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Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married | |||
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"Best policy here is to just go about your fab business without shouting your personal life from the rooftops. Take a leaf from the married womens book and just crack on without the fuss. Nearly every married person thread is started by a bloke and it's nearly always a whine about why they don't get meets. They always end in carnage too. "This.
It's entirely up to you what you tell people. If you're not going to tell them at least have the decency to use a fuck phone or something so that if your wife does find out, she doesn't find their details and take it out on the person you met. You should take responsibility for your own actions and not get other people involved. | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married "By starting the thread, you're already drawing attention to the fact your married. My point was, do it like the women do here and just crack on. It's usually much less hassle. | |||
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"Your marriage sounds fucked to me. Do what you want. "I love the fact you had to edit this!!  | |||
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"Your marriage sounds fucked to me. Do what you want.
I love the fact you had to edit this!! "Nothing interesting, posted so instead of do. | |||
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"I thought this was an offer of a married man. Got all excited "It's about the only thing that Amazon don't sell | |||
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"I thought this was an offer of a married man. Got all excited
It's about the only thing that Amazon don't sell "Dragons Den awaits you | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married "Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair. | |||
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" What are people's thought on playing with married husbands and wives without their partners permission. " Oooh, okay, the first trial of my new patented system... My answer is here: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/564872 
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair. "That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage. Cheers all | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair. "I agree! It's selfish to not allow someone to make an informed choice. There are plenty of ladies that will still play if you let them know before hand. | |||
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"Your marriage sounds fucked to me. Do what you want.
I love the fact you had to edit this!!
Nothing interesting, posted so instead of do."Still the best post... xx | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair. "Completely agree. | |||
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"This probably been covered before but it's not something you can chat to your mates about so thiught id ask on here. What are people's thought on playing with married husbands and wives without their partners permission. I been married for about 3yr now and cliché or not I love her to bits but the sex isn't there. I have met up with an old friend kn here a few times and the sex is.mind blowing. Combination of it being wrong but also soo good. With woman on here I'm honest nd up front about being married- if it's clearly nsa is telling people your married essential, should you even bother to tell people or is honesty the best policy as it puts peolle off what is only normally gonna be a one night thing anyhow??" So you get to have great sex behind her back and all she gets is crap sex and lies. She needs to find fab herself. There's plenty of men who can teach her what great sex is. Eve. | |||
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" My answer is here: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/564872
Mr ddc"The only thing I'd add OP, is that everytime you have mindblowing fun, you should pass it on and do something that blows your wife's mind too. Good luck | |||
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"If it's like that after only 3yrs then you need to sit down and discuss it with your wife, not on here. "
This is good advice.
You say you love her but after such a short time you are seeking excitement elsewhere.
At some point it will hit the fan... don't think it won't.
If you want to keep her and the marriage as a lifetime thing you need to spend time working on improving it ... both of you.
In reply to your question.
I don't care.
I'm single .. you'd be the one at risk.
However I rarely find an attached man has the availability I'm after. .. | |||
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"i am married but my wife is unable to play because of disability how do people feel about meets" Depends on if your wife is aware that you are meeting others  | |||
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"i am married but my wife is unable to play because of disability how do people feel about meets" It depends how bad her disability is, but we'd be willing to try if she's willing. Is she bi? 
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"I think you should be upfront about it so that the other person can make an informed opinion as to whether they will meet you or not" I agree. Thankyou | |||
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"Cheers for the comments on here and in private. Honesty is the policy I been following and is the one I will continue to follow with people I meet. For those that passed comment on my.marriage, if I put something on a forum they are going to but as another guy has came on and mentioned the disabled element there are lots of variables but that's for another day. Cheers for her comments all " The difference is a massive one though. The other guy mentioned that his wife gives her consent for him to have sex with others. You, on the other hand, are involving your wife non-consensually (and yes - you *are* involving her non-consensually). | |||
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"Cheers for the comments on here and in private. Honesty is the policy I been following and is the one I will continue to follow with people I meet. For those that passed comment on my.marriage, if I put something on a forum they are going to but as another guy has came on and mentioned the disabled element there are lots of variables but that's for another day. Cheers for her comments all The difference is a massive one though. The other guy mentioned that his wife gives her consent for him to have sex with others. You, on the other hand, are involving your wife non-consensually (and yes - you *are* involving her non-consensually)." | |||
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Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair. "This! | |||
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I suppose it depends on the quality/standard or person everyone goes for. Regardless of the sexual focus some people will take on board anything & anyone whilst others far from that. | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation. "Oh a judgemental post about people being judgemental! Oh the irony! I think you will find that my response was a sensible answer which the OP thanked me for in a PM, so back in your box! | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation. "Seemed to me people gave fairly reasonable answers to the OP. Blunt but fair  | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Seemed to me people gave fairly reasonable answers to the OP. Blunt but fair "fair?..lolololol is that 'fab fair'? | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Oh a judgemental post about people being judgemental! Oh the irony!
