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I know spelling etc shouldn't be a consideration but to *some* it is so why disenfranchise those?
A few more pics (torso etc) tends to be appreciated by the ladies so I understand.
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 . I'm not going to pop a code on a message, to prove I've read a profile haha. | |||
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"Text pretty decent. Take the advice above. Pics.....? Really....? Just two cock shots....you must have more to offer than that" ive more pictures but there saved to private , guess i need to open a few more i genrally say in any contact message " pictures on request " | |||
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"Text pretty decent. Take the advice above. Pics.....? Really....? Just two cock shots....you must have more to offer than that ive more pictures but there saved to private , guess i need to open a few more i genrally say in any contact message " pictures on request "" A lot of women check out a profile before even opening a message. I know I do. If I saw those two pictures.. And read the code request ( obviously I can't speak for everyone) I wouldn't open the message I'm afraid | |||
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"Text pretty decent. Take the advice above. Pics.....? Really....? Just two cock shots....you must have more to offer than that ive more pictures but there saved to private , guess i need to open a few more i genrally say in any contact message " pictures on request "" Women won't feel the need to request photos from quite a closed off profile when there's plenty of eligible single men with lots of photos on show. | |||
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"ive removed all requests any thoughts on a better profile pic , im trying to be discrete and not use a face picture " Your bum, your torso... | |||
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"surely if they have liked what the profile says the inquisitive will ask for a picture ? that was my thoughts " But wouldn't a good profile text and well thought out photos increase your chances more? If your current method isn't working. | |||
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"surely if they have liked what the profile says the inquisitive will ask for a picture ? that was my thoughts " There are many of those around, with a veriety of pictures too. The best of both. Some women are more likely to gravitate towards those profiles. | |||
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"surely if they have liked what the profile says the inquisitive will ask for a picture ? that was my thoughts There are many of those around, with a veriety of pictures too. The best of both. Some women are more likely to gravitate towards those profiles. " Variety* | |||
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"thanks for the input x new pics at the weekend . ??" Get your tatts out. | |||
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"Might be worth sticking it through a spelling and grammar check - there's one or two spelling mistakes in there and you don't need a space before a comma!
I know spelling etc shouldn't be a consideration but to *some* it is so why disenfranchise those?
A few more pics (torso etc) tends to be appreciated by the ladies so I understand.
Good luck fella "This is good advice. Personally, when I look at a profile, I'm looking for what the text and photos tell me about that person for an initial indication of whether or not I'll be interested. Bad grammar/spelling isn't the end of the world, but if it's obvious that someone couldn't be bothered to write more than a couple of lines or use capital letters, full stops etc, then they're probably not going to be the sort of person who'll put much effort into seducing me. Also, cock shots are a real turn off for me (and a lot of women I suspect), I'd rather see a sexy body/bum shot which gives the suggestion of more, than an 'in your face, this is my cock' photo. The size/shape of a guy's cock is never the first thing I want to know about him. Try and make photos a bit arty/tasteful too...definitely no socks left on, or toilet seats in the background if you get my drift. 
Rather than dissing other users 'Prefer verified people as of late theres a huge increase in bullshitters and timewasters', which comes across as quite negative, how about saying something like 'I prefer verified people so I know you're genuine'.
I hope some of that is helpful, it's all meant in a constructive way.
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"Personally I always dislike the phrase "I'm not here to fuck the whole website" because I bet you would if you had the chance. Sally" I would if i could Sally! Fuck yes!  | |||
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"as title , is anyone willing to give my profile a read and point out any faults ypu see with it , im a long standing verified genuine member whos been lucky enough to meet some great people just feel my profiles slipped into the " seen it before pile ??" ladies - any input ? " I am afraid that I could not get past the terrible grammar and bad spelling, let alone the cock pictures. Probably just me, thought. | |||
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"This is a great idea! I would also love constructive criticism It's hard as I want to describe myself but not give to much away" You succeeded in not giving anything away! All the text tells others about yourself, that the info in the rest of your profile doesn't say already, is that you're discrete. Also, you've only got one photo set as public, and that's of you playing tents in your boxers. I don't know about anyone else, but there's not nearly enough there to make me take a second look, which is a shame because you look like a nice guy from what I can tell from your tiny profile photo, which bizarrely doesn't show in your public photos. 
Again, all of the above is meant in a positive way, I hope it helps.
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"This is a great idea! I would also love constructive criticism It's hard as I want to describe myself but not give to much away You succeeded in not giving anything away! All the text tells others about yourself, that the info in the rest of your profile doesn't say already, is that you're discrete. Also, you've only got one photo set as public, and that's of you playing tents in your boxers. I don't know about anyone else, but there's not nearly enough there to make me take a second look, which is a shame because you look like a nice guy from what I can tell from your tiny profile photo, which bizarrely doesn't show in your public photos.
Again, all of the above is meant in a positive way, I hope it helps.
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