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By *herealdeal90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Hey girls, if you're out and about on a night out. Do you get happy if a guy approaches you and chats you up, or do you find it unwanted or creepy? A few of my girl mates say they hate it when a guy buys them a drink and chats them up. So now when I see a girl I like I back off and won't speak to her. Would love to know your views

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Never used to bother me. However, my job has totally warped my perspective not life and people, so it bothers me more now, but doesn't ruin a night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I used to live in Leeds I would go to this one wetherspoons on Friday nights. It has a bacony which overlooks the dance floor. Marc and I would order drinks and then just watch the dance floor from above. It was fascinating. If you ever want to learn something about human behavior (or at east British behavior ) then give it a try. It was really easy to spot from above who was interested in being chatted up, who wasn't, and everything in between.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i dont venture out into vanilla land. i have twice in two years, the first time i had two pissed guys grovelling at my feet all night and the second time i had loads of young men telling me i didnt look half my age and how i was fascinating.

i dislike vanilla land, i dislike the getting d*unk culture, how no one can speak to you as a person and i dont fancy people from this area. so to answer you question. i dislike the kind of attention, men in vanilla land here, give me, its as shallow as a muddy puddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i'm enjoying myself then it would bother me. also if they ask me the same question more than once that also get on my tits. if they're d*unk then leave me alone too.

not everyone goes out to tap off.

a lot of women would be pissed off by the fact that they can't go anywhere without a man thinking they need male attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst is when you're at the bar, and they approach you there. My partner gets miffed if we're out together. Men will attempt to blatantly flirt, with him right there. I find that very rude.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"The worst is when you're at the bar, and they approach you there. My partner gets miffed if we're out together. Men will attempt to blatantly flirt, with him right there. I find that very rude. "

....and very disrespectful. There are way too many sleazebags out there. I really feel sorry for women when I can go out because even I can see how offputting the men can be. And here's a little secret - the bad behaviorist of a lot of women is also very offputting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst is when you're at the bar, and they approach you there. My partner gets miffed if we're out together. Men will attempt to blatantly flirt, with him right there. I find that very rude.

....and very disrespectful. There are way too many sleazebags out there. I really feel sorry for women when I can go out because even I can see how offputting the men can be. And here's a little secret - the bad behaviorist of a lot of women is also very offputting. "

You are completely right. It does go for both sexes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find the man attractive, I like it.

If I don't find them attractive, then they can leave me the fuck alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find the man attractive, I like it.

If I don't find them attractive, then they can leave me the fuck alone "

Love it

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Maybe I'm in the minority but I quite enjoy being chatted up especially if it's an attractive guy. What I don't enjoy is a guy not backing off if I don't respond.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It doesn't happen so often to me nowadays but if a guy is respectful and knows when to back off great. Its the ones who wont take no for an answer that receive the sharp edge of my tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find the man attractive, I like it.

If I don't find them attractive, then they can leave me the fuck alone

Love it "

Ditto!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't like it.

I'm married, I wear my wedding rings, they don't know that I'm a swinger so as far as they are aware they are out of order for trying it on with a married woman. I find disrespect a massive turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been asked if I wanted a drink or anything as innocent as that. Always get the creeps. One guy asked me if I wanted to move to Poland with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare I'm approached on a girlie night out. I did have a group of lads once who sang "big girl you are beautiful" as I passed a queue to a club. That's as close as it gets. (I'm so ugly ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never happens to me. I think I give off a completely asexual vibe. But it would make me uncomfortable being chatted up in public, and I'd probably assume they were taking the piss or it was a bet to chat up the fat one.

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london


"It never happens to me. I think I give off a completely asexual vibe. But it would make me uncomfortable being chatted up in public, and I'd probably assume they were taking the piss or it was a bet to chat up the fat one. "

Really, it's one of the hardest things to do if you see someone you real think it that hot that if you don't at least try you may never see them again. I know guys his will speak to any women if they think they have a chance and I understand that ladies can believe all guys are just chancers but you never know it could be the one...

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