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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're get plenty of guys claim they will now

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"You're get plenty of guys claim they will now

I was hoping for more tips from women. Many men have tried. All have failed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're get plenty of guys claim they will now

I was hoping for more tips from women. Many men have tried. All have failed

You know you're body. Men don't

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "

I have

Sorry, I know that doesn't help you. I've heard many women don't cum through penetration though, so if it's any consolation, you're not alone?

As long as you're getting some form of orgasm I guess that's the main thing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you are expecting way too much from yourself. If you cant come that way but enjoy penetrative sex anyway . Hey why stress? Everyones diffrent

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i never do but i nearly did recently with a small skinny man with a long willy.

it doesnt bother me as i enjoy cumming in other ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of women don't, E doesn't but we have managed if I stroke her clitoris with my cock in her, not easy but worth a try.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I heard recently that its to do with how near to the entrance of the vagina your clit is and how big your clit is.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

It's when you try for the reach around when doing it doggy style. Buggers my back up after a while!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The best orgasm I've had during penetrative sex was the guy's cock hitting my g-spot and a vibe on my clit.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I heard recently that its to do with how near to the entrance of the vagina your clit is and how big your clit is."

Totally believe this. Mines diddy and high up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_rincess peach. If that works for you then Hey nothing else matters. I don't always cum when I have penetrative sex even though it goes on for ages. I still enjoy it. The trick is going with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with using a bullet on your clit while fucking. It does help. I never used to cum from penetrative sex but lately that's changed. Which in turn has helped me relax more about it. Hence more orgasms. I find being on top also helps

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I agree with using a bullet on your clit while fucking. It does help. I never used to cum from penetrative sex but lately that's changed. Which in turn has helped me relax more about it. Hence more orgasms. I find being on top also helps "

That relaxing thing....

That's part of my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best orgasm I've had during penetrative sex was the guy's cock hitting my g-spot and a vibe on my clit.

I was going to suggest something similar... like a We-Vibe.

There is a school of thought that suggests that the g-spot can be trained or "awoken".

Personally I've found that the orgasm starts in the mind. Perhaps you just need to find that special guy who makes you feel so good by the end of the evening that he'll make you cum from a kiss. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That relaxing thing....

That's part of my problem. "

What bothered me was guys pointing out I didn't cum and focusing on it too much. Caused a lot of pressure for me which doesn't help at all

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Try going on top and grinding your clit against him while he's inside you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try going on top and grinding your clit against him while he's inside you xx"

Also try putting a pillow under your bum. It might just be an angle thing. If you're on top riding him put the pillow under his bum to raise his pelvis.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

That relaxing thing....

That's part of my problem.

What bothered me was guys pointing out I didn't cum and focusing on it too much. Caused a lot of pressure for me which doesn't help at all "

I'm with you there. I tell the guys not to expect it or feel bad if it doesn't happen. They see it as a personal challenge then, and think they're gonna be the cure. I am guilty of faking because I've not wanted to burst their bubble

I know it's in my head, but at the same time I can cum if there's a toy involved so it can't all be in my head right?

I also wonder if I've over stimulated with toys and lost sensitivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That relaxing thing....

That's part of my problem.

What bothered me was guys pointing out I didn't cum and focusing on it too much. Caused a lot of pressure for me which doesn't help at all

I know it's in my head, but at the same time I can cum if there's a toy involved so it can't all be in my head right?

I also wonder if I've over stimulated with toys and lost sensitivity."

Yeah I know what you mean. It's like a mental block then all focused on the cumming rather than just going with the flow. I had an orgasm recently from penetrative sex. No toys or anything. I was on top and just had the angle right and he let me control it. So now I know it's possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That relaxing thing....

That's part of my problem.

What bothered me was guys pointing out I didn't cum and focusing on it too much. Caused a lot of pressure for me which doesn't help at all "
your lucky most guys don't know the difference oops but relaxing lots of other stimulating ways to make a lady happy

and the added fun of finding them works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once someone says cum that's game over for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's all about a mental connection and your body and a connection with somebody else and feeling comfortable with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That relaxing thing....

That's part of my problem.

What bothered me was guys pointing out I didn't cum and focusing on it too much. Caused a lot of pressure for me which doesn't help at all "

That's why I only concentrate on my orgasm

Joke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me either

Kinky

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I think it's all about a mental connection and your body and a connection with somebody else and feeling comfortable with them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try the coital alignment technique done right should be fine google is your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I heard recently that its to do with how near to the entrance of the vagina your clit is and how big your clit is.

Totally believe this. Mines diddy and high up. "

Yep me too

There IS a position that takes a bit of getting into and the guy does need a longer penis but you enter the lady in the flattish missionary and then, keeping inside. SLOWLY the lady closes her legs so she's under him, he needs to 'ride high' and with practice that means he can run against the clitoris at the same time . I've tried it with a lovely fella and it worked !

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Go for positions like cowgirl or other positions where your clit gets a good amount of friction and where you have the control over the motion and avoid positions like doggy where the body contact is minimal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "

Lots of foreplay, sensual massage and stimulate some known g spots during sex. What does make you come then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have but not with everyone... just have to find the position that hits the spot. I found I was only able to do it after playing with myself and finding what worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I heard recently that its to do with how near to the entrance of the vagina your clit is and how big your clit is.

Totally believe this. Mines diddy and high up.

