FabSwingers.com forum: Let's hope we don't get let down this Friday

By *thyorks OP Couple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Well we have organised another meet for this friday evening with a single guy .

The last two meets we organised both guys have failed to turn up.

fingers crossed for 3rd time lucky

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck, hope you have a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i couldnt work out the code in ur profile so never responded...besides am too far lol......never say never tho hehehehee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our record is 5 in a row that didn't show

We've finished with guys now, and will only see them if they can team up with a lady to meet us as a couple.

Strangley enough, we've had pretty decent times doing it this way

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Only ever had one no-show single guy in six years.

It's not some much single guys letting you down as the guys you are picking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have probably all got headaches from trying to decipher your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"i couldnt work out the code in ur profile so never responded...besides am too far lol......never say never tho hehehehee"

Stop tarting and tie a knot in it

To the OP I hope it all goes well and you have lots of fun

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

friday the 13th uh ?

all sorts of disasters could happen to your meet on that day the poor soul lol

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By *thyorks OP Couple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Never realised it was that date...

Hope it's not an omen..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our record is 5 in a row that didn't show

We've finished with guys now, and will only see them if they can team up with a lady to meet us as a couple.

Strangley enough, we've had pretty decent times doing it this way

Thats the reason we stopped meeting single guys too.

Only couples now!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never realised it was that date...

Hope it's not an omen..

no just A MAN! LOL

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By *thyorks OP Couple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Lets hope !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh yeah you get a no show + i cant find an invite near me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all single guys are no shows, but it's the minority that give the rest of us a bad image and reputation.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Not all single guys are no shows, but it's the minority that give the rest of us a bad image and reputation."

I agree with that. I always turn up or, on the rare occasion I couldn't make it with a regular, at least call.

The keys lots of communication I reckon. Sadly you will still get no shows sometimes I guess.

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

omg what are they doing its bad news 4 you & us single guys

even if i won the lotto id still turn up as money carnt buy happness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP seems a little OTT for my taste, challenging the poor sod on their status line, starting a thread - even if he was all geared up for it he must be having second thoughts: I know I would.

As for the comment about "some spoiling it for others" - well, I can't speak for the masses, but I'm able to judge people on their own merits, and as I only ever met single men and not one ever let me down, I think it's other's not picking those that suit them rather than the single guys to blame.

But that's just me!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Can't say we have this problem with single guys....only once did one cancel and then he phoned the day before to let us know.

Perhaps it is the ones you are choosing as there are plenty of decent & reliable ones out there.

Good Luck hope it goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually rekon to ask (firm invites) 10 single guys in order to get one! Having been swinging for several years, we have found this to be pretty consistent on ALL swinging sites. Our preference is actually gangbangs, so we usually invite huge numbers of guys (100 +) looking for that magic night when we get 20 or 30 show up......so far, our "record" attendance is 6 guys from 131 firm (and confirmed) invitations! An average turn out of single guys seems to be between 3 and 10 percent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We usually rekon to ask (firm invites) 10 single guys in order to get one! Having been swinging for several years, we have found this to be pretty consistent on ALL swinging sites. Our preference is actually gangbangs, so we usually invite huge numbers of guys (100 +) looking for that magic night when we get 20 or 30 show up......so far, our "record" attendance is 6 guys from 131 firm (and confirmed) invitations! An average turn out of single guys seems to be between 3 and 10 percent."

Well you would get me for sure

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

For serious swingers, picking a playmate can sometimes be a tedious exercise but one soon finds a selection formula that works most of the time.

There are timewasters across the board, so it's not just single guys. Down the years, I've had several couples & females who make the first move by getting in touch, show lots of enthusiasm in the days leading up to the meet, and then end up not turning up or cancelling 5 mins to kickoff.

For those who are on a roll of guys always cancelling on them or not turning up, maybe you should revise your selection criteria. Those other couples or females who don't have any problem with guys not turning up must be doing something that you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well,if I was a bookie I would give odds of at least 8 to 1 that you wouldn't! And that's what 7 years of experience on this and 4 other sites has proven time and again. The only way the odds would shorten is if we moved to London, or Birmingham, or maybe Manchester, where the single guys are more closely grouped so the poor dears don't have to exert themselves by travelling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all single guys are no shows, but it's the minority that give the rest of us a bad image and reputation.

I agree with that. I always turn up or, on the rare occasion I couldn't make it with a regular, at least call.

The keys lots of communication I reckon. Sadly you will still get no shows sometimes I guess. "

You do always show up.. but can sometimes forget to be correctly dressed.. I was shocked at your lack of dress code the other day.. lol

OP.. I went through a stage of having single blokes not turn up.. so now I do a call..( 98% of those I ask for one dont send a number ) Then I meet socially..and decide if there is any chemistry.. and then we meet for a play meet if everyone is happy.

Can say doing it that way around we have not had one single let down.. Except for once when one lovely single guy was ill...

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to put the shoe on the other foot,we had a meet arranged with a single guy but it was us that let him down due to our babysitter not being able to make it.we did feel very guilty about having to cancel.Its not just single males that cant make meets

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Not all single guys are no shows, but it's the minority that give the rest of us a bad image and reputation.

I agree with that. I always turn up or, on the rare occasion I couldn't make it with a regular, at least call.

The keys lots of communication I reckon. Sadly you will still get no shows sometimes I guess.

You do always show up.. but can sometimes forget to be correctly dressed.. I was shocked at your lack of dress code the other day.. lol

Can say doing it that way around we have not had one single let down.. Except for once when one lovely single guy was ill...

Katie. x"

I shall buy more pink sock to ensure I meet your requirements in future.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Not all single guys are no shows, but it's the minority that give the rest of us a bad image and reputation."

Bollox.... you make your own reputation in life.

If what you were saying was true, why would anyone be looking for single guys?

That's like me saying ... not all women are clingy bunny boilers, but it's the minority that give the rest of us a bad image and reputation.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Having thought about my meets from Fab as a single bloke then most of them are as a result of chatting via pm and often by phone as well. It is often months between first pm and a meet, but by the time I do meet the couple or lady concerned we already feel like we have some connection at least.

Maybe spending more time chatting with a few 'good blokes' and arranging meets with them is one way of cutting down on the no shows.

Just my musings... thought I'd share...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Maybe spending more time chatting with a few 'good blokes' and arranging meets with them is one way of cutting down on the no shows.

Just my musings... thought I'd share...

I'd take the word 'good' out... after all who would spend time talking to a rotten one. The aim of talking is to see what someone is like with you. One person's 'good' is another person's muppet.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Maybe spending more time chatting with a few 'good blokes' and arranging meets with them is one way of cutting down on the no shows.

Just my musings... thought I'd share...

I'd take the word 'good' out... after all who would spend time talking to a rotten one. The aim of talking is to see what someone is like with you. One person's 'good' is another person's muppet."

*checks for a hand up his arse and little sticks attached to his wrists*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP seems a little OTT for my taste, challenging the poor sod on their status line, starting a thread - even if he was all geared up for it he must be having second thoughts: I know I would.

But that's just me!"

I totally Agree with you...

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