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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Wow ..... why so angry ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

Thought you had done a magic trick and dissapeared lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Hi again, OP. Why does this have anything to do with anyone telling everyone they know all the details of their sex life. Some of us don't like or need to be the centre if attention, or to have everyone watching us. Our lives are ours, not to be broadcast .... I dont tell all my friends what I am eating, what colour bra I have on, what time I did the dishes or how many fleas my cats have ... why should I burden them with the tedious detail of my sex life. I mean, why assume everyone is interested in everything you do sexually? I think you are taking this 'centre of attention' thing a little too far ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're hypocrites because we don't tell our peers how we have a sex life? I struggle to understand how that would make anyone a hypocrite compared to what you were saying? It's very rare that peers ask about my sex life, in fact I don't think anyone ever has, but if have no shame in telling them, some know but only because I like to talk about the scene.

What you have just posted now is a lot better about the way you perceive men and if this was your original post, I'm certain your responses would have been a lot different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone."

As I said before then, you've never met a MAN. It must be so unsatisfying to meet with such limp, weak willed little guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow ..... why so angry .... "

Probably because he thinks hes womans drop dead gorgeous and that entitles him to speak to single blokes the same way he was spoken to when all he had at the end of the night was a wank lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Wow ..... why so angry .... "

i dont read any anger.

I am confused though as they actually asked if they were horrible people on their first thread and so invited judgement yet now are shaming those who did as they asked...

They have now worded their play preference slightly more romantically (i kind of guessed this would happen after they left the thread alone till the end). It is no longer and use and and abuse type thing but rather a chance for the men to lavish attention on the Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I missed something here, if you're up front in how you play and any man or men are told from the off what the rules and exactly what they are there for, what's the issue ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said nothing but I also don't meet couples for the sole purpose OP has described.

Couples are you deluded? I'm not interested in being your threesome or playing with the hubby, I'm here for my sole pleasure not yours bugger off

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And why are we hypocrites? Because we don't agree with how you treat and see people? Then so be it! I'm happy with the title

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

The original post was very, short curt and rude.

It created offence and you got appropriate responses....

Tbh what did you expect from a brutally honest topic?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"And why are we hypocrites? Because we don't agree with how you treat and see people? Then so be it! I'm happy with the title "

no....we are hypocrytes because we dont tell aunt frieda about our gangbang nights because she might judge us but, when asked to judge someone, we do....that is hypocrytical obvs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning. "

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have I missed something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow ..... why so angry .... "

Because they are lol... didn't get the sympathetic response to their bullish approach and they have a nice way with words. ...and for a minute I thought fabbers were respectful people. ...oh sorry we are just a few couples who feel the world owes them lol.

Trying another approach on this thread but it seems a leopard doesn't change its spots.

I don't think they've made many friends. If this was a single guy all the women would say..."best of luck"......but one draws like for like in these circles.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?"

It was okay for them to be honest, but not for anyone who disagreed with them. Then it just got worse .... its true, there is a lot of anger and arrogance around

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing."

you ASKED to be judged....you cant get stroppy when people do as you ask

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Have I missed something? "

Oh, right. Another thread. It sounds divisive so I won't read it but good luck to everyone. Happy thoughts and all.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the day, the single male gets to fuck a woman who more than likely would not get a chance with otherwise, the female part of the couple gets her enjoyment.. not a biggy really

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By *lbi niceMan
over a year ago

romsley


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

To be fair the mrs op is dammed hot, and what fella would not to please her and make her the centre of attention. I'm at attention right now,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?"

Nope....and honesty can actually be misconstrued. Honesty and Truth are often poles apart...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"And why are we hypocrites? Because we don't agree with how you treat and see people? Then so be it! I'm happy with the title

no....we are hypocrytes because we dont tell aunt frieda about our gangbang nights because she might judge us but, when asked to judge someone, we do....that is hypocrytical obvs!!!"

Ah right, is that it? Seems I had better unload all my naughty deeds to my mother tomorrow in out weekly catch up......NOT!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing."

He knows, just like most of us know, we aren't the centre of the universe for other people. Some couples may enjoy being live porn at a local club, but that doesn't mean they are any more important or memorable. Really, the reason we don't broadcast our sex lives is that we know people have lives .....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing."

to be honest....i dont want my dad to know who i fuck because it is non of his busines....just as i dont want to know who he fucks...i wont judge him for it i just dont want to know about it.

not telling people isnt always through fear of being judged

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And why are we hypocrites? Because we don't agree with how you treat and see people? Then so be it! I'm happy with the title "

No, you are fully entitled to disagree with me. I accept that. Hard to get 3 people in a supermarket to agree on a packet of biscuits never mind a 150+ people on a swingers site to agree on sexual practices. You are not however, entitled to judge us.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing.

you ASKED to be judged....you cant get stroppy when people do as you ask "

Thank fuck you said that as that was what I was going to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning. "

Am not into Fab politics & drama, but agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

To be fair the mrs op is dammed hot, and what fella would not to please her and make her the centre of attention. I'm at attention right now, "

May be hot but the team is sorely let down so to answer your question.. no I would want to please her...you never know what the other party might do or say lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"And why are we hypocrites? Because we don't agree with how you treat and see people? Then so be it! I'm happy with the title

No, you are fully entitled to disagree with me. I accept that. Hard to get 3 people in a supermarket to agree on a packet of biscuits never mind a 150+ people on a swingers site to agree on sexual practices. You are not however, entitled to judge us. "

