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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious to find out how many. other single bi fems find it either easy or difficult to find a suitable couple to have fun with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And likewise couples seeking single bi female. We have a couples profile and are seeking one of those rare and delightful ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me!

It's hard to find a couple where I fancy both people.

Or if I do, often the woman is all 'hands off my man'

and I don't want to be putting on a show, I want 3-way group play!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i've played with some lovely couples and id do it all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious to find out how many. other single bi fems find it either easy or difficult to find a suitable couple to have fun with?

Took me years to find the right couple but now I have it's totally worth it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I find it incredibly difficult and frustrating so I'm not looking for couples anymore!! It has to be a 3 way thing otherwise I'm not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me!

It's hard to find a couple where I fancy both people.

Or if I do, often the woman is all 'hands off my man'

and I don't want to be putting on a show, I want 3-way group play!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious to find out how many. other single bi fems find it either easy or difficult to find a suitable couple to have fun with?

You also have 'not meeting new couples' on your profile. That's not making it any easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just curious to find out how many. other single bi fems find it either easy or difficult to find a suitable couple to have fun with?

Took me years to find the right couple but now I have it's totally worth it."

Years ??!! Lol ok, so I have to be very very very patient

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just curious to find out how many. other single bi fems find it either easy or difficult to find a suitable couple to have fun with?

You also have 'not meeting new couples' on your profile. That's not making it any easier

Ah yes, good point, I put that on a while ago. Thanks for that, I shall correct it now x

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're looking for bi/bi curious fem to have fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious to find out how many. other single bi fems find it either easy or difficult to find a suitable couple to have fun with?

Took me years to find the right couple but now I have it's totally worth it.

Years ??!! Lol ok, so I have to be very very very patient

Hell Yeh! Lol. In fact it must have been 3 years. Learnt alot in those years about what I wasn't looking for in a couple tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it extremely hard as a couple to find a single bi female too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't find a local couple with Bi female xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pleased it's not just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first couple were just amazing and I'm attracted to them both..just need to meet them again now!

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

As a couple, finding a bi female to play with us both is just as hard

We are taking from the comments above though when it does, the wait will be worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play as both a single fem and part of a couple. (Goldilocksandcharming) I feel more recently that i prefer to meet couples as a couple. However in group or club situations I'm happy as a single fem as long as it's not just fem fem play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me!

It's hard to find a couple where I fancy both people.

Or if I do, often the woman is all 'hands off my man'

and I don't want to be putting on a show, I want 3-way group play!"

Couldn't gave put it better myself! Very difficult to meet a couple and fancy both...very rare for this to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult to make it work - when it comes down to it the two halves of the couple are often looking for very different things. Plus they usually want things to go at different paces.

It can become totally exhausting, like looking after two errant children with very little benefit to me by the end of the day.

Yes, it is something that I'm looking for but, no, not something that I'll be in a hurry to throw myself into again...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For us a threesome is just that - a threesome, not just two women putting on a show for the man, and the woman's pleasure is just as important as our own. However the problem seems to be finding a single bi fem that is attracted to both of us and who is attractive to both of us.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"For us a threesome is just that - a threesome, not just two women putting on a show for the man, and the woman's pleasure is just as important as our own. However the problem seems to be finding a single bi fem that is attracted to both of us and who is attractive to both of us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious to find out how many. other single bi fems find it either easy or difficult to find a suitable couple to have fun with?

I found it so difficult to find a couple where I fancied both of them, and they also matched what I was looking for, that I have now given up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was incredibly lucky with my first couple and we've all become really good friends. I honestly think the key is to chat a lot first and make that connection.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I personally find it very difficult as a single woman to meet a couple that I'm both comfortable playing with and attracted to both of them. In the past that seems to have always been complications of one type or another.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally find it very difficult as a single woman to meet a couple that I'm both comfortable playing with and attracted to both of them. In the past that seems to have always been complications of one type or another."

