FabSwingers.com forum: straight or bi?

By *unky-dory OP Man
over a year ago

the kingdom

Dont think there is such a thing as 100% straight,or gay. guess 50/50 is bi, but what likes/dislikes determine your description?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sexuality can be seen as a fluid spectrum from totally straight to totally gay with a whole range of bisexuality in the middle.

Labels smabels- I just do what I do, can and do have 'straight' sex quite happily. I don't know where I am on the spectrum. It's green, I know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at women and think I'd love to have sex with them or fancy them like I do with men but if I'm at a club in an open room and having fun with a man and a woman joins in and starts playing with me, I'm not going to freak out over it but will go with the flow so to speak.

If it's enjoyable what they're doing, then the sex of the person really doesn't matter to me.

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

My view is - if something is fun then it doesn't matter the sex of who you are playing with. I guess it's more of a hedonistic perspective than a sexual orientation, although in reality it means I am bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you're not interested in having sex, kissing cuddlinng etc. with the same gender you're 99% straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine once said that watching lesbian porn made him feel gay after about 10 minutes because it made him want to see a guy pound them hard with his throbbing cock, I laughed and called him a liar, there's no way he could last that long

Ess

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

The perfect answer. I am with you on that. If it's fun and not offending anyone then go for it. I am definitely bi, but equally happy to play straight with straight couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people's definition of bi sexual is equally comfortable being in a relationship with either sex. I could never have a boyfriend.

I think most bi guys are bi playful in that they are interested in cock play but still won't kiss a guy or try anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contrary to the the belief of many, very very many men and women are 100% straight and could not be persuaded otherwise because they know themselves and are entirely comfortable with that.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Contrary to the the belief of many, very very many men and women are 100% straight and could not be persuaded otherwise because they know themselves and are entirely comfortable with that. "

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Contrary to the the belief of many, very very many men and women are 100% straight and could not be persuaded otherwise because they know themselves and are entirely comfortable with that.

for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is the burden always on the straight people?

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

We are all Cum Sexual

We are into whatever it is that makes us all cum

M/F/Tv/Ts & everything in between.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I think for many people it varies and it's difficult to put a percentage on it. I meet guys from all along the spectrum but rarely ask what their sexuality is - does it matter?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Why is the burden always on the straight people?"

In what way? No one has said there's a problem being straight on this thread.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Dont think there is such a thing as 100% straight,or gay."

Sorry, but I disagree.

If we were in a club, playing in a room and a man turned his attentions to me... I would put a stop to it instantly, and potentially become quite cross.

Cal

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Contrary to the the belief of many, very very many men and women are 100% straight and could not be persuaded otherwise because they know themselves and are entirely comfortable with that.

for this "

..and some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't look at women and think I'd love to have sex with them or fancy them like I do with men but if I'm at a club in an open room and having fun with a man and a woman joins in and starts playing with me, I'm not going to freak out over it but will go with the flow so to speak.

If it's enjoyable what they're doing, then the sex of the person really doesn't matter to me."
i would so love to watch ur sexy an i recon lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that i am 100% straight.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

If it's enjoyable what they're doing, then the sex of the person really doesn't matter to me."
we are regular group sex players at clubs houses where ever.[as a couple]our male has doubled up a few times with females that want double dicks can feel the other cock as you both shag the female .but has never had a meet with just a male .loves the females form .so not shore what we are just players that like the thrill seek .no label required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite simple, I have no desires for men. I do not fancy them, think about them sexually or wish to be near them naked unless there's a woman's torso in between us at all times.

I think that confirms me as being 100% straight. I love how some people who have never even met me can determine my sexuality for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contrary to the the belief of many, very very many men and women are 100% straight and could not be persuaded otherwise because they know themselves and are entirely comfortable with that.

for this

..and some more

Nothings putting any more emojis on this...people might mistake my identity...

However I fully endorse this also. There is zero bend in the straight line of this boy. Having had attention from gay/bi/TV males, I am confident enough in myself to be flattered, but not repulsed but definitely not interested in any format of sexual contact.

#RealstraightnotFABstraight

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Some people's definition of bi sexual is equally comfortable being in a relationship with either sex. I could never have a boyfriend.

I think most bi guys are bi playful in that they are interested in cock play but still won't kiss a guy or try anal."

My neighbour across the hall comes over occasionally, we kiss, suck each other's cock and fuck sometimes. I wouldn't walk down the street and say I fancy a bloke though, that would be gay wouldn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people's definition of bi sexual is equally comfortable being in a relationship with either sex. I could never have a boyfriend.

I think most bi guys are bi playful in that they are interested in cock play but still won't kiss a guy or try anal.