I think you will find that my response was a sensible answer which the OP thanked me for in a PM, so back in your box! "Read through ALL of the replies. You may see why I responded that way. Xx | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation. "Forum: a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged Everyone is entitled to express their opinion in response to the OP, it does not make them judgemental, ignorant or stupid just because their views differ from the OP. If you ask a question you have to be prepared for both positive and negative responses, and all credit to the OP for responding accordingly without being rude to others. As to being up front about whether you are married and playing on your own OP, personally I think its fairly obvious from your username | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Seemed to me people gave fairly reasonable answers to the OP. Blunt but fair
fair?..lolololol is that 'fab fair'? "Exactly, seriously, have you read the replies? Fab fair indeed. Jeez... | |||
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Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair. "this op you should mention it in your profile and in all honesty fella you should not give a toss about those who choose not to play or interact with you . trust me fella there's plenty of married people playing away from home out there to guarantee you have lots of fun with people doing exactly the same as you so if I was you I would not even waste a thought on those who choose to not play with you and just invest your time in those that don't mind. that's what I do and I do rather well fella and so will you once you build a circles of friend who don't care about your home circumstances or are behaving exactly like you . | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Oh a judgemental post about people being judgemental! Oh the irony!
I think you will find that my response was a sensible answer which the OP thanked me for in a PM, so back in your box!
Read through ALL of the replies. You may see why I responded that way. Xx"And I think you need to rethink the wording of your posts, before you always jump in to defend your perceived perception, as this is not the first time  | |||
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" how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. " irony at it's finest | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Forum: a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged
Everyone is entitled to express their opinion in response to the OP, it does not make them judgemental, ignorant or stupid just because their views differ from the OP.
If you ask a question you have to be prepared for both positive and negative responses, and all credit to the OP for responding accordingly without being rude to others.
As to being up front about whether you are married and playing on your own OP, personally I think its fairly obvious from your username "I agree... Still, lets be reasonable ffs. I felt sorry for him reading though all that. | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation. "Should be ashamed of ourselves?! That is a joke yeah...because I'm the one cheating on my loved one . Legally obliged?! Maybe he doesn't no,but my advise to him would be that it's probably a good idea to be honest,a word I use loosely if he seriously doesn't want his wife to find out! | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Oh a judgemental post about people being judgemental! Oh the irony!
I think you will find that my response was a sensible answer which the OP thanked me for in a PM, so back in your box!
Read through ALL of the replies. You may see why I responded that way. Xx
And I think you need to rethink the wording of your posts, before you always jump in to defend your perceived perception, as this is not the first time "And it won't be the last!
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Should be ashamed of ourselves?! That is a joke yeah...because I'm the one cheating on my loved one . Legally obliged?! Maybe he doesn't no,but my advise to him would be that it's probably a good idea to be honest,a word I use loosely if he seriously doesn't want his wife to find out!""it's probably a good idea to be honest"... That seems reasonable to me, but it's his choice. Xxx | |||
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"Read through ALL of the replies. You may see why I responded that way. Xx" Nope. Still not seeing it. If the OP was happy with his replies, what have they to do with you? 
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"Your marriage sounds fucked to me. Do what you want. "Yeah especially the bit where says he loves her to bits | |||
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"I/m confused by the first line of your profile.... ''Married to the woman I love but due to work/life the fun isn't there!'' Therefore you join Fab?? Are you using the word 'love' in the present tense? I always find it great to see couples madly in love on site but swinging, this is so, so different" I love my husband yet I'm on here. I understand OP. People judge too quickly on relationships they know nothing about. Rarely are things black and white and not always as clear cut as right and wrong. | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Oh a judgemental post about people being judgemental! Oh the irony!
I think you will find that my response was a sensible answer which the OP thanked me for in a PM, so back in your box!
Read through ALL of the replies. You may see why I responded that way. Xx
And I think you need to rethink the wording of your posts, before you always jump in to defend your perceived perception, as this is not the first time
And it won't be the last!
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"peer pressure should be kept to where it belongs, back in primary school.. "Yeah, but this isn't peer pressure per se, imho. This is other people externalising their own insecurities, bitterness and regrets and projecting them onto a woman they will never know or meet, then attempting to take them out on a man they will never meet either. Isn't it? Mr ddc | |||
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"Your marriage sounds fucked to me. Do what you want.
Yeah especially the bit where says he loves her to bits "I adore my husband yet I'm on here. I can guarantee you my marriage certainly isn't f***ed | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation.
Oh a judgemental post about people being judgemental! Oh the irony!
I think you will find that my response was a sensible answer which the OP thanked me for in a PM, so back in your box!
Read through ALL of the replies. You may see why I responded that way. Xx
And I think you need to rethink the wording of your posts, before you always jump in to defend your perceived perception, as this is not the first time
And it won't be the last!
Love you all xxx
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fair?..lolololol is that 'fab fair'?
Exactly, seriously, have you read the replies? Fab fair indeed.
Jeez..."Yep fab fair it is, when people will leap into defend they're own pet cause, but gladly take the piss elsewhere. https://fabswingers.com/forum/meets/564828 | |||
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"peer pressure should be kept to where it belongs, back in primary school..