Yes I've just experienced. The female was fantastic to get along with, but seemed to have a personality clash with the male. If we didn't "connect" in our conversations , then "connections" in the bedroom definitely wouldn't of worked. Think I'll focus on the silver fox in my life and leave the couples to have fun with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it really difficult too.

Quite often I'm not attracted to both, the female seems very passive in the process, the female half isn't really bi, they want an FF show for the male, they put too many restrictions on play or they're not even a couple, just two people having an affair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've found it really difficult too.

So many complications aren't there xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"The female was fantastic to get along with, but seemed to have a personality clash with the male. If we didn't "connect" in our conversations , then "connections" in the bedroom definitely wouldn't of worked. "

This has happened a bit recently which is a shame but hey ho. Outside of FAB couple meets seem to be the way forward for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite surprised that as a single woman it's so difficult to find a compatible couple as I would imagine to some degree you get your pick.

Although im guessing being bisexual makes it all the more difficult as mrs dirty also struggles to find a couple where both parties float her boat which like yourselves adds another obstacle to finding the right people. for me as a straight male I find it easier as I only need to have an attraction to the female part of a couple as the looks of the the other man makes no odds to me but until we find a couple that tick all the boxes it just ain't going to happen as I wouldn't expect her to take one for the team so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm quite surprised that as a single woman it's so difficult to find a compatible couple as I would imagine to some degree you get your pick.

It's extremely difficult, like you say, I have to find both the male and female attractive. And then my circumstances put a lot of people off, but they are the ones missing out on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other issue is there are often no pics of the man on the profile. Blah. This gets on my nerves!!

I'm mainly after men ATM anyway, MMF using my couples profile. I wonder whether the faff of finding a MF couple as a SF will ever be easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other issue is there are often no pics of the man on the profile. Blah. This gets on my nerves!!

I'm mainly after men ATM anyway, MMF using my couples profile. I wonder whether the faff of finding a MF couple as a SF will ever be easier

Can't speak for others but my mans pic isn't displayed on our profile publicly for a good reason. It's too risky with his job and as would be expected that's much more important. We do however share his pics privately after chatting with a prospective meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No complications with us...

3 way play with everyone on an equal footing and everyone enjoying themselves, no issues on our side and we enjoy a fair few FFM meets. Why is it so complicated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard enough to just find a lady friend to play with

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I was quite envious of couples until I read this thread. I thought it must be so much easier to meet other couples and single ladies. Now I'm beginning to think I'm better off as a single guy. I've given up trying to find an ffm a long time ago tho. Xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"No complications with us...

3 way play with everyone on an equal footing and everyone enjoying themselves, no issues on our side and we enjoy a fair few FFM meets. Why is it so complicated?"

Different people look for different things and find different people attractive. I guess that's why it's so complicated.Although you're not the single bi fem in question it's good you've enjoyed a fair few.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It is difficult I usually find I'm only attracted to one half of the couple and not the other. I've only actually played MFF with three couples and one potential one but it happen due to conflicting schedules and that's over about 6 years. To average that out I find one suitable couple every two years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No complications with us...

3 way play with everyone on an equal footing and everyone enjoying themselves, no issues on our side and we enjoy a fair few FFM meets. Why is it so complicated?"

Finding a couple where I fancy both of the partners, then ensuring there are no jealousy issues etc. Some couples have insecurities and issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No complications with us...

3 way play with everyone on an equal footing and everyone enjoying themselves, no issues on our side and we enjoy a fair few FFM meets. Why is it so complicated?

Finding a couple where I fancy both of the partners, then ensuring there are no jealousy issues etc. Some couples have insecurities and issues"

Some couples do have insecurities and issues, you are right, easy to spot on here "looking for female only" is the best one!

As for fancying both as a bi lady I have the same issue with couples....

However

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it quite difficult to find a bi single female near us, Elaine is absolutely 100% bi and loves it, Paul is just there to watch and then join in, when we find a BI SINGLE female that is

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