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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. " Take it on the chin and ......... Move on  | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Take it on the chin and ......... Move on "Sorry to hear! You aren't alone!  | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... " who in there rite mind wd stand u up yummy x  | |||
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"Loads of timewasters and dreamers on here...just messaged a local girl wanting a meet tonight,she deleted my message without even looking at my profile....she has no veris so maybe I was wasting my time anyway." Why is she wasting your time? She's not interested. Get over it.  | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... " I've done that, and travelled a fair old way too. Just to make things easier. Stupid when I think about it but I'm a trusting guy what can I say! | |||
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"Loads of timewasters and dreamers on here...just messaged a local girl wanting a meet tonight,she deleted my message without even looking at my profile....she has no veris so maybe I was wasting my time anyway. Why is she wasting your time? She's not interested. Get over it. "Oooooooooo snap!!  | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... I've done that, and travelled a fair old way too. Just to make things easier. Stupid when I think about it but I'm a trusting guy what can I say! " This is why I don't let people travel to me such a waste if things go wrong not into wasting peoples time or money. | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... I've done that, and travelled a fair old way too. Just to make things easier. Stupid when I think about it but I'm a trusting guy what can I say! This is why I don't let people travel to me such a waste if things go wrong not into wasting peoples time or money." Why aren't they all like you | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... I've done that, and travelled a fair old way too. Just to make things easier. Stupid when I think about it but I'm a trusting guy what can I say! " I didn't have to travel to far and was goin to tie it in with some Xmas shopping lol, but yeah, book the hotel, travel to them, then they want picking up aswell? Prob get the hotel and have to wank myself off for them haha!! Is it all worth the fucking hassle??   | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. " Go back through your messages it could well be something you have said to them. | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Take it on the chin and ......... Move on "Agreed. But it's bloody frustrating. Not like I'm inundated! That was the 2nd time I'd arranged to meet the 2nd couple. | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... " That is ugly. | |||
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"Dropped you as a friend "Yep. I replied to them (politely), they deleted my message and dropped me as a friend. It's not like I was the one mucking the other about. | |||
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"We've all been there fella, sometimes someone just wants to be an arsehole and all the selection processes and verifications in the world can't stop you being caught out. Chin up. " Cheers. | |||
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"Dropped you as a friend
Yep. I replied to them (politely), they deleted my message and dropped me as a friend. It's not like I was the one mucking the other about."then what normally happens is in a few days time their status will be along the lines of 'Boring on here!, full of time wasters!, single males are bastards!, does anyone meet?' Etc | |||
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"Dropped you as a friend
Yep. I replied to them (politely), they deleted my message and dropped me as a friend. It's not like I was the one mucking the other about.
then what normally happens is in a few days time their status will be along the lines of 'Boring on here!, full of time wasters!, single males are bastards!, does anyone meet?' Etc "And they had "available to meet today' icon on! I get I'm not some peoples cup of tea. | |||
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"Dropped you as a friend
Yep. I replied to them (politely), they deleted my message and dropped me as a friend. It's not like I was the one mucking the other about.
then what normally happens is in a few days time their status will be along the lines of 'Boring on here!, full of time wasters!, single males are bastards!, does anyone meet?' Etc "If only you were in Belfast | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Report to admin block and move on. There are alot like that on here unfortunately. ..singles and couples. " | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... " That's why I no longer use hotels...happened a few times with me in Dublin and Manchester with a few very well veried women...its their place or they book it first or not at all now and it's seems to be working alright. | |||
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"Name and shame so people are warned" No don't. ..you'll get a ban and they will still continue to do it anyways. Report and block. PM friends if you must but not public. | |||
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" or they book it first or not at all now and it's seems to be working alright." Can't see that happening i must be talking to the wrong women. Can't accom or can't travel - neither use nor ornament | |||
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" or they book it first or not at all now and it's seems to be working alright. Can't see that happening i must be talking to the wrong women. Can't accom or can't travel - neither use nor ornament "Patience and know what you want.... i never look for one off meets either. Maybe you are looking at the wrong ones. Forum is a good place to get noticed....and don't just think of those who are on it...there's hundreds who hover around the forums not commenting but reading watching and looking at who might be interesting. They'll message if your different enough and stand out....just keep your standards high and know what you want and be patient. Good luck. | |||
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"Loads of timewasters and dreamers on here...just messaged a local girl wanting a meet tonight,she deleted my message without even looking at my profile....she has no veris so maybe I was wasting my time anyway." She might have looked at your profile but have her settings so you wouldn't see she had, found you weren't what she was looking for and deleted. | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. It's annoyingly but you can't control what other people do. Report and move on..... Just don't imagine them shrieking with laughter reading this thread "  | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Go back through your messages it could well be something you have said to them. " My messages were all clean and respectful. | |||
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"Name and shame so people are warned No don't. ..you'll get a ban and they will still continue to do it anyways. Report and block. PM friends if you must but not public. " Report for what? Changing their mind? | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Go back through your messages it could well be something you have said to them. My messages were all clean and respectful. " There's your problem then.... | |||
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"Name and shame so people are warned No don't. ..you'll get a ban and they will still continue to do it anyways. Report and block. PM friends if you must but not public. Report for what? Changing their mind? " You can report people for arranging a meet and not turning up | |||
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"People on here can be very disappointing, I've been let down and it's crap. But look at it that it was their loss, not yours. If they can't show common decency outside the bedroom imagine how they'd be like behind closed doors !!! You're a much better person than them, chin up and move onwards and upwards "You're right. Nice photos. | |||
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"People on here can be very disappointing, I've been let down and it's crap. But look at it that it was their loss, not yours. If they can't show common decency outside the bedroom imagine how they'd be like behind closed doors !!! You're a much better person than them, chin up and move onwards and upwards
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Nice photos."Thank you | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Go back through your messages it could well be something you have said to them. My messages were all clean and respectful. There's your problem then.... "Lol.