Yep me too

I used to have a fwb who liked me to fuck her in missionary with her legs closed. She always seemed to get off, while I did nothing particularly different or special, so win-win! I can vouch for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any chance I can get an opportunity to try and help you out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "
What you need is 20 minutes on my creation, and you would be walking like John Wayne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can but not with just penetration need a toy as well

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By *onysp654Man
over a year ago

Loddington

I have had partners who were the same.

But with one lovely lady we found that with her on top and me raising my hips (either with a pillow/ cushion or by me lifting my ass off the bed) we found that we could get th angle to stimulate the clit.

It does help with some foreplay beforehand, but we had fun experimenting different positons until we found the right one.

Don't put any pressure on yourself and find the right position for you and have fun doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clare cums through penetration quite easily but easiest with her on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is 90% mental I once knew a woman who when she was married hardly ever came.

When she split up she just got this massive attitude change maybe it was confidence maybe it was that she could relax. She used to call it being in the zone, but once she was there she could cum very easily, and over and over

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By *alsallstallionMan
over a year ago

walsall

"I heard recently that its to do with how near to the entrance of the vagina your clit is and how big your clit is.

Totally believe this. Mines diddy and high up. "

Yes you need a longer penis as you probably have a deeper g spot..

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By *ifes2short!!Man
over a year ago

newtownabbey

My wife is the same. Shes never came with any cock just oral or fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum through penetrative sex and its much more intense and lasts longer than a clitoral orgasm but it is only achievable when I'm sitting on top, having a patient partner and lots of foreplay. If a guy is in a hurry it won't work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oo thinking of it I may have fibbed I have but only from able penetration.. now that is very intense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky in that I orgasm easily, and always have multiple orgasms, incl penetrative only orgasms.

However sex with me is very much in my mind. I get totally in the zone and anything can happen. But if my mind isn't triggered into action then my body won't react at its best.

You need to learn what works for you, and then show/tell your man. Dont put pressure on yourself either to cum. Just relax and have fun.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have and it was so strong.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "

Well I feel sad for you OP it's a bit of shame but so long as you reach climax through other methods what does it matter right?

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever.

Lots of foreplay, sensual massage and stimulate some known g spots during sex. What does make you come then?"

Oral and masturbation

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I've only ever known one person who can make me cum every time he's inside me

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I've only ever known one person who can make me cum every time he's inside me"

I need to get out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cervical stimulation orgasms. No idea why, but I feel the sensation high up inside and it travels throughout my lower abdomen. It doesn't come from my clitoris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

changing angle totally does help! i found this out and also again in relation to relaxing it makes a huge difference. lie back and think of....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's all about a mental connection and your body and a connection with somebody else and feeling comfortable with them "

I agree with this......I can come quite easily with someone I've got to know and can relax with......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a man's perspective, i haven't had penetrative sex for many years. On the rare ooccasions I'm with a woman, I'm finding mutual masturbation much hornier, that is, if she's ok with that.

The other thing is, being nearly 60 and getting on a bit, my erections sometimes let me down and self stimulation in front of a woman who's doing the same, can be very erotic.

so OP, I hope your having orgasms of some sort?! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try going on top and grinding your clit against him while he's inside you xx"

works for me

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I've never had an orgasm with someone else present.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have had but only when there's been clitoral stimulation as well (sometimes just through penetration when the angle's just right for pubs contact; easier to do when I'm on top). I have had an anal orgasm through penetration though. That was a bit of a surprise.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I've only ever known one person who can make me cum every time he's inside me

I need to get out more

Or stay in more with different men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had but it takes a while it needs to be slow and easy and he's always so patient. It's never as intense as oral and finger fucking during though. X

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "

That's a shame that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit on top then slide forward to the point of him slipping out then rock gently in that position .

You can thank me later

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I've never had an orgasm with someone else present. "

Gosh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do orgasm from penetrative sex, normally only after an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. The best, position for me is me on top, with us both sat up and my legs around his back. Gentle rocking gets me almost there, then I lean back.

amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't come from penetration alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal orgasm is awesome but again I have to have clit stimulated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually need clit stimulation of some kind. However With my partner it's different he can make me cum without clit stimulation but it's more to do with other things he's doing at the same time, and he makes me focus on him and I can usually cum when he tells me to then, but obviously he's not just randomly telling me to cum he can feel the difference with the way my vaginal muscles are squeezing him so he knows when to ask me to cum which then generally triggers a amazing orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither but I have gushed once through penetration which was a weird sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I heard recently that its to do with how near to the entrance of the vagina your clit is and how big your clit is.

Totally believe this. Mines diddy and high up.

Yep me too

That but from behind works well for me and a longer penis is optional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly the same. Can only cum during penetration if I have direct clitoral stimulation at the same time!

Find that to be much quicker/easier if I'm comfortable with someone too though. More relaxed I guess.

I often take a toy to a meet or play with my clit while being fucked does the trick.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I've never had an orgasm with someone else present.

Gosh!"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "

Same here.

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Never, ever

Ever ever ever.

Ever. "

I have.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I can come with Neil inside, I do not do this with all guys

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I come from penetration alone & come much harder from anal tbh a lot of the time I'll take S's hand away from my clit as it can be too much, especially during anal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more of a mental thing for women.

Feeling totally comfortable with a partner.

I had a girlfriend I couldn't make cum. Never had any trouble before..... or since.

She seemed to enjoy my tongue ??

But I don't think it was ever going to be enough.

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