FabSwingers.com forum: Serious bare back question

By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I am chatting and going to meet a gay guy iv been talking to ages I know he is clean and I am too

What is the risk doing bare

I'm serious so no stupid replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as the risk of not knowing him.

He. Ishtar not know what's he has and you might not know.

Use protection. Sex education 101.

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I'm dying to meet he said wont have sex but I do want it so will end up doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm dying to meet he said wont have sex but I do want it so will end up doing it

You don't know he is clean

And if he doesn't want sex then how will you end up doing it?

Your risk, your choice mate. Many wouldn't but many would ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as the last time you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm dying to meet he said wont have sex but I do want it so will end up doing it

You only have his word...

And he only has yours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm dying to meet he said wont have sex but I do want it so will end up doing it

Have fun , enjoy , and good luck .

Of course there's a risk , but there is still a risk covering up too .

So make your choice and keep your fingers crossed afterwards , if you choose bare .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am chatting and going to meet a gay guy iv been talking to ages I know he is clean and I am too

What is the risk doing bare

I'm serious so no stupid replies

There are no stupid replies.

Only stupid questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too risky. Move on. With that cock you won't be short of offers from sensible guy's

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's up to you and him at the end of the day. No one ever really knows what people's sexual health is like or has been.

You are only as 'clean' as your last result!

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Not gone

I am clean as been tested

Anyone near dewsbury wanna meet ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not worth the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not gone

I am clean as been tested

Anyone near dewsbury wanna meet ? Lol"

You looking for bare sex only????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you giving or receiving? From experience the only difference when receiving when it's bare is there's no pause while he suits up.

Giving; I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am chatting and going to meet a gay guy iv been talking to ages I know he is clean and I am too

What is the risk doing bare

I'm serious so no stupid replies

Are you just taking his word for it that he's clean? If so, do you feel its worth the risk? That's what you need to be asking yourself. Nobody can answer that for you. Only you can look after your sexual health as you see fit OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think he's clean, just ram it up his fart pipe and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very high risk. Like, one step below 'Sharing needles' risk.

Going bare with a guy you don't really know is an insanely dumb thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am chatting and going to meet a gay guy iv been talking to ages I know he is clean and I am too

What is the risk doing bare

I'm serious so no stupid replies

Hey OP

Don't be silly and put a condom on your willy before you enter the gates of any paradise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take this as a stupid reply but if at 36, you don't know or understand potential risks when playing bare then perhaps you need to do some research before dipping your cock.

And if you take someone's word that they're clean then you're daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

STI transmission between gay men who engage in anal sex is statistically far more likely than between men and women.

It is the highest STI risk but not Russian roulette levels.

Your life so your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no risk at all:

1. Having unprotected sex with complete strangers is the safest sex you can have.

2. I would however suggest doing it standing up so he won't get pregnant.

3. Believe everything that everyone tells you without questioning it and you'll never have a problem ever.

4. You've just won the Liberian lottery (I have an uncle there that emailed to tell me). If you give me your credit card details I'll transfer the money to you via my account.

Enjoy your meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no risk at all:

1. Having unprotected sex with complete strangers is the safest sex you can have.

2. I would however suggest doing it standing up so he won't get pregnant.

3. Believe everything that everyone tells you without questioning it and you'll never have a problem ever.

4. You've just won the Liberian lottery (I have an uncle there that emailed to tell me). If you give me your credit card details I'll transfer the money to you via my account.

Enjoy your meet

I can vouch for him!

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I wore a comdom and he did too Thsnks for the replies

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

The mere fact you're asking despite professing both clean implies you have doubts bud

Stay safe

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I'm dying to meet he said wont have sex but I do want it so will end up doing it

erm... if he's said he won't have sex then the question's irrelevant isn't it?

Or does your remark "...but I do want it so will end up doing it." mean that you intend to force the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice your risks. There's risks in everything we do, just some more risky than others.

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By *heonix316Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I am chatting and going to meet a gay guy iv been talking to ages I know he is clean and I am too

What is the risk doing bare

I'm serious so no stupid replies

A gamble is when there is something to win and the stake is 'affordable'to lose.

The win = short term gratification.

The Lose = Long term health uncertainty at best. And at worst, well Freddy Mercury springs to mind.

Bareback is not a gamble, its madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is simply dont take the risk OP

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people who knowingly infecting others with HIV, it happened in my home town a HIV positive man with mental health issues pushed for bareback with lots of women and girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am chatting and going to meet a gay guy iv been talking to ages I know he is clean and I am too

What is the risk doing bare

I'm serious so no stupid replies

A gamble is when there is something to win and the stake is 'affordable'to lose.

The win = short term gratification.

The Lose = Long term health uncertainty at best. And at worst, well Freddy Mercury springs to mind.

Bareback is not a gamble, its madness.

I'm confused. Too many musical references for my mind.

To bareback or not to bareback. To me it's a choice to be dead or alive. You spin me right round baby with such talk talk.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I am chatting and going to meet a gay guy iv been talking to ages I know he is clean and I am too

What is the risk doing bare

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If you "Know" he is clean, and you "Know" you are clean then there is no risk

Just be sure of your methods of "Knowing"

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Your all falling into his trap. He has opened many threads like this before. He just likes all your reactions.

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