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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Weve just come back from a trip to Eastbourne on a business trip with another ex-club owner .

We then posted details that we were wanting to play with any full swap couples on return journey.

We called in at Hastings, naturists beachs at various places on way home and finally landed back after this monster tour.

We find it incredible that we were not able to find anyone who was able to meet us.....not a single soul.... on this trip.

Meetings page and profile contain our personal phone numbers .....not just a phone for sex sites etc......and this really sums up what real players have to put up with on Fab for a long time now.

Fab is getting to be of little use to us if all most people do is sit in front of computer screens, fantasising and nowt much else.

Please dont be offended by this summing up....if you are offended then we dont really care.....If nothing else at least the players that we are looking for will know where and when we can be found....and the rest of you will hopefully catch up sometime in the future....newbies should be aware that this lifestyle is very very special and worth the long haul!.....Happy hunting amigos!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We still played all along this mad mission ....but not one person we found on beaches and dogging spots....and there were plenty....had ever heard of Fab....strange?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Please dont be offended by this summing up....if you are offended then we dont really care....."

Slightly contradictory there but I'll live.

FAB works for me and I get plenty of meets, that's all I can say from my point of _iew really.

Sorry it hasn't for you recently but please don't assume it's 'broken' or dead just because of your own experience.

Hope things pick up for you soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not offended...I do both, infront of the screen and outwith.Although U really didnt have to apologise for offending if u dont really care anyway lol

sorry to hear aboot ur trip anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totaly agree that most people on fab do sit in front of there computer screens and fantasize and not much else its begining to look like that in ireland swing scene aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of verifications surely suggests that many people are not sitting in front of their screen fantasising, surely??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The number of verifications surely suggests that many people are not sitting in front of their screen fantasising, surely??"

amazing what u get for a fiver! heheheheh x

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

We have tried that as well...trying to get meets when out and about touring on the motorbike...as usual...it's all yes...yes..yes... till giving people dates when in the area then it's sorry...the dog died...babysitter let us down...or the one that annoys me the most...just don't turn up...ooops rant over cos out and about in July...wish us luck..

Liz...xx

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

Paddy do you charge a fiver???? thought you did it for free...lol

liz..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

All I can say about Fabs is.. my rail card and flying carpet have a few stories to last a lifetime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy do you charge a fiver???? thought you did it for free...lol

liz..xx

liz i was cutting my nails that nite....honestly I woulda came, but it was just after the worlds longest nails competition....had alot to cut back xxxsorry xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bugger these fucked up posts lol....am gettin off my keyboard warrior stance and going shagging lol

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

"Weve just come back from a trip to Eastbourne on a business trip with another ex-club owner .

We then posted details that we were wanting to play with any full swap couples on return journey.

We called in at Hastings, naturists beachs at various places on way home and finally landed back after this monster tour.

We find it incredible that we were not able to find anyone who was able to meet us.....not a single soul.... on this trip.

Meetings page and profile contain our personal phone numbers .....not just a phone for sex sites etc......and this really sums up what real players have to put up with on Fab for a long time now.

Fab is getting to be of little use to us if all most people do is sit in front of computer screens, fantasising and nowt much else.

Maybe it was a case of people not wanting to meet you as opposed to not being able to

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

"liz i was cutting my nails that nite....honestly I woulda came, but it was just after the worlds longest nails competition....had alot to cut back xxxsorry xxx"

Missed a trick there Paddy. Could've said you were filing them.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Fab can be great company, good for your ego and a huge rush of excitement but downsides to everything and being let down and the fact that everyone asks to meet when you cant and vice versa can be a swine. Genuine swingers do struggle sometimes seeing the wood for the trees (pun intended lol). Good luck. We all have times when we wonder whether to bother anymore... (then we have a out of the body experience and are glad we stayed)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe it was just you they didnt want to meet. From my experience on here do meet up with people. Usually ones they are attracted to.

If im free on saturday night and put a meet today up should i expect all guys to drop everything to come and meet me?

As for people not having heard of fab, im sure there are lots and lots of swingers that dont use any sites at all.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Everyone has different expectations of the site..

some are very happy with the level of meets achieved, others not..

never, ever gonna please all.

and some think about meets 24/7 and come across a fecking desperate..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

We used to look on the 'meet now' bit of the site fairly regular but have found its mainly full of people who primarily are looking to meet, have a drink then shag.

We have played on a first meet before but very rarely, prefer to meet socially then think about it and meet again etc.

Also like yourself we prefer bi curious cpl's etc so lots of str8 male / bi fem cpl's might not wish to play either.

Then there's the timing, lots of people have other plans etc

Then there's the attraction, has to work both ways unless you want to play for the sake of it.

Would imagine that the number of available people who met your criteria on the given day in the places you visited would be diminished as opposed to people who are 'static' or staying for a longer time??

Just a thought.

nice pics btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't be surprised that naturists hadn't heard of Fab/didn't want to play. In my experience, most naturists are NOT swingers, and in fact are opposed to the lifestyle. God help the poor bloke that gets a hard-on when on a naturist beach!

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