My neighbour across the hall comes over occasionally, we kiss, suck each other's cock and fuck sometimes. I wouldn't walk down the street and say I fancy a bloke though, that would be gay wouldn't it

I think it's a shame that some guys have to urge to dabble in bi play but don't because that would then recategorise them as bi or in some people's minds gay. To my mind if I want to do something I enjoy, someone else can call me whatever they want. It's my body my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexuality can be seen as a fluid spectrum from totally straight to totally gay with a whole range of bisexuality in the middle.

Labels smabels- I just do what I do, can and do have 'straight' sex quite happily. I don't know where I am on the spectrum. It's green, I know that. "

Ditto.....

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Frankly i just enjoy having fun if it looks good do it. This subject always ends up with artificial boundries on here. Wanking a guy is just dick play, oral bi is ok, anal is Bi and Kissing is Gay?

Get knotted!

Sex is fun and everything goes. Girls boys couples its all good. do i have a preference? Yes fun!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Frankly i just enjoy having fun if it looks good do it. This subject always ends up with artificial boundries on here. Wanking a guy is just dick play, oral bi is ok, anal is Bi and Kissing is Gay?

Get knotted!

Sex is fun and everything goes. Girls boys couples its all good. do i have a preference? Yes fun!"

Spot on!

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"Frankly i just enjoy having fun if it looks good do it. This subject always ends up with artificial boundries on here. Wanking a guy is just dick play, oral bi is ok, anal is Bi and Kissing is Gay?

Get knotted!

Sex is fun and everything goes. Girls boys couples its all good. do i have a preference? Yes fun!

Spot on! "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sexuality can be seen as a fluid spectrum from totally straight to totally gay with a whole range of bisexuality in the middle.

Labels smabels- I just do what I do, can and do have 'straight' sex quite happily. I don't know where I am on the spectrum. It's green, I know that.

Ditto.....

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight-bi-gay. I'm between straight and bi..and so listed myself as bi.

I do think bi-playful or hete

exible should be an option on here.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Straight-bi-gay. I'm between straight and bi..and so listed myself as bi.

I do think bi-playful or hete

exible should be an option on here."

Hete what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight-bi-gay. I'm between straight and bi..and so listed myself as bi.

I do think bi-playful or hete

exible should be an option on here.

Hete what? "

Haha sorry r o F l automatically creates an emoji! Hetero-flexible.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I'm 100% straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont think there is such a thing as 100% straight,or gay. guess 50/50 is bi, but what likes/dislikes determine your description?"

Strange post from a straight man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally class myself as straight, but when playing with couples I have gone with the flow, and had a great time hence on my status I say I'm bi sexual. But away from swinging I'm straight and have no sexual feeling towards men!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I personally class myself as straight, but when playing with couples I have gone with the flow, and had a great time hence on my status I say I'm bi sexual. But away from swinging I'm straight and have no sexual feeling towards men!!"

A lot of guys are like that

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

This keeps coming up.

In my view, if you won't play with someone of the same sex, you are straight. If you have never played with someone of the same sex but fancy it, you are 'bi-curious' and If you have played with someone of the same sex and liked it then you are 'bisexual'.

There are of course varying degrees of bisexuality but it's pointless trying to classify them. Some may just be into body contact, some in oral only, others open to full on fuck sessions. Thats where profile descriptions come in.

And all this is completely separate from how people may 'identify' in real-life.

For example when talking about me (male partner).... I am fully bisexual and pretty much nothing is off-limits although I only really want to play in the company of my (bi-fem) partner - obviously, hope she is playing with a girl at the same time! In real-life though, I identify as heterosexual, have no desire for a relationship with a man and I don't think many would guess that behind closed doors, I have a thing about cocks

It's pretty obvious that the levels of bisexuality are massively understated on the site due to the stigma or perceived stigma of putting the truth on a sex hook-up forum. All it does is create confusion and threads like this!

It's all about pleasure people. However that is found...

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"This keeps coming up.

And all this is completely separate from how people may 'identify' in real-life.

It's all about pleasure people. However that is found..."

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

"Some people's definition of bi sexual is equally comfortable being in a relationship with either sex. I could never have a boyfriend.

I think most bi guys are bi playful in that they are interested in cock play but still won't kiss a guy or try anal."

I think bi playful is a perfect term. I adore playing with females but would not want a relationship with a lady.... And if I had to choose would always pick a man..... X

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I can relate to that. I like guys and I can be very fond and effectionate to some.

But my life partner is female and i could never think of a guy in the same way.

Sex and play is just that men woman couples its all good.

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