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Social or jump straight in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok the intial ice breaking is done next step. What are everyones preferred option social meet or straight to the good stuff?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Social mainly but not always.....

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Social first usually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would prefer a social first if possible

Kinky

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

reading

All depends on situ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we meet single guys we play straight away but with couples we always do a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social for a number of reasons.

Mrs niceanddirty

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Social always but it doesn't mean we won't play on the same day. Or same hour.

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Depends on each case really unfortunately I can't accommodate so it's easier to meet at a club initially plus I think it's safer however I do adore a social I think the fact you can't play at times can build up the anticipation ready for the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a social

Then the second meet will happen soon after which also help with the

RIP THEN CLOTHES OFF YA

Kinda meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a social for us

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it's in a club and there's been a mini-social first by way of chatting in the bar then see no reason not to head straight to play if all in agreement....

....if not met before then social first every time.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Sonetimes social, sometimes not- do like to chat before and after naughty times but it isn't always needed if timebis tight and i'm horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social. Unless it's a club meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social, every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never do social only meets, waste of time for us.

Chat, meet & everyone happy, play. Easy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials first, due to how different people can look/be in person. But if I'm happy and he is, then I'm quite happy to move straight on, no need to wait days/weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet first always but would go further if there's that attraction, if not nothing lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet is a must, we are not into the 'fuck n run' type.

Friends first, if any connection then the fun can come at a later date.... mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far its been jump straight in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm talking to really. I've met people and played after a quick natter.

Then I've met people at clubs and socials and played another time. Take each situation and judge on it's own merit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a social quite early on. Check they are who they say they are, check they're going to turn up, check we actually like each other enough to want to have sex. And it builds anticipation, which I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have jumped straight in on same day after we had lunch and it lasted for 5 years! However I no longer do this as I have been hurt by the actions of a few so it's now two or three socials until I have established a good connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social. Unless it's a club meet "

This (unsurprisingly)

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a social quite early on. Check they are who they say they are, check they're going to turn up, check we actually like each other enough to want to have sex. And it builds anticipation, which I like. "

I agree, I used to go straight to play meets but I found that I like the anticipation in the build up, it also means you know the person a little which makes for a better meet

Beard

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Usually a social but have done more a couple of times

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

Straight in with play then social afterwards. Its like buying a pair off shoes your always going to try them on first

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Social but would not rule out continuing first meet with fun if its clear theres that mutual connection....sometimes on a first meet it just clicks immediately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont mind either will do what the lady is most comfortable with firstly. But if was up to me I would say social only cause it takes away the worries about who you are meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first..

But saying that I went to have a social the other day and got a bit carried away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, sometimes a social turns into something else very quickly. As the ladies say "Sometimes you just need to suck it and see"!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Social first for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social then never hear off them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally social at there's which involves a cuppa. If we click and like we just move rooms.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Social first although sometimes the primal need takes you both when you meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for replies everyone I mostly think people prefer the social first but get carried away and end having fun straight after which sounds the best to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If I'm meeting someone in a club. It's rarely just a social. But meeting a guy I'd have to have a social first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really do socials, we don't get a lot of spare time so I chat for a long time first on here then meet in a hotel bar for a few drinks and then head back to my room if it all goes well xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We don't have a set rule. It just depends on who and our/their availability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we meet single guys we play straight away but with couples we always do a social first "
same for us but we tend to only meet guys at clubs now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never do social only meets, waste of time for us.

Chat, meet & everyone happy, play. Easy xx"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if it ever happens again.... we just go with the flow not bothered either way. We are quite happy to fuck then leave and never speak to them again but we are also happy to build some sort of friendship too. It would depend on the people and situation x

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