Yeah, but this isn't peer pressure per se, imho.
This is other people externalising their own insecurities, bitterness and regrets and projecting them onto a woman they will never know or meet, then attempting to take them out on a man they will never meet either.
Isn't it?
Mr ddc"the same..you must do as i do mentality..im not pointing at the cause, its not my business..all comes out in the same way... | |||
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" Seemed to me people gave fairly reasonable answers to the OP. Blunt but fair
fair?..lolololol is that 'fab fair'?
Exactly, seriously, have you read the replies? Fab fair indeed.
Jeez...
Yep fab fair it is, when people will leap into defend they're own pet cause, but gladly take the piss elsewhere.
https://fabswingers.com/forum/meets/564828"so what? green arrow tells you everything you need to know about me on here..dont like it, its not my deal..i have no need to defend anything..get on with it... | |||
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"What pet cause?! I'm not even married!!! I just felt sorry for this fella. The TV post though, LOL. xxx" i defend the freedom side of the street against those who wish to tell me or others which married men they can or cant fuck..i also defend bdsm as a safe sane and consensual practice amongst adults and other equally outrageous things ..and sometimes i piss about.. | |||
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"What pet cause?! I'm not even married!!! I just felt sorry for this fella. The TV post though, LOL. xxx i defend the freedom side of the street against those who wish to tell me or others which married men they can or cant fuck..i also defend bdsm as a safe sane and consensual practice amongst adults and other equally outrageous things ..and sometimes i piss about.. "Ahhh cool, then I salute you! Don't piss about too much though because that's naughty. I'm going to watching your little green arrow now, so you'd better behave!!! | |||
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"What pet cause?! I'm not even married!!! I just felt sorry for this fella. The TV post though, LOL. xxx i defend the freedom side of the street against those who wish to tell me or others which married men they can or cant fuck..i also defend bdsm as a safe sane and consensual practice amongst adults and other equally outrageous things ..and sometimes i piss about..
Ahhh cool, then I salute you!
Don't piss about too much though because that's naughty. I'm going to watching your little green arrow now, so you'd better behave!!! "only my Dom can tell me/ get me to behave...  | |||
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"What pet cause?! I'm not even married!!! I just felt sorry for this fella. The TV post though, LOL. xxx i defend the freedom side of the street against those who wish to tell me or others which married men they can or cant fuck..i also defend bdsm as a safe sane and consensual practice amongst adults and other equally outrageous things ..and sometimes i piss about..
Ahhh cool, then I salute you!
Don't piss about too much though because that's naughty. I'm going to watching your little green arrow now, so you'd better behave!!! only my Dom can tell me/ get me to behave... "Ok, then "don't behave", or else... | |||
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"Your marriage sounds fucked to me. Do what you want.
Yeah especially the bit where says he loves her to bits
I adore my husband yet I'm on here. I can guarantee you my marriage certainly isn't f***ed "Does he know you are on here? | |||
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"What pet cause?! I'm not even married!!! I just felt sorry for this fella. The TV post though, LOL. xxx i defend the freedom side of the street against those who wish to tell me or others which married men they can or cant fuck..i also defend bdsm as a safe sane and consensual practice amongst adults and other equally outrageous things ..and sometimes i piss about..
Ahhh cool, then I salute you!
Don't piss about too much though because that's naughty. I'm going to watching your little green arrow now, so you'd better behave!!! only my Dom can tell me/ get me to behave...
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"Your marriage sounds fucked to me. Do what you want.
Yeah especially the bit where says he loves her to bits
I adore my husband yet I'm on here. I can guarantee you my marriage certainly isn't f***ed
Does he know you are on here?"Not at all | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all "And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable? | |||
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" And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?" Maybe, maybe not. But surely we can agree their marriage has feck all to do with any of us?
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?"they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe | |||
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"You know... I'm embarrassed at how judgemental, ignorant and stupid people are on here. The guy asked a perfectly reasonable question, this is a swinging site, and this is a swinging forum. How about instead of ripping into him, you actually answer? You should be ashamed of yourselves. Anyway, you have reasons for cheating, which are none of our business. Each person should do what they feel is right for them. Regarding obligations to tell about your marital status, you are not legally obliged to tell women on here anything about it. You have got to think carefully and decide for yourself how you choose to act. I'm afraid there is no perfect answer. Also, I'm sorry about the stupidity of the replies you've received. People probably do not understand your situation. "Really? | |||
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"I just don't get it, sort out your home life, if your not happy with every aspect of it deal with it. How would you feel in a role reversal? Would it be ok to you if she was cheating? Maybe this is his way of dealing with it. We don't now the circumstances so we aren't in a position to comment on his marriage. His post wasn't about the circumstances of his marriage. " But thats my view on anyone married who is cheating x | |||
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"I just don't get it, sort out your home life, if your not happy with every aspect of it deal with it. How would you feel in a role reversal? Would it be ok to you if she was cheating? Maybe this is his way of dealing with it. We don't now the circumstances so we aren't in a position to comment on his marriage. His post wasn't about the circumstances of his marriage. But thats my view on anyone married who is cheating x" Fair enough. We all have our own views and opinions | |||
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"I just don't get it, sort out your home life, if your not happy with every aspect of it deal with it. How would you feel in a role reversal? Would it be ok to you if she was cheating? Maybe this is his way of dealing with it. We don't now the circumstances so we aren't in a position to comment on his marriage. His post wasn't about the circumstances of his marriage. " I totally agree... | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe"Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X | |||
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" And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable? Maybe, maybe not. But surely we can agree their marriage has feck all to do with any of us?
