FabSwingers.com forum: Cudding after sex

By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I find it quite disturbing that a lot of men don't engage in it. For me, sex is brilliant but the post-sex cuddling and kissing and touching is just as amazing. Pity some men just deflate instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep often leads to more fucking

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

always did love the pre cuddle or spooning with the lady, it always led to other things

but I wasnt the only one that was naughty either as some ladys do love wiggerling there hips whilst your spooning up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep often leads to more fucking

right answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a quite beautiful cuddle on Saturday night; with a quite wonderful person... I think we (well at least I) was a bit too sleepy for anything vigorous but it was quite wonderful to hold a beautiful woman in my arms as she sat cross-legged in my lap..... funny old world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles are intimacy in their own form and they are important to me after a hot sex session. Don't understand anyone who doesn't enjoy a cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it quite disturbing that a lot of men don't engage in it. For me, sex is brilliant but the post-sex cuddling and kissing and touching is just as amazing. Pity some men just deflate instantly."

nothing wrong with that, I do it all time.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Cuddles are intimacy in their own form and they are important to me after a hot sex session. Don't understand anyone who doesn't enjoy a cuddle."

Me neither, I find it quite cold if a guy just jumps up and disappears into the bathroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I'd feel used and abused without a cuddle and not in a good way!

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

Cuddles rock anytime anyplace but especially after or before intimacy, I'm the best cuddler apparently and if you are ever cold I'm ya man. Can't guarantee the warmin up process would be nudge in bum free lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like cuddles from anyone I'm not really close with. I don't mind a hug but cuddles with strangers, acquaintances, friends and even the majority of my family. No thanks

I like keeping cuddles for the people I love and really care about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always good for a cuddle after sex or otherwise im a cuddler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really a cuddler (Mrs) after sex with Mr. I do it for about a minute then move over lol

I will hold his hand and lie close but too hot for cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We cuddle after sex but as a sub I expect that from mr SnT and he is more than happy to oblige. Aftercare is a very important part of our play. Not into cuddling with a stranger though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good lady had her fair share of cuddles on our last meet ... she cuddled me while our ' friend ' had sex with her then cuddled him while i had sex with her then cuddled me then him then me then started all over again in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta have a cuddle afterwards....keeps the glow going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to, I'd choose the cuddle over the sex.Real intimacy

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By *elshman52Man
over a year ago

North Wales

I must admit that I sometimes miss cuddling up more than the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol most women are considered 'just a fuck' so choose wisely OP if you want to be treated like a lady should be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kisses, cuddles, sex, cuddles, kisses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit that I sometimes miss cuddling up more than the sex. "

You're not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kisses, cuddles, sex, cuddles, kisses. "

... Maybe not what swingers want to do, but, I like those personal and intimate moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy if he made me a cup of tea after. I cuddle one of my buddies when we meet, but I move if we want to sleep

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't do cold sex, so I take my time getting to know someone first, if I have to go without for months then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enjoy the come down after sex for sure - hate to finish fucking and just up and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when we've swapped partners we still enjoy cuddling each other. I miss my cuddles with him when I don't see him

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

This is not white knighting or any such nonsense I was raised by a single parent my mum so cuddles are in me. add into that fact that as a small boy I would climb into my mums bed in the middle of the night for cuddles plus that I crave true intimacy to feel sexually fulfilled and truly excited and you have a guy who can not do cold in any shape or form even when the sex is over .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuddles are intimacy in their own form and they are important to me after a hot sex session. Don't understand anyone who doesn't enjoy a cuddle."
intimacy and sex are not the same thing. I want sex with meets not intimacy and that is the same if not more so when I was on as a single.

