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By *andi_shop OP   Woman
over a year ago

rotherham

In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I know what you mean. There's been many times I've been told someone's interested in me and haven't had a clue.

Got to laugh though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I'm completely oblivious. Mr J usually mentions it but I never see it myself! Miss T x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We're both quite slow on the uptake in general. Being subtle with us, usually goes right over our heads.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Totally blind to signals. Miss them by a mile

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By *andi_shop OP   Woman
over a year ago

rotherham

I genuinely need to be told 'I fancy you' etc for me to click on. I don't have the guts to make a move on anyone myself, fear of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I need Google eyes on my penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No am pretty good that way...if i like a lady a let her know big time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no idea what-so-ever. A couple of times friends have asked me why I wasn't responding to a ladies' flirtatious advances and I've just looked at them blankly in bewilderment and asked "what the 'ell was they on about". Subtlety is completely lost on me.

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I turn into the stereotypical bumbling Brit I'll talk absolute nonsense thinking I've no chance

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London


"I genuinely need to be told 'I fancy you' etc for me to click on. I don't have the guts to make a move on anyone myself, fear of rejection"

Likewise here exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally and at clubs parties too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? I thought it was just me! Good to know, in a weird sort of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm pretty good at spotting the signs that someone is sexually attracted to me. It's usually the sexual flirting, them staring at my breasts, their eyes tend to sparkle and they look a bit hot under the collar. It's a wonderful feeling when you know someone is attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they're attracted and i'm oblivious then i wouldn't know.

when a guy flirts though that's obvious but i never know if he's really interested or not.

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I would always assume that I have no chance. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely need to be told 'I fancy you' etc for me to click on. I don't have the guts to make a move on anyone myself, fear of rejection"
exactly this! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that a signal back there? Oh shit, turn around and take the next left.....

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

the first time I met a now regular play partner who happened to be rather chest heavy well that's a lie she has a magnificent chest .

I had to point out to her for the fun of it all the second looks she was getting even those she had a jumper on.

it really broke the ice between us and I'm sure its one of the main reasons we ended up becoming regular play partners.

as for myself I'm hard to read or so I've been told a bit of a cool cucumber which I have learn to use to my advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need it spelt out

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem? "

I have missed many a rub over the years because of my ignorance of other people's signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely.

My friend sent me a meme thing and said it reminded her of me. A girl saying to her friend "that guy wanted to buy you a drink" and the friend saying "why, I already have one, I'm hungry though do you think he'll get me some nachos instead" well it was something along those lines and that pretty much sums me up on recognising signs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely.

My friend sent me a meme thing and said it reminded her of me. A girl saying to her friend "that guy wanted to buy you a drink" and the friend saying "why, I already have one, I'm hungry though do you think he'll get me some nachos instead" well it was something along those lines and that pretty much sums me up on recognising signs. "

Hahaha :0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holds a sign up saying 'Findingdory I think you are lovely' (but you know that already)

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes. A woman could walk up to me with a badge and flashing lights saying "I fancy you" and I'd probably reply "Hey, where did you get that badge?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem? "
Me to

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

With my stunning good looks, woman can't stop themselves from coming onto me but I'm so bad at picking up the signals, I don't even notice - to me it just seems that they walk by without even looking at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You literally have to be sitting on my face before I start to think you're attracted to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very hard picking up on signals - I'm on the autism spectrum so body language and facial expressions are difficult to pick up on.

Doesn't make swinging easy

-Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite good at reading come ons, but then im also quite good at getting to the point and asking for a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite good at reading come ons, but then im also quite good at getting to the point and asking for a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You literally have to be sitting on my face before I start to think you're attracted to me "

We went to a party recently. Wandered around trying to catch someone's eye. Then concluded nobody was interested so went off to play by ourselves... only for a lovely woman to suddenly plonk herself down on my face lol That's how bad we are at it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I need it spelling out on here too

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

I often have big problems recognising social cues of any description let alone sexual ones. My self confidence is pretty near zero too so even on the rare occasions it occurs to me someone's acting as if they *might* be interested, I'll then talk myself out of it on the basis I'm ugly, too old, too boring or whatever, and I've read the signals wrong. That combination means I generally have no clue someone's got their eye on me unless they make it crystal clear - preferably several times over until I believe them!

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that over the past 3 or 4 years I get a lot of attention from the opposite sex and they seem to be more confident and blatant in their advances ...making it totally clear they're interested ....I never know how to react in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that all i am saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never tell and with all honestly all except the one person who admitted it later, I have never found out if anyone else does like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can never tell and with all honestly all except the one person who admitted it later, I have never found out if anyone else does like me"

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can never tell and with all honestly all except the one person who admitted it later, I have never found out if anyone else does like me

I do"

Why hello there

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem? "

I'm totally useless. And I'm even worse on Fab! If someone just doesn't come out and say they like me or make the first move then I will simply never know. Probably the main reason why I'm perennially single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem?

I'm totally useless. And I'm even worse on Fab! If someone just doesn't come out and say they like me or make the first move then I will simply never know. Probably the main reason why I'm perennially single."

I fancy you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem?

I'm totally useless. And I'm even worse on Fab! If someone just doesn't come out and say they like me or make the first move then I will simply never know. Probably the main reason why I'm perennially single."

where's your famous socks gone? and that cum pic?

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Amongst my friends I am known for being oblivious to people flirting with me without me knowing...my ex wife says I've missed out on getting laid since we split so many times because of this.. ..and yes I'm probably as bad on here

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