Mr ddc"Correct,I have no interest whatsoever in anyone's marriage on here or the reasons and justifications for cheating. I just don't want to have any input into being apart of it. | |||
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"I just don't get it, sort out your home life, if your not happy with every aspect of it deal with it. How would you feel in a role reversal? Would it be ok to you if she was cheating? Maybe this is his way of dealing with it. We don't now the circumstances so we aren't in a position to comment on his marriage. His post wasn't about the circumstances of his marriage. But thats my view on anyone married who is cheating x Fair enough. We all have our own views and opinions "Indeed we do, thats what makes this place so diverse and wonderful x | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe
Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X"you might get eaten for breakfast | |||
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"I just don't get it, sort out your home life, if your not happy with every aspect of it deal with it. How would you feel in a role reversal? Would it be ok to you if she was cheating? Maybe this is his way of dealing with it. We don't now the circumstances so we aren't in a position to comment on his marriage. His post wasn't about the circumstances of his marriage. But thats my view on anyone married who is cheating x" He did after all asks for thoughts on married men. That brings his marriage into it surely? | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe
Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X you might get eaten for breakfast "I doubt that, I'm never available in the mornings xXxX | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe
Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X you might get eaten for breakfast
I doubt that, I'm never available in the mornings xXxX "nor me..lolol, a snack then.. | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe
Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X you might get eaten for breakfast
I doubt that, I'm never available in the mornings xXxX nor me..lolol, a snack then.. "Who knows? You could get lucky! | |||
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"I just don't get it, sort out your home life, if your not happy with every aspect of it deal with it. How would you feel in a role reversal? Would it be ok to you if she was cheating? Maybe this is his way of dealing with it. We don't now the circumstances so we aren't in a position to comment on his marriage. His post wasn't about the circumstances of his marriage. But thats my view on anyone married who is cheating x He did after all asks for thoughts on married men. That brings his marriage into it surely?" Yes but only in the context about whether he should disclose his marital status to people he chats to. He has not asked for views on his marriage. | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe
Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X you might get eaten for breakfast
I doubt that, I'm never available in the mornings xXxX nor me..lolol, a snack then..
Who knows? You could get lucky! "i am quite possibly the luckiest female about | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe
Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X you might get eaten for breakfast
I doubt that, I'm never available in the mornings xXxX nor me..lolol, a snack then..
Who knows? You could get lucky! i am quite possibly the luckiest female about "I'll give you 'the luckiest female' in a minute! I'm off! | |||
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"I ain't whining bout getting meets. I'm hardly addonis or.packing a 12inch cock
Just thought ask people's opinions on if looking for one off meets if to even say married
Yes you should. Some have very strong values about cheating, despite this being a swinging site. They don't like helping a guy cheat. You are deceiving someone to have sex if you don't tell. They have the right to decide if they want to sleep with a married man or not ( the same goes for women too), You remove that choice by doing that, which i think is unfair.
That's always been my thought so think il stick to that as well. Cheers for a comment on the question nd not state of my marriage.
Cheers all
And surely the wife should have the choice of whether she finds her husband's behaviour acceptable?they always find something to moan about..even if its how he folds his pants or leaving the toilet seat up..wives were made for moaning about things ..hehe
Hahahahhaahhahahahahahaha! Suzy, pm me. X you might get eaten for breakfast
I doubt that, I'm never available in the mornings xXxX nor me..lolol, a snack then..