I am actually when you asked the question! It was a question and not a statement, so I can respond however I like, my opinion is just as valid as yours and if you don't like it, then tough quite simply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As this is not in the Ireland forum a lot of you might not realise that killarney is in Kerry and the IQ level down there is not exactly Mensa standard

Best of luck with getting meets in the future. Easiest block ever

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."
what a rant

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???

just in case anyone missed it, the above sentence is the last one in their original thread's opening post,,,,they asked if they were horrible people then got all sanctimonious when people said they were

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why are we hypocrites? Because we don't agree with how you treat and see people? Then so be it! I'm happy with the title

No, you are fully entitled to disagree with me. I accept that. Hard to get 3 people in a supermarket to agree on a packet of biscuits never mind a 150+ people on a swingers site to agree on sexual practices. You are not however, entitled to judge us. "

Your threads and your profile have hurt my head.... All the irony and contradictions, it's just too much for a sat night when I'm stuck in doing nothing. I'm even tempted to have a drink thinking it may help me understand more.

After pointing out the irony and contradictions in the previous thread, you're now saying people are not allowed to judge you after asking them to tell you whether you are horrible people based on how you see single men. What did you expect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys "

Because you have no right to judge on other peoples sexual practices. Duh!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours."

Maybe BECAUSE YOU ASKED US TO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As this is not in the Ireland forum a lot of you might not realise that killarney is in Kerry and the IQ level down there is not exactly Mensa standard

Best of luck with getting meets in the future. Easiest block ever

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Hey we're not all that bad over here....oh wait I'm a blow - in.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys

Because you have no right to judge on other peoples sexual practices. Duh!!!"

But you asked us to. How can you not get that?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Aunty freda .

Like the ballard of BARRY AND FREDA ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel great when I have two men pleasuring my old, fat body

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Wow, sermantics at its best.

If there is a problem walk away, if you can't walk, talk.

If it doesn't go away, do the minimum to put it right

I was advising a company boss once, he said, "if you don't like it don't do it"

Best advice an advisor I ever had

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say"

I think it has been asked and answered. People have different reasons from you and different perspectives on why they don't share all their personal details with all and sundry .... what has this go to do with the original thread, as I can't see the connection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

As I said before then, you've never met a MAN. It must be so unsatisfying to meet with such limp, weak willed little guys."

Lmao, seriously? That's what you are going with. An intellectual giant obviously. Oh how small I feel. Grow uo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say"

I would say it is a completely different scenerio and nothing like what you say you were being judged for.

We would be HYPOCRITES if you had said you refused to tell someone about your lifestyle because you didn't want to be judged, and then we all said how wrong it was etc but didn't tell anyone ourselves, that would make us hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys

Because you have no right to judge on other peoples sexual practices. Duh!!!"

Is your women aloud a go at typing lol ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand what you are saying and I totally get it however you put your original post on the forums knowing that it would stir a reaction. There is nothing hypocritical of those that do not share your opinion. I love a good debate and I would happily do this with you but I am certainly not critical of your opinion as it is just that, your opinion.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"We would be HYPOCRITES if you had said you refused to tell someone about your lifestyle because you didn't want to be judged, and then we all said how wrong it was etc but didn't tell anyone ourselves, that would make us hypocrites "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

You asked 2 questions. I answered them. Im not a hypocrite. I live my life my way. You live your life your way. Im not judging you, i just dont like the way you treat others. Im honest as i do like to make friends with guys we meet and i do want them to have as much fun as me. Should i have lied to make you feel better about yourselves ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say"

you are missing the point completely. People judged you on your original thread because you asked them to give their opinion of you.

Of course people will judge you for the way you conduct your sex life....people judge you for hundreds of reasons but if you court that judgement you can't tell people they can't judge you

boot on the other foot.....if a single guy had come on here saying how they loved to fuck Mrs Sucubus like she was a piece of meat, purely there for his pleasure, nothing more than a fleshlight with tits....how do you think the thread would have gone down? what would you have thought of that person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys

Because you have no right to judge on other peoples sexual practices. Duh!!!

Is your women aloud a go at typing lol ?"

Allowed

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

please don't paint yourselves to be the victim of what you posted....

i think it is very distastful.... and does true victims whoever they happen to be an extreme dis-service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say"

Sometimes it's hard and lonely standing a corner with someone else....But few will do it if they don't agree with them. Take it on the chin and have a few more drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say

you are missing the point completely. People judged you on your original thread because you asked them to give their opinion of you.

Of course people will judge you for the way you conduct your sex life....people judge you for hundreds of reasons but if you court that judgement you can't tell people they can't judge you

boot on the other foot.....if a single guy had come on here saying how they loved to fuck Mrs Sucubus like she was a piece of meat, purely there for his pleasure, nothing more than a fleshlight with tits....how do you think the thread would have gone down? what would you have thought of that person?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not delusional though, is it, for a man to expect to get something from meeting a woman in a couple. Unless they are asking for the man to suck their cocks, when he's straight.

I'm going to hazard a guess that neither of you do that.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys

Because you have no right to judge on other peoples sexual practices. Duh!!!"

i am going to keep pointing this out because you seem to like to ignore it....you asked people to judge you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say

you are missing the point completely. People judged you on your original thread because you asked them to give their opinion of you.

