FabSwingers.com forum: does our profile suck?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi guys been on here a while now and had some to little interest, was wondering if there is something on our profile putting people off or are we just not what people are looking for?

i know were not everyones cup of tea but it gets a little down heartening,

were still relatively new and just being ourselves is that not the right way to go about this?

any help is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the bit that says pete is average. Although its being honest and factual upfront its not needed. By adding it, it sounds like you are saying he is tiny.

Also why is his face a big black circle?

And finally might be worth saying why you wont accommodate (kids, stalkers, new and not yet comfortable, nosy neighbours? Etc).

Have fun.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Nothing much wrong with your profile or pics, although a nice well lit full frontal of Pete would be a nice addition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so. I think it's quite enticing

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thankyou, so a little less honest about pete then haha only put that has if people look expecting 10" and see 6 and half but i will change it,

also his face is covered on that but not in friends pics due to him being recognised once while out with his work colleges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see much wrong, nice polite profile. maybe some fuller pics of you both? More about what you enjoy?

I'd do you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thankyou, i think we will try get a few more pics up soon

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's a good couples profile, a good mix of pics (but a few more of him wouldn't go amiss) and a good write up.

3 months is nothing so give it time. If I was looking for couples and in your area I'd contact you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get rid of the boob pic as your main avatar. I understand you have breasts, but I suspect that a picture of the both of you would be more interesting.

I'd also suggest doing away with the words 'loving' and 'tender'.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

What everyone else has said...it's a good profile with some great pics (couldn't resist a fab while looking!!

) - very clear and concise...so give it time.

Also perhaps try contacting others yourselves or visiting clubs etc...or getting involved on the forums is another way of generating interest.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"hi guys been on here a while now and had some to little interest, was wondering if there is something on our profile putting people off or are we just not what people are looking for?

i know were not everyones cup of tea but it gets a little down heartening,

were still relatively new and just being ourselves is that not the right way to go about this?

any help is appreciated

"
. I think it's a great profile, pics are lovely, write up is honest and not to long, I suppose the only thing you are missing is a veri, I think some people search verified only, have you thought about contacting other couples for maybe just a social, that way you'll have a nice veri, it might make a difference, and maybe have a think about a social at a club, again you don't need to feel pressured to do anything but it's a great way to get to know others, I wouldn't worry though, it's only been 3 months, we don't message as we tend to attend our local club to get to know others, but if we did message, we would message you

good luck with it all, Mrs blue eyes

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

Nice profile. Try alternating your profile pic occasionally..... You never know what will catch people's eyes! If you were closer, we would be v interested.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nothing wrong with it, but it is very similar to 100s of others and there is nothing there that gets my attention.

Lose the bit about blocking single men and just use your filters.

As mentioned the loving and tender bit is unnecessary.

And you put 'lol' after describing your body size and curvy, that screams to me that you are uncomfortable with your body image, you shouldn't be.

You don't need to put on your profile why you can't accom, that is no-ones business.

Maybe a few clothed and together pics, show you as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys been on here a while now and had some to little interest, was wondering if there is something on our profile putting people off or are we just not what people are looking for?

i know were not everyones cup of tea but it gets a little down heartening,

were still relatively new and just being ourselves is that not the right way to go about this?

any help is appreciated

Your profile looks good to us. Great pics as well. We've been on the site for about 5 years and finding it quite quiet at the moment. If you want things to happen we think you have to try to encourage it yourselves. Chat to people, try to go to social events and maybe try a club.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yr boobies are awesome ! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"also his face is covered on that but not in friends pics due to him being recognised once while out with his work colleges.

No point hiding his face as his tattoos ware very recognisable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines not great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try to go to social events and maybe try a club.

Good luck

the next Bradford Social is the 3rd December

D and L x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

where do i find details for this? we have tried searching for meets and socials but get lost with it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"where do i find details for this? we have tried searching for meets and socials but get lost with it all

Have messaged you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than ours

Ess

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think a couples profile avatar should show both of you.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're off the rocky horror tomoz night so should be able to get pics of us both

thanks

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm going on Friday!

Sally

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