Who knows? You could get lucky! i am quite possibly the luckiest female about
I'll give you 'the luckiest female' in a minute! I'm off!"i class myself as a very lucky person.. have fun sweet x | |||
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"I/m confused by the first line of your profile.... ''Married to the woman I love but due to work/life the fun isn't there!'' Therefore you join Fab?? Are you using the word 'love' in the present tense? I always find it great to see couples madly in love on site but swinging, this is so, so different I love my husband yet I'm on here. I understand OP. People judge too quickly on relationships they know nothing about. Rarely are things black and white and not always as clear cut as right and wrong." I'd say thank you via pm but won't let me - cheers x | |||
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"This probably been covered before but it's not something you can chat to your mates about so thiught id ask on here. What are people's thought on playing with married husbands and wives without their partners permission. I been married for about 3yr now and cliché or not I love her to bits but the sex isn't there. I have met up with an old friend kn here a few times and the sex is.mind blowing. Combination of it being wrong but also soo good. With woman on here I'm honest nd up front about being married- if it's clearly nsa is telling people your married essential, should you even bother to tell people or is honesty the best policy as it puts peolle off what is only normally gonna be a one night thing anyhow?? So you get to have great sex behind her back and all she gets is crap sex and lies. She needs to find fab herself. There's plenty of men who can teach her what great sex is. Eve. " | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? " No it certainly isn't | |||
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"This probably been covered before but it's not something you can chat to your mates about so thiught id ask on here. What are people's thought on playing with married husbands and wives without their partners permission. I been married for about 3yr now and cliché or not I love her to bits but the sex isn't there. I have met up with an old friend kn here a few times and the sex is.mind blowing. Combination of it being wrong but also soo good. With woman on here I'm honest nd up front about being married- if it's clearly nsa is telling people your married essential, should you even bother to tell people or is honesty the best policy as it puts peolle off what is only normally gonna be a one night thing anyhow?? So you get to have great sex behind her back and all she gets is crap sex and lies. She needs to find fab herself. There's plenty of men who can teach her what great sex is. Eve. " | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't" How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion!" but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion!" exactly this | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people......" I agree! | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree!" And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the opposite | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people......" entitled to a preference yes, just like everyone else, not to slate/ bully/ abuse any subset on here, if it was against any other subset of this community, they would be blasted..live and let live, i say..dont meet them you choice, how you choose to project your 'preferences' totally your choice..just leave the people you dont want to meet alone..simple | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree! And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the opposite" thats not your business though sweet is it? we arent here to be each others moral saviours ..hmmm? | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree! And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the oppositethats not your business though sweet is it? we arent here to be each others moral saviours ..hmmm?" I am surprised you would patronise me thus Suzy, however, as you wish. The only issue I have is the complaining, whinging and griping that married men have on the forums; they come on here and moan that they can't get a meet.... and yes it has been my "business" ever been punched in the face by someones husband because you slept with his wife? I have... not pleasant at all; of course told me she was single..... these days I am more careful... but it was unpleasant being involved in a drama and someone else's dishonesty..... the guilt I felt as this mans life was being ripped apart... | |||
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"OP You are exercising choice by being on this site and sleeping with other people; if you were upfront about this with your wife, then she too would have a choice, whether she stays with you, whether she feels loved by you, whether she too wants to see other people. No one has an issue about you being married; they may have a preference not to meet you because of it; to avoid drama. The biggest issue that people will have is that by not telling your wife you are a cake and eat it kind of person; you can do what ever you like whilst your wife has no idea... this is, not pleasant. be a man; offer your wife the same choice you have" Personally I don't think it's as clear cut as having ones cake & eating it too. if I give an example of what I mean I'll be accused of justification so I cba. *Carry on as you were. | |||
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"OP You are exercising choice by being on this site and sleeping with other people; if you were upfront about this with your wife, then she too would have a choice, whether she stays with you, whether she feels loved by you, whether she too wants to see other people. No one has an issue about you being married; they may have a preference not to meet you because of it; to avoid drama. The biggest issue that people will have is that by not telling your wife you are a cake and eat it kind of person; you can do what ever you like whilst your wife has no idea... this is, not pleasant. be a man; offer your wife the same choice you have Personally I don't think it's as clear cut as having ones cake & eating it too. if I give an example of what I mean I'll be accused of justification so I cba. *Carry on as you were." well I have been wrong 1000 times today... 1001 won't hurt... I guess that's why I am a single man. Its probably for the best | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree! And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the oppositethats not your business though sweet is it? we arent here to be each others moral saviours ..hmmm? I am surprised you would patronise me thus Suzy, however, as you wish. The only issue I have is the complaining, whinging and griping that married men have on the forums; they come on here and moan that they can't get a meet.... and yes it has been my "business" ever been punched in the face by someones husband because you slept with his wife? I have... not pleasant at all; of course told me she was single..... these days I am more careful... but it was unpleasant being involved in a drama and someone else's dishonesty..... the guilt I felt as this mans life was being ripped apart..." i wasnt being patronising..its my belief that people are self responsible on here, ask the questions they want answered and deal with the consequences of their actions..but its not my place to judge what they should be doing or be abusive about it..weve probably all been cheated on/ lied to at some point in our sexual relationships and to own you don't want it to happen to you again, is absolutely fine..but to project onto unknown context in some, 'im saving someone from heartache' kind of way..is ..totally pointless. the only control is that which you do, trying to control other peoples lives and actions is pointless and disappointing, not to mention controlling.. | |||