Of course people will judge you for the way you conduct your sex life....people judge you for hundreds of reasons but if you court that judgement you can't tell people they can't judge you

boot on the other foot.....if a single guy had come on here saying how they loved to fuck Mrs Sucubus like she was a piece of meat, purely there for his pleasure, nothing more than a fleshlight with tits....how do you think the thread would have gone down? what would you have thought of that person?"

I actually feel sorry and embarrassed for her...I shouldn't as I'm sure she knows him better.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Mostly I'm hearing lots of excuses of why people are not open to their parents, colleagues, friends etc that they are swingers.

What is amazing is that that not one of ye judging us has said. "Yep, he has a point, I'm not open that I am a swinger because people will judge me, look at me funny, think I'm some sort of deviant because they don't know any better."

Doesn't anyone ANYONE, find that remarkable.... Not one, not one single solitary person agrees. WOW, what a brave, secure lot we are wouldn't you say"

No you are not brave, why would discussing your sex life with others be brave? What the hell would my mother benefit from having the knowledge about my sex life?

Hey mum, just so you know, I like a bit of S&M and meet some nice guys now and again for sex.

That is nobodies business but mine, what a stupid thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

Shame on you to treat men in such a way as a toy for your pleasure, people are not judging you on your sex life, they are judging you as people and how you treat others and from the evidence seen you don't treat others very well! So as people you seem to be sadly lacking any humility, respect or humanity and you should be judged for that x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

and i did ask the OP a question of which they decided not to answer...

so OP.... do you treat single women with the same distain you treat single men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

Don't your mother tell you you should never lie. And I do not need you to lie for me to feel better about myself no more than you need me to lie to you to feel better about yourself. I agree with you, you like your way and we like our way. Who to say which is right....

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

You asked 2 questions. I answered them. Im not a hypocrite. I live my life my way. You live your life your way. Im not judging you, i just dont like the way you treat others. Im honest as i do like to make friends with guys we meet and i do want them to have as much fun as me. Should i have lied to make you feel better about yourselves ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've explicitly invited people to judge you in one post and then had a go at them for doing just that in your next. Trying to deflect and distract from that by going off on one about whether people are open about their own sex lives isn't going to make that any less true. Stop digging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i did ask the OP a question of which they decided not to answer...

so OP.... do you treat single women with the same distain you treat single men?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you did ask the forum if you were horrible, so I guess that is what some people thought. As I said I regard it that you are honest and that it is actually not that uncommon for couples to have that view of single men, from what male friends on the scene have told me. However you saying that the single man will be there for your pleasure only, that implies that he will do exactly as you ask. In reality it's very hard to make a human being do what you want. A man will voluntarily enter into a sexual experience with you with his needs in mind. His starting point will be that you are there for him, and he will please himself. If you want him to consider the ladies pleasure it needs to be worth his while. But ultimately, if you use him for your needs and he uses you for his needs, no doubt a certain amount of fun will be had. But the arrangement will be more equal than you realise.

Mrs

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys

Because you have no right to judge on other peoples sexual practices. Duh!!!

But you asked us to. How can you not get that? "

The OP seems to be conveniently ignoring that little detail, they don't have much of a thread if they acknowledge it i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is, everyone judges. On everything. We are a species who survives and thrives by making a million judgements every single day.

When intellectually honest people speak of being non-judgemental, what they mean is that they do not treat others differently on the basis of judgements. Its rather euphamistic, they still judge.

So, a "Non judgemental" person can happily take a look at a man having sex with another man, judge him to be gay, shrug and go about their day, happily look at a person and note the quantity of melanin in their skin and judge him to be black or white, and go about their day.

Or look at a couple admitting that they behave in a way that in the persons opinion signals them to be a complete cunt, and judge them to be a cunt. Then go about their day.

Which appears to be what has happened to you.

Noone here is going to STOP you behaving this way, or go out of their way to protest you, or take you down to the market square to be held in stocks. But they are free to form their opinions of you based on your actions. This is not "being judgemental" this is being rational and human.

Sorry if that displeases you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i did ask the OP a question of which they decided not to answer...

so OP.... do you treat single women with the same distain you treat single men?

"

Im also asking this question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and i did ask the OP a question of which they decided not to answer...

so OP.... do you treat single women with the same distain you treat single men?"

We do not treat anyone with disdain. Male or female. But, the single male or female, is there at our bidding, for what WE are feeling we would like at that particular time.

What is so wrong with that. Has no one ever picked up a single in a club for a one night stand, had the craic and said goodbye the following morning????

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing."

I think I only judged your tone & the English used tbh, came across as arrogant & demeaning, If you'd had just said we want a bloke to fuck my Mrs, no more, no less, no one would have taken issue..but then that wasn't the point of the post I guess.

Have fun

S

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apparently it's wrong if a couple picks up a single for a one night stand though

When was the last time you picked someone one up in a club and said to yourself, this is for them

. When did the rules change.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

oh.... and people are really judging you as you like to think.... a lot of them are using the words YOU USED against you to strengthen their arguement...

no one else provided the rope to hang you..... you did!!!!

so again... please don't paint yourself to be the victim..... its like a person with a self inflicted gunshot wound then screaming "OUCH" and blaming the fact the safety wasn't on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i did ask the OP a question of which they decided not to answer...

so OP.... do you treat single women with the same distain you treat single men?

We do not treat anyone with disdain. Male or female. But, the single male or female, is there at our bidding, for what WE are feeling we would like at that particular time.