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, definitely love a post-match cuddle! Feels so intimate

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Post cum and arms round me and I sleep like a baby.... A tells me it takes about 2 minutes

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Definitely a massive fan of cuddling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling is intimate but it also leads to more enjoyable sex. I (Mrs) however would instantly go to sleep after a little wriggle so as a meet defenitly don't think it Wld be appropriate incase we all had other places to go lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuddles are intimacy in their own form and they are important to me after a hot sex session. Don't understand anyone who doesn't enjoy a cuddle. intimacy and sex are not the same thing. I want sex with meets not intimacy and that is the same if not more so when I was on as a single.

Cali x"

I love a cuddle but i dont view them as intimate

What makes something intimate, to me, is the feelings you have towards the person, if its just a meet off here then a cuddle is just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's all part of the fun. Love a cuddle. Especially a snoozy one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think thats why my past fuck buddies have always ended up asking about stepping up and turning into a relationship, because I always cuddle after sex. It just feels right.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Love a cuddle after sex but only with a small number of people I have a real connection with

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Love a cuddle after sex but only with a small number of people I have a real connection with

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By *yomaMan
over a year ago

hove

u r right....i do love cuddles after sex.....they are so relaxing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't anyone want to cuddle close after sex? The warmth and togetherness and oooohh those little neck nibbles. It's the warm recuperation before more fun mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles aren't normally my thing to be honest. I only have this with my most trusted chap. The last time I had an unsolicited cuddle was beautiful and broke my heart a little as he was moving to that London. Sometimes there's a little string that a cuddle exposes and I'm not a fan of finding the strings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cuddles after sex with my man

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sharing a special cuddle with someone I care about. Even if it doesnt lead to sex, sharing that intimacy, can still give a warm, fuzzy feeling.

Of course, if the scenario is open to shenannigans, then cuddles before and after, is even better

Some fab forum comments, typically suggest 'cold and clinical', is the norm. I don't think I would (or could) have sex with someone in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would someone cuddle you after sex if they are not emotionally attached to you?

Cuddling is a very personal thing for a lot of people and it's often a sign of closeness which in this world that's not going to be the case unless it's a couple or people who've known each other awhile.

Cue the row of men who start Cuddling now to make a point when in reality they would be uncomfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh a naked cuddle is just what I want right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle after sex with a stranger - no. After sex with hubby - always.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

My typical meet sort of goes:

Chat

Giggle

Kiss

Cuddle

Bonk

Kiss

Cuddle

Chat

Giggle

Kiss

Cuddle

Bonk

Kiss

Cuddles

(Repeat as required!)

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

There's nothing like cwtching the misses after sex & falling asleep in each others arms

then waking up & starting all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found, and just my experience, most women don't want to know, including current wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very touchy feely naturally, so a post coital cuddle is lovely. I don't do the fuck and run scenario. It doesn't do it for me at all. Anyone who wants to just leave straight after sex, with not even a bit of cuddling, can pass me by every time. I wouldn't want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree! I love cuddling after when ur both out of breath! And then cuddle up spoon and just have my cock there inbetween a juicy big ass!! Gives me a rocker again and its time for the next round! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good spoon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cali x

I love a cuddle but i dont view them as intimate

What makes something intimate, to me, is the feelings you have towards the person, if its just a meet off here then a cuddle is just that"

Ditto. It's just a physical act like any other. It's the person that makes it mean something or otherwise.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Cali x

I love a cuddle but i dont view them as intimate

What makes something intimate, to me, is the feelings you have towards the person, if its just a meet off here then a cuddle is just that

Ditto. It's just a physical act like any other. It's the person that makes it mean something or otherwise."

I agree with this but I must just add cuddling a woman makes me feel more manly in some strange way it appeals to my protectorate side and my masculinity therefore makes me feel like a man .which is very important to me as a male and as a sexual being especially in the sex meets world where one is often left feeling like a object by the actions of so many who in swim in its murky waters .

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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Cuddles are intimacy in their own form and they are important to me after a hot sex session. Don't understand anyone who doesn't enjoy a cuddle.

Me neither, I find it quite cold if a guy just jumps up and disappears into the bathroom. "

OHHHHH I hate that so much !