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"OP You are exercising choice by being on this site and sleeping with other people; if you were upfront about this with your wife, then she too would have a choice, whether she stays with you, whether she feels loved by you, whether she too wants to see other people. No one has an issue about you being married; they may have a preference not to meet you because of it; to avoid drama. The biggest issue that people will have is that by not telling your wife you are a cake and eat it kind of person; you can do what ever you like whilst your wife has no idea... this is, not pleasant. be a man; offer your wife the same choice you have Personally I don't think it's as clear cut as having ones cake & eating it too. if I give an example of what I mean I'll be accused of justification so I cba. *Carry on as you were. well I have been wrong 1000 times today... 1001 won't hurt... I guess that's why I am a single man. Its probably for the best " You're not wrong as it's your opinion, I just see things differently. | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree! And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the oppositethats not your business though sweet is it? we arent here to be each others moral saviours ..hmmm? I am surprised you would patronise me thus Suzy, however, as you wish. The only issue I have is the complaining, whinging and griping that married men have on the forums; they come on here and moan that they can't get a meet.... and yes it has been my "business" ever been punched in the face by someones husband because you slept with his wife? I have... not pleasant at all; of course told me she was single..... these days I am more careful... but it was unpleasant being involved in a drama and someone else's dishonesty..... the guilt I felt as this mans life was being ripped apart... i wasnt being patronising..its my belief that people are self responsible on here, ask the questions they want answered and deal with the consequences of their actions..but its not my place to judge what they should be doing or be abusive about it..weve probably all been cheated on/ lied to at some point in our sexual relationships and to own you don't want it to happen to you again, is absolutely fine..but to project onto unknown context in some, 'im saving someone from heartache' kind of way..is ..totally pointless. the only control is that which you do, trying to control other peoples lives and actions is pointless and disappointing, not to mention controlling.." I am not trying to control anyones life; I am not sure how you can say I am...... I merely expressed an opinion; I apologise if it has caused offence and shall keep it to myself in future. | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree! And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the oppositethats not your business though sweet is it? we arent here to be each others moral saviours ..hmmm? I am surprised you would patronise me thus Suzy, however, as you wish. The only issue I have is the complaining, whinging and griping that married men have on the forums; they come on here and moan that they can't get a meet.... and yes it has been my "business" ever been punched in the face by someones husband because you slept with his wife? I have... not pleasant at all; of course told me she was single..... these days I am more careful... but it was unpleasant being involved in a drama and someone else's dishonesty..... the guilt I felt as this mans life was being ripped apart..." Flip the coin! Have you ever been in a loving but sexless relationship? Have you ever had to deal with the frustrations that brings? Whatever argument we put forth, it really doesnt matter as it is each persons choice!!! People are not obliged to say anything. No person is obliged to sleep with anyone. For those who want to cheat, go ahead! For those who don't, don't! For those who want to tell, tell! For those who don't, don't! If you don't like married men, don't sleep with them! If you don't know they are married, hard luck, maybe next time hold interrogations???? Seriously... | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree! And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the oppositethats not your business though sweet is it? we arent here to be each others moral saviours ..hmmm? I am surprised you would patronise me thus Suzy, however, as you wish. The only issue I have is the complaining, whinging and griping that married men have on the forums; they come on here and moan that they can't get a meet.... and yes it has been my "business" ever been punched in the face by someones husband because you slept with his wife? I have... not pleasant at all; of course told me she was single..... these days I am more careful... but it was unpleasant being involved in a drama and someone else's dishonesty..... the guilt I felt as this mans life was being ripped apart... i wasnt being patronising..its my belief that people are self responsible on here, ask the questions they want answered and deal with the consequences of their actions..but its not my place to judge what they should be doing or be abusive about it..weve probably all been cheated on/ lied to at some point in our sexual relationships and to own you don't want it to happen to you again, is absolutely fine..but to project onto unknown context in some, 'im saving someone from heartache' kind of way..is ..totally pointless. the only control is that which you do, trying to control other peoples lives and actions is pointless and disappointing, not to mention controlling.. I am not trying to control anyones life; I am not sure how you can say I am...... I merely expressed an opinion; I apologise if it has caused offence and shall keep it to myself in future." No offense taken on my part. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. It's just that married men get slated, it happened a few days ago too, but really, there are often very valid reasons why people cheat. People rarely consider those reasons though. Xxx | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! but it matters to the people who have a preference not to meet married people...... I agree! And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the oppositethats not your business though sweet is it? we arent here to be each others moral saviours ..hmmm? I am surprised you would patronise me thus Suzy, however, as you wish. The only issue I have is the complaining, whinging and griping that married men have on the forums; they come on here and moan that they can't get a meet.... and yes it has been my "business" ever been punched in the face by someones husband because you slept with his wife? I have... not pleasant at all; of course told me she was single..... these days I am more careful... but it was unpleasant being involved in a drama and someone else's dishonesty..... the guilt I felt as this mans life was being ripped apart... i wasnt being patronising..its my belief that people are self responsible on here, ask the questions they want answered and deal with the consequences of their actions..but its not my place to judge what they should be doing or be abusive about it..weve probably all been cheated on/ lied to at some point in our sexual relationships and to own you don't want it to happen to you again, is absolutely fine..but to project onto unknown context in some, 'im saving someone from heartache' kind of way..is ..totally pointless. the only control is that which you do, trying to control other peoples lives and actions is pointless and disappointing, not to mention controlling.. I am not trying to control anyones life; I am not sure how you can say I am...... I merely expressed an opinion; I apologise if it has caused offence and shall keep it to myself in future." the only offence was calling me patronising..when i wasnt..misunderstanding... you are entitled to anything you want ..dont lets fall out, its not worth it xx | |||