What is so wrong with that. Has no one ever picked up a single in a club for a one night stand, had the craic and said goodbye the following morning????"

Would this put the said single in the sub type category ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat "

Read profile. Same handle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat "

Yeah i noticed their 4 months in without a verification

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

Read profile. Same handle."

I would't touch your profile with a barge pole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing."

You asked haha. If you don't want to be judged, don't put up a thread asking people if they think you are horrible. Simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

Read profile. Same handle.

I would't touch your profile with a barge pole "

Maybe a barge pole is what there after lol ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat "

You forgot the COCK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i did ask the OP a question of which they decided not to answer...

so OP.... do you treat single women with the same distain you treat single men?

We do not treat anyone with disdain. Male or female. But, the single male or female, is there at our bidding, for what WE are feeling we would like at that particular time.

What is so wrong with that. Has no one ever picked up a single in a club for a one night stand, had the craic and said goodbye the following morning????"

But how is that possible? How do you get a man or a woman with free will, to be there at your bidding for whatever you are feeling at that particular time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

You forgot the COCK! "

Yes, fair enough a cock would be helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat "

Did you say heartbeat. ... nope....

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no response..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and i did ask the OP a question of which they decided not to answer...

so OP.... do you treat single women with the same distain you treat single men?

We do not treat anyone with disdain. Male or female. But, the single male or female, is there at our bidding, for what WE are feeling we would like at that particular time.

It is hard, granted.

What is so wrong with that. Has no one ever picked up a single in a club for a one night stand, had the craic and said goodbye the following morning????

But how is that possible? How do you get a man or a woman with free will, to be there at your bidding for whatever you are feeling at that particular time? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently it's wrong if a couple picks up a single for a one night stand though

When was the last time you picked someone one up in a club and said to yourself, this is for them

. When did the rules change.

"

Huh? That's nothing like you posted! Meeting a single in a club or wherever is completely different, if guess. This states nothing you said in your original post, many people use it for MUTUAL gain, pleasure, satisfaction, whatever you want to call it. It's not normally, or very rarely, one sided gain.

I have a drink now alcoholic one.

Don't judge me but I'm blaming the forums.

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over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

You forgot the COCK!

Yes, fair enough a cock would be helpful

"

When is the woman getting a go at typing lol ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Apparently it's wrong if a couple picks up a single for a one night stand though

When was the last time you picked someone one up in a club and said to yourself, this is for them

. When did the rules change.

"

every single time i play with someone it is for mutual pleasure. i want he person i choose to play with to enjoy it, it is something i am very conscious of. I cannot enjoy it if there is no mutual pleasure.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"And why are we hypocrites? Because we don't agree with how you treat and see people? Then so be it! I'm happy with the title

no....we are hypocrytes because we dont tell aunt frieda about our gangbang nights because she might judge us but, when asked to judge someone, we do....that is hypocrytical obvs!!!

Ah right, is that it? Seems I had better unload all my naughty deeds to my mother tomorrow in out weekly catch up......NOT! "

Ermmm Not quite swinging but almost everyone knows we are here looking for a fem. But then H was in ff,fff relationships that were not hidden too on the past.

There's open & honest, then there's Fab open & honest, same as "straight" I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L

O

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Unsure if the male half is insecure or just incredibly thirsty for attention. Either way this is hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DAMN... its good to be single guy.

Tomorrow is another day though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

Read profile. Same handle.

I would't touch your profile with a barge pole "

Nor would I. It'd probably break my phone or laptop

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

You forgot the COCK!

Yes, fair enough a cock would be helpful

When is the woman getting a go at typing lol ?"

There might not be one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"L

O

L

Unsure if the male half is insecure or just incredibly thirsty for attention. Either way this is hilarious. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

You forgot the COCK!

Yes, fair enough a cock would be helpful

When is the woman getting a go at typing lol ?

There might not be one."

I dont think there is

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By *tockport 69Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

Best just go with couples so all can have fun .we do as had probs with man.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it too late to get the popcorn out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently it's wrong if a couple picks up a single for a one night stand though

When was the last time you picked someone one up in a club and said to yourself, this is for them

. When did the rules change.

every single time i play with someone it is for mutual pleasure. i want he person i choose to play with to enjoy it, it is something i am very conscious of. I cannot enjoy it if there is no mutual pleasure."

EVIE....I'm sitting over here in the corner.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out "

Never to late for popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get "

So I take it that you are not interested in being their little fuck toy Christos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get "

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out "

It ran out last thread....its all over the bloody floor now...just trying to brush it all up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get "

Fancy a fuck?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out

It ran out last thread....its all over the bloody floor now...just trying to brush it all up... "

Will you pick the fluff off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't get the point of the first thread. I really don't get the point of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out

It ran out last thread....its all over the bloody floor now...just trying to brush it all up... "

Don't waste food! Eat it!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I didn't get the point of the first thread. I really don't get the point of this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best laugh I've had all day...thanks OP. I'm off to the bath satisfied that there is a heartbeat in the land after Brexit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

Fancy a fuck? "

Just the one? Have you not read this thread? Everyone has to make friends and keep in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out

It ran out last thread....its all over the bloody floor now...just trying to brush it all up...

Will you pick the fluff off? "

Water sports can work...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I still fabbed ya Mrs apart from the closeups cos she's hot,closeups don't do much for me tbh & cock shots, OK but they are better if its hard..

xx

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"L

O

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Unsure if the male half is insecure or just incredibly thirsty for attention. Either way this is hilarious. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

Fancy a fuck?

