FabSwingers.com forum: 'Straight' Men Harrising Bi Men For Sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just had (yet) another message from a guy:

Profile Straight

Only seeking females.

Harrising me for a meet. I know this topic is done to death on here, but I'm half tempted to post the message stream so the 'all bi men want straight men' brigade can see how repetitive it is.

Shame I can't name the guy, which I know is a no no...

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Happens all the time

I had one even said

"not looking for single guys"!!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I was winked by a bi guy earlier.

Shall we call it even?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was winked by a bi guy earlier.

Shall we call it even?"

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Ditto amount of straight guys i get messaging i lose count

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

LOL

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Some are born gay...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Some are born gay..."

Some achieve gayness...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness..."

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a message is a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a message is a message

More messages than I get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

I was born gay. I learned how to like women too.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man. "

Well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man.

Well..."

Jolly good. I'd hate for you to get rusty rather than thrusty.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"a message is a message

More messages than I get!

In future, all my unsolicited male interest will be forwarded to you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man. "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man.

Well..."

Which one do you mean?

There have been meets three this week, Monday morning filler; the funniest was probably the couple on Monday where the bottom was really enthusiastic but his bf just watched with a sour look; and then that young blonde Scottish guy in a beautiful hotel last night.

Take your pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man.

Well...

Which one do you mean?

Take your pick.

I have my sex vicariously through you. And I'm exhausted!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man.

Well...

Which one do you mean?

Take your pick.

I have my sex vicariously through you. And I'm exhausted! "

I know, it's only Weds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had that on occasion but it's not a thing that bothers me. I figure they're just in the closet a bit or trying to tailor a profile that in their opinion will attract more women or couples or whatever.

I choose to just ignore the message. It's not a hardship in my life. not to the point i'd bat an eyelid to be honest..it's of zero consequence

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

or in them

DJ's probably just come from seeing to some unsuspecting young man.

Well...

Which one do you mean?

Take your pick.

I have my sex vicariously through you. And I'm exhausted! "

You can live it thru me too but take off your self-winding watch or it will be ruined.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will I be vilified if I said I ended up meeting him?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Will I be vilified if I said I ended up meeting him?

Nah.

But we want verifications or it never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are 'pansexual' ...we love pirex cookware too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will I be vilified if I said I ended up meeting him?

So you meet the person who inspired you to open the thread?

So what was the point of this in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are 'pansexual' ...we love pirex cookware too"

You can't beat a good non stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a "straight" guy message me a few days ago asking me to fuck him and and that it would be the best sex I ever had. That was his opening line and he got offended when I said no

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Will I be vilified if I said I ended up meeting him?

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Must be how all the women and couples feel being msg'd by single guys. What's the big deal? Ignore and move on. Surely if you have your preferences set right guys can't msg you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People bang on about it being being "Straight" men asking to suck cock etc.

I disagree, who's to say it's not bi men or bi curious men claiming to be straight on their profile?

The last time I checked genuinely straight men don't play with guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of this is bi men refusing to admit to being bi, but are only convincing themselves that they are straight. Some of the things I've heard of are comical. I only do oral, so I'm straight is just one of them.

I get a lot of these messages and I think a lot of them see my profile pic but nothing else then assume I'm a woman dressed in a black lace negligee 24/7.

When I point out the reality, some refuse to admit making a mistake, chat for a while longer then block or leave altogether!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, it's not straight men that's the issue.

It's Bi men refusing to admit on their profile that they are Bi for fear of alienating themselves from a lot of couples and women who won't play with Bi guys so claim to be straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm glad I'm not being condemned on here, because I've just gone to check his profile (and mine for a veri, after I veri'd him), UNLOS!

#ohtheshame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering this is a fairly anonymous site the level of denial that these men wallow in is quite staggering. Come (virtually) out, embrace the cock

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By *ok64Man
over a year ago

dudley

"Some are born gay...

Some achieve gayness...

And others have gayness thrust upon them.

I was born gay. I learned how to like women too. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight" men harass straight men for sex too!

Some guy contacted me wanting to suck my cock, I replied saying 'but your profile says you're straight' to which he said 'so does yours (wink wink)'

Er yeah. That's because I AM straight fella!

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By *olfgangvwMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

Some of the best gay men are "straight"! I'm beginning to think no men are completely straight. Good news for us bi and gay men!

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"I've just had (yet) another message from a guy:

Profile Straight

Only seeking females.

