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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just accidentally posted this in Stories & Fantasies (so ignore that post and answer here, instead!):

I'm looking at this from the point of view of a woman receiving anal sex from a man - is this for the benefit of the man, or the woman?

Do some women prefer anal sexual to vaginal and oral sex (giving)?

Personally, I've never indulged in anal, never seen the attraction, when two other willing orifices are sooo tempting!

If a partner really wanted me to I'd certainly oblige - but in all honesty, I'd prefer oral or vaginal sex.... or would I?

Maybe I just need a partner that wants to lead me up the back alley....!

Your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically, it doesn't do much for me. I can enjoy it but that's on the basis of knowing the man is enjoying it and getting off on his pleasure. Same sort of thing as blow jobs, for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Physically, it doesn't do much for me. I can enjoy it but that's on the basis of knowing the man is enjoying it and getting off on his pleasure. Same sort of thing as blow jobs, for me. "

That wouldn't be great if we both thought we were doing it for each other's pleasure, would it?!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Of you are one of the lucky fems that can come from anal then all good. H does and her orgasms are much stronger than through vaginal, if I'm using my hands there too its pretty intense tbh.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do much for me to be honest, rather be in a pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known women that really love anal, to the point of climaxing through this alone.

I'm not a big lover of it myself, nothing beats a pussy in my opinion, obviously it's not exactly a chore if I need to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, it doesn't do much for me. I can enjoy it but that's on the basis of knowing the man is enjoying it and getting off on his pleasure. Same sort of thing as blow jobs, for me.

That wouldn't be great if we both thought we were doing it for each other's pleasure, would it?!"

I don't know, so long as both continued to think the other was really enjoying it, it would be OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give anal..never receive

Not my thing

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I prefer penetrive sex either anal or vaginal to oral unless it's with a toy and then I prefer clitoral. I'm complex hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer penetrive sex either anal or vaginal to oral unless it's with a toy and then I prefer clitoral. I'm complex hehe"

All women are complex!! X

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I prefer penetrive sex either anal or vaginal to oral unless it's with a toy and then I prefer clitoral. I'm complex hehe

All women are complex!! X"

Hahaha you wouldn't want it any other way

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I can only speak for myself of course but it takes two to tango

Definite biting the pillow time

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By *ornyinherts2016Couple
over a year ago

Tempsford

Personally I prefer it. Its dirtier and makes me feel hornier. I think though to really enjoy it you have to be totally relaxed, otherwise if you're tense it can feel uncomfortable.x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

As long as both people enjoy it can be a very intense pleasure. I love it

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By *ndiansexguruMan
over a year ago

Surbiton, Germany


"As long as both people enjoy it can be a very intense pleasure. I love it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer penetrive sex either anal or vaginal to oral unless it's with a toy and then I prefer clitoral. I'm complex hehe"

Complex means challenging. Challenging means a greater reward.

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By *nicorn hunterCouple
over a year ago

beccles


"As long as both people enjoy it can be a very intense pleasure. I love it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do anal and enjoy it. But only if the lady I am with wants it. Otherwise I prefer the vagina.

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

I enjoy it immensely, feels even better with DP though. X

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I enjoy it immensely, feels even better with DP though. X"

Hmmm, We can manage a cock & a strap on

S

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I enjoy it immensely, feels even better with DP though. X

Hmmm, We can manage a cock & a strap on

S"

That's on my to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have anal sex with my husband, it's something I keep exclusively for him because, to me, it feels so much more intimate than virginal sex.

Do I enjoy it? Hell yeah! We generally do it when I'm extra horny and turned on, at which point he could do pretty much anything to me and I'd love it! The orgasms I experience through anal stimulation are quite intense, but somehow different to virginal.

I guess there can be subtle differences to how people enjoy sex, as long as everyone's enjoying it then it's all good in my book.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy anal but only with mr SnT. Rough hard anal makes me cum hard and often squirt as well. We've done DP with a dildo but want to do it with another guy.

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford

When I'm raging horny couldn't think of anything better than anal. The orgasm is super intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really enjoy anal but only with mr SnT. Rough hard anal makes me cum hard and often squirt as well. We've done DP with a dildo but want to do it with another guy."

I'll be there in a couple of hours!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just from a guys point of view....it's not much fun for us if the girl is not relaxed. Lots of prep play before to make sure everyone involved is relaxed and happy to feel a very wet cock sliding in and out of that very sensitive little hole.