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"Just though, okay I don't do many, how would you feel about her shagging some gorgeous hunk behind your back, just a thought. "Maybe he wouldn't care? Maybe he'd be furious? Maybe he has even suggested it to her? Maybe she accepted the invitation? Maybe she didn't. Again, it really is irrelevant. At the end of the day, everyone is free to do what they like. Everyone is also liable for what they do or don't do. | |||
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" And to be honest; I don't like people that deny others choice... I may not know anything about anyones marriage; but I do know about choice; we all have one; honesty is an enabler of choice, dishonest the opposite" Yes, this is the point I agree Pauly. Whatever the situation within the marriage, *I* have a right to free choice, and if the OP denies me that choice by deceiving me he has done me wrong, period. He would have done me wrong by deceiving me, and also by making me party to a situation I may not wish to collude with. Actions have consequences and it is naive to think such things do not matter. | |||
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"This probably been covered before but it's not something you can chat to your mates about so thiught id ask on here. What are people's thought on playing with married husbands and wives without their partners permission. I been married for about 3yr now and cliché or not I love her to bits but the sex isn't there. I have met up with an old friend kn here a few times and the sex is.mind blowing. Combination of it being wrong but also soo good. With woman on here I'm honest nd up front about being married- if it's clearly nsa is telling people your married essential, should you even bother to tell people or is honesty the best policy as it puts peolle off what is only normally gonna be a one night thing anyhow??" I really try no to judge, each to his own but when a married says "I'm up front and honest about being married" it really cracks me up... Who's the one they should be honest with? | |||
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"I'm kinda on the fence in this one. I've been there and found out my ex was cheating through text messages and messages on a forum similar to this. It broke my heart. It broke my heart more that the woman involved was very much aware my ex was with me, that's what annoyed me more She was fully aware he was with me and had seen pics of us together on social media and was laughing at them. So I couldn't just blame him. IT would of been easier if the woman involved was oblivious but she wasn't and that's what hurt more. A woman like myself with children sneaking about laughing at me fucking my man. That HURT " My lowlife ex did the same, I won't be a part of that hurt either...can't understand a sister that is a willing participant.. | |||
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"I'm kinda on the fence in this one. I've been there and found out my ex was cheating through text messages and messages on a forum similar to this. It broke my heart. It broke my heart more that the woman involved was very much aware my ex was with me, that's what annoyed me more She was fully aware he was with me and had seen pics of us together on social media and was laughing at them. So I couldn't just blame him. IT would of been easier if the woman involved was oblivious but she wasn't and that's what hurt more. A woman like myself with children sneaking about laughing at me fucking my man. That HURT My lowlife ex did the same, I won't be a part of that hurt either...can't understand a sister that is a willing participant.. " Not nice is it  | |||
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"I'm kinda on the fence in this one. I've been there and found out my ex was cheating through text messages and messages on a forum similar to this. It broke my heart. It broke my heart more that the woman involved was very much aware my ex was with me, that's what annoyed me more She was fully aware he was with me and had seen pics of us together on social media and was laughing at them. So I couldn't just blame him. IT would of been easier if the woman involved was oblivious but she wasn't and that's what hurt more. A woman like myself with children sneaking about laughing at me fucking my man. That HURT My lowlife ex did the same, I won't be a part of that hurt either...can't understand a sister that is a willing participant.. Not nice is it "Been in that situation a few months ago. Not nice at all. | |||
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"I'm kinda on the fence in this one. I've been there and found out my ex was cheating through text messages and messages on a forum similar to this. It broke my heart. It broke my heart more that the woman involved was very much aware my ex was with me, that's what annoyed me more She was fully aware he was with me and had seen pics of us together on social media and was laughing at them. So I couldn't just blame him. IT would of been easier if the woman involved was oblivious but she wasn't and that's what hurt more. A woman like myself with children sneaking about laughing at me fucking my man. That HURT My lowlife ex did the same, I won't be a part of that hurt either...can't understand a sister that is a willing participant.. Not nice is it
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"I'm kinda on the fence in this one. I've been there and found out my ex was cheating through text messages and messages on a forum similar to this. It broke my heart. It broke my heart more that the woman involved was very much aware my ex was with me, that's what annoyed me more She was fully aware he was with me and had seen pics of us together on social media and was laughing at them. So I couldn't just blame him. IT would of been easier if the woman involved was oblivious but she wasn't and that's what hurt more. A woman like myself with children sneaking about laughing at me fucking my man. That HURT My lowlife ex did the same, I won't be a part of that hurt either...can't understand a sister that is a willing participant.. Not nice is it
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"This probably been covered before but it's not something you can chat to your mates about so thiught id ask on here. What are people's thought on playing with married husbands and wives without their partners permission. I been married for about 3yr now and cliché or not I love her to bits but the sex isn't there. I have met up with an old friend kn here a few times and the sex is.mind blowing. Combination of it being wrong but also soo good. With woman on here I'm honest nd up front about being married- if it's clearly nsa is telling people your married essential, should you even bother to tell people or is honesty the best policy as it puts peolle off what is only normally gonna be a one night thing anyhow??" You're worried about being "honest " with total strangers whilst being dishonest with the person you love to bits?!! If you say so! I don't play with married men because they have too many restrictions, and I don't play nice. One wanted me to shower and use a specific shower gel and perfume (he'd bought with him) so as not to leave a scent trail. He was sent packing: married men, not for me. | |||
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Not read the thread other than the opening post. I can guess exactly how it has panned out.