Just the one? Have you not read this thread? Everyone has to make friends and keep in touch. "

Sorry, single females can be desperate too.

Pls 4giv.

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

The simple rule of great sex, everyone thinks of the others pleasure, do that and all is happy

Im not normally rude, but really if you see guys as nothing more then walking dildos only there for your amusement then think you should leave here, move to a country where slavery is still a thing and buy a guy :-S

Yer you are a looker but clearly rotten on the inside and for some reason you have totally missed tbe point of swinging!

I can understand why some people dont meet single guys and if thats their preference, fine, but your attitude is just plain horrible!

Im glad glad most of this post are shocked and disagree, but sadly your not the first couple I have come across that think your way :-S

I hope you all the best, dont know why but hey ho

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

What the bloody hell is this about? I don't get it?!?!

What hypocritical friends?!?! What judging? What the hell?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out

It ran out last thread....its all over the bloody floor now...just trying to brush it all up...

Don't waste food! Eat it!"

I am so bugger off get your own or bend over and give me a hand....i might share if you don't feel used and abused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??. "

You're not meet verified, so hardly queueing are they?! You may have a low regard of men... Strange considering you are one. But some men place a lot more value on themselves, than just being there to please you and your partner, who obviously have no regard for their pleasure, based on what you've written here, and on your profile. Mutual respect and fun goes a lot further, than a completely selfish and arrogant agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out

It ran out last thread....its all over the bloody floor now...just trying to brush it all up...

Don't waste food! Eat it!

I am so bugger off get your own or bend over and give me a hand....i might share if you don't feel used and abused. "

I prefer to be on all fours when picking stuff up but not so sure, I looked at your profile and heard you like dangling things over the end of the cliff, I'm all for the adrenaline rush and all that, but thinking that's a bit much for me

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I didn't get the point of the first thread. I really don't get the point of this. "

Well we are bored waiting for kids to drop off..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on hang on, it's a Saturday night troll game.

The OP hasn't met anyone, let alone some poor guy with only a heartbeat

You forgot the COCK!

Yes, fair enough a cock would be helpful

When is the woman getting a go at typing lol ?"

That if she knows theres even a profile on here with her pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it too late to get the popcorn out

It ran out last thread....its all over the bloody floor now...just trying to brush it all up...

Don't waste food! Eat it!

I am so bugger off get your own or bend over and give me a hand....i might share if you don't feel used and abused.

I prefer to be on all fours when picking stuff up but not so sure, I looked at your profile and heard you like dangling things over the end of the cliff, I'm all for the adrenaline rush and all that, but thinking that's a bit much for me "

Safe pair of hands...never dropped anything of value...

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

You're not meet verified, so hardly queueing are they?! You may have a low regard of men... Strange considering you are one. But some men place a lot more value on themselves, than just being there to please you and your partner, who obviously have no regard for their pleasure, based on what you've written here, and on your profile. Mutual respect and fun goes a lot further, than a completely selfish and arrogant agenda "

I get it now! I get it!

"We'll let YOU know when WE'RE ready to use ye. Ye're just a sex toy with a heart beat to us, nothing more."

Looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool!!!!

Mate, no sane man will want to meet you with that on your profile! If a woman reads that, you're also fucked! Women aren't stupid you know?!?! What do you think a woman will think if she reads that?!?!

All I can say is looooooool! Classic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"L

O

L

Unsure if the male half is insecure or just incredibly thirsty for attention. Either way this is hilarious. "

Well like most on here, the make half is thouroghy bored and is filling in the time between the rugby and the soccer highlights and is filling in the time by seeing who is willing to bite tonight. However, it is this males hope that the female half will take him to bed and teach him not too be so argumentive to the masses around 11.30. Wish me luck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?"

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

Glad you enjoyed, I must admit I may have laughed at that myself when I wrote it. Oh how I laughed and laughed.

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

You're not meet verified, so hardly queueing are they?! You may have a low regard of men... Strange considering you are one. But some men place a lot more value on themselves, than just being there to please you and your partner, who obviously have no regard for their pleasure, based on what you've written here, and on your profile. Mutual respect and fun goes a lot further, than a completely selfish and arrogant agenda

I get it now! I get it!

"We'll let YOU know when WE'RE ready to use ye. Ye're just a sex toy with a heart beat to us, nothing more."

Looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool!!!!

Mate, no sane man will want to meet you with that on your profile! If a woman reads that, you're also fucked! Women aren't stupid you know?!?! What do you think a woman will think if she reads that?!?!

All I can say is looooooool! Classic!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"L

O

L

Unsure if the male half is insecure or just incredibly thirsty for attention. Either way this is hilarious.

Well like most on here, the make half is thouroghy bored and is filling in the time between the rugby and the soccer highlights and is filling in the time by seeing who is willing to bite tonight. However, it is this males hope that the female half will take him to bed and teach him not too be so argumentive to the masses around 11.30. Wish me luck?"

The female half?

Is that what you call your right hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??. "

yeah...just laughing at you at this point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??. "

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??"
.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation ."

Look up, he said it was to see who would bite i.e. trolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation ."

attention by trolling

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

Fancy a fuck?

Just the one? Have you not read this thread? Everyone has to make friends and keep in touch. "

have you read the thread?? where has anyone said that??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation ."