I do love it when done right. I admit.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I enjoy it immensely, feels even better with DP though. X

Hmmm, We can manage a cock & a strap on

S

That's on my to do list "

How far down the list

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't done anal for over 8 years, when I was with my long term ex it was a once a month thing, if the rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing. He was very large and could only ever do it in missionary position and very slowly with his version of lube, a giant pot of petroleum jelly that was kept by his bed. I enjoyed it after the intial feeling that my body was being split in half, think the fact I had a tampax in the same time acted as a dp kind of effect, hit the spot from another angle and I could play with my bean the same time, was good but wouldn't do it with anyone other than a boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm enjoying every moment of it. (Not right now obviously)

And I pray she's enjoying it. How do I know? Hopefully she tells me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal sex was on our bucket list, and it was fun, but it's something we'd do together again for various reasons. Mrs was some what indifferent. The taboo factor was the main reason for enjoying it, but once that was gone it just seemed like hard work.

I'm not even a big fan of it in porn.

However, if I was with a woman who was really into it, I'd be happy to oblige as it would be a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't done anal for over 8 years, when I was with my long term ex it was a once a month thing, if the rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing. He was very large and could only ever do it in missionary position and very slowly with his version of lube, a giant pot of petroleum jelly that was kept by his bed. I enjoyed it after the intial feeling that my body was being split in half, think the fact I had a tampax in the same time acted as a dp kind of effect, hit the spot from another angle and I could play with my bean the same time, was good but wouldn't do it with anyone other than a boyfriend. "

Sounds filthy!! I'm sure felt amazing for him.

Time to get back in the saddle!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it and always ask for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely know a girl that said she preferred it anal than in her pussy? I asked why but she didn't know, just said she loved the feeling and also loved the mental side of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't done anal for over 8 years, when I was with my long term ex it was a once a month thing, if the rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing. He was very large and could only ever do it in missionary position and very slowly with his version of lube, a giant pot of petroleum jelly that was kept by his bed. I enjoyed it after the intial feeling that my body was being split in half, think the fact I had a tampax in the same time acted as a dp kind of effect, hit the spot from another angle and I could play with my bean the same time, was good but wouldn't do it with anyone other than a boyfriend.

Sounds filthy!! I'm sure felt amazing for him.

Time to get back in the saddle!!?? "

I'm trying to find a boyfriend believe me, I want to be saddled up and ridden again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely know a girl that said she preferred it anal than in her pussy? I asked why but she didn't know, just said she loved the feeling and also loved the mental side of it"

Name and number please!!??

It's one of those days I reckon!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cum once from anal (with one particular guy)

It was intense as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have cum once from anal (with one particular guy)

It was intense as fuck "

That sounds like a challenge I would take x

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I do love giving it to the ladies, plenty of rimming first to warm her up too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a visual turn on aswell as a mental one. Lovely seeing the wifes pussy wide open knowing I'm in her ass...add in a little dirty talk and it's a whole new level. So yeah from our point of view it's a mixture of alot of things that combine to make it so different from vaginal sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love giving it to the ladies, plenty of rimming first to warm her up too. "

Love hearing a horny woman moan with my tongue on her sensitive arse hole....mmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some pretty mixed responses - I don't feel like I'm missing anything from my repertoire....

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By *jcmjcCouple
over a year ago

Newport

M loves it and she seems to cum quicker and harder, she wants to do dp now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"M loves it and she seems to cum quicker and harder, she wants to do dp now."

Right now!!??

Is that classed as a trick or a treat!??

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

There are lots of nerve endings in the anus as there is in the vagina,I've had some great orgasms from anal play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my view either both people benefit or none do. If one does not enjoy it, it's off the table in my book. I would hate it if the other person would pretend to enjoy it just for my satisfaction, I would feel like crap if someone would do that for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only do it with my OH, we don't do it very often but when we do I always cum from it, in fact those sessions I normally end up having a clitoral, vaginal and anal orgasm, all very different but great fun

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Wouldn't know, never done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Andrex ?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Its a no from me .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't know, never done it "

But that ass is so lovely. My face would be in there like a flash followed by the rest of me I'd hope! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't know, never done it "

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

It's the taboo more than the sensation. It's still not "normal" so both parties wanting to indulge in it is just plain bad

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Wouldn't know, never done it "

Always a first time for everything, now bend over.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

From a cd/tv point of view, it can be quite satisfying. Especially when the bloke hits your prostate, the orgasm you get from that is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um, I can't speak for women, but I love been fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We probably fuck 50/50 between cunt and arse.

The orgasms are different, but both incredibly intense. A good hard anal fucking with a glass dildo up the cunt and a powerful wand on the clitoris is very hard to beat but DP (with the right guys) is even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but by gosh I love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but by gosh I love it xx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"We probably fuck 50/50 between cunt and arse.