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion!" Then be honest, separate, divorce | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion! Then be honest, separate, divorce " | |||
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" "Thoughts on married men"" Exactly the same as married women. although I'd guess Married women attract a lot less comment on the issues of rights and wrongs of supposed "infidelity! with that typical fab unfounded air of moral superiority which actually translate as "double standards" I couldnt imagine a woman ( unicorn?) being questioned over her marital status by a bi fem or male. Not if it put a FMF or a quick fuck in jeopardy. Its a swinging site not the fucking Church of England sinnod. | |||
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" "Thoughts on married men" Exactly the same as married women. although I'd guess Married women attract a lot less comment on the issues of rights and wrongs of supposed "infidelity! with that typical fab unfounded air of moral superiority which actually translate as "double standards" I couldnt imagine a woman ( unicorn?) being questioned over her marital status by a bi fem or male. Not if it put a FMF or a quick fuck in jeopardy. Its a swinging site not the fucking Church of England sinnod. "You can only state it's double standards if the group, ie Fab, was of singular mind. Due to it not being, the statement is null and void. | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion!" Then MAYBE he should leave her | |||
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"Why hasn't anyone asked this before!
Not read the thread other than the opening post. I can guess exactly how it has panned out.
Views ranging from 'it's none of our business what people get up to' to 'BURN THE WITCH!!' no doubt?
Correct,don't forget the people who defend because they're in a similar situation "I'll defend someone for having sex outside of their marriage, without their partner knowing. I was the one being cheated on in my marriage. | |||
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"Why hasn't anyone asked this before!
Not read the thread other than the opening post. I can guess exactly how it has panned out.
Views ranging from 'it's none of our business what people get up to' to 'BURN THE WITCH!!' no doubt?
Correct,don't forget the people who defend because they're in a similar situation "Not everyone who can see beyond black / white are in defence mode though. Some are merely explaining their point of view not seeking justification at all. I damned if I do & I'm damned if I don't which is why I said earlier I cba to give an example. | |||
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"I'm kinda on the fence in this one. I've been there and found out my ex was cheating through text messages and messages on a forum similar to this. It broke my heart. It broke my heart more that the woman involved was very much aware my ex was with me, that's what annoyed me more She was fully aware he was with me and had seen pics of us together on social media and was laughing at them. So I couldn't just blame him. IT would of been easier if the woman involved was oblivious but she wasn't and that's what hurt more. A woman like myself with children sneaking about laughing at me fucking my man. That HURT My lowlife ex did the same, I won't be a part of that hurt either...can't understand a sister that is a willing participant.. Not nice is it
Been in that situation a few months ago. Not nice at all.
Nope it's shit I went through hell for a year and it hurt me bad "I think what you've been through is the scenario I would most likely think of when someone mentions cheating. The deceit with someone I knew would be the hardest aspect to forgive as opposed to the act of having sex, that I could. | |||
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"This is our tuppence worth. We don't meet married men. These are some reasons. Firstly they tend not to want to socialise, which is very important to us. They dont want to be seen in public in case the Mrs finds out. Secondly its all down to timing. Many married men are not available in the evenings. Finally there is usually a woman sitting at home trying to work out what is wrong in the relationship. Is it fair on her? No it certainly isn't How do you know if it is fair without knowing the details of the relationship? Maybe she has no interest in sex, maybe she refuses sex, maybe he has no sex drive, maybe she uses sex as a commodity, maybe she's a bitch? Maybe she does cheat on him? Maybe she is sexual but he is the one with the problem? Maybe there's something he isn't saying. Does it really matter? He will have a reason for cheating and really, that is his prerogative! Whether it is fair or not, none of us know! And it really doesn't matter in my opinion!" And you are welcome to meet all the married men you like. | |||
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"We don't care if someone is married or attached. If they can live with their own conscience that's up to them. We play together and Em plays on her own. If she arranged a meet then we both feel honesty to each other is a must. She will tell me when where how etc and it works for us. " Similar.
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"This probably been covered before but it's not something you can chat to your mates about so thiught id ask on here. What are people's thought on playing with married husbands and wives without their partners permission. I been married for about 3yr now and cliché or not I love her to bits but the sex isn't there. I have met up with an old friend kn here a few times and the sex is.mind blowing. Combination of it being wrong but also soo good. With woman on here I'm honest nd up front about being married- if it's clearly nsa is telling people your married essential, should you even bother to tell people or is honesty the best policy as it puts peolle off what is only normally gonna be a one night thing anyhow??" I had a singles profile on here now obviously we have a couples profile on here. Simply for us we use it as a swinging site. Not a sex site. We would never play with a married person unless they came together We won't be the dirty secret. We want to be the dirty fun | |||
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