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before"
the block button works before monday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before"

Your right, your opinion means nothing to me and visa versa, I don't have a problem with your origin

OP however you seem to think that you are 'using' the single man when he will be using you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?"

And they asked for an opinion. I am giving my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh."

Why were they deluded?? I thought 'do you want a fuck' was the only type of dialogue you wanted, keep it impersonal etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??"

This!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh."

There'll be no coming back from this one...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before

Your right, your opinion means nothing to me and visa versa, I don't have a problem with your origin

OP however you seem to think that you are 'using' the single man when he will be using you "

Absolutely, off course they are using us. Not one, not fecking ONE has asked to pay the mortgage, or wash the car. We are using him for what we want and he is using us or her for what he wants. That's my point. We're never going to take each other to meet the parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before

Your right, your opinion means nothing to me and visa versa, I don't have a problem with your origin

OP however you seem to think that you are 'using' the single man when he will be using you

Absolutely, off course they are using us. Not one, not fecking ONE has asked to pay the mortgage, or wash the car. We are using him for what we want and he is using us or her for what he wants. That's my point. We're never going to take each other to meet the parents."

, so , just to clarify , what was your original point again

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

Why were they deluded?? I thought 'do you want a fuck' was the only type of dialogue you wanted, keep it impersonal etc."

only they are allowed to ask for cold impersonal fucks from single members....not the other way around...what part of that do you not understand?

although that does answer my question that was ignored earlier....they do not like it when single guys just want to use the Mrs for a fuck

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh."

Why are they deluded?!?! Trust me, to the single man, it is not at all about the female half, it's about the him AND the woman. To the man though, he is there for him! He is not a service purely for your pleasure, he is not at all a charity, taking time out of his life to please! He's there for one thing! Maybe you should rethink who is the one who is deluded!

Lol, no offense though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh."

Why is it all about the female? Forgive me for being a bit thick, but I was under the impression that it was about all Parties involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

There'll be no coming back from this one..."

Not trying too, why should I. It was and honest post. That's how we like our sex. If you don't agree with it then that's fair enough. Your perogative to do so. But don't think for a second that we are ashamed of ourselves or are going to change in any way. Somewhat, arrogant of you to suggest that we should feel otherwise don't you think. Each to their own or do you disagree that. Do you think it should be only what you feel is acceptable to you? If so, you are in for a disappointing time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

Why is it all about the female? Forgive me for being a bit thick, but I was under the impression that it was about all Parties involved "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

Why is it all about the female? Forgive me for being a bit thick, but I was under the impression that it was about all Parties involved "

They are, but in my particular case, and I'm only speaking for me here, no other male, I get pleasure from knowing my better have is getting pleasure. Easiest way to explain, it's nicer to give than take.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

There'll be no coming back from this one...

Not trying too, why should I. It was and honest post. That's how we like our sex. If you don't agree with it then that's fair enough. Your perogative to do so. But don't think for a second that we are ashamed of ourselves or are going to change in any way. Somewhat, arrogant of you to suggest that we should feel otherwise don't you think. Each to their own or do you disagree that. Do you think it should be only what you feel is acceptable to you? If so, you are in for a disappointing time."

I'm not 12 and looking for lessons in life from a self confessed troll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before

Your right, your opinion means nothing to me and visa versa, I don't have a problem with your origin

OP however you seem to think that you are 'using' the single man when he will be using you

Absolutely, off course they are using us. Not one, not fecking ONE has asked to pay the mortgage, or wash the car. We are using him for what we want and he is using us or her for what he wants. That's my point. We're never going to take each other to meet the parents.

, so , just to clarify , what was your original point again "

So now it's the mutual thing, that most of us were saying, which made us hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is, everyone judges. On everything. We are a species who survives and thrives by making a million judgements every single day.

When intellectually honest people speak of being non-judgemental, what they mean is that they do not treat others differently on the basis of judgements. Its rather euphamistic, they still judge.

So, a "Non judgemental" person can happily take a look at a man having sex with another man, judge him to be gay, shrug and go about their day, happily look at a person and note the quantity of melanin in their skin and judge him to be black or white, and go about their day.

Or look at a couple admitting that they behave in a way that in the persons opinion signals them to be a complete cunt, and judge them to be a cunt. Then go about their day.

Which appears to be what has happened to you.

Noone here is going to STOP you behaving this way, or go out of their way to protest you, or take you down to the market square to be held in stocks. But they are free to form their opinions of you based on your actions. This is not "being judgemental" this is being rational and human.

Sorry if that displeases you. "

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

There'll be no coming back from this one...

Not trying too, why should I. It was and honest post. That's how we like our sex. If you don't agree with it then that's fair enough. Your perogative to do so. But don't think for a second that we are ashamed of ourselves or are going to change in any way. Somewhat, arrogant of you to suggest that we should feel otherwise don't you think. Each to their own or do you disagree that. Do you think it should be only what you feel is acceptable to you? If so, you are in for a disappointing time."

Hahahahahaha!

Chill man...

If you're happy, carry on!

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, it's not. Try stay with me here, I know it's hard for you. It is for us not for him. But we are not naive enough to think he's not going to get something from this. If he does, well done. But if he doesn't, we don't care. Do you understand now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

Why is it all about the female? Forgive me for being a bit thick, but I was under the impression that it was about all Parties involved

They are, but in my particular case, and I'm only speaking for me here, no other male, I get pleasure from knowing my better have is getting pleasure. Easiest way to explain, it's nicer to give than take."