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

"If I had to, I'd choose the cuddle over the sex.Real intimacy "

I love sex but it as to have intimacy too. I love kissing, caressing and cuddling. Especially if I'm skin2skin with someone before, during and after sex

I perform better when it's passionate, without passion and desire, it may as well be my right hand, or see a prostitute

Ive heard lots of guys cum turn over fart and go to sleep, I like to keep the fires stoked. It's normally good for me and good for my partner, till part 2, 3 and 4 etc

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

"Cuddles are intimacy in their own form and they are important to me after a hot sex session. Don't understand anyone who doesn't enjoy a cuddle.

Me neither, I find it quite cold if a guy just jumps up and disappears into the bathroom.

OHHHHH I hate that so much !

Some men are real pandas, I much prefer exploring the mind and body before during and after and hopefully the next time, be it in an hour, in the morning or as a fwb, real pleasures comes from finding out what pushes each other's buttons and I don't care how good you think you are, it can get better.

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By *ellowbabesCouple
over a year ago

newport/cwmbran

Nothing better then cuddle after.mrs

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

"Kisses, cuddles, sex, cuddles, kisses. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn't sleep with someone I wouldnt cuddle, unless it was at a club or something, then thats a bit different. I love the feeling of rolling over into an embrace in the morning, a hand on my hip, the other striking my hair, pulling me closer for a morning session... Best way to start the day

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

"I probably wouldn't sleep with someone I wouldnt cuddle, unless it was at a club or something, then thats a bit different. I love the feeling of rolling over into an embrace in the morning, a hand on my hip, the other striking my hair, pulling me closer for a morning session... Best way to start the day

Oh my yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated being cuddled as a child and even now it makes me feel smothered...it was only when I let buns cuddle me that I knew he was the one...with meets we have a cuppa and a laugh but no cuddles.

if I was meeting as a single woman I would be exactly the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very touchy feely naturally, so a post coital cuddle is lovely. I don't do the fuck and run scenario. It doesn't do it for me at all. Anyone who wants to just leave straight after sex, with not even a bit of cuddling, can pass me by every time. I wouldn't want to meet them. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hated being cuddled as a child and even now it makes me feel smothered...it was only when I let buns cuddle me that I knew he was the one...with meets we have a cuppa and a laugh but no cuddles.

if I was meeting as a single woman I would be exactly the same..."
this sounds like me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good cuddle. Nothing better than collapsing into each other worn out and sticky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how connected I feel with the guy as to whether I seek a cuddle. I'm guessing guys could be similar.

You'd think that sex was the ultimate connection with another human being, but the truth is, sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't. A cuddle can be more intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it quite disturbing that a lot of men don't engage in it. For me, sex is brilliant but the post-sex cuddling and kissing and touching is just as amazing. Pity some men just deflate instantly.

It depends how connected I feel with the guy as to whether I seek a cuddle. I'm guessing guys could be similar.

You'd think that sex was the ultimate connection with another human being, but the truth is, sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't. A cuddle can be more intimate."

Totally agree I also find kissing is more intimate than sex at times

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By *pen 2 offersMan
over a year ago

Irchester

My first long term gf used to love me staying inside her after I'd cum. We'd cuddle with me still deep in her, gradually going down. She liked it even more if we fell asleep like that and once or twice we woke with me still in her.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like a post sex cuddle

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Not bothered about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant beat a good cuddle after sex. Legs wrapped around each other and caressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling after one-on-one sex is very important to me. After such an intense experience, cuddling provides a lovely wind-down phase with the chance to continue connection, get a sense of a person, and creates a possibility of more sexy play... Perhaps even more intense! Spooning & cuddling are true joys!

