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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else suffer with really bad nerves before a meet?

We (mainly Mrs) suffer really bad sometimes and it can be hard to find a way of getting past it.

Any sensible ideas would be great

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

One drink?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol @ sensible!

I always get nervous before a meet and the day it stops is the day I'll stop meeting ..

I see it more as apprehension and sexual energy.. it just needs channelling ..

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I get really bad nerves too so I make sure first meets are just a social - there is no pressure at all that way and I can relax much more.

When it comes to meeting again its easier because you have already met so its not as nerve wracking.

Strangely I dont get nervous going to a club. Probably because I go with no expectations and I have a good night whether I play or not.

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

I still do if it's a first meet and I tend to play my favourite playlist and watch a short and erotic porno if the music isn't doing me much good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let the folk you're going to be meeting know that you're nervous. They'll be prepared for any potential shyness/nerves and will hopefully, seek to put you at ease from the off.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I don't get bad nerves , but I do get butterflies in my tummy etc. If I ever stop getting pre meet butterflies i think I might knock it on the head for a while

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Let the folk you're going to be meeting know that you're nervous. They'll be prepared for any potential shyness/nerves and will hopefully, seek to put you at ease from the off. "

I get incredibly nervous. Rescue remedy is my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - always get that adrenaline rush and nerves ahead of meeting someone new - and for the few minutes as we go through the ice-breaker phase. Give it 5 or 10 mins and the adrenaline subsides and it's all good

I've been conscious that I've been literally shaking ahead of a meet before now - not through nerves or fear as such, just the pure adrenaline making it involuntary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get bad nerves too. Mainly because my meets are so few and far between. I just tell myself that whatever happens will happen and its all part of the experience. A few deep breaths help too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a little pre meet nerves is always good, I think it keeps me on my toes and I'd be worried when meeting someone new that i wasn't nervous. I tend not to go for Dutch courage and just ride it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're always nervous ( Mrs moreso). I think nerves can add to the experience. Also think if we come to a time we don't have nerves it might be the end of our fab journey

Kinky

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nerves is normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes was nearly sick before I met one buck cos he was gorgeous and was worried he wouldn't like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both still get really nervous on way to a club, my body pretends it's cold and I shake like an idiot. After 10 mins in the club it Normally settles down tho and I can start to enjoy it then. In a way I quite like it now tho, it adds another element to the night that we can have a laugh about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep - always get that adrenaline rush and nerves ahead of meeting someone new - and for the few minutes as we go through the ice-breaker phase. Give it 5 or 10 mins and the adrenaline subsides and it's all good

I've been conscious that I've been literally shaking ahead of a meet before now - not through nerves or fear as such, just the pure adrenaline making it involuntary!"

That's me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer with really bad nerves before a meet and at clubs where I see a lady I would love to chat with.

Im normally driving so a drink is out of the question too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else suffer with really bad nerves before a meet?

We (mainly Mrs) suffer really bad sometimes and it can be hard to find a way of getting past it.

Any sensible ideas would be great "

Yup.. i can still get incredibly nervous before a private meet.. Mr has to talk me into a calmer place x

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"Yep - always get that adrenaline rush and nerves ahead of meeting someone new - and for the few minutes as we go through the ice-breaker phase. Give it 5 or 10 mins and the adrenaline subsides and it's all good

I've been conscious that I've been literally shaking ahead of a meet before now - not through nerves or fear as such, just the pure adrenaline making it involuntary!

That's me lol"

Also here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely nervous before meets, I tend to relax in the thought that we are all here to enjoy ourselves and like some of the other posters have said the nervous spark is part of the experience, I'd be more worried if I wasn't nervous I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been there.

My first meet suffered big time!

I'm sorry to admit I bolted with stage fright!

The couple were amazing and gave me another bite at the cherry so to speak a week later.

So embarrassing but I've never worried since.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I've never been nervous meeting anyone. If one particular guy I'm meeting doesn't appreciate my looks or personality--there are plenty more that do. And chances are, anyway, that the feeling is mutual.

Nervousness and excitement are the same physiological response. So, in other circumstances where I do get nervous, I just tell myself I'm excited. Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would call it excitement and anticipation, rather than nerves. The butterfly feeling in my stomach.

The day I stop feeling that way will be the day I stop meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I get proper nervous, anxious don't know what it is, think I'm getting better though

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

nope.. im pretty calm as a rule, un less im running late cos of traffic or something, and that because don't like being late and not being calm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both get butterflies, but incredibly turned on at the same time.

a glass of wine might help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had the pleasure of meeting anyone as of yet.

Interested?

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By *ee wonky willieMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Nerves.. My wee arse makes more buttons than Cadbury before a meet. Even when I was part of a couple. I like it though. The anticipation is all part of the fun..

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