Harrising me for a meet. I know this topic is done to death on here, but I'm half tempted to post the message stream so the 'all bi men want straight men' brigade can see how repetitive it is.

Shame I can't name the guy, which I know is a no no... "

I get this constantly, they get through all my filters, telling me they suck me better then any women. I always say thanks but no thanks as guy don't turn me on. If only a 10th of the messages I get from guys were from women I would me getting my cock sucked twice daily some weeks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of the best gay men are "straight"! I'm beginning to think no men are completely straight. Good news for us bi and gay men!"

I read something last week that bisexuality is nature's intended 'norm' and exclusively gay or straight people are actually the aberration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually mate your experience sounds ok. Last one I got was along the lines of "you want to suck my cock" followed by something not repeatable. Needless to say I check profiles now before the message.

Was tempted to report it but tbh I hope it was a one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMHO we are all on a sliding scale somewhere between straight and gay. And where we are on that spectrum probably differs from day to day. How on earth we manage to pigeonhole the entire realm of human sexuality into three categories I just don't know.

Cummon Fab. Can't you give us a bi-playful option!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"IMHO we are all on a sliding scale somewhere between straight and gay. And where we are on that spectrum probably differs from day to day. How on earth we manage to pigeonhole the entire realm of human sexuality into three categories I just don't know.

Cummon Fab. Can't you give us a bi-playful option!"

Totally agree with everything you've written!

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By *oungWiganBiMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I've just had a guy with "straight" in his profile telling me how he was going to make me his "secret fuck buddy" when I declined he got all abusive

Straight. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had a guy with "straight" in his profile telling me how he was going to make me his "secret fuck buddy" when I declined he got all abusive

Straight. LOL"

Fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a lighter note I have just laughed out loud at a straight guys post on the Irish forums.

Says he has now come out as a lesbian and now all of the bi women can contact him. Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cummon Fab. Can't you give us a bi-playful option!"

That's what bi-curious is for

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By *smithyukMan
over a year ago

Staffs

Does this happen or you bi guys all just dreaming!?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a lighter note I have just laughed out loud at a straight guys post on the Irish forums.

Says he has now come out as a lesbian and now all of the bi women can contact him. Brilliant.

I've known guys go TV for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this happen or you bi guys all just dreaming!?!!!

Most have blocked single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this happen or you bi guys all just dreaming!?!!!

Exactly this I suspect. If a supposed straight guy messages another guy for sex then they're either bi or gay not straight. Thought that would be quite obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the best gay men are "straight"! I'm beginning to think no men are completely straight. Good news for us bi and gay men!

I read something last week that bisexuality is nature's intended 'norm' and exclusively gay or straight people are actually the aberration?"

Did you read it in the Daily Sport

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Does this happen or you bi guys all just dreaming!?!!!

Exactly this I suspect. If a supposed straight guy messages another guy for sex then they're either bi or gay not straight. Thought that would be quite obvious.

First rule of seducing a straight man - never question his sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, it's not straight men that's the issue.

It's Bi men refusing to admit on their profile that they are Bi for fear of alienating themselves from a lot of couples and women who won't play with Bi guys so claim to be straight. "

But the " all straight men are secretly bi or gay" brigade will conveniently ignore your post lol.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Does this happen or you bi guys all just dreaming!?!!!

Exactly this I suspect. If a supposed straight guy messages another guy for sex then they're either bi or gay not straight. Thought that would be quite obvious.

First rule of seducing a straight man - never question his sexuality."

Nice tits btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a few of these messages. when ive said your profile says your straight they just say , yes they put that so they do not put of women and couples looking for straight men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if women posted a moan every time they got a message from someone who had ignored their profile....

to settle an srgument,i ran a list of them yesterday...out of 67, 3 had read profile...thats a lot of moany posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cummon Fab. Can't you give us a bi-playful option!

That's what bi-curious is for

Not really. Bi-curious and bi-playful are completely different. Bi-curious implies that you haven't tried it enough to be decided on your preference. Bi-playful is that in a certain situation when the mood is right you'll cross the gender line. The rest of the time you're effectively straight.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know what I am. Bisexual is such a broad and blunt adjective.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I don't know what I am. Bisexual is such a broad and blunt adjective. "

Bisexual is such a heterosexual word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what we call "fab straight" lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if women posted a moan every time they got a message from someone who had ignored their profile....

to settle an srgument,i ran a list of them yesterday...out of 67, 3 had read profile...thats a lot of moany posts"

Must be worth the hassle lol

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