FabSwingers.com forum: ok for the ladies but not the men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Recently i had a meet with a young guy who told me he regular met a couple to have sex with the wife, and the husband would watch and never join in. However the husband wanted to meet a lady and have sex with her in front of hes wife but she woudnt allow that to happen. Has other men found this in relationship?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we started out we were the same. G was the one who instigated this, his fantasy was to watch me with someone else and have MFM s. It took me a while to agree but initially it was on the understanding that I would not be comfortable seeing him with someone else, and that if he expected to meet other women then I wasn't prepared to get into the scene at all as I felt it wasn't something I could handle.

He was happy with that, but over time I've come to realise a) fair is fair and b) I can handle it so we now enjoy full swap with couples too. I'm not into seeing him with someone else in the way he enjoys watching me though, my pleasure comes more from knowing he's enjoying himself.

By *adame YvesWoman
over a year ago

Nothampton

"Recently i had a meet with a young guy who told me he regular met a couple to have sex with the wife, and the husband would watch and never join in. However the husband wanted to meet a lady and have sex with her in front of hes wife but she woudnt allow that to happen. Has other men found this in relationship?"

I have seen this happen both ways and some real bouts of jealousy in clubs too sadly some people are selfish others totally insecure.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's the norm that women don't like things the other way around.

My ex girlfriend really loved watching me fuck other women but it only ever happened at parties. We never found a single girl who would join us for a meet like this in private.