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By *elen AthertonTV/TS
over a year ago

Leigh

I quite agree with you. I love cuddling and kissing pre and post sex. Pre it's very likely but like you say post sex most guys loose interest but when a guy does it makes me feel whole x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant beat a good cuddle after sex. Legs wrapped around each other and caressing"
with a partner agreed.. with a meet.. I would utterly freak

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

Me and my master do sometimes have really hard rough kinky sex what ever you want to call it we really go for it but no matter if it's love making or hard we always cuddle afterwards it's a big must for me after I have got all that out of my system it's good to just cuddle afterwards X

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

"Cant beat a good cuddle after sex. Legs wrapped around each other and caressing"

And ladies, Wurzel is very good at this. I've got first hand experience. Give him a try, you won't be disappointed in any way

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I had a quite beautiful cuddle on Saturday night; with a quite wonderful person... I think we (well at least I) was a bit too sleepy for anything vigorous but it was quite wonderful to hold a beautiful woman in my arms as she sat cross-legged in my lap..... funny old world "

Aww sounds delightful hope she liked it too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of my favourite parts

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Not a big fan of cuddling others after sex. I'll happily lay there naked and have a chat/giggle. If they're really lucky, I'll bring them tea and biscuits up to bed once I get got my breath back.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Cant beat a good cuddle after sex. Legs wrapped around each other and caressing with a partner agreed.. with a meet.. I would utterly freak "

Better with a partner.

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

"Cant beat a good cuddle after sex. Legs wrapped around each other and caressing with a partner agreed.. with a meet.. I would utterly freak

Better with a partner."

Think most things are lol

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ohhh...I'm a 'nip to the loo then pass out' kinda gal. Orgasms just suck the life outta me!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Cant beat a good cuddle after sex. Legs wrapped around each other and caressing with a partner agreed.. with a meet.. I would utterly freak

Better with a partner.

Think most things are lol"

In a lot of ways they are.

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

"Cant beat a good cuddle after sex. Legs wrapped around each other and caressing with a partner agreed.. with a meet.. I would utterly freak

Better with a partner.

Think most things are lol

In a lot of ways they are."

Yeah I'd love to have an FWB that i can share things with, nothing heavy just enjoy doing things like going out etc plus having the benefit of some mind blowing naughtiness with each other.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I quite like a little spoon after

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Pre or even during sex I'm not interested in cuddles in the slightest

But afterwards, whether it's hormonal release or whatever I get the desire to hold and cuddle and have that closer intimate time - much prefer that to the having to get dressed and go quick alternative

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

"I quite like a little spoon after "

Sorry I can only do big spoon honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would make for a rubbish cuddle partner

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By *ecretDaddy1Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I give awesome cuddles so I wouldn't refuse to give one after sex

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I love cuddles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles before and after. ...and any other time too

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I get all the the cuddles I need and want from my partner - for me swinging is just about the nsa sex not cuddles or emotional intimacy - I really wouldn't want someone I had just played with to cuddle me (though more sex would be fine!)

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

Anther one here who loves cuddles before, after and at any time really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with OP there are some guys who just do not really cuddle. Some women as well no doubt. I love cuddles and spooning after sex before sex and at any time to be honest. Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a cuddle but they are to busy running back to their wives !!!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes kisses and cuddles before during and after sex boost the enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving a lady a nice cuddle after sex her head on my chest as I wrap my arms around here and kissing her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empty sacks, clear mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally have built up a connection with someone before I get intimate with them so cuddling feels a natural part of it...and let's face it, if you have done the job properly you need the time to help ground them again to avoid sub drop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving a lady a nice cuddle after sex her head on my chest as I wrap my arms around here and kissing her "

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles, spooning, gentle stroking is a wonderful come down after an intense session or indeed as part of an extended session while you catch breath

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By *inkpanther773Man
over a year ago

leigh

Personally I love post sex cuddles and kissing, it completes it all for me and could lead to round 2 with a bit of luck

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I quite like a little spoon after

Sorry I can only do big spoon honey "

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to cuddle with my man before and after sex just to lie there and hold each other ,i love spooning as well and have to admit im an ass wiggler lol my man gives the best cuddles always feel better after a cuddle off him

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

"Cuddles, spooning, gentle stroking is a wonderful come down after an intense session or indeed as part of an extended session while you catch breath"

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's one one one.....then always.

