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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not to start an argument, though I might.

There's been a lot of jusgemnt about profiles, verification, non verification, single men, pic collectors etc about lately.

What does it matter?

This site is designed for one thing, allowing

People to achieve their sexual thrill.

We cant see an issue with any of the gripes lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it judgement or just sharing opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are extremely judgemental on here. I'm all for live and let live. People judge on other people and situations they know absolutely nothing about. This is meant to be a site all about fun, but people take it way too seriously.

You only live once, do what makes you happy, as long as no one is being hurt in the process, then all is good ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature "

Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are extremely judgemental on here. I'm all for live and let live. People judge on other people and situations they know absolutely nothing about. This is meant to be a site all about fun, but people take it way too seriously.

You only live once, do what makes you happy, as long as no one is being hurt in the process, then all is good ?? "

Totally agree with this you seem canny down to earth, I like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature

Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture. "

You're judging them... you see that, right?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

As the great sage once said...

"opinions are like arseholes, everyone's got one!"

Not sure he would have followed it up with ...

"...and they should feel free to air them art every opportunity!"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you have an opinion on someone or something you have made a judgment. It seems its only called judgemental if the opinion is negative, if it's positive its called the truth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have an opinion on someone or something you have made a judgment. It seems its only called judgemental if the opinion is negative, if it's positive its called the truth..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums on here are a place to discuss opinions on a variety of topics . If everyone agreed with every opinion they wouldn't be much fun would they ? And why would we all agree with every persons perspective on every topic ?

So , it starts off with a few voicing their opinions and usually ends up with all of us being accused of being judgemental .

Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made . "

I never understand when people say this. Swingers aren't an elite alien race. They are just people that like to fuck.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If you start a thread asking for advice, stating you're playing away etc what do people expect?

Keep your business to yourself/work it out for yourself.

Posting on a OPEN forum then bitching about the responses is an exercise in futility.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature

Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture. "

Why? I'm here for fun with like minded people. What others do is their business, I don't have to be open minded for thongs that don't interest me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you have an opinion on someone or something you have made a judgment. It seems its only called judgemental if the opinion is negative, if it's positive its called the truth..."

...or if the opinion is the same as yours. If not it's narrow minded and judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made .

I never understand when people say this. Swingers aren't an elite alien race. They are just people that like to fuck. "

True , but my issue is with the swingers who think their way is the only way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made .

I never understand when people say this. Swingers aren't an elite alien race. They are just people that like to fuck.

True , but my issue is with the swingers who think their way is the only way .

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Fair point but they are still 'just' people.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If you have an opinion on someone or something you have made a judgment. It seems its only called judgemental if the opinion is negative, if it's positive its called the truth..."

I make judgements about things, all the time. Most people do, if they're honest.

It's just some people are more vocal about them, than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all judgemental to some degree,just some are more tactful than others when it comes to airing said judgements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature

Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture.

You're judging them... you see that, right?"

Ah yes, I see your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all judgemental to some degree,just some are more tactful than others when it comes to airing said judgements."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature

Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture.

Why? I'm here for fun with like minded people. What others do is their business, I don't have to be open minded for thongs that don't interest me. "

I'm talking from my personal experiences with people and how they judge me, without even knowing any facts at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are extremely judgemental on here. I'm all for live and let live. People judge on other people and situations they know absolutely nothing about. This is meant to be a site all about fun, but people take it way too seriously.

You only live once, do what makes you happy, as long as no one is being hurt in the process, then all is good ??

Totally agree with this you seem canny down to earth, I like it!"

I'm extremely canny and down to earth, and try my hardest not to judge without knowing the whole story. I then form my own opinion on facts.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


" I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made . "

Similarly I've seen the same in the BDsM / kink community. A lot of the conversations at munches, are around how they're viewed negatively in the vanilla wider world. Then in the next breath "vanilla" is used in a derogatory sense and an "us and them" mentality takes over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't care, I'm here for the banter .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to talk to pic collectors,because I'm here for sex and they are here for pics. That's not being judgemental, that's making a decision based on my experiences here.

Pic collectors are sad, wankers with no lives. That's being over critical and judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aren't most people on here wankers?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We may be swingers, but that doesn't necessarily mean we are open minded about everything that people do. We just happen to be people who enjoy sex. Not everybody is going to like some things that others do. Some are more vocal than others. Nobody is immune to being judgemental. It's human nature. We judge every day. Whether it's a parent scolding their child a little too harshly, or a driver who doesn't indicate before moving into the next lane in front of us. The forums may not be perfect, but if everybody didn't have a different opinion on things, how boring would the forums be? Though I do concede that some can be a little too critical, and take their judgement to the next level, which doesn't need to happen.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Is it judgement or just sharing opinions?"

Many forget even A judgemental opinion is still an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't most people on here wankers? "

I actually class myself as a professional wanker!

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