FabSwingers.com forum: waste of time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

been on here a while now and still had no meets from this site. it seems to me that most people are on here just to amuse themselves and not for sexual encounters. are there any serious people on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you not seen the number of verifications on profiles? Plenty of people meet just a case of patience and time.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

You have only been here 4 weeks!

Give it some time and have some patience

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

be patient ffs it happens to us all can go weeks without a meet then like a bus all come around at once

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ooops just wrote almost the same as you brightbabe

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"be patient ffs it happens to us all can go weeks without a meet then like a bus all come around at once"

be patient ffs? now thats not very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have to wait ur turn am afraid not everyone is timewasters we have had one meet

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Only 4 weeks, it can take 4 months or more to get a meet for most of the single blokes.

You need to sell yourself and be patient. It does come eventually if you're honest and respectful.

Good luck.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

You have to remember how many single guys there are and how many women/couples. They can afford to be very picky. It's nothing personal, or a sign of time wasting, just a fact of this kind of site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooops just wrote almost the same as you brightbabe

Great minds and all that ...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Did i sleep for 24 hours and wake up on Thursday?

Swinging is most certainly not a sprint,think more tortoise than hare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As per your post from the other day plenty of meets do go on - not all shown on the verifications

Of course you are going to encounter a few timewasters,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been on here a while now and still had no meets from this site. it seems to me that most people are on here just to amuse themselves and not for sexual encounters. are there any serious people on here?

We are serious

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

You've only been on the site for 4 weeks?

You have to go with the flow and bide your time! OK, I was on for only 2 weeks before I got my first response, but it was another few weeks before a meet came about!

This site is better than a lot of others, where I could wait months!

As the old saying goes, "Patience is a virtue!"

Stick with it; it will happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of users on here are very serious

takes time;

only had 1 meet myself in 3 months

dose not happen over night

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Patience is a virtue my friend and there are no hard and fast rules on how to score on a swinging site. It can take one minute or NEVER.

Welcome to the world of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are serious

I agree with the op. We don't know anybody that has had a meet & we would never consider meeting for fun. (has he gone yet???)

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

it took us a few mnths before we got a meet and now its going abit slow,as others say sometimes its slow sometimes loads of ppl wana meet you.its defo patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already sai, patience is a virtue lol, guess i can say that tho seeing as ive had a few meets now lol, it will cum in time, peeps like to build up a freiendship on here 2 which makes 4 gr8 sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get along to some socials its a great way to get yourself known and meets will come your way soon enough after that i'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meets take time, the genuine people are easy to spot when you chat and e-mail..

patience = virtue and dont get angry!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Although just out of curiosity, and obviously this has nothing to do with the fact you arn't getting laid, but why do 2 of your pictures have different names on the watermark?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear goooooooooood, not another whiny single-male thread. AAAAAAAAAAAAARGH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although just out of curiosity, and obviously this has nothing to do with the fact you arn't getting laid, but why do 2 of your pictures have different names on the watermark?"

SEE HIS other tread change user name after uploading pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who wants sex right now always gets me meets!!!!-then i cant be arsed and end up just wanking my load into my laptop...it amuses me!!!lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

try selling yourself a bit more in your profile, what makes you different from the 1000s of other guys.

post in the forum and get involved in the threads,have a laugh and banter then you won't just be thought of as a moaner, there is enuf of them.

good luck.

ps.. you seem to have a pic similar to a dogging type one.. or was there a womans bum on the table when you stopped off for your picnic. Get them to verify you if they are on here.

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By *addaddyMan
over a year ago

corby

Dont give up, an oldie like me still manages to meet some lovely singles and couples, after that first meet and verification people start to trust your gen and no time waster, be honest in your answers, people will soon start talking

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By *he Usual SuspectMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

If you havent had any meets where did the dogging pic come from ?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

ohh god i forgot !! i should as a female be poised here at keybord ready to be at beck and call of any and every single guy who messages me ! dressed in my sexy undies and fuck me boots ,car keys in one hand condoms in other waiting to rush out the door and hit motor way to meet a guy soon as he wants . i apologise for neglecting my duties in favour of such frivolious things as family ,work and normal day to day life . rest assured i reassessed my priorities and will make sure i dont waste time on these things ,as swinging is the centre of the universe and everything should revolve around it and the guys who need to a meet "yesterday " .

again i apologise and will take myself to the naughty corner and think about how my thoughtlessness has inconvienced you .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ohh god i forgot !! i should as a female be poised here at keybord ready to be at beck and call of any and every single guy who messages me ! dressed in my sexy undies and fuck me boots ,car keys in one hand condoms in other waiting to rush out the door and hit motor way to meet a guy soon as he wants . i apologise for neglecting my duties in favour of such frivolious things as family ,work and normal day to day life . rest assured i reassessed my priorities and will make sure i dont waste time on these things ,as swinging is the centre of the universe and everything should revolve around it and the guys who need to a meet "yesterday " .

again i apologise and will take myself to the naughty corner and think about how my thoughtlessness has inconvienced you .........

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Glad you have finally realised this now jump in the car and drive down here and when you wake me up please have a nice cup of coffee waiting

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

lmao !!! of course ! you want cream with it ? ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lmao !!! of course ! you want cream with it ? ......"
No you will do nicely

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i dont do anything "nicely " hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coming accross desporet is not going to do you any favors mate!

theres probably 100 blokes to 1 woman, its not as easy as saying how you doing fancy a shag lol I get more blokes messaging me then women lol even tho my profile quite clearly states im not gay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont do anything "nicely " hehe x"
Well in that case put the coffee down and jump in

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive been on this site 3 1/2 years. Im a bi female. I get tons of messages. How many people have i met directly through this site and no other ways. Seven thats all thats taken my fancy

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

again i apologise and will take myself to the naughty corner and think about how my thoughtlessness has inconvienced you .........

You just made me laugh out loud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have only been here 4 weeks!

Give it some time and have some patience"

agreed

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Actually ive just realized it isnt 7 its three lol, three in 3 1/2 years lol.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Why am I getting deja vu... its like I saw this thread last week?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

time, patience, common sense...

4 weeks and already complaining...

so thats a fail on time, and a fail on patients....

people gave you good advice... it went in one ear and out the other

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We are serious and none of these people are at all amusing.... BUT yes of course people do meet. However, this is a reflection of the other normal world in a way. Would you expect women to flock around you and throw themselves at you when you enter a bar? You will not be everyones cup of tea anymore than you fancy everyone on here. Patience is indeed a virtue and sometimes its a virtue to far I know so... try a party or social. Expand your areas of approach.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Cant sleep and re read your profile,...if you think swinging is about shagging bored housewives you might do better somewhere that caters to ppl looking for affairs.

Nothing annoys me more than the assumption i swing cos i am not satisfied at home,and i do not think i am unique.

btw,is that a wedding pic cut in half

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By *ax the gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

birmingham

i have been on the site a year and its great fun yet to have a meet off it but i am sure it will come with time. I cant say i have dedicated as much time to it as i should but it will happen. Smile be plesant and i am sure the lady folk will entertain you

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Always serious (not) but love to have fun as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you noticed he hasn't been back on here since he posted this!

4 weeks what does he exspet???

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

again i apologise and will take myself to the naughty corner and think about how my thoughtlessness has inconvienced you .........

I should bloody think so too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing annoys me more than the assumption i swing cos i am not satisfied at home.-o"

Very true.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"i have been on the site a year and its great fun yet to have a meet off it but i am sure it will come with time. I cant say i have dedicated as much time to it as i should but it will happen. Smile be plesant and i am sure the lady folk will entertain you "

Nice to see you back on Max *waves*

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