FabSwingers.com forum: Creepy

By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

What is your experience about creepy guys, in clubs or in general day to day life, that drives you up the wall ??

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The whole following you around at clubs thing. Uh, take the hint dude..I keep walking AWAY from you, not towards you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there are a few creepy people on this forum...

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

When you stand up to go to the ladies room in a club and 4 men follow you? I heard someone calling it the cock conga once! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creepy adds to my air of mystery.... I even have a creepy dance.... Would you like to see it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you stand up to go to the ladies room in a club and 4 men follow you? I heard someone calling it the cock conga once! X "

Christ lol. Do they really follow you to the toilet?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

It's the ones that stand too close to the bed and wank that we find creepiest..or worse still do the one legged kneel on it. Then when you politely ask them to back off they shuffle all of two inches away.

Mr G

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

The staring at one club from one guy, I was in a basque & stockings, looking is fine & there were plenty of pretty women there to watch but he just stared at me.

Until S had a word when going to the bar anyway. Did creep me out for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you stand up to go to the ladies room in a club and 4 men follow you? I heard someone calling it the cock conga once! X "

Oh God, that sounds horrifying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know there are a few creepy people on this forum..."

A few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, I think I am the creepy guy in the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So creepy isn't a good thing? Who knew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are constantly peeking at our profile but never seem to try and engage with us

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What drives me up the wall is when someone can't see they are being creepy and think it's flattering to be stalked etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who are constantly peeking at our profile but never seem to try and engage with us

Kinky

I'll stop looking

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

What is your experience about creepy guys, in clubs or in general day to day life, that drives you up the wall ??

My daughter was on the bus with her frond yesterday and a man started rubbing her leg. Her friend told him to get off her girls friend and leave her alone because she loved her. The man got off at the next stop. More worrying for me was why my daughter didn't call him out .... I thought I had brought her up to be more fiesta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight so l never deal with "creepy" men. Just judgmental women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who approach you and say they have a 'gun in their pocket, like to see?'. Meaning something else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to a club a few times. Must admit some guys have no social/communication skills at all. Hate it when guys but in to your convo with a female or you have a few watchers lol. Best thing for couples is to go on a couples only night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know there are a few creepy people on this forum...

A few

There watching you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is your experience about creepy guys, in clubs or in general day to day life, that drives you up the wall ??

Shit! I hope you reported it?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

What is your experience about creepy guys, in clubs or in general day to day life, that drives you up the wall ??

Shit! I hope you reported it?"

Sorry, meant to say fiesty

Yes, and there are cameras on the buses, but not sure if they keep films ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who are constantly peeking at our profile but never seem to try and engage with us

Kinky

Oops

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Been to a club a few times. Must admit some guys have no social/communication skills at all. Hate it when guys but in to your convo with a female or you have a few watchers lol. Best thing for couples is to go on a couples only night. "

Couples are much worse, in our experience ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you stand up to go to the ladies room in a club and 4 men follow you? I heard someone calling it the cock conga once! X

Oh God, that sounds horrifying! "

It can be amusing tho. I like to stop and turn about heel, abruptly, and go back to the bar. Half of them don't know what to do bless their little sheep brains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The whole following you around at clubs thing. Uh, take the hint dude..I keep walking AWAY from you, not towards you!"

but I really wanted you

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"The whole following you around at clubs thing. Uh, take the hint dude..I keep walking AWAY from you, not towards you!

but I really wanted you

Well if you weren't in disguise I might have realised it was you...

And we both know what would have happened!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"People who are constantly peeking at our profile but never seem to try and engage with us

Kinky

They are just playing with themselves while looking at your pretty face

Go on, ask me how I know

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"People who are constantly peeking at our profile but never seem to try and engage with us

Kinky

I'll admit there's a few profiles which I come back to over and over.

Either I forget I what their profile says they're after until I read it again, or I do remember and.....well, I just think the photos are nice tbh!

I'd hate it to be seen as creepy - it's a complement really. More creepy would be to message when you're not what they're looking for

Luckily there's a few couples who I've got know and, while we all know I'm not "meet" material, they're happy to be in touch and for me to have the odd perve. Well, what's a single 40-something guy to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile stalkers!!

Continuous views from the same people. They don't speak or even fab a pic but that are obvs wanking to them. Freaks me out!! Xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"The profile stalkers!!

Continuous views from the same people. They don't speak or even fab a pic but that are obvs wanking to them. Freaks me out!! Xx"

I actually quite like that

Knowing they're having fun to my pics! Go for it mate, make it a good un lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The profile stalkers!!

Continuous views from the same people. They don't speak or even fab a pic but that are obvs wanking to them. Freaks me out!! Xx

I actually quite like that

Knowing they're having fun to my pics! Go for it mate, make it a good un lol"

Same here!

Miss T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The profile stalkers!!

