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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its such a cliche!

Where are all the confident, dominant ones?

B&C

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure im overly dominant but im not very submissive either - so both or neither or just dangling in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are plenty out there. Alas it's like a needle in a haystack though. Good luck with your search op

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Its such a cliche!

Where are all the confident, dominant ones?

B&C

x"

Yup. I am here. But I we dont play with couples .... and I dont as a single either ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant women are very attractive, I think I have a sub side in me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it cliché OP?

Not Dom. I see myself more as assertive. Good luck on your search .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being submissive but good luck with your search OP

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

It just seems that the norm (and therefore the cliche) is a male dom and a female sub. It's just something we've both done to death in previous relationships and now prefer the switch

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By *ndy_onlyMan
over a year ago

dunstable

Sammi is a switch and would love to dommie you

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Good one less

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could be interesting if she's a hottie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I switch. Hence my username. But I don't meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im very sexually assertive not sure id go as far as dom but i like to take lead in the bedroon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you should maybe contact us on couple profile

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

there are better sites than fab to find dom/sub of all persuasions, but there's definitely dom females (and sub males) on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider myself a domme and a top.

I know fab is primarily a swinging site but i get a lot of subs messaging me.

(Well that and lots claiming to be but thats by the by )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident and can be assertive in the bedroom. Unfortunately quite a few miles between us. This always seems to be the case for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dominant to an extent I like to cause simultaneous pain and pleasure with those whose boundaries allow it. I like to be demanding and be obeyed but not to the point of humiliation etc.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a switch then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is assertive and confident, even to the point of intimidating people.

She's not sure if she'd class herself as dominant, but it's something we're wanting to explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone is submissive doesn't mean that they are not confident. I'm incredibly confident but in the bedroom I like to be tied up, hair pulled, spanked etc etc luckily the Mr enjoys doing the above to me

Mrs X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because someone is submissive doesn't mean that they are not confident. I'm incredibly confident but in the bedroom I like to be tied up, hair pulled, spanked etc etc luckily the Mr enjoys doing the above to me

Mrs X "

Yes that's true, I hope my own comment didn't suggest otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because someone is submissive doesn't mean that they are not confident. I'm incredibly confident but in the bedroom I like to be tied up, hair pulled, spanked etc etc luckily the Mr enjoys doing the above to me

Mrs X

Yes that's true, I hope my own comment didn't suggest otherwise. "

Not in the slightest it was the OP that suggested submissive woman are not confident X.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because someone is submissive doesn't mean that they are not confident. I'm incredibly confident but in the bedroom I like to be tied up, hair pulled, spanked etc etc luckily the Mr enjoys doing the above to me

Mrs X "

Same for me. I'm a confident, dominant woman in my every day life so to let go and allow someone to dominate me is a release.

I think you'll find that with a lot of truly submissive women. Some, of course just say they are submissive instead of admitting they are just lazy in the bedroom? Maybe this is what you have encountered op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because someone is submissive doesn't mean that they are not confident. I'm incredibly confident but in the bedroom I like to be tied up, hair pulled, spanked etc etc luckily the Mr enjoys doing the above to me

Mrs X "

Totally agreed.

I'd say that in regards to the bdsm lifestyle etc that a submissive person is confident as they have identified what turns them on and they go out and embrace that.

That's one definition of confidence to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are all the sub women that like me in fact where are any women that like me

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

Then I suggest the op, has no idea how to use a sub fem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the surprised dommes

Coy and reserved on the street, an evil bitch between the sheets

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By *eoffinthecityMan
over a year ago

Wigan

There's nothing hotter (to me) than a dominant lady! Assertive is always good - but the two definitely aren't the same!

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Its such a cliche!

Where are all the confident, dominant ones?

B&C

x"

Ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a confident woman and I know exactly what I want and I know exactly how to get it. I'm not in to pillow princesses who just lay on the bed and that's about all they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am domme with my hubby but he's recently started to get a little more Dom in the bedroom.

With my daddy Dom I am submissive with slave and bratty tendencies.

I'm very confident in my own skin and mind (like being naked in clubs)

I'm happiest within myself if I'm being dommed on a daily basis.

I am only submissive with hubby and dom though.

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