So it's all about the female and yourself getting pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it's not. Try stay with me here, I know it's hard for you. It is for us not for him. But we are not naive enough to think he's not going to get something from this. If he does, well done. But if he doesn't, we don't care. Do you understand now?"

Ah, I get it, so if he turned up , fucked your Mrs, showed no interest whilst doing it , maybe made a few phone calls and read the paper you would be ok with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before

Your right, your opinion means nothing to me and visa versa, I don't have a problem with your origin

OP however you seem to think that you are 'using' the single man when he will be using you

Absolutely, off course they are using us. Not one, not fecking ONE has asked to pay the mortgage, or wash the car. We are using him for what we want and he is using us or her for what he wants. That's my point. We're never going to take each other to meet the parents."

the op sounds nothing like

'we're never going to introduce a single man off fab to our parents' though does it.

thought the iris had the gift of the gab...apparently not.

do you think for a second that when guys meet a couple we expect to be taken on as a friend thereafter? no..

but we do expect to be extended the same respect from both halves of the couple as we extend them the same respect. We know when it's all said and done we go our separate ways..The man goes home and the couple go their way and that's the night done.

You don't seem to want to extend any respect to the single man

(I'm not a single man btw..I just choose to keep a single profile as I like to be my own entity and not be chosen or shown attention because of my gf)

who's posting op? am I talking to the man or woman of the couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing because it suits me I'm no one's fuck toy and no one's mine and who I fuck is no one's business but mine and as for feelings I don't hurt anyones by demeaning them in public and hope they don't demean me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"No, it's not. Try stay with me here, I know it's hard for you. It is for us not for him. But we are not naive enough to think he's not going to get something from this. If he does, well done. But if he doesn't, we don't care. Do you understand now?"

Such a particularly unpleasant air of superiority

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I know exactly what what you mean op- its a good job you are so hot

#justsayin lol

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"No, it's not. Try stay with me here, I know it's hard for you. It is for us not for him. But we are not naive enough to think he's not going to get something from this. If he does, well done. But if he doesn't, we don't care. Do you understand now?"

Ahhh, silly me! I thought you said it was all for her! I also thought I read a blatantly obvious sentence in your profile.. Dear me, my eyes must be acting up!

Or maybe I'm just thick xxx

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Maybe if you'd worded it a little more than calling a single male a "toy with a heartbeat". It was a bit demeaning.

They were being honest,have you a problem with honesty?

And they got honest replies and responses, do you have a problem with honesty??.

Not in the least....... But like everyone else on here, we are entitled to our opinion. And let's be honest with ourselves. Does anyone on here really care what we think. Soon as we're all back at work Monday morning this will all be forgotten if not before

Your right, your opinion means nothing to me and visa versa, I don't have a problem with your origin

OP however you seem to think that you are 'using' the single man when he will be using you

Absolutely, off course they are using us. Not one, not fecking ONE has asked to pay the mortgage, or wash the car. We are using him for what we want and he is using us or her for what he wants. That's my point. We're never going to take each other to meet the parents."

Don't you introduce all swinging meets to your parents? In the name of letting everyone know the details of what you are doing in your personal life? That was what you were advocating a few posts ago ...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Don't you introduce all swinging meets to your parents? In the name of letting everyone know the details of what you are doing in your personal life? That was what you were advocating a few posts ago ..."

He's not had any meets to introduce to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it's not. Try stay with me here, I know it's hard for you. It is for us not for him. But we are not naive enough to think he's not going to get something from this. If he does, well done. But if he doesn't, we don't care. Do you understand now?

Ahhh, silly me! I thought you said it was all for her! I also thought I read a blatantly obvious sentence in your profile.. Dear me, my eyes must be acting up!

Or maybe I'm just thick xxx"

We're both thick then

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No, it's not. Try stay with me here, I know it's hard for you. It is for us not for him. But we are not naive enough to think he's not going to get something from this. If he does, well done. But if he doesn't, we don't care. Do you understand now?"

and if someone was to just turn up, not make the half cum, not engage with either of you, seem disinterested in the process, shoot his load and fuck off....you'd be ok with that? you wouldn't judge him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad."

Ask a subjective question, get a subjective answer, so where's the confusion on that OP?

On that note, I smell the strong aroma of egocentrism, Which we feel strongly conflicts with the ethos of swinging, being mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual enjoyment, so for that reason, we'll leave you to it.....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

There'll be no coming back from this one...

Not trying too, why should I. It was and honest post. That's how we like our sex. If you don't agree with it then that's fair enough. Your perogative to do so. But don't think for a second that we are ashamed of ourselves or are going to change in any way. Somewhat, arrogant of you to suggest that we should feel otherwise don't you think. Each to their own or do you disagree that. Do you think it should be only what you feel is acceptable to you? If so, you are in for a disappointing time."
haha you can keep your projected shame on others and wallow in it yourselves..i dont want you to change i want you to keep seeing what you are throwing out at other people, come back in your face..you treat others like trash, some will play treating you like trash, what goes around comes around and you have noone else to blame...

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"No, it's not. Try stay with me here, I know it's hard for you. It is for us not for him. But we are not naive enough to think he's not going to get something from this. If he does, well done. But if he doesn't, we don't care. Do you understand now?

Such a particularly unpleasant air of superiority "

Funny though!!!

"I know it's hard for you."