The orgasms are different, but both incredibly intense. A good hard anal fucking with a glass dildo up the cunt and a powerful wand on the clitoris is very hard to beat but DP (with the right guys) is even better "

We did the opposite last night, glass buttplug & a hard fucking from the rear so the pelvis hits the plug on each stroke. H says no clit stim thanks, she'd probably pass out

Guess we might be doing it again soon then

S

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done anal on a woman. But have experimented in a previous relationship and either she was doing it wrong or my prostate suffered stage fright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea - never put more than a couple of fingers in but echo above that if it isn't enjoyable for both then it isn't for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big fan of anal ..

If done right it really works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a big fan of anal ..

If done right it really works for me "

Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Twisted here gets some of her hardest orgasms through being fucked incredibly hard in her ass. She asks for ass fucking. So some girls like it, some don't.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We enjoy it. Gives us both pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times I've only fucked women in the ass only! The ones I've met have been happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's done well, both parties definitely benefit.

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By *ocknboobs4uCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Not for us... Turns the lady off.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Wouldn't know, never done it "

No need to blush....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love anal orgasms as my man uses his fingers there as hes licking me. Mmmmmmm. They are so intense

Kinky

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I enjoy giving and receiving anal immensely.

Receiving feels awesome and gives me what i'd call a female orgasm where I shake and tense and omg I need another soon

My female partner loves to receive anal but only every so often when she is really horny as the orgasms are so intense for her too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do anal and enjoy it. But only if the lady I am with wants it. Otherwise I prefer the vagina."

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated? "

Its vaginal but H says much different because its a different g spot being activated, for H they are much more intense and after she is usually finished & good for nothing, she sometimes gets instant headaches from it too so its an end of a session thing for us & not an every time we fuck thing either.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, and I ask for it!

Sometimes that's all I want, sometimes I'm denied, sometimes its forced upon me (in a consensual manner of course), sometimes I get that alone and nothing else.

All part of the kink

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated?

Its vaginal but H says much different because its a different g spot being activated, for H they are much more intense and after she is usually finished & good for nothing, she sometimes gets instant headaches from it too so its an end of a session thing for us & not an every time we fuck thing either.

S"

Thanks for the explanation. I guess I have had one then. Woohoooooo

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I'm a big fan of anal ..

If done right it really works for me

Any tips? "

Bend over, LL's got a strapon

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated?

Its vaginal but H says much different because its a different g spot being activated, for H they are much more intense and after she is usually finished & good for nothing, she sometimes gets instant headaches from it too so its an end of a session thing for us & not an every time we fuck thing either.

S

Thanks for the explanation. I guess I have had one then. Woohoooooo "

S

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

It does nothing for me neither does rimming so I don't waste my time doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given anal on a couple of occasions, but only when the lady asked for it. Must admit that the other options are more of a turn-on, and I'm not really turned on by explicit rearview pics on profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is this for the benefit of the man, or the woman?

"

Its for the baby that doesn't accidentally get conceived! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It does nothing for me neither does rimming so I don't waste my time doing it. "

Both sound smelly and unhygienic to me - rimming is certainly off the list.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

N loves it as much as I do. It actually gets her there too, which is a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer penetrive sex either anal or vaginal to oral unless it's with a toy and then I prefer clitoral. I'm complex hehe

All women are complex!! X

Hahaha you wouldn't want it any other way "

It certainly makes life interesting!

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By *heeky202Man
over a year ago

manchester

Too many ladies have had their desire even to try anal ruined by the first 'likely lad' who tried it when they were younger.

Its such a shame IMHO as the last 6 ladies who I have had the pleasure of anal most expressed unsure, or stories of being torn a clowns pocket.

Slowky and reading signals angles and conversing well.

Its so intimate, I love it but only practise on ladies who expressly say they love it as well.

Love DP with other male or dildo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve tried it a few times and the first few times it just hurt the last time we tried it was a few weeks ago we were doing anal for a little bit until i felt relaxed and a bit more comfortable then M put my vibrator inside me and switched the shaft and ears on to full power while i lay on a pillow for support and he pounded away it only took a few minutes and i had the most intense orgasm ive ever had to the point we had to stop because it got that intense.. we havent done it since but i think were giving things another try friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve tried it a few times and the first few times it just hurt the last time we tried it was a few weeks ago we were doing anal for a little bit until i felt relaxed and a bit more comfortable then M put my vibrator inside me and switched the shaft and ears on to full power while i lay on a pillow for support and he pounded away it only took a few minutes and i had the most intense orgasm ive ever had to the point we had to stop because it got that intense.. we havent done it since but i think were giving things another try friday "

Lovely description of what sounds like an amazing time had by both of you

Imagine two cocks taking turns in there while you were cumming

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By *ussexLukeMan
over a year ago

Newhaven

I had a play mate, and her orgasams through anal were so intense, her legs went like jelly for ages.

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