FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Mixed messages from profiles

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/10/16 12:56:30]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok...full of typos this.predictive text on my phone!

I meant to say I frequently get messages from single guys stating they are seeking a social meet and hopefully turn it into a regular fwb relationship.... Then you read their verifications or send further messages to find out that they are seeking casual NSA shags- you read the usual verifications indicating they meet outdoors for giving someone 'a good pounding' after knowing them 5 mins, etc - so guys, be honest from the outset and state exactly what you are seeking... And dont waste our time - which is just as precious as yours!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If you read the profile and verifications and they're not what you're looking for, why waste your own time messaging then complain about it, or am I getting the wrong end of the stick?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is why we don't do socials or coffee meets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Ok...full of typos this.predictive text on my phone!

I meant to say I frequently get messages from single guys stating they are seeking a social meet and hopefully turn it into a regular fwb relationship.... Then you read their verifications or send further messages to find out that they are seeking casual NSA shags- you read the usual verifications indicating they meet outdoors for giving someone 'a good pounding' after knowing them 5 mins, etc - so guys, be honest from the outset and state exactly what you are seeking... And dont waste our time - which is just as precious as yours!"

Maybe their priorities, needs or wishes have changed? I don't necessarily meet or see the same thing I did two years ago, or even six months ago

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"- so guys, be honest from the outset and state exactly what you are seeking... And dont waste our time - which is just as precious as yours!"

On purr-leese.

You talk as if everyone other than the single guys on here are totally upfront about what they really want. Which, let's face it, really isn't the case, is it?

Mr ddc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok...full of typos this.predictive text on my phone!

I meant to say I frequently get messages from single guys stating they are seeking a social meet and hopefully turn it into a regular fwb relationship.... Then you read their verifications or send further messages to find out that they are seeking casual NSA shags- you read the usual verifications indicating they meet outdoors for giving someone 'a good pounding' after knowing them 5 mins, etc - so guys, be honest from the outset and state exactly what you are seeking... And dont waste our time - which is just as precious as yours!"

Why can't someone enjoy a few NSA romps while looking for a FWB?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

Sometimes I like ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch. Today I had tuna mayo.

-Matt

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"- so guys, be honest from the outset and state exactly what you are seeking... And dont waste our time - which is just as precious as yours!

On purr-leese.

You talk as if everyone other than the single guys on here are totally upfront about what they really want. Which, let's face it, really isn't the case, is it?

Mr ddc "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I like ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch. Today I had tuna mayo.

-Matt"

Rebel

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe people are individual 3 dimensional entities that have have complex and varying preferences, not necessarily contradictory?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados


"Sometimes I like ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch. Today I had tuna mayo.

-Matt

Rebel "

I know! Aren't I just!

And yes, I am a 3D multidimensional complex human being. I sometimes want branston pickle on my sarnies too.

-Matt

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe people are individual 3 dimensional entities that have have complex and varying preferences, not necessarily contradictory?

"

Bet you can't say that with a rowntrees fruit pastel in your mouth

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lbi niceMan
over a year ago

romsley


"Sometimes I like ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch. Today I had tuna mayo.

-Matt

Rebel "

No that's revels, just don't eat the coffee ones

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok...full of typos this.predictive text on my phone!

I meant to say I frequently get messages from single guys stating they are seeking a social meet and hopefully turn it into a regular fwb relationship.... Then you read their verifications or send further messages to find out that they are seeking casual NSA shags- you read the usual verifications indicating they meet outdoors for giving someone 'a good pounding' after knowing them 5 mins, etc - so guys, be honest from the outset and state exactly what you are seeking... And dont waste our time - which is just as precious as yours!"

What if they are seeking a fwb but do the casual NSA shagging while they are looking for the right person?

I assume that everything on a profile is subject to change, as my own wants and needs aren't set in stone.

If these men only wanted one fwb they could be waiting forever.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yeah, but sometimes the connection isn't there to want to do it again.

As a rule I don't meet without a social first, however I've broken my own rule on occasion. (I know, how terribly naughty of me)

I've met some for a social and thought we were gonna hit it off then haven't.

It is what it is, time, finances, how d*unk you are all have an impact

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe people are individual 3 dimensional entities that have have complex and varying preferences, not necessarily contradictory?

Bet you can't say that with a rowntrees fruit pastel in your mouth "

Oh I don't know, I like fruit pastelles, as well as being verbose and pretentious, so it would be good to save time and combine them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"If you read the profile and verifications and they're not what you're looking for, why waste your own time messaging then complain about it, or am I getting the wrong end of the stick? "

maybe we both got it wrong

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Finding a FWB isn't always easy as there's and element of trial and error involved. OP are you seriously telling me if the guy was a crap shag you'd carry on meeting him?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top