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"Loads of timewasters and dreamers on here...just messaged a local girl wanting a meet tonight,she deleted my message without even looking at my profile....she has no veris so maybe I was wasting my time anyway." How would you know if she looked at your profile? Most women choose not to appear on peoples who looked list. And how is her deleting your message making her a timewaster? She didn't want to meet you so she deleted your message. FYI a timewaster is someone who arranges a time and place but doesn't show up. | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... " That's happened to me before. I now refuse to book them. More than happy to pay my half when I get there but I won't book them anymore | |||
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"Name and shame so people are warned No don't. ..you'll get a ban and they will still continue to do it anyways. Report and block. PM friends if you must but not public. Report for what? Changing their mind? You can report people for arranging a meet and not turning up " The way it read I took it to mean they'd decided they didnt want to meet after all, but youre right, it doesnt actually say that. It doesnt say what heppened. | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. " Unfortunately it happens .... far more than it should
Put it out of your head and move forwards. Plenty more to choose from , stay positive | |||
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"Name and shame so people are warned No don't. ..you'll get a ban and they will still continue to do it anyways. Report and block. PM friends if you must but not public. Report for what? Changing their mind? " That's a no show in most books and if reported and blocked and pm friends about it...It will slowly cause people to rethink about bulking. It's different if they message with a genuine reason and say they will re meet another time....but otherwise it wastes people's time and energy. ..there's enough bad energy floating around fab and if some is removed/reduced all the better. | |||
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... That's happened to me before. I now refuse to book them. More than happy to pay my half when I get there but I won't book them anymore "Same here.... It has meant I've lost a potential meet but then there's another one when you turn the page so all usually good.  | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Unfortunately it happens .... far more than it should
Put it out of your head and move forwards. Plenty more to choose from , stay positive "I was just frustrated at the time of posting. Have already moved on.
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"Could be worse lads, you could of booked a hotel room like me and then be fucked about all day when the day comes and so the hotel room is paid for and goin to waste lol.... That's happened to me before. I now refuse to book them. More than happy to pay my half when I get there but I won't book them anymore
Same here.... It has meant I've lost a potential meet but then there's another one when you turn the page so all usually good. "Best way to look at it unless you have previously met it's just a risk I won't take anymore | |||
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"Just been let down by a 2nd couple. Both are verified and both strung me along. Both agreed meets. Oh and 2nd couple dropped me as a friend. Absolute joke. What the hell is wrong with this place. Unfortunately it happens .... far more than it should
Put it out of your head and move forwards. Plenty more to choose from , stay positive
I was just frustrated at the time of posting.
Have already moved on.
Nice photos. Go easy with the biting! Lol."Good
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"Dropped you as a friend
Yep. I replied to them (politely), they deleted my message and dropped me as a friend. It's not like I was the one mucking the other about."Classic stalker behaviour no wonder they dropped you like a hot tatty | |||
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"Well at least you didnt drive all the way to London to meet a couple in a bar of their choice, only for them not to show. Here's how it went..... Time and date was set and agreed. We messaged each other when I was leaving mine, messaged each other again when I was 10 minutes away, even messaged them when I parked up telling them that I be walking into the bar soon and to look out for me. Got to the bar, got myself a drink and waited. Messaged them saying that i arrived and gave them a description as to what i was wearing. Their messages stopped but I could see that my messages had been read, so I waited. Waited for an hour, took a selfie of me at the bar and sent it to them as proof and left. 30 mins after leaving they got in touch with me asking where I am !!!. Apparently I missed them because they were sitting in the corner of this small bar. There were 5 tables in this bar and they were definitely Not there. A sick game to some and it sure pissed me off" I'm not surprised. Ouch. | |||
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"Yeah been let down twice.so annoying and don't have loads of spare time so certainly don't want to waste it "They must be fucking mad | |||
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"Yeah been let down twice.so annoying and don't have loads of spare time so certainly don't want to waste it
They must be fucking mad "Ha.ta.both dubs that's why I like folk from west cos they're close and less likely to let ya down | |||
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