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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok

A lady friend of mine joined just over a week ago

And let's just say she's embraced the world of swinging from the off

Which I applaud

Now we all bang on about fakes and time wasters blah blah blah

She is actually getting verbal abuse from guys/cpls/ladies for meeting people!!!

What's all that about

Now she feels like shit about herself and wants to leave

And I get slated for saying the scene is a shadow of its former self

Thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can please some of the people some of the time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tell her to report any abuse, and block the perps and tell her to use the site as SHE wants not how others tell her to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had abuse for meeting people. Tell her to block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to block people and search herself.

Stock advice.

Works if your not lazy

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Tell her to report any abuse, and block the perps and tell her to use the site as SHE wants not how others tell her to. "

Exactly!!! She can do what she wants.....they are probably jealous cos it's not them she is meeting.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Give her some helpful advice and stop wondering what we think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abuse for meeting people....? Are you on a different fab to the rest of us? Or do you mean "abuse" from people because she has met others but chooses not to meet them? (Not unusual)... report, block, move on....its just the usual knobheads with a sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had abuse that left me wanting to leave quite a few times but a friend talked me round .thankfully I rarely get abuse now and I take it with a pinch of salt. Tell your friend to give it a bit longer on here and to report all abuse.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I have a local female constantly telling people I am a hooker and to stay away from me, when it couldn't be further from the truth, guess people believe what they want to believe, and no matter how many times she is reported she is still here! Would love to know why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she a good cock sucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well sounds like shes having a blast apart from the naggers - report and block and carry on having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also she can hide her verifications that stops it then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give her some helpful advice and stop wondering what we think"

Isn't that what the forums are about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have a local female constantly telling people I am a hooker and to stay away from me, when it couldn't be further from the truth, guess people believe what they want to believe, and no matter how many times she is reported she is still here! Would love to know why! "

I'd say jealousy. Sees you as competition. People can be terribly bitter

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Sorry to hear that. Seems there's a lot of people on the site with some bad experiences. It would be nice to hear the powers that be clamping down on such activity and stopping them from returning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She needs to woman up if she's going to deal with some of the crap on here.

Filters is the way forward especially for the 1st few weeks, tell her to apply them to the max.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's that much of a drama. Tell her to block everyone, and she searches for her meets in peace.

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

Makes me wander how or who these people are I must be really boring I am new I've had a few meets in only a couple of weeks but never had grief, how do people know of her meets and how do they give her grief?

I'm just bemused tbh, and your posting on her behalf because ?

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"She needs to woman up if she's going to deal with some of the crap on here.

Filters is the way forward especially for the 1st few weeks, tell her to apply them to the max."

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Well I have a local female constantly telling people I am a hooker and to stay away from me, when it couldn't be further from the truth, guess people believe what they want to believe, and no matter how many times she is reported she is still here! Would love to know why!

I'd say jealousy. Sees you as competition. People can be terribly bitter "

I know, that is the only thing I can think off as well, but she is the one that is on another site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Makes me wander how or who these people are I must be really boring I am new I've had a few meets in only a couple of weeks but never had grief, how do people know of her meets and how do they give her grief?

I'm just bemused tbh, and your posting on her behalf because ? "

I give up in these fuckin forums

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Makes me wander how or who these people are I must be really boring I am new I've had a few meets in only a couple of weeks but never had grief, how do people know of her meets and how do they give her grief?

I'm just bemused tbh, and your posting on her behalf because ?

I give up in these fuckin forums

"

Charming it was a simple enough post. Sorry it wasn't a sympathy in agreement.

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