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Does it matter to a woman where the cock comes from?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a wind up????

Doesn't matter who it is.....really???!!!!

I go for the man, his imaginative mind, his personality then his looks. His cock doesn't even come into my decision on whether I meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um, yes it matters a lot who it is attached to. If literally all I want is a penis, any penis, there are some quite realistic dildos out there these days, and I wouldn't need to shave my legs for them.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life."

Probably should just blind fold and tie her up and then get loads of single guys to come up and bang her. No doubt she would love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a wind up????

Doesn't matter who it is.....really???!!!!

I go for the man, his imaginative mind, his personality then his looks. His cock doesn't even come into my decision on whether I meet him.

"

This! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um, yes it matters a lot who it is attached to. If literally all I want is a penis, any penis, there are some quite realistic dildos out there these days, and I wouldn't need to shave my legs for them. "

And this!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life."

Dildo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a wind up????

Doesn't matter who it is.....really???!!!!

I go for the man, his imaginative mind, his personality then his looks. His cock doesn't even come into my decision on whether I meet him.

"
this for me with a woman too there has to be more than just a hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um, yes it matters a lot who it is attached to. If literally all I want is a penis, any penis, there are some quite realistic dildos out there these days, and I wouldn't need to shave my legs for them. "

This! I wouldn't go through all of the effort of dolling myself up for any old Tom, Dick or Harry.

That being said, I've been known to be somewhat less picky in the heat of the moment, but I still wouldn't go with someone I don't like just for cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me, which is why I don't go to clubs or use dildos alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it depends on the scenario .

In a group situation it doesn't matter , the connection on any level other than it's a cock ( as long as it's clean ) doesn't really matter .

If we are arranging a meet it does , there has to be a connection on other levels for us to agree the meet .

If we are out and about , or dogging , the guy has to be respectful and attractive ( a subjective term I know , and it varies ) to us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life.

Probably should just blind fold and tie her up and then get loads of single guys to come up and bang her. No doubt she would love it! "

Why can't the married or taken men have a go too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!!!!

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um, yes it matters a lot who it is attached to. If literally all I want is a penis, any penis, there are some quite realistic dildos out there these days, and I wouldn't need to shave my legs for them. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um, yes it matters a lot who it is attached to. If literally all I want is a penis, any penis, there are some quite realistic dildos out there these days, and I wouldn't need to shave my legs for them. "

Excellently worded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life.

Probably should just blind fold and tie her up and then get loads of single guys to come up and bang her. No doubt she would love it! "

Some couples love this scenario .

Not for us though ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she doesn't swing because she has the preconception swingers aren't choosy. I'm not surprised if that's the reason it's people with your POV that populate that myth.

Sex is intimate however fleeting the sex may be. I have to at least fancy the person and know they're not a complete douchebag before they get anywhere near. Ladies and gents deserve a bit of respect no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, we have a lot of fun in the cinema at Chams, me (T) sitting in the corner with R bent over sucking me with her legs spread and on display. Not long before there's men wanting to play with and fuck her, and as long I give them the go-ahead she doesn't care, just wants cock after cock. It's a very specific scenario and for private meets it's different. But she absolutely loves just being bent over and having lots of anonymous cock

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It matters alot to me,im v picky about who i play with and would rather not bother than shag someone for the sake of it.

Hence why we don't meet that often lol.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us, we have a lot of fun in the cinema at Chams, me (T) sitting in the corner with R bent over sucking me with her legs spread and on display. Not long before there's men wanting to play with and fuck her, and as long I give them the go-ahead she doesn't care, just wants cock after cock. It's a very specific scenario and for private meets it's different. But she absolutely loves just being bent over and having lots of anonymous cock "

Done this a few times too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it matters very much

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Is this a wind up????

Doesn't matter who it is.....really???!!!!

I go for the man, his imaginative mind, his personality then his looks. His cock doesn't even come into my decision on whether I meet him.

"

This.

I need someone to stimulate my mind before they even get close to my body.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life.

Probably should just blind fold and tie her up and then get loads of single guys to come up and bang her. No doubt she would love it!

Why can't the married or taken men have a go too? "

Those cheating bastards(unless they have permission to play whilst fem is in work via status update)can get to the back of the queue then!

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"for me it matters very much"

Likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it matters very much

Likewise "

and in my opinion only a guy would ask that question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me, I wouldn't let just any cock near me, there has to be an attraction or connection, I won't sleep with just anyone because its offered to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life."

I'm thinking you don't know much about women. I'm also thinking you don't know much about your wife. You should speak to her more probably, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not what everyone thinks on here, which is why men who presume you will fuck them before you've even spoken are a huge turn off for most women.

but if she wants to use guys as dildos there are plenty of guys up for that. if she's hypersexual i'm guessing sex is like that for her.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"My wife gets all her fulfilment from penetration and my argument is that providing she has a cock in her it probably doesn't matter who's it is shed enjoy it all the same? Maybe even more if its bigger and longer lasting. Do we think this is true? Im thinking in the moment she probably wouldn't care.

She doesn't swing but am thinking shed love it if she did get some more penis in her life."

So that's what you think.

And what is her opinion on the matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tesco is cheaper than sainsburys i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting replys, it was just something I had been thinking, gauge opinion. Obviously crudely worded I wasn't thinking it would be some fat out of shape sweaty bald guy just getting involved, naturally it would be with some attraction but if the pysical attraction is there does it matter? It seems to some yes, to other no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also this came about because she really only just wants me, but the question arose as I just bought a dildo to try spice things up recently and she wants nothing to do with it as she said she only likes the 'real thing'. I kind of think one real thing is much the same as the other in the heat of the moment?

Probably not very good with women either as some of you point out. We have been together since 16 years old so very little to compare!! ??

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

Would she want a man who would fuck her just as a hole to fill?

There are a number of profiles on here for gang banging or not wanting kissing or having no contact at all except for the stunt cock.

I couldn't think of anything worse than an impersonal fuck.

I certainly don't disapprove bit I'm not sure I see the point. Is it actually significantly more satisfying than masturbating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um, yes it matters a lot who it is attached to. If literally all I want is a penis, any penis, there are some quite realistic dildos out there these days, and I wouldn't need to shave my legs for them. "

Shattered my dreams of hairy legs now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with not understanding something, now you have a bit more knowledge so hopefully you've took that on board?

i've done the meet and fuck now thing where all i went off was the guys looks, it can work well if you're only after basic, vanilla sex. but if you want more than that then communication is needed.

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over a year ago

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