't get past it psychologically.

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By *ed cj OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Yes there is some extreme bdsm porn out there but I'm not sure I could inflict that much pain to someone even if they were willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might would be a big gang bang love the idea but worried to try..

And bdsm I have tryed and enjoys ( only soft) but not sure how far I could go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many aspects of BDSM we're fascinated by but we're not sure how far we'd go.

I often fantasise about my wife in a gangbang scenario, but it's not something I'd be sure putting into reality.

It's tricky right? Because once you have gone there, you can't undo it! I know that I am not a true swinger in that sense that if I were in a relationship I know I would struggle to see my partner with other women. It's also one of the reasons I don't play with couples because I would feel awkward, even though his partner /wife is consensual. I can't get past it psychologically. "

Well it's good to be self aware at least.

We have pushed boundaries. We've communicated a lot and we're very deliberate about how we take things. But at other times we've jumped in feet first, our first MMF was completely spur of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the surface edges of bdsm but seeing a 3 strand 4 ft barbed wire whip get bought out at an event made us realise it can be way too extreme for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope that everything on our bucket list we will try or achieve at some point

Kinky

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Bareback gangbang or noncon play. Not because the latter is too disturbing in real life, more that I can't take roleplaying setiously so I keep sniggering through what should be the tense bits. I'm a hammy actor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still dont know the answer to the meatloaf tune

i will do anything for love but i wont do that

what is it he wont do ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, if i want to do something i just do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"still dont know the answer to the meatloaf tune

i will do anything for love but i wont do that

what is it he wont do ?"

He won't screw around haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extreme fun can emerge from experience, so whilst it may seem extreme and you enjoy watching it... In time and you experiment and build confidence then the extreme may become a reality.

Often extreme activities that are watched are often undertaken by very experienced people who's 1st bit of advice will probably be take it slow and build up to whatever extreme action you'd like to experience .

X

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Bareback gangbang or noncon play. Not because the latter is too disturbing in real life, more that I can't take roleplaying setiously so I keep sniggering through what should be the tense bits. I'm a hammy actor!"

Off topic but I must just say this your a dead ringer for the actress Katee Sackhoff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being submissive and having my boundaries pushed but so far I've not said stop ..and that's worrying but have enjoyed so far

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No, if i want to do something i just do it"

This is me as long as its under terms i find acceptable and I'm inspired I will play in what ever way the mood takes me .

It just so happens all my moods are dominate which means the limits of the object of my lust will be explored to the fullest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Extreme fun can emerge from experience, so whilst it may seem extreme and you enjoy watching it... In time and you experiment and build confidence then the extreme may become a reality.

Often extreme activities that are watched are often undertaken by very experienced people who's 1st bit of advice will probably be take it slow and build up to whatever extreme action you'd like to experience .

X"

That sounds like good advice. We're making inroads to meeting people who can take us in that direction, we've already had something on our bucket list ticked of with the help of a Domme.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Bareback gangbang or noncon play. Not because the latter is too disturbing in real life, more that I can't take roleplaying setiously so I keep sniggering through what should be the tense bits. I'm a hammy actor!"
I'm with you on the noncon thing,not because of the sniggering,but because i cant act to safe myself.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Bdsm

Bareback

Pee play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've read about Cuckhold scenarios and some of them have turned us on but I can't see us ever having the bottle to try it out.

Also Bukake play looks so cool but again it will probably stay in the fantasy locker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback gang bang

Simply wouldn't ever try it

But always watch it on porn

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Bareback gang bang

Simply wouldn't ever try it

But always watch it on porn "

Ah yes! Bareback gangbang porn turns me on! But no way in reality!!

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

Arse to mouth, bare back of course. Kissing her afterwards.

Just pure filth and fascinating.

Just no way in reality for both sexual and general health.

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