Bloody right it is!!! I didn't have a clue what the hell this was about until I got half way through, even then words are changing..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

lol.

yup..Those who disagree are sad

enjoy your desperate men..they're the only ones you'll get

You keep telling yourself that if that's what you need to tell yourself ??.

Can I ask you what was the purpose of your original post, I am not here to judge but I am trying my to work out your motivation .

We were getting slot of mails from young single guys say " hi, free tonight if you want to fuck". We thought that these chaps were a little deluded with themselves. The we thought to ourselves when we play with a single male it's all about the female half. How do the single males not realise this. Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

Why is it all about the female? Forgive me for being a bit thick, but I was under the impression that it was about all Parties involved

They are, but in my particular case, and I'm only speaking for me here, no other male, I get pleasure from knowing my better have is getting pleasure. Easiest way to explain, it's nicer to give than take."

Given your original post (your previous thread) I'd have said Maybe this is why you're getting single guys saying fancy a fuck..that's all the effort they're willing to make ..

Easiest way is to search for the guys yourself ..explain what your expectations are and go with that plan of attack... Like the dragons ..I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

Ask a subjective question, get a subjective answer, so where's the confusion on that OP?

On that note, I smell the strong aroma of egocentrism, Which we feel strongly conflicts with the ethos of swinging, being mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual enjoyment, so for that reason, we'll leave you to it..... "

See? This is why I like you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow nearly 175 in less than an hour, I need to read

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow nearly 175 in less than an hour, I need to read "

It's not worth it. Mostly nonsense

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

Ask a subjective question, get a subjective answer, so where's the confusion on that OP?

On that note, I smell the strong aroma of egocentrism, Which we feel strongly conflicts with the ethos of swinging, being mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual enjoyment, so for that reason, we'll leave you to it.....

See? This is why I like you both "

Yeah, as of the smell of shitty nappies isn't enough, there's now the smell of egocentricism emitting from my phone...

I'm gonna leave this outside for a few mins. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow nearly 175 in less than an hour, I need to read "

This is part 2 as well ..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Wow nearly 175 in less than an hour, I need to read

It's not worth it. Mostly nonsense"

never a truer word.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it closed yet then? Two drinks I had thank you

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Wow nearly 175 in less than an hour, I need to read

It's not worth it. Mostly nonsense"

Just another example of people who think the world revolves around them ......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fair enough, sex toy with a heart beat probably was a bit harsh.

There'll be no coming back from this one...

Not trying too, why should I. It was and honest post. That's how we like our sex. If you don't agree with it then that's fair enough. Your perogative to do so. But don't think for a second that we are ashamed of ourselves or are going to change in any way. Somewhat, arrogant of you to suggest that we should feel otherwise don't you think. Each to their own or do you disagree that. Do you think it should be only what you feel is acceptable to you? If so, you are in for a disappointing time. haha you can keep your projected shame on others and wallow in it yourselves..i dont want you to change i want you to keep seeing what you are throwing out at other people, come back in your face..you treat others like trash, some will play treating you like trash, what goes around comes around and you have noone else to blame..."

Could you please tell me what next week lottery numbers are as you seem to have a crystal ball.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't get the point of the first thread. I really don't get the point of this. "

There was a first thread, fuck that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then, there we have it. Apart from an enlighten few, most are quite willing to judge us for the way we conduct our sex live, the way we choose to play that suits our life.

And that my hypocritical friends is disappointing. Considering that the majority of the haters, not all I'm sure, will not tell their colleagues, family, friends etc how they conduct their sex lived lest they are judged themselves.

When we play with a single male it is completely and utterly for the pleasure for the female, to make her feel like she is the centre of the universe, all and everyone present are there for her and her alone.

Now don't get us wrong, we hope the single male has fun and laughs and enjoys himself as much as we do. We are not mean to them but it is a by product, let us be clear, they are therefor us, not the other way round.

So for those who judged us, shame on you, shame on you. We do not judge you for being bi, gay, straight, or what ever you are. We do not judge you for making friends with FB or keeping a gaggle of what ever for your pleasure, we do not judge you for living your life the way you want to.

We do however judge you for being hypocrites. I suppose that's what we get for giving an honest view of the way we like our sex. Very sad. Very very sad.

Ask a subjective question, get a subjective answer, so where's the confusion on that OP?

On that note, I smell the strong aroma of egocentrism, Which we feel strongly conflicts with the ethos of swinging, being mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual enjoyment, so for that reason, we'll leave you to it.....

See? This is why I like you both "

You know that feeling is mutual too

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"I think the issue is why those that disagree with the way we conduct our sex lives feel they are entitled to judge the way we conduct ours. Of course you are entitled to disagree with us and rightly so, but you are certainly not entitled to judge us.

And let's be honest, to the chap that said he doesn't want other people to know what he does sexually, and I mean BRUTALLY honest, the reason is, he doesn't want to be judged. None of us want to be judged. It's not a nice thing."

The issue is the way you word things, and how you come across when you lack any sort of skill in being able to communicate online.

And to think you won't be judged by people, which is a human centric concept, on an online forum for me is naive seeing as people judge each other in all manner of things all day everyday. It may not be be nice but you know boo hoo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here like to tell it like it is and then call people 'haters' when others tell it like it is for them

The OP asked "Is it just us that think this way and if so are we horrible people???" we in the main said yes and yes, and now we're the bad guys

Because you have no right to judge on other peoples sexual practices. Duh!!!

Is your women aloud a go at typing lol ?"

doubt it, he sounds very control freaky. .........lol.

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