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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I am not bothered as long as I am safe, you mentioned couple so obviously I take it they wouldn't play safe with each other.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I take responsibility for me.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I am not bothered as long as I am safe, you mentioned couple so obviously I take it they wouldn't play safe with each other."

I wish I knew how to respond to that! Honestly my serious lack of info on "how you operate" means I can't.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!"

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not bothered as long as I am safe, you mentioned couple so obviously I take it they wouldn't play safe with each other.

I wish I knew how to respond to that! Honestly my serious lack of info on "how you operate" means I can't."

I've found that to be normal with a playing couple, to be honest. I can't ever remember the male half of a couple actually using a condom with his partner/wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't use condoms together but if we ever came to having sex with others, would use them then. Either Mr with a female or another man with me.... I really don't understand the point tbh.

We take care of our sexual health together and therefore make our own choices on risk level with each other together too. We don't have that luxury with others.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?"

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway "

How about if you were not bi/ straight but only interested in the woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway "

That was my thoughts too. And the big difference is the risk level in oral is quite different to risk level in vaginal or anal.

Great respect to those who aren't willing to take an oral risk either, it's something I think maybe I should consider and I'm sure I'd kick myself if I caught something because of it, but I take certain risks in other areas of my life where I could, in hindsight, kick myself over too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?"

That's the norm in our experience. The established couple would not be using condoms with each other, and the man joining them will be using a condom.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway

How about if you were not bi/ straight but only interested in the woman?"

I don't get your point still.... If you choose to play with a couple then I think it could be expected that he fucks her. I would suggest if you don't like that then searching out singles may be more your thing. Hey a lot of the time if we are playing, then Mister and I have already played alone before we find others and you'd never have known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should only be worried if he's decides he's gonna fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we don't play with straight men. It's like having sex in a minefield!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?"

Most couples I've met with play this way... ive been ok with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you perhaps a little jealous that he fucks her bare ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

That's the norm in our experience. The established couple would not be using condoms with each other, and the man joining them will be using a condom.

Mrs"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

Most couples I've met with play this way... ive been ok with it! "

exactly. But for clarity I play straight - I'm not interested in anything to do with his cum or anything like that so if he's cum in her I'm not heading 'dahn sarf' for any oral action for example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

Most couples I've met with play this way... ive been ok with it!

exactly. But for clarity I play straight - I'm not interested in anything to do with his cum or anything like that so if he's cum in her I'm not heading 'dahn sarf' for any oral action for example "

Aw not even the clit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a weird op .

Of course most couples play bare together !

And as for cleaning up a cream pie , my wife loves this .

I truly wonder sometimes what the motive is behind some posts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a weird op .

Of course most couples play bare together !

And as for cleaning up a cream pie , my wife loves this .

I truly wonder sometimes what the motive is behind some posts ."

He's worried if he gets the husbands cum on his balls it might turn him into a gaymen.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway

How about if you were not bi/ straight but only interested in the woman?

I don't get your point still.... If you choose to play with a couple then I think it could be expected that he fucks her. I would suggest if you don't like that then searching out singles may be more your thing. Hey a lot of the time if we are playing, then Mister and I have already played alone before we find others and you'd never have known."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No condom with hubby, with condom all other times

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Insist guys use condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Insist guys use condoms"

Cool ,but quite how that's relevant to this thread I don't know ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No condom with hubby, with condom all other times "

Again , how is this relevant to the thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

Most couples I've met with play this way... ive been ok with it!

exactly. But for clarity I play straight - I'm not interested in anything to do with his cum or anything like that so if he's cum in her I'm not heading 'dahn sarf' for any oral action for example

Aw not even the clit? "

lol I did miss the smilie off the end of the end of the post didn't I?

It reads back like 'by 'eck there's no way I'm gay or owt!' ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab police are out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab police are out then "

Nothing to do with policing , just an observation .

So what was the point you were making with respect to the thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously we miss read it or didn't read it correctly.

Now, do we get the firing squad or the hangman?

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By *wingler2013Man
over a year ago

Washington

Yes I would e ok with that as it's clearly his regular partner or wife.

Condom vs no condom is a very tricky area as some ladies like to feel the cum squirting up inside but you always have that niggling doubt about going condom free and all it could imply

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding


"We don't use condoms together but if we ever came to having sex with others, would use them then. Either Mr with a female or another man with me.... I really don't understand the point tbh.

We take care of our sexual health together and therefore make our own choices on risk level with each other together too. We don't have that luxury with others."

respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we miss read it or didn't read it correctly.

Now, do we get the firing squad or the hangman?"

Sorry if you feel offended , but it can be a bit frustrating to lose track on a thread , and you guys weren't the only ones who didn't really respond to it logically . Perhaps I'm tired , or a bit pedantic tonight .

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway "

thats not safe sx kiddo

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway

Definitely

That was my thoughts too. And the big difference is the risk level in oral is quite different to risk level in vaginal or anal.

Great respect to those who aren't willing to take an oral risk either, it's something I think maybe I should consider and I'm sure I'd kick myself if I caught something because of it, but I take certain risks in other areas of my life where I could, in hindsight, kick myself over too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway thats not safe sx kiddo"

No sex is the only truly safe sex .

Licking his cum from her pussy is no different to sucking him off , or licking her without his cum there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway thats not safe sx kiddo"

You either treat everyone you meet like they have AIDS or you mitigate risk. But your car journey there was probably the most risky part of the meet.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway thats not safe sx kiddo well said

No sex is the only truly safe sex .

Licking his cum from her pussy is no different to sucking him off , or licking her without his cum there ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's his wife id expect them to fuck eachother bareback!

Let's assume you were bi and you met a cpl. Would you play with esp the fem dripping of the fella's cum?

I'd lick her yeah, no different than swallowing his load anyway thats not safe sx kiddo

You either treat everyone you meet like they have AIDS or you mitigate risk. But your car journey there was probably the most risky part of the meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

That's the norm in our experience. The established couple would not be using condoms with each other, and the man joining them will be using a condom.

Mrs

This "

? Other man would be using ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

That's the norm in our experience. The established couple would not be using condoms with each other, and the man joining them will be using a condom.

Mrs

This

? Other man would be using ? "

Wearing a condom I assume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet this couple and the guy does not wear a condom but you( single guy) are obviously wearing one.

Will you be ok with it?

That's the norm in our experience. The established couple would not be using condoms with each other, and the man joining them will be using a condom.

Mrs

This

? Other man would be using ?

Wearing a condom I assume "

Yes lol, I get that. Just didn't get the

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