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Why are more women bi or bi-curious than men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tonight myself and my patner were having a conversation about the above topic.

In general I find women very attractive. I love to explore their bodies and I like the same being done to me. I am definitely bi-curious.

Mr on the other hand is 100% straight and personally I like it that way.

Just wondering are there many bi curious men on there? Do other people find bi curious men attractive or would men be uncomfortable if the men in the other couple were bi or bi-curious. Also, is it just more socially acceptable that women are bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladys are more honest about it, just go read male profiles that say straight, but want to meet tv/ts, there cocks in frocks unless they are post op ts just my thought thats all Tony

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess you have a point! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more acceptable for a woman to state her true sexuality. Some men tend to get judged, as some women won't meet a man who's bi curious/ bi sexual. So they put straight so as not to risk alienating themselves from those women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not that women are more than men, its that women admit it more than men because it seems acceptable and sexy for women but not men.

Its probably equal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies 'can' be more honest about it as its more socially acceptable for them to be bi than men.

It's more acceptable to be gay than bi in my experience.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I don't think it's much to do with acceptability: there is a softness and sensuality with another woman that you rarely find with a man and I have found that even women who like hard sex occasionally like to experience that sensuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the number of "straight" guys who message me, I really do think it's down to acceptability.

It's really on a spectrum though. There are certainly some guys I find very attractive and get turned on by and want to play with. However there are a lot more ladies who can do the same!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Im completely straight,but bi curious men wouldnt put me off.

I think theres definately a difference in how open men and women are on here about their bi side.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the forums for examples of prejudice against bi males. Probably part of the reason. We live in a very masculine, hetero friendly society which is considered the "norm".

We know around 8% of football fans are demonstrably homophobic.

Woman on Woman is still seen as a softer, more sensual version of homo/bisexuality. Not correct but perceptions and prejudices rule.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

The men are more fab straight than bi hehe

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By *r BrightonMan
over a year ago

brighton

To be honest its more of a judgement thing for men as it is still seen as a stigma i myself im bi and open about it but due to being 44 now so old lol find it hard to meet genuine cpls or a nice female x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Agree with the acceptance part but there are defiantly some ladies on here that put bi or bi-curious on their profiles simply because they either see it giving them more opportunity to play with couples (we for instance wouldn't entertain a straight fem) & also maybe as they are joining a swinging site feel they need to say they are to be a swinger?

There are many longterm bifems singular & in couples on here where every veri is from a guy. Most I've seen is 64 cam & meet, everyone from a guy going back years..how are they bi-fem exactly??

To us the no kissing,I won't go down on you crowd are the same..not really bifems, just into a little bit of play, nowhere near the same..

It is acceptance whether in the big wide world or on here.

S

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