Doesn't always work in mmf or group play!

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

In a 1 to 1 situation, it is definitely high on my wish list. There is nothing better than feeling a partner's hot body snuggled next to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its called after care! Its really important i feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to have a cuddle afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I love it before n after I'm a proper cwtchy person.

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By *ad-GirlWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

A lot of guys are looking for no strings and some see this as getting too close. Well thats what one guy I asked said on this.

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By *ndianswingers.Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a nice feeling haveing a women cuddle up to you. With your arms around. I find very sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its called after care! Its really important i feel."
not if its just sex.. if aftercare is required .. then id expect it wasn't with a random person anyway...

believe it or not women can have sex without needing a guy to cuddle them after...

If its important that you want cuddles then meet others that want cuddles but even as a single id hate a guy to want to cuddle up.. once he had cum id be expecting him to go... but i dont meet 121 only in 2 or more anyway when ive met as a single.

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I like a cuddle after a bit but straight after I like a high five and a wee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just standard isn't it? Is with me, cuddles, tickles etc .. it's just nice and relaxing and most of the time leads to other things.. that's just me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody who doesn't engage in this, in my opinion, isn't really into the individual but more into their own requirements....the post sex antics should be nearly as rewarding as the sex itself

Or am I just old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it quite disturbing that a lot of men don't engage in it. For me, sex is brilliant but the post-sex cuddling and kissing and touching is just as amazing. Pity some men just deflate instantly.

A lot of guys are looking for no strings and some see this as getting too close. Well thats what one guy I asked said on this. "

It can totally ruin an ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I need to move up north for cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I need to move up north for cuddles

I'm waiting for you with open arms my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was requested why the hell not

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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"I love giving a lady a nice cuddle after sex her head on my chest as I wrap my arms around here and kissing her "

Lucky girls then, definitely love that

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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"I get all the the cuddles I need and want from my partner - for me swinging is just about the nsa sex not cuddles or emotional intimacy - I really wouldn't want someone I had just played with to cuddle me (though more sex would be fine!)"

But that's the point - cuddling and kissing after sex leads to more sex inevitably.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

with the person ive been with at the time, Ive actually cuddled into her whilst still inside of her and on top.

Then roll to one side and cuddle each other face to face, On other occasions its been spooning until shes close to sleep or so I think.

then I turn to the other side

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By *unfriends1976Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I love it. It adds to the pleasure

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I love giving a lady a nice cuddle after sex her head on my chest as I wrap my arms around here and kissing her

Lucky girls then, definitely love that"

We must meet.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Really need a hug/kiss after sex it just finishes the meet perfectly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really need a hug/kiss after sex it just finishes the meet perfectly x"

It would be criminal not to finish in such a way

done the right way it can lead to more fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't want to cuddle every guy I shag. I'm only comfortable doing it with a certain few otherwise it's just awkward

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

always have to have a cuddle, pretty much a prerequisite for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disturbing is a bit strong no? It's sex. You can still lay there and have a chat but I don't want a cuddle afterwards tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cali x"

Agree with this. I won't just cuddle up with someone I've not long met. In my 4 years on here, I think I've only felt comfortable to do this with 2 people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all about the post sex cuddle/spoon/cwtch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Episode 4 of 'Class' (Doctor Who spinoff)...

Shadow Kin king (Demon-like alien from a darkness realm), shares a heart across space/time, with a human girl. Girl has sex, prompting alien king to also want bonkies.

Post-coital alien (awkwardly): "I don't suppose... we could have a moment of cuddling?" - lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find cuddles a bit like kissing. Without it feels really hollow for us and more akin to having a wank. But that's why we only play with people we genuinely like and want to get to know.

Maybe not in a group play at a club though, then we have each other.

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