Continuous views from the same people. They don't speak or even fab a pic but that are obvs wanking to them. Freaks me out!! Xx

I actually quite like that

Knowing they're having fun to my pics! Go for it mate, make it a good un lol"

Totally get you and I'm not repulsed but I'd prefer them to say hello, nice pics or something. Otherwise it feels a little peeping tom to me - not my cuppa tea! Xx

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

Or the ones you block yet they find a way to message you. Very stalkerish

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I have no idea who has been looking at us, and I dont care ... I think it's weird to keep checking ... what is that about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or the ones you block yet they find a way to message you. Very stalkerish

Yeah I've found this on occasions!! Creepy!!

Wouldn't mind if it was some Adonis ha.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"The profile stalkers!!

Continuous views from the same people. They don't speak or even fab a pic but that are obvs wanking to them. Freaks me out!! Xx

I actually quite like that

Knowing they're having fun to my pics! Go for it mate, make it a good un lol

Totally get you and I'm not repulsed but I'd prefer them to say hello, nice pics or something. Otherwise it feels a little peeping tom to me - not my cuppa tea! Xx

I have sent a nice message to that effect on occasions. I've mostly had a nice reply, but I think guys know that women get masses of messages and it feels like we're adding to that.

Also, even if I say I realise it'll go no further, I do worry that women will think, "well that's all very nice, but what's he really after".

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

the good thing about creepy blokes is there usually up front with it.. unlike psycho women who don't tend to reveal there true selves until you've been seeing them for a few weeks ..by then it's too late...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The profile stalkers!!

Continuous views from the same people. They don't speak or even fab a pic but that are obvs wanking to them. Freaks me out!! Xx

I actually quite like that

Knowing they're having fun to my pics! Go for it mate, make it a good un lol

Totally get you and I'm not repulsed but I'd prefer them to say hello, nice pics or something. Otherwise it feels a little peeping tom to me - not my cuppa tea! Xx

Just shows you can't win. A lot of people would block a single guy for wasting their time with a message like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The profile stalkers!!

Continuous views from the same people. They don't speak or even fab a pic but that are obvs wanking to them. Freaks me out!! Xx

I actually quite like that

Knowing they're having fun to my pics! Go for it mate, make it a good un lol

Totally get you and I'm not repulsed but I'd prefer them to say hello, nice pics or something. Otherwise it feels a little peeping tom to me - not my cuppa tea! Xx

Just shows you can't win. A lot of people would block a single guy for wasting their time with a message like that. "

Each to their own! Different stroke for different folk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That can be a lack of courage and fear of rejection ??

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"That can be a lack of courage and fear of rejection ?? "

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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

What We creeped us out on here is a couple or shall we say the male part of the couple who does not take NO for un answer and we blocked them, and then he delete the account and created a new one and got in touch again and that kept happening over and over again, we were contemplating where ever to block all newbies, but then it is not fair on others thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cteepy at clubs? I k ow one lady who is now refusing to ho back as its happened twice now

There is no need for it

No means NO ffs.

Nobody should be made to feel uncomfortable either at a club or on here

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By *erksGuy3Man
over a year ago

Aquitaine France

"That can be a lack of courage and fear of rejection ?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That can be a lack of courage and fear of rejection ?? "

Yeah I get that, shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That can be a lack of courage and fear of rejection ??

Yeah I get that, shame!

You get battered enough and you start getting gun-shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That can be a lack of courage and fear of rejection ??

Yeah I get that, shame!

You get battered enough and you start getting gun-shy"

Totally think it's unfair the ratio of men to women on here is ridiculous (something like 500-1) so I understand the rejection must be horrendous! However, if u don't ask u don't get!

Just have to keep in mind at all times, everybody has preferences so it may take u few hundred attempts before u get successful! That even sounds ridiculous writing!! Feel bad for u guys!!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"When you stand up to go to the ladies room in a club and 4 men follow you? I heard someone calling it the cock conga once! X

Oh God, that sounds horrifying!

It can be amusing tho. I like to stop and turn about heel, abruptly, and go back to the bar. Half of them don't know what to do bless their little sheep brains

I'm trying this next time

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I wouldn't play in a club so avoid the creeps

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I wouldn't play in a club so avoid the creeps

They're not exclusive to clubs. I get a lot of creeps messaging me.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I wouldn't play in a club so avoid the creeps

They're not exclusive to clubs. I get a lot of creeps messaging me.

Ah yes but they can be blocked

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Anyway....

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/565396

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't play in a club so avoid the creeps

They're not exclusive to clubs. I get a lot of creeps messaging me.

Some people are good at hiding it until they are in their own surroundings. I've had worse experiences from private meets than attending clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is your experience about creepy guys, in clubs or in general day to day life, that drives you up the wall ??

They're um...creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's no fun

. Sorry to read about the crap you have to put up with.

Stay strong ladies and happy swinging

Pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't play in a club so avoid the creeps

They're not exclusive to clubs. I get a lot of creeps messaging me.

Some people are good at hiding it until they are in their own surroundings. I've had worse experiences from private meets than attending clubs. "

We've never been to a club but had some scary private meets, usually where the male of the other couple has turned quite aggressive.

So think we'd rather deal with a bit of creepiness in clubs than go through